Love, Is It Real

[^^3aBaDY^^]

fell in love with a girl at the age of 11 years old? Did I know what love is? I thought I knew what love is. I gave this girl everything, even the unnessary. I gave her my heart to have, she dismantled it. We went out for a couple of weeks and we broke up but I still loved her. I cared vigilanty for her. I wish see could see how much I loved her.

A couple of years went by, and one day we had a conversation. I told her that I loved her, and I will always love her and how I want to kiss over on the highest mountain underneath the deepest sea, I will be whatever she wanted me to be. She asked me "why do I love her" :fire: .

I was young, but I knew in my heart and soul that I want to be with this girl for the rest of my life. I am very picky , very picky when it comes to girls. Attitude, personality are te main featues and quality i look for when scoping out a female. Of course i have to be attracted to them facially and sexually but must have a good personality. I thought this girl had it all. but behind every smile is a frown. I don't want to prolong this letter but all I want to say is that Love is not really what it is. I try not to love anyone based on past experiences. Anyone have any advice. ???????????????? :lost: :confused:

[badoora]

i have to tell you that you are wrong

LOVE is there but rear people have it.....you learn from your past not to gudge love.......she wasnt the one.....so what......?

you will find the one sooner or later...:) just dont give up or be desperate..............

i wont tell you to 4get her 'cause you wont but just remmber it's just a pleasent memory in the past............

[Bo_3a6^YaaaT]

hmm this is interesting....well a2wal shay allah yekoon fe 3onak 3abady...but u know what ..u were young...and i guess this was ur first love...and always the first luv or crash as u can call it involve alot of emtion :)...so dont worry...because if it was luv..it will contiune again but it has to be from both side....and u know what if she doesnt luv..then basically she doesnt deserve ur luvv at all;)....sometime luv or emotion cover our eyes..and we dont see anything accept that person..but allah an3aam 3allina ben3mat alnesyaan..so live ur life...be happy...be urself and ur true luv will come one day min doon ma te7s :)

Bo_3a6yaat :cool:

[Quick Silver]

love in the context you have put it in is a forign object to our traditions and islamic teachings.... globalization have really driffted us to believe on love as in a standard and universal feature.... all I got to say about love is what one of our great islamic figures said:

ÇáÍÈ ÍÈ ÇáÃã æÇáÍáíáå æÇáæáíÏ ÍÈ ÇáãÚÇäì áÇ ÇáÊÝÇäí æÇáÞÚæÏ

[FaHaD]

love , is a great word for those who are lucky... but sometime this love can be a pain and cozes u feel guilty ..
love is not always happiness, some might be unfaithful with alot of promises and nice words .. and u do alot of unexpected thing and u will change alot of things in ur life and at ends comes the pain and guilt if u choose the wrong person..
allah forgive them..
and on the other hand, there are some people who knows what is real love , and friend u have to be careful in choosing the one...

[Snow^Lady]

Love at the age of 11:rolleyes: hmmmmmm i would say it is not a real love. Infact it is a puppy love. To love someone is to love everything about them, their bad past, their looks, their heart, their attitude, their everything even if it is seen as bad by other people. To love someone to see the rest of the girls as sisters but to see her as your angel. To do anything for her and to feel that living without her is living without heart!. If you think there is a chance with her and she will love you, then try to win her. No harm in trying and putting yourself down for the one you love. But if she doesn't love you then forget her and I promis you that you will find the right one, the right place.;)

[ReVeLuTiOnAl^]

love at the age of 11 >> gawiyyeh shwey (a bit strong)
:rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

[^^3aBaDY^^]

ReV if you don't believe on me stroy. I didn't ask you to write you silly reply. I'm not a laier and i don't like it when ppl call me a laier.

I only seek for advise and telling ppl about me problem i'm not expecting them to reply me and if they did i don't like offensive replies i don't like them at all.

So you call yourself a Mod and you do this. I think you better get ousted and give this place to some1 who appreciate all memebers problems and not to pick on them and call them laiers.

Thanx Anyway. ok guys if you don't like it me calling it love i will call it lust but i'm really sure it's love i know myself more than anyone else in this world. And i might quit from this Sabla if you wana me to do so.

[ReVeLuTiOnAl^]

3aBaDy:

You are being sensitive here.. I didn't mean to offense you.. nothing is offensive in what i said.. i meant to be as a joke but maybe i put it the wrong way.. sorry anyway if it made you insulted!./.. Other thing.. noone called you a liar..

my reagrds .. :)

[amo0or]

No comments:rolleyes:

[Arabian_knight]

:rolleyes: :duh: :color:

[X-press]

^^3aBaDY^^, I tend to agree with badoora that at the age of 11, or even 12, 18, someone doesn't really know the meaning of "love". You obviously felt something very strong for this girl and I believe we can call it "infatuation".

The only thing you could see in front of you was this girl and her physique. You never had the chance to know more about her, like her personality, her character, her behaviour etc... Real love is when you feel strongly for a person no matter in what context they are in. You feel a strong attraction for the way they are, the way they think, the way they treat you and others.

Real love exist but comes in different forms with its ups-and-downs. Real love is not only made of "heighs and pink butterflies". Real love is about love, about giving, about pain, about joy, about sacrifice and compromise and..... the list is long.

^^3aBaDY^^, I believe you still cling to the past, when you were certainly too young then to really know what you were feeling. Time as now passed and you have matured. Even if you didn't forget, you can still move on. Love is surely waiting for you.

[kitkat]

I really don't know what to say

BuT
if u ever felt that the other person is not in love with u
then FOREGET IT
u can't plz people to love u

so take care of yourself
and believe me life will go on
u just take care