if a boy hugs a girl(his friend)

[yellow sapphire]

If a boy hugs a girl(his friend),can he pray with the same cloth or he has to change his cloth.suppose a boy is wearing T-shirt,so shall he change his T-shirt or it is okey.

[qais]

who did u hug?

I dont think u have to change your shirt

[yellow sapphire]

oh my God,the question is if a boy hugs not if a yellow sapphire hugs.

[DeSerTDesTroYeR]

what the!!! :angre: ... you are not allowed to HUG girls not related to you in the first place!.... unless she was one of the ma7areem..

man....really what the...:duh:

[yellow sapphire]

hey hey hey
Please answer the question if u know otherwise do not post here.I do not want Boy Interrupted to say his favourite sentance,please do not eat my brain,I really hate that sentance.

[DeSerTDesTroYeR]

well.....the answer is quite ...simple..weither you were wearing shirt ...T- shirt what ever.....you can wear the same cloths...but of course need to renew your wo'9o2.... but again if your shirt became Nages ..changing it is a must........ (thats as far as my knowledge goes)

[yellow sapphire]

thanks alot

[el7ilwa]

WOW GOOD Q:duh:
Yellow I think u should Oops (or the guy should:gap: ) think what is the important 4 him , 2 hug a girl or 2 pray ???? then u 'll know the answer by ur self:rolleyes: .

[DeSerTDesTroYeR]

el7ilwa: it seems that ........that isnt the point for Y.S

[X-press]

Originally posted by DeSerTDesTroYeR
if your shirt became Nages ..changing it is a must........

I didn't get you here D.D....what do you mean by "Nages"?

Yellow Sapphire, to my knowledge, you don't need to change your shirt or your clothes if they are not in state of impurity, meaning having urine or semen on it for instance.

If you did your abulition (Wuthu) and you touch someone from the opposite sex who you can marry, then your abulition is no longer valid and you need to do it again.

Please correct me if I am wrong.

[yellow sapphire]

el7ilwa
what no can ask a question here or what,from the beginning I said if a boy,I did not say if I,uffffffffffffff.the war thread is closed otherwise I know how to speak with u there ;) .

X-press
thanks for the answer,by the way let me go off topic here and say your new avatar is better than the before one.

[yellow sapphire]

is that you when you were yong or what

[X-press]

Off topic: Yellow, it is me now while I am still young...;)

Back to the original discussion.

[yellow sapphire]

I am sorry I did not get u,do u mean this is u now.

[el7ilwa]

Originally posted by yellow sapphire
el7ilwa
what no can ask a question here or what,from the beginning I said if a boy,I did not say if I,uffffffffffffff.the war thread is closed otherwise I know how to speak with u there ;) .

Yellow but I know how 2 speak with u in every where:D .

[DeSerTDesTroYeR]

X-press: sorry forgot to translate that word

by "Nages" i meant as you said = state of impurity.

[X-press]

[QUOTE]Originally posted by yellow sapphire
I am sorry I did not get u,do u mean this is u now.

We are talking religion Yellow S....so shuuu....yes it is.

[yellow sapphire]

el7ilwa
hey hey,it seems u r not writer in sablah but fighter.

X-press
r u single.

[Neena]

If you kissed, huged or whatever u call thsoe stuff, you do not need to change a thing.,.... but if things went far than that,, "which i don;t really have to explain" then i guess you would need to do some 6ahara. If that has not explained it, then maybe you need to explain ur question a lil more further!

[yellow sapphire]

Neena
thanks alot dear.

[Neena]

Ur more then welcome mate!

[yellow sapphire]

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Neena
what if a boy prays in a room and his friend(girl) with him in the same room,is it okey or makrooh or haram.
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[X-press]

Is this thread about "hugs" or about other actions, like "praying" now?

Yellow S, why should it be haram for two people to pray in the same room, at the moment that they are in state of purity? The girl should just pray behind the man.

[Neena]

Well Yellow, not its not really any of the choices you gaved me. i do not think its bad, as long you are there with fully consentration on ur prayer then i don;t see any reason for it to be bad.

And yes .. if you are going to pray together then the woman should pray behaind you and i guess you know the reason for that. But if you don;t seem to concentrait becuase she's there, then maybe going to a place where you have ur privacy would help.

As they say at the end of the say .. al a3mal bil neyat. .. all goes with the good will

cheers

[yellow sapphire]

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Neena
if she is not muslim and she is with her friend who is a boy.They are in the bed room and the boy is muslim,then the boy decided to pray in that room.Can she be there in the same room or she has to go out.


X-press
wait
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[Neena]

No yellow I do not see why that should stop you from doing your prayers at all.

Its like imagin you are in a western country and it reached time for prayers while you were out, simply what i would do is wash up and pray in public of course finding a place suitable. SO i don;t really think there is a big harm for you praying while a non muslim person is around weather its a he or she!

[DeSerTDesTroYeR]

:D hmm... Neena...is there something called Big Haram?? :lost:
soo then there will be Small Haram?? ....:rolleyes:

[yellow sapphire]

<font color=blue>DeSerTDesTroYeR
it is not haram but harm

Neena
thanks alot dear</font>

[el7ilwa]

Excuse me miss neena but what did u say is wrong & not 7alal.
actually u gave him the chance 2 cover his bad thinking:duh: .
Can't u see what is he wanna reach???
I'm gonna tell u he wanna reach that is it 7alal if I forgot 2 pray before & I rememberd when my Girl friend was with me so can I pray then return 2 her........:duh: , do u think this is good??
So y he is praying while he is doing un acceptable things in Islam (7aram)??:duh: :duh: :duh:
I didn't want 2 post in this thread from the beginning caus I've knew what Y S want 2 get from his Q but I thought some body 'll advice him but sadly no one did .
So Y S this is the fact take it or leave it .

