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yellow sapphire
08-06-02, 02:50 PM
please do not move this topic from this place coz my friends are here.
please people help me.i am man and i am not working till now.i am looking for a divorced woman to marry me.i want her to pay for me till Allah help me and find a job for myself.it is serious my family does not help me coz of 3adat wa taqaleed.i am tired and i have no one to help me except u friends.at night i can not sleep,i keep crying like anything.my situation is horrible.i want a wife.my brain is not working well coz i have no wife.please friends do not do like my family leaving me alone.please it is serious.i am tired.
i will be back in Oman soon,i do not want to stay with my family in Oman,i do not know where i go.can someone do this favour for me.it is urgent i want to marry a divorced woman please.
i wonder if u understand me.
do we have a divorced lady in the sabla ?
Bimzoori
08-06-02, 05:48 PM
Yellow, would you mind if I move this topic to the personal problems sabla ?! The link will still be here in Religion Sabla..?
yellow sapphire
08-06-02, 07:21 PM
yes Bimzoori thanks.
Arabian Princess
08-06-02, 08:45 PM
Bro Yellow,
your problem is really touching .. but although people here will try tohelp you out with all what you can .. i still dont think that you will actually find a wife here .. I mean this is a very risky decision to take ..
Dont you have friends who could help you find a suitable wife?
I wish you all the best and if I know a divorced wman who is willing to be introduced to a man through sabla I would have not hesitated to help you ut .. but unfourtountly I dont know any.
ReVeLuTiOnAl^
08-06-02, 09:30 PM
Salam Y-S:
I agree with Arabo.. I don't think this is the right place to find a suitable girl for you... I think you need to work it out yourself and try to find other people to help you.. Again as Arabo said.. friends in your case might be the mosy helpful ones as it seems your family isn't prepared to help you. I get to tell you lots of guys face your problem in our society, they try to find wives for themselves but because they don't work, they can't find any.
Wish you Good Luck.
X-press
09-06-02, 01:57 AM
What Reve and Arby said is true and I believe it will be even harder for you to find someone if you do not have an employment.
I advise you to built yourself first and find a job, which can be the start of a foundation. I do understand that you would like to be settle (and it can be with a non divorced woman too), but you also have to offer something stable to your future partner. No marriage has a chance to survive if this foundation doesn't exist at the beginning.
Wishing you good luck and don't lose hope.
Bimzoori
09-06-02, 11:54 AM
Yellow, why do you specifically want a divorced woman??
yellow sapphire
09-06-02, 12:44 PM
people i am happy that u r with me,that why i mentioned this topic coz i could not hide it any more.last night was one of horrible night i had spent.i could not sleep.and i have decided not to go back to Oman and stay with my family ,i will go to another country,coz i can not stay with people who they do not help me.my father only is very good with me and the remaining r not.
Bimzoori,
i want divorced woman coz she will pay for me if she can till i find a job.at the same time not ready to marry a girl who will ask much.i really can not understand this problem.in Oman there r thousands of girls who want to have hasbands but when boys go to marry them they ask 5 thousand riyal.from where we bring 5 thousand.
my solution is almahar has to be 25 riyal.so all boys will have wifes and all girls will have hasbands.thousands of girls r of 30 years old having no hasbands.they r not happy and their families do not understand,i do not know what kind of families r these.
X-press
09-06-02, 02:27 PM
Yellow Sapphire, did you at least finish your studies? If you have, why don't you try to work instead of depending on another woman financially?
Do you really believe that a woman, because she is divorced, will be willing to pay for your expenses and not necessarily ask for something better? What guarantee will she have that you will indeed try to built yourself afterwards? Believe me, your marriage will be already starting on the wrong foot if you marry someone for the wrong raison...
yellow sapphire
09-06-02, 02:40 PM
frankly speaking and in direct way,i want to have relation.i am tired of being alone.i will pay for myself and she will pay for herself till i get the job.if she has house or a flat i will stay with her,i do not see anything wrong in that.
Bimzoori
09-06-02, 04:30 PM
Originally posted by yellow sapphire
yes Bimzoori thanks.
since you agreed with me here, I'll move this thread to where it belongs --->Personal Problems sabla
Shahrazad
09-06-02, 05:03 PM
Sorry to hear about your case YS..
