i want this girl

[diggedy diggedy]

u see i have a problem... i reallly like this girl and all but i dont know how to tell her! iv made out with her and all... and i know she likes me but i dont know how to get her to fall for me.... plzplzplzplzzzzzzzzzzzzz any suggestions plzzzzzzzz

[DeSerTDesTroYeR]

iv made out with her and all...

if i understand this right....and you reached that level.....what seems to be the problem??..you already reached soo far...

if you want her to fall for you....she got to actually like your personality........and for you to know so...ask her frankly....thats the best way..........as it seems you wont be shy to do so...

~ my comments are totally based on your question ....my personal opinion is no included about the situation itself ~.......

[Yaqeen]

diggedy,
Go buy her flowers.....girls always fall for it.......
Well, that might scare you a bit, coz she might fall for the flowers and not for you !
Good luck to you :-)
:wink:

[raffee]

oh. i never realised we had a thread for chauvinistic male ***s.
Im appalled! 'Girls always fall for flowers'. What's that supposed to mean? That all men only buy a woman flowers to get somewhere with her, or to dupe her into thinking that he is sincere or actually caring??? That's despicable, and it gives men a bad name.
And dig, what more do you want? she has obviously fallen for u (although i cant see why...j/k), if she is letting you kiss her.

I really am amazed at some men...I really am.:fire:

[Kamakazy]

dig, it is clear that she has fallen for you... what are you waiting for? you want her to make the first move???

rememmber, girl prefer for the guy to make the first move...

be a man... make the first move...

plus, she is hot :wink:

[IceTea]

First of all what do u mean by "I want this girl" is it only to satisfy your sexual needs and then dump her or you want to make a formal relation which could end with marraige. Can you clarify ?

[floret]

if u DO want her then go straight away to her parents.. stop fooling around............

[fatak]

Islam allows prospective mates to meet in chaperoned circumstances. Never are two unmarried people to be alone together. Every woman who is seeking a husband is required to have what is known as a wali, or guardian, who will act on her behalf and for her benefit. Basically, the wali has the job of telling men to give it up if the woman decides against further contact with them. The wali also sees to it that unscrupulous men are kept at bay. Meetings in chaperoned settings or in public can go on for as long as both sides like, so they can get to know each other better. If they decide to end the explorations, there is no shame on either party. If they decide to go forward and get married, then a public announcement of engagement is made and a formal wedding date is set. There is no concept in Islam of living together first or having intimate relations as a way of testing the worth of a match.

Good luck!!!!!

Cheers
fatak

[Perfumes]

Originally posted by fatak
Islam allows prospective mates to meet in chaperoned circumstances. Never are two unmarried people to be alone together. Every woman who is seeking a husband is required to have what is known as a wali, or guardian, who will act on her behalf and for her benefit. Basically, the wali has the job of telling men to give it up if the woman decides against further contact with them. The wali also sees to it that unscrupulous men are kept at bay. Meetings in chaperoned settings or in public can go on for as long as both sides like, so they can get to know each other better. If they decide to end the explorations, there is no shame on either party. If they decide to go forward and get married, then a public announcement of engagement is made and a formal wedding date is set. There is no concept in Islam of living together first or having intimate relations as a way of testing the worth of a match.

Good luck!!!!!

Cheers
fatak

HELLO BOSS!

WELL WELCOME TO THIS AGE CALLED TWENTY ONE CENTURY. SUCH ATTITUDE FROMPAST GENERATIONS OF OLD PPL IS A
NO -NO!

THANKS U FOR YOU COMMENTS I WILL TAKE THEM SERIOUSL;Y SOME TIMES!

[fatak]

Do you think your limited knowledge can guide you?

Can't you trust the creator of the universe?

Get real.......that little itch will go away.....it's called reckless youth....or dumber then dumb.....

Can't say I am without guilt on this matter......I have sinned and fell many times for the flesh of a young women's lustful embrace......

But Allah will lead you to the light....and away from these desires......which lead you to emptiness and lack of spiritual life.....

cheers
fatak

salam/// by the way.....

[Perfumes]

HELLO KIND SIR!!

WELL I C U HAVE MADE ONE MENTION IN UR PROFILE THAT UR A MUSICION!

WELL MISTER I BELIEVE THIS ALSO MENTIOND IN QURAN THAT IT IT A NO -NO! ??

IF U EVEN ASK UR WAHHABI FRIEND ABOUT THIS THEY WILL AGREE WITH ME!!

SO WHY USE DIFFERENT STANDARD FOR MAKING NICE JUDGEMENT ON PPL?? LEAVE THEM FREE!

THANKS U PLS DONT HESITATE TO COME AGAIN TO HOUSE OF PERFUMES WHERE U R ALWAYS WELCOME, THANKS!

