again

[kitkat]

agai to personal problems
I was trying my best to not cme here again and to not talk about anything I feel
I just thought that this will make me feel better
but it didn't work too
so I will try talking and see maybe it will help

I just feel sooooooo much bad
like if I can't breath
whne I cry I feel more bad but never better
so I go to sleep to not think of feeling bad
but I can't sleep
it takes me long to close my eyes and sleep
when I feel that maybe I have to talk to someone
I just findout that no one can undesratnd me
NO ONE

so maybe here I will feel better

[Quick Silver]

just cry whenever you feel like crying..... so what if you cry!!!!! sooner or later you will find out that you are crying for a reason that is not worth even crying for.....you will find crying a waste of time and boring and soon enough you will be laughing......so till you enter that phase, it's okay to cry....

[Arabian Princess]

From time to time we go thorugh phases that we might not even understand our own selves .. but thats totally normal.

Kikta, I think you are going through that phase. You would feel lost, you would even feel that the closest person to you does not pay you the attention you need but always remmber, its just a phase and it will go away. Just remmber, dont let the closest people in your life to walk away for reasons that might not seem worth it!!

I know there must be reasons for this feeling that you are going through, try to understand them and if you cant just cry as sabal al'3af says .. coz sometimes it is the only cure (ofcourse reading Quran should come before all that)

I wish you all the best and remmber to take care of your smile because it is important to people around u :)

[Wanderer]

Bummer, Kitkat.

Maybe this will help.

http://www.blogjam.com/cute_little_kittens/images/0029.jpg

[Don Khaled]

what the hell kitkat, comon, always sad and crying. CHEER UP!! You should thank god that you are having huge problems which others have! Some are dieing everyday and seeing thier parents getting shot infront of them, and some don't have money to pay thier bills and stuf!! Just stop this, and think about it more seriously. Is it worth your time ? Is it worth crying and feeling sad? Nope, it's aint' worth anything.

And by the way, it's VERY bad to be very sad and tenssed and crying while getting to sleep, because you can wake up with severe bleeding in your brains or even get handicapped if it was serious, GOD forbid that (laasama7allaah).

Take my word "Who gives a ****!" Just enjoy every single moment in your life, because every second counts. And remember that God gave you better life than many people out there.

[Don Khaled]

Originally posted by kitkat
I just feel sooooooo much bad
like if I can't breath


BECAUSE you are tensed and UNDER pressure.

[Don Khaled]

Originally posted by kitkat
when I feel that maybe I have to talk to someone
I just findout that no one can undesratnd me
NO ONE

Don't run from reality to a world of fiction! Face it! And hey you can always call me ! i will make you ALIVE, with few hard words. BECAUSE I CARE ABOUT YOU!

[kitkat]

thanxxxxxxxxxxxxxx alot for everything u said right here

about crying I just hate crying it makes me feel weak
and I think that I'm not gonna face this by crying
I'm trying to be stronger
and now with my fmily here around me I feel much better
I just feel how much they do love me
and this is really good

and with u ya sabla with me I will feel better for sure

it's only that
I HATE MYSELF when I feel this much bad or sad
and I have to chnage this in me
my problem is that I can't forget
while we have to sometimes

we can try avoid making choices by doing nothing but even that is a decision

thanx aloooooooot all of u

DON
Wanderer
Arabian Princess
Sabal El'3af

thanx alot

:color:

[Snow^Lady]

oHHHHH poor kitkat:( ...don't be sad my dear..this is life, you have to be sad and be happy sometimes. For me i am going through the same thing but you know, i feel very nice when i cry. I sometimes talk to the most person i feel comfortable with, this makes me feel happy as they care about me alot and make me smile:gap: ....sometimes i go out to the beach. It makes me feel really good being by the beach and hearing the sound of the wave and the birds:p

[X-press]

Kitkat, I am very sorry to read that you feel so sad and I am surprised as you always give us the impression to be such a joyful person.

I think all the members here gave you very good advices and it is normal to feel sad from time to time. Now that your family is around, you should normally feel so happy and forget about whatever is troubling you.

View the fact that you are currently on holiday, plus surrounded by your parents and siblings, it is a bit strange that you are in this condition. There is most probably something or someone who has affected you negatively recently.

To solve your problem you should talk about what is directly making you sad, if you know what it is. You can share it with us here, or if you are not at ease with it, you should talk openly to someone dear to you...