However, you should think wisely, marriage is a life time journey.
Just as X-press said, try and find yourself a job any job, at least to get some money to maintain life, thus think of marriage. This will make your wife appreciate & respect you more.
One thing you should be careful of, never ever head for relations that you surely know will have an ending. No relations are successful other than marriage!
You mentioned about your family aren't helping you at the moment, sorry but what do you do for a living at the mean time?!
Bimzoori
09-06-02, 05:09 PM
Yellow,
I dont think it would be wise of you to leave your family..this shoulb be the last thing to com eto your mind..try to resolve any conflicts between yourself and your family..
Go to Oman, and discuss the issue with them, and try to see why you dont get along well with them..and I'm sure for every problem there is a solution, InshaAllah..
I think you should also be more relaistic here, you say you want a girl whose mahr is 25OR..I dont think this would be an easy thing to find..I'm not syaing its impossible, but nowadays it'll be way too difficult to find such a girl..
man these days the maher should be at least RO 10,000
yellow sapphire
09-06-02, 08:10 PM
people,do u want to say ,it is not easy to find a divorced woman or a girl who accept mahar 25 riyals.
r omanis women and girls want to live happily in this life or they want to spoil themselves and spoil the boys and the men.and then full omanis people will be spoiled.
why what it is the problem with 25 riyal.
we have to grow up people.my brain is not working well since how many years coz i keep thinking of wife.i will die.i hate my family.
ya Allah help me
Arabian Princess
09-06-02, 09:51 PM
No real woman want to put a burden on her future husband ..
I di agee with you that mahar should be less than what is going on now .. but that does not mean that 25 rials are enough ..
The woman uses the mahar to get ready for her new life .. and that costs money. Unless the wife does not want to get new clothes and stuff then that money would be enough.
I did not say that its hard to find a divorded woman, but it is hard through the sabla especially that you are not working!
you should start solving the first problem before u enter into differnt responsibilites .. no one should hate thier family . u should know what is the problem and solve it instead of marrying a woman and starting a life without the blessing of your family.
Well YS
By reading all your replays to member I can say your problem is more into family problem then finding a wife. You seems to be you are having very bad reaction with you family, and what appears in your mind is either to stay where you are which its seem is difficult for you to do that. Or to come back and marry anyone without care if that is right person for you or not. In both cases you juts want to be away from your family. Dear YS try to sit with your self for a while far from any noise. Rest your mind and think properly what is the real problem with you. What caused that problem and how to overcome it. I am sure you will find a better way to solve it out. And if its family problem which its seem to me. Please be free to discuss it here or you can even mail some members who you trust and feel comfortable to share with, ask them for their advises I am sure you will find good and appreciable advises from members.
Keep in mind The best way to solve the problem is to face the problem and not run away from it.
If u only have 25 rials why are u thinking of marraige, forget it marraige is a responsibility not playing game. Do u expect from your wife to support u and u sleep at home.
yellow sapphire
12-06-02, 01:37 PM
Nokia
i want to have a wife.is that called a problem.if my family do not help me in finding a wife so who i have to help me,my friends and only my friends that why i am telling in sablah what i want coz may be there is a chance for me to have a wife through my friends in sablah.
i am telling u i can not sleep at night,what u want me to do.shall i come to oman and hang a board on my back saying *searching for a divorced woman*
people will think i am mad but may be i will do it to proove that my family is not helping me.
i can not live without sex,i am tired,every night i force myself to sleep but no chance.i am tired people i am tired.
my brain will work well if i have a wife."honna libason lakom wa antum libason lahon"(i hope i did not make a mistake in iyah).
Y-S I beleive u said u are shi3i, so u can marry for pleasure "zawag al mut3ah" according to your sector to relax your mind and sleep well.
yellow sapphire u dont need a wife.
U NEED A PSYCHIATRIST
Originally posted by yellow sapphire
Nokia i want to have a wife.is that called a problem.if my family do not help me in finding a wife so who i have to help me,my friends and only my friends ..........
i can not live without sex,i am tired,every night i force myself to sleep but no chance.i am tired people i am tired.