[DeSerTDesTroYeR]

el7ilwa: ..hmm we did tell him!..........but he wanted specific answers........soo let him have them as long as we did advice him.

[yellow sapphire]

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el7ilwa
stop,what u have said is not right about me.
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[el7ilwa]

Y S I didn't say any thing about u:duh: , it was ur Q what I answerd & u said that it is not related 2 u. & be sure ur real friends who advice u & care if u r doing wrong things or right but the others wont care about u so it doesn't matter 4 them what do u do. So I'm telling u what is the right & what is the wrong & u can choose what do u want from them.
with my respect 2 u Bro

[IceTea]

What is going on here ??

[yellow sapphire]

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el7ilwa
I am sorry,I miss understood u.forgive me please.</font>

[el7ilwa]

But I hope u got what did I mean & god bless u Bro:)

[4 OMAN]

dear DeSerTDesTroYeR: confused:

would u pls tell me how can I read el7ilwa
and what does it mean????:(

[4 OMAN]

dear DeSerTDesTroYeR: confused:

would u pls tell me how can I read el7ilwa
and what does it mean????:(

[SIZE=3]SORRY[/Sel7ilwaIZE] i mean simelar to Mr.el7ilwa nanei mean similar to Mr.el7ilwa nane

[yellow sapphire]

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4 OMAN
7 in el7ilwa means h and welcome to Sabla</font>

[el7ilwa]

I see some body is asking about my name;) , what a proud:D .
By the way the neam meaning in english is ( beautiful, cute & pretty, also lovely , kind & friendly):color: , is it enough?? & there is more if u wanna know them:D .

[yellow sapphire]

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el7ilwa
no chit chat here,please go to Living room otherwise some one will close this post.
and do u deserve this name
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[DeSerTDesTroYeR]

4 OMAN said:
dear DeSerTDesTroYeR: confused:

would u pls tell me how can I read el7ilwa
and what does it mean????

well..as you asked me in particular..:eek: ...

you can read el7ilwa as = el (he) lwa ....like that i guess

as "yellow sapphire" mentioned above.. 7 = the letter ha' in arabic

and then as el7ilwa..explained her name....well enough...i supposed there is no need more more explaination..:D

well....ask anytime...:cool:

[Neena]

Well sweeite,

I am not telling him whats haram from not. His asking me specific questions and I am doing the pleasure of answering back to him. If you happen to disagree with me then thats fair, you got ur opinion and I got have mine. Which ever is right to YS thats whats he will take.

Plus my dear at the end of the day its all a matter of the good will. Wether he hugs, kisses, does whatever he wants, thats totaly entirely to him. That all does not stop him from praying or doing what his suppose to do as a muslim. If you start talking about sin;s and not being a sin will never finish.

As said before ..." Kul shai bel neeya"

Which means everything goes with a good will.

PS" when i said "YOU" Y S i don;t mean you but general speach there"

[el7ilwa]

Originally posted by Neena
Well sweeite,



Plus my dear at the end of the day its all a matter of the good will. Wether he hugs, kisses, does whatever he wants, thats totaly entirely to him. That all does not stop him from praying or doing what his suppose to do as a muslim. If you start talking about sin;s and not being a sin will never finish.

As said before ..." Kul shai bel neeya"



Yes sis I belive that every one has the right 2 say his opinion & I respect ur opinion but in this case we can not give giniral advice 4 him but we should understand his situation 1st. & from his Q I noticed that he doesn't comfortable 2 do that but he wanna some body 2 motivate him & tell him this is 7alal. But from his inside he can feel that this is not acceptable as a muslim. actually u r talking about kisses & hugs like some thing normal do u think this is acceptable in our religion?????:confused:

[Neena]

There are so many things not acceptable ... but ppl still do it.
I am sure YS knows whats bad from good. I am not here to lecture him niether am I the right person to talk to about this matter, but I was asked and i answerd.

[el7ilwa]

Excuse me sis but I don't agree with what u said. Cauz our duty as muslims make us advice ppl & care about what they r doing.
I'm not going 2 repeat what I said at my thread EXCUSE ME SIS u can check it & replay at it there if u like.

with my respect.

[Neena]

I never said advicing ppl is a bad thing ... i never even came close to that point. Sure you advice ppl tell them that what they are doing is good/bad.. but at the end of the day its still up to them.... you may try to change how ppl take things ro think about, but you just cna;t control them.

The bottom line is: whatever ppl do, they should be responsible about their actions. After all .... as i said before and i am not going to repeat it again... "el a3mal bil neyat".... its all go to do with the good will thats all.

[silver_ring]

ohhhh!!
but i dont y s is really thinking about that ..
cuz actually his questions alwase like that and i guess he did not mean any thing ..

is it right !!! y s

[el7ilwa]

In fact Y S was asking & I tried 2 help him & give him an advice which gonna help him 2 answer his Q & he got it & understood what I meant so there is no prb now:duh: .
How said that there is a prb.