Don't forget, we are here to help each other and we will try our best to make you feel better.:)

[MoonChild]

Kitkat see your PM for a message from me :)

[kitkat]

heyyyyyyy everyone
I felt much better after reading your posts here
at leats I feel that STILL there are people who care

thank U alllll for replying here

sister X-press
about talking to someone
I feel that I can't
cuz no one will ever understand what I feel right now
even when I try to talk ...people do not understand what I'm feeling
it's something deeeeeeeeeep inside me

I don't want to feel like this till the end of my life
wish if I can live normall and happy as everyone
somepeople just don't care about anything
but I can't

but I'm working on this now
and I want my life to be the happiest
cuz I can't be like this cuz of people who don't and didn't ever care
I want to be angry of those people
but I can't
I'm only angry of my self
cuz I'm this much weak infront of people who I care for

thanx again

[X-press]

Originally posted by kitkat
sister X-press
about talking to someone
I feel that I can't
cuz no one will ever understand what I feel right now

kitkat, don't say that no one will understand what you feel inside if you don't even try. We will surely not feel the pain or anger you have deep within you, but we can at least try (with your help) to find the cause of this pain and hopefully change it into something more positive.

[kitkat]

thanx again sister X-press

I tried to talk to my friends
I tried to say everything I feel
but they are all against me
and think that I'm wrong

it's pain
u know that feeling??
that u can't do anything
anything
I can avoid making choicecs by doing nothing
but even that is a decision
and the only decision I have
:angre:

[X-press]

Originally posted by kitkat
I tried to talk to my friends
I tried to say everything I feel
but they are all against me
and think that I'm wrong


That is already a very good step you just took to try to talk about your problem. I am not a therapist, but I will try my best to make you look at your problem first.

You said that all your friends are against you because of what you said. My first questions are: Do you feel 100% good of what you said to them, meaning is it truely what you were feeling? Secondly, do you feel 100% confident that you are right in your decision, or is there something somewhere that tell you that you are wrong?

[kitkat]

NO
I know that I'm right
100% right
the problem is that most of my friends can't understand that person I talk to them about
so that's why no one can undesratnd it only me can

again
I'm 100% sure that I'm right
but no one will understand the situation
all of them are against my feelings
:sorry:
no one is even trying to understand me
what they can say is

this is better for u
that's all
and I hate hearing that I HATE IT:sorry:

[X-press]

You know Kitkat, I don't have no idea how many friends are given you their opinions, but if the majority of them can't understand the person you are talking about, this means most probably that something not clear when it comes to that particular person.

Sometimes I found myself in a situation when I am so sure that I am right, but if I see that 9 out of 10 people who truly care about me think that I am wrong, then I have to think. Though I am so sure, but if everyone (who are sincere) all agree that I am not in the right path, than it means that I am not. Do you understand?

Now you add that your friends say "it is better for u" and you hate hearing it. Is it that they all agree that it is better for you to stay away from that person they don't understand? You disagree strongly with them as you feel differently towards that particular person?

My questions to help you: 1) are your friends, people who really care about you in general and who you can usually count on? 2) Why do you think it is so difficult for them to understand the person you were refering to?

[NaBHaN]

kitkat..i don't know what to advise , all i can give you is this drawing..hop it will cheer you up!! and remember that whatever the problem is, there is always a way to solve it! :)



http://boyinterrupted.freewebspace.com/images/smile.jpg

[kitkat]

[QUOTE]Originally posted by X-press
My questions to help you: 1) are your friends, people who really care about you in general and who you can usually count on? 2) Why do you think it is so difficult for them to understand the person you were refering to? [/QUOTE
heyyy sister
thanxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx alot
u r really making me feel better

about Q1..yes they do
about Q2.. cuz they don't know the way that person think and what is that person going throw
and I hate it whne someone talk baout that person in a bad way
so I prefre not talking about that person infront of them

Boy-Interrupted
thanxxxxxxxxx alot brother

:gap:

[X-press]

Kitkat, if your friends are people you can count on and who are always there for you, it seems that they just want to advise you about that other person . They most probably do it for your own good.

Now it seems that you clearly have a disagreement with them about that person in question. If they didn't change their attitude towards you, the best thing to do is to simply ask them not to talk about that subject anymore. If they do, try not to get upset and remind them that you already know their opinion.

Having disagreements, with your friends or family, happens all the time and it should not affect you to the point of making you feel so bad inside or cry. You are probably a very sensitive person.

There will be worry only if that person has a negative influence on you or can indirectly harm you.

[kitkat]

sister X-pres


thanxxxxxx alot doe everything u are saying here
really really thank u

can I add u to my list PLZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ

hallol2000@hotmail.com

[X-press]

I already added you on my list kitkat and you can do the same on your side.

I hope you are feeling a bit better now.

For all the Members,

Remember that this sabla is not only to share your problems, but the ones faced by someone you know too. We are here to find hopefully a solution and to show others that they can too be today or tomorrow in a similar situation.

Sharing a problem is already half a cure to a recovery ;)

[kitkat]

u are not in my list
:(..

[kitkat]

Now u are in mY list:rolleyes:

anyway I just wnat that post to be closed
cuz I feel sooooooo much good and happy now
and I started to see good things in life again :)..
I'm loving life again as b4 :)..
cuz I'm trying to understand everything
so plz close it

LOVE U ALLLLLLLL:gap:

[Arabian Princess]

SIne you asked for that Kitkat I would close your topic.
Alhamdulilah everything is fine now :)