YS we all here to to help you, i really dont know what is you situtation with your family but the way you are looking for a wife is wrong, from your words all what you want is sex. but is that all what mariadge about sex? you need i wife whom can live with and share your life with, what will happend when you get a divoced women to marry she has some kids and later on when you full-fill your sexual disire and start to work with good position will you leaver her and look for the one suit you?
if you can figout your problem then do as qais said
see a SYCHIATRIST, there are thouthands of man on your age and they are strong enoght to overcome those sex feeling, and sleep tight, just keep strong faith and try to do not think of sex too much egnore every thing which can pull your thoughts to sex. do some ectivities, start some new hobies do some gym do any thing that can take your interest and make you not thinig of sex too much. and about sleeping as i supose you are still student so study hard it will make you tired andfall insleep fast.
can i ask you these questions if you dont mind i need them to help you.
how old are you ?
where are you now?
are you still studying or finish studyig?
how long do you think it will take you to find a job when you go back to Oman?
how how many years different you want to be between you and your wife?
is it ok if she is older then you?
can you take the responsibilty if she is having children from her first husband?
what is your future's plans for your family (i mean your wife and your kids)?
please try to answer these questions.
Sharqawi
12-06-02, 08:20 PM
i do join Qais for his proposed solution:o
yellow sapphire
13-06-02, 01:54 PM
IceTea
:( why r u against me
qais
:( i know what i need and from the beginning i told u i need a wife.
Nokia
if she is 10 years elder than me still i want her.do u know one.
Originally posted by IceTea
Y-S I beleive u said u are shi3i, so u can marry for pleasure "zawag al mut3ah" according to your sector to relax your mind and sleep well.
if you were trying to make fun then that surely was a rude thing to say!!
yellow-s : are you really serious?? somehow i find this weird!!!! and anyways..i don't think that women like to marry a man who they have to spend on!!
yellow sapphire
14-06-02, 01:46 PM
Boy-Interrupted
what do u think i am joking here or what.do u know i did not sleep last night.do u know i am mentally tired of thinking about wife.do u know i have problems with my family coz they do not help me to fiind a wife.do u know i am thinking not to go back to my family.
how many thousands of girls and women r in Oman who r not married?
and when i look for a wife i do not find.i do not know am i living among normal people.
Originally posted by yellow sapphire
Nokia
if she is 10 years elder than me still i want her.do u know one.
well i asked many question but you just answer one Q. :confused:
how old are you ?
where are you now?
are you still studying or finish studyig?
how long do you think it will take you to find a job when you go back to Oman?
how how many years different you want to be between you and your wife?
is it ok if she is older then you?
can you take the responsibilty if she is having children from her first husband?
what is your future's plans for your family (i mean your wife and your kids)?
Nokia are u planing to find a wife for him to ask him all this questions :).
Y-S I will advise u to fasten until u find a wife to protect yourself and the girls around u.
yellow sapphire: Don't just stop there my dear.. think of other thing.. why dont u start your own small business, i know that you dont have money but if u look for it u'll get, and i dont think also that u'll find a lady here in sabla..
so i'm telling u.. dont just stop here.. think and try to do anything..well this is life , i know it's hard but try..and inshalla u'll get ..
yellow sapphire
16-06-02, 06:57 PM
amo0or
my dear,i did not say i will find in sablah a wife but may be someone in sablah who knows any lady to mary me.that is my idea.
any way thanks alot :(
even though yellow sapphire..how u'll know that girl.. and how do u want a girl to marry u and she no nothing about you.even your face ya3nee..i think u should interduce urself with full details..good luck bro and i wish u all the best . allah ma3ak.
if u need anything.. u can messege me!