[fatak]

There is only one standard for correct behavior.......but you have free will to turn your back on it.......you are free!!!

If you choose to spend your time with silly lustful young boys.....it's your choice.....

BTW...if there is some notion that I am perfect...please forget about it.....

salam

cheers
fatak

[DeSerTDesTroYeR]

fatak....well..said..........what you mentioned is how it should be.............but as nowadays..as u said...thats not very much practiced.......

perfumes....everything mentioned in the Quran ....and Prophet Ahadith are for alllllllll centuries....and considered as up-to-date...as anything around you...........its only how you apply it..with your modern life...

[Op@L]

diggedy... the only way to a girls heart is to be honest with her. Maybe she's waiting for you to make the move...and u never know she might've already fallen for you. Just be yourself...!! Good luck :)

[Neena]

Do you really think that his even serious about this whole thing? check out his posts.. most of them are like silly... and this is another way to drug ppl to actually post!

Its fro sure a watse of time .. oh well....

PS" PERFUME - you are screaming a lot and honestly it BUGS me! so cut the caps.

Fatak well said!

[Perfumes]

HELLO MISS!

I KNOW IT IS A NO -NO! !!!!!!!!! TO TALK TO U IN SUCH A FILTHY WAY SUCH AS INTERNET FORUM DISCUSSION! SO I HOPE U CAN FIND ONE GOOD HEALTHY ISLAMIC CHAPERONE FOR U SO THAT WE CAN TALK! UNTIL THEN I DO NOT BELIEVE I CAN EVEN LISTEN TO UR WORDS SO IT WILL BE HARAM FOR ME TO DROP THE CAPS!!

[raffee]

Perfume...you are one arrogant ****!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Dang, where did you land from???? :angre:
It wont be long before people simply tune out from what you have to say, because you make very little sense dear.

And about the chaperone deal... I think that in today's society this is highly unfeasible. Just take universities for example; they are co-ed, and there is no avoiding the mixing and dialogue between the genders.

Personally, I think these dialogues are more suitable in choosing a life-long partner. It is not an easy decision to make, so one must be as sure as possible that the chosen person is capable of sustaining their interest for a lifetime. Friendship is a key to this, as well as the ability to have meaningful and stimulating conversation. Also, these forums will clarify whether the two people have similar goals and values, which is extremely important in a marriage.

[Perfumes]

HELLO PLS!

WHAT NAME U R CALLING ME MR! U WANT ONE NICE SLAP FROM ME!!

GO AHEAD AND SAY THE NICE NAMES U HAVE FOR ME IF U R A MAN OR WHATEVER U MAY BE!

BECAUSE U R NOT WELCOME IN LAND OF PERFUMES!

WELCOME THANKS! COME AGAIN!

[silver_ring]

floret and ice tea and u .fatak [/ i really respect u guys

:)

[selma]

Do you really think that his even serious about this whole thing? check out his posts.. most of them are like silly... and this is another way to drug ppl to actually post!

I agree with Neena.


Where is diggedy diggedy?
No where to be found!!

[diggedy diggedy]

i am here what is the problem?

[Chocolate]

Purfumes= U know how they have a fussy, jumpy loon, nut-case in cartoons.:gap:

DD may i ask u a few questions b4 i give u my opinion.
If the answer is yes then my questions are:

Are u in a right state to propose? Age and financialy and stuff?

[diggedy diggedy]

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[DeSerTDesTroYeR]

Chocolate said: DD may i ask u a few questions b4 i give u my opinion. If the answer is yes then my questions are:

Are u in a right state to propose? Age and financialy and stuff?

hmm....i dont really understand your questions...nor why your asking me ....was it something i said??

[X-press]

I do not like the way this thread is turning....Perfumes, as you are still a new member here, I will request you to calm down a bit and be less aggressive with the other senior members (your capital letters don't help too)

I wouldn't want to have to give "warning" for abusing language or to close this thread because of flaming.

diggedy, I keep an eye on your topic.

[Neena]

Chocolate was not really asking you .. but the question was to diggedy .. and as his name has two DD;s like urs there was a lil confusion there "thought that would help.

x-press - believe me his caps does not help at all, and can;t the modes do anything about that? because not only is it annoying to me but to many am sure!

Perfume - just try at least to make sense!

[Chocolate]

Neena thanx for the help,

Destroyer the question was not to u,,,,,,,,, dont worry it wasn't anything u said.

diggedy the question was to u,
Are u in a right state to propose? Age and financialy and stuff?

And since were solving 2 problems here rather than one, then I'd like to suggest somthing to Perfumes problem:

Perfumes this is what everyone is trying to tell u,
Look at ur keyboard ,,,, yeah now,,,,, look on the right between the tab key and the shift key theres a Key that has Caps Lock write on it. Could u kindly press that key.
:angre:

cheers

[Benz$Babe]

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