And why u want a divorced lady, isn't virgin lady is better ?
there is no differnce between a virgin and a divorced women..they are alll good.
but y would a divorced woman want u if u cant support her and ur self
yellow sapphire
17-06-02, 03:58 PM
IceTea
most of our prophet wives were not virgin.
divorced lady is cheaper,she will not ask for 5 thousand omani riyal.
divorced lady is wiser than the virgin lady.
qais
i do not want her to support me,i want her to support herself only and i will support myself.
let me ask u if the lady is rich and she can support me,what is the problem here.
what is better for her to live mentally tired without husband or supporting a husband.
i do not see anything wrong if the woman supporting her husband and it is not haram.it is halal.i live happily and she lives happily.both will be happy.
last night i could not sleep.
i wish a rich lady read what i am writting and she calls me to marry her.if this happens i will invite the all people in sablah for a cup of tea.
o people please pray for me,may be your prayer is answered by Allah.
as i told u..inshalla khair and good luck..and all the members sara7a are praying to u..u are one of the members..so u are like our brother
Originally posted by yellow sapphire
IceTea
most of our prophet wives were not virgin.
divorced lady is cheaper,she will not ask for 5 thousand omani riyal.
divorced lady is wiser than the virgin lady.
I don't think the lady who is asking for 5 thousand riyal or whatever its her father and mother. And why are u using the word cheaper are u planing to buy a car !!
If the divorced lady is wiser then she will not have been divorced from the begining, thus she is not wise enough otherwise she would know how manitain her husband and make him love hir more and more.
yellow sapphire
18-06-02, 03:39 PM
a question?
what omani lady wants?
does she wants me who pays 25 riyal for her mahar and keep her with me for ever or she wants a person who pays 5 thousand riyal and then he divorced her after one month coz he is having too much of money and he wants to play only.
will this lady who will be divorced after one month be happy with the 5 thousand riyal which she got.may be,lets her enjoy with thousand.
here i am offering 25 riyal for every lady who wants to live with me,any one divorced or virgin but i prefer divorced.any lady wants i am ready coz i am so tired of my family who is not helping me to find a wife.still i can not sleep at night.any lady who wants please feel free to send me e mail.
thanks
i think you should concentrate on more important things like finding a job or getting a college degree (if you don't have one) , rather than searching for a wife!!
yellow sapphire
18-06-02, 09:04 PM
Boy-Interrupted
believe me i can not concentrate without wife.
believe me can not understand what is happening in Muscat,is there no ladies want husband,r they happy staying with their fathers,then,what will happen,they will reach 40 years old without husband,sob7an Allah.
sometimes going for garden and sometimes for the market.why they r going to the gardens coz they want husbands but their families do not feel.
are the people stupid,i do not know.
please help me to find a wife,Allah yesa3idkum,i am tired people,ir7amoni Allah yer7amkum.
what do you mean that you cannot concentrate without a wife?? do you mean the you are sexualy frustrated?? if so..then there are many ways to get over that!! fasting for example!
Boy-I,, i think you cant understand him,maybe he has his own reasons and he doesnt want to share ! every one has an excuse dear.. instade of giving him an advice .. u can look for him a wife..or at least help him..
i really care about this guy and i really wants to know him more and to help him, i like to help ppl.. and he sounds need help as the topic says.
the question wasn't for you amo0or..it was for yellow!;)! so i'm still waiting for his answer!!!!
This thread also is not just for you Boy-I, it's for all the members and we can say whatever we want to say,we can share our idea's here ,, this guy is asking for our help.. so we have to help him!
by the way gee thanx boy.
yellow sapphire
20-06-02, 08:44 PM
Boy-Interrupted
fasting is not enough,i think about girls at night,is there fasting at night also or what.
i can not live without sex any more.
that is enogh.i am 99 % tired.last night i had headache coz of thinking.offfffffffffff
amo0or
i find u good person,please if u can help,help me.
yellow sapphire my brother..do u have a close friend?? or dont u have anything else to do instade of sitting there and thinking,,tara it's not good for your health also .. u should forget about it and try to do some thing makes u forget this.! try to join the net .. chat with friends and go out until a very late time.. then u'll come back home tierd then directly to the bed! or try to study and do some extra works.. u'll forget believe me.. everyone is like this..when u think alot u get bored and angry all the time and u are not in the mood to talk to anyone.. so try brother not to think alot .. and inshalla god will be with you and will help u one day..allah ma yinsa 3abduh!
yellow sapphire
21-06-02, 08:18 AM
amo0or
thanks brother
u welcome.. anytime bro..!! :)
yellow sapphire
21-06-02, 07:33 PM
so7an Allah today i slept for may be one houre and i saw it is my wedding day.the first person who came to wish me is my old friend,he is from my area.i became so happy,i wish this dream comes true.
ameen
i wish also that your dream come true.. and to be happy all the of your life.. and i wish i can come to the wedding..are you going to invite me????
anyway Ameeeeeeeeeeen
Originally posted by yellow sapphire
so7an Allah today i slept for may be one houre and i saw it is my wedding day.the first person who came to wish me is my old friend,he is from my area.i became so happy,i wish this dream comes true.
ameen
you really need help man!! dreaming of weddings and all!! gosh!!
sad!
yellow sapphire
22-06-02, 08:21 AM
Boy-Interrupted
did u believe now how I am tired.
amo0or
I will invite all of u insha Allah for a cup of tea.
Yellow,
a wife might be a blessing, or a pain in the ....
you got to find the right one, even if she can support her self and maybe you, perhaps you wont be happy with her.
yellow sapphire
23-06-02, 02:00 PM
Bright Star
how i find the right one,please help me,do u want me to go to alharthy complex and looking for a wife.or shall i sleep with a lady and then i marry her.u tell me how please.if my family is not helping me how will i get the right one.
yesterday they tried to contact me by calling me in my mobile a thousand time but i did not reply.today they told me my mother is sick because of me,she is not eating.
what i do.i want them to understand i am tired,ya rabbi ir7amni ila meta hatha al3athab.
Yellow-S
in arabic we say "ma7adish yitgawiz marat 7ad"
no one would marry someone elses wife. the lady you would marry is written for you, you would find her, if not now, then soon inshallah. just wait, and look
yellow sapphire
23-06-02, 02:22 PM
SoMe1
ok till when i will wait.when i will find her.i am getting scared.
sobbat 3alia masaebon lo annaha
sobbat 3la alaimai la sirna laialia
hire a prostitute for a night to satisfy ur sexual appetite
yellow sapphire
23-06-02, 07:51 PM
:fire:
Just cool down Y-S...:) everything will be ok.. but u should wait and work hard.. not just sit there and wait ! so plzzz try to work hard in your studies or work or whatever..and u'll get what u want inshalla..trust me! if not it's upto u..
yellow sapphire
24-06-02, 12:24 PM
amo0or
thanks.Allah yestur bas.
Y-S don't forget to invite me for your "3urs" :D
yellow sapphire
24-06-02, 08:16 PM
IceTea
:( still i did not find one.if i invite u,u will know me but i will not be able to know u and that is not good for me.any way i said before all r invited for a cup of tea only.not for malikah not for 3urs not for nothing,only for cup of tea.malikah will be in my house and i will invite no one.it is only 3adat wa taqaleed that it is made in masjid and i do not like this 3adat wa taqaleed.and i have no money for that.
Originally posted by qais
hire a prostitute for a night to satisfy ur sexual appetite
lol...my thoughts exactly!!
Prince of Heart
24-06-02, 10:09 PM
My dear YS,
You said, u don't have any money & your are jobless, if u get married with a widow ur problem get solved. Well! I will say being a man nothing is impossible, if I were u I wouldn't have asked for a wife in first instance, although if I am university graduate and I didn't get a job of my qualification I wouldn't have mind to work in a resturant even for R.O.50/= p.m which I would say something is better then nothing, or even wouldn't have mind working as a labourer rather then marrying where I am a jobless and advertising to get a wife and thereafter be a burden to my wife.
My friend if u are really honest and dedicated think positively why my friends my colleagues all are working, and I am jobless, see ur weakness and try to change ur negative attitude to positive approach & find ur weakness and try to mend it. Just advertising and getting married with someone which u don't know her neither she knew u I don't think its going to solve your problem.
Bye the way, u said u r jobless & have no money and some articles u say that people keeps on calling to your mobile.
Could u tell me how do u pay ur mobile and internet bills?
and of course u will be having a car too, who will be paying for the petrol? & ur are jobless.:confused:
P of H....
yellow sapphire
25-06-02, 08:10 AM
Prince of Heart
:( i did not say i have no money but i said i have no money to invite people for the wedding but i do not mind for a cup of tea.you know how much it is paid to invite people to eat halwa in masjid,it is too much and frakly speaking i have no money for this 3adat wa taqaleed.i will make maklkah at home without inviting too many people and i will not make halwa at home also coz i do not like this 3adat wataqaleed.
no i have no car and i have no driving lisence.I am not staying in Oman that why i have mobile.in Oman i have no mobile.
Boy-Interrupted
:fire:
Gosh..u guys are talking about wedding and halwa and milka and the guy didnt fine the lady yet..SICK....really..
Y-S---> why don't you post in other threads..sara7a i dont usually see ur posts..i think you should read new threads and post just to waste your time..without thinking as u said b4..its really good to share your ideas with us bro.. come on.. be active..
PS:wheb are you coming back to oman?????
yellow sapphire
25-06-02, 02:09 PM
amo0or
i will be coming in 3 weeks or less.
just now i got call from my house and i answered this time.it was my mother.
go to Religion Sabla and u will see how i am active but i hope u will not misunderstand me there.
sara7a,,i think you have no life doing what you're doing, and thinking the way you're thinking!! you're not doing the right thing,and don't think you'll accomplish much by just sitting on your *** (pardon my french :D) and doing nothing!!
Boy-I.. it's true that i dont have the right to stop u telling Y-S these words..i think he had enough..so plzzz stop telling him these words..everyone has its own problems..and as he told u..that he is trying his best..so wish him luck instade of telling these words..plzz Boy-I i think he cant accept this anymore..so try to make this guy happy instade of making him sad & dont light a fire between u and him coz we are here as one family.
yellow sapphire
26-06-02, 08:14 AM
:lost:
Boy-Interrupted
i know when u want to find a wife it is easy for u because there r many girls in your family but about me there is no one.here i have got friends who told me when they want to have wife there r many waiting for them from their family.so they r not talking tension.oh my god i am getting scared.before coming to the computer i was only thinking about my problem.and i got scared.believe me if u have my problem u will not be able to sleep at night.
amo0or
i like your support,do not leave me alone please coz i need you.
Y-S cup of tea or icetea :) is not enough for me I need u to invite me for the feast (kabooli la7am :D :D ) ok man
X-press
26-06-02, 02:12 PM
Yellow-Sapphire, I was again reading your thread and if you seriously have a problem finding a wife, you should seriously sit and listen to the advices given by the members here.
You need help, we understand that and we are here to try to ease your problem, but you will never move a step forward if you do not make the effort.
First of all, your approach towards marriage is 100% wrong. Do you at least understand that? You don't decide to get married to any girl, virgin or divorced or else, for the reasons you mentioned: need financial support and sexual satisfaction.
A women is not a car or a piece of furniture on which you can sit on and take a ride... you first have to understand that before we can go further in the discussion.
Y-S,
I sympathise with you, I really do. And what you wrote about the standard 'mahar' being too high is true - you posted it in the Arabic Sabla too I saw, maybe the suggestion there of a government fund to help people marry is good.
But although it's hard (no pun intended), you shoudn't marry just because you're feeling horny! What kind of basis is that for a life long relationship in the eyes of God? Whether you find some other way so relieve yourself is a matter for you. But to find a wife in this way would be wrong for her and wrong for you in the long run.
I agree with the others; you have an education, so direct your energies to getting a good job first. It will make it easier to meet the right wife in a normal way.
X-press
26-06-02, 02:17 PM
Originally posted by mimosa
But although it's hard (no pun intended), you shoudn't marry just because you're feeling horny! What kind of basis is that for a life long relationship in the eyes of God?
Lol Mimo, we post at the exact same time and you also read my mind. We are here to help him, but he has to first understand the core of this problem and why he will not be able to solve it, if he doesn't change his way of thinking.
Snow^Lady
26-06-02, 06:17 PM
When I read this thread, i find it like a joke! I mean that I think he is pulling our legs or something like that:cool:
yellow sapphire
26-06-02, 09:09 PM
Snow^Lady
oh my god i am not pulling your legs and not pulling your hands,i can not even touch your feet coz that is haram.
:weep:
IceTea
you only want to eat free,why do not you pay for your food instead of using other people money for food ha:(
Originally posted by Snow^Lady
When I read this thread, i find it like a joke! I mean that I think he is pulling our legs or something like that:cool:
yeah..i feel the same way!! there's something fishy going on!! it just doesn't make sence!!
Don't worry Bro Y-S... i'll be with u whenever u need me..i'm always here to help ppl..by the way i like to help ppl alot .. i feel good when i do that ! so trust me and tell me everything u need..
:) take care bro..best luck
yellow sapphire
27-06-02, 08:17 AM
amo0or
thanks :) but tell me does Boy-Interrupted want to eat fish or what coz i did not understand him.
Lo0o0o0oL..:D i don't know sara7a.. i didn't understand him also..just forget about it..
Snow^Lady
27-06-02, 05:05 PM
LOL YS......then pull my nose if you can.
yellow sapphire
27-06-02, 08:15 PM
Snow^Lady
i hope your nose is clean:)
amo0or
what happened to Snow^Lady,sometimes pulling her legs and sometimes pulling her nose,i do not know what tomorrow i pull what:confused:
I Dont know..maybe her hands and her ears..lol..but never mind i'll help u doing this..
X-press
28-06-02, 04:26 AM
Yellow Sapphire, instead of joking now, can you please concentrate on our previous replies related to your real problem, if it indeed exists!
yellow sapphire
28-06-02, 08:00 AM
Originally posted by X-press
can you please concentrate on our previous replies related to your real problem, if it indeed exists!
:(
:weep:
amo0or
i do not know what to say:confused:
Don't say anything bro..you dont have anything now to say, i really wanna end this thread and make u happy .. but the thing is that its not in my hands..but inshalla khair..now how di u feel?
Originally posted by IceTea
If the divorced lady is wiser then she will not have been divorced from the begining, thus she is not wise enough otherwise she would know how manitain her husband and make him love hir more and more.
so can I understand that all divorce cases are the women's fault?
Originally posted by qais
hire a prostitute for a night to satisfy ur sexual appetite
may Allah guide you Brother,
well Y-S,
I think I had once just like your problem, about 2 or 3 years ago when I was 22. I was thinking the same way and i couln't do any thing although it was a horrible semester. I used to think that other people were extraordinary that they sustained being single and lonely , I used to say to myself, "Did Allah give me a stronger desire and suffer than those peole around". I used to spend about 20/24 of my day hours in my small room in the dorm, I only leave it for some of my classes. It was a terrible semester.. what could I do for myself? No thing. But I didn't ask for a wife since my situation didn't allow. At the end and after all the suffer, one of the good students in the dorm , who only knew me by name, came to my room and asked me sharply, What is wrong with you? I replied "What is wrong with me?.. nothing". He said " No there is.. and I am not going to leave this room before telling me". Ma Shaa Allah, The guy is a true Muslim ,with all senses and meanings, wise , firm and smart too. I couldn't hide my feelings and I told him after I felt secure and safe. The guy said " What big deal"! He gave me a short lesson and I was like scilent and dumb!!
He started taking me wherever he went. I started going with him to pray at least 4 prayers in the mosque, I got to know the Imam of the mosque and many great students, hanging out with them , one have nothing to do, we used to spend sometime watching a documentary in the library, I started attending Shaikh Ahmed's lessons in Ruwi, getting more open, knowing more people, what a wonderful life! I then realized that I was only living in my tiny brain and leaving the whole world behind me. Alhamdulilah, I recovered in less than 2 months and I stopped missing classes and I could se positive improvements on my sleeping schedule and eating habits and of course on my transcript. Alhamdulilah, I proceeded normally like any man for that rest of that year and the last and one more when I got my job and inn shaa Allah I will get married by the end of this year, I never thought I would stay single for three more years after that.
so Y-S,
you might have had mental stress and you are trying to releive in this way which i don't recommend.
I see nothing wrong with R.O.25.00 but also you shouldn't offer it in this way, you are not going to buy a goat!
If you persist and stick to your mind, I would also recommend that you post on the Arabic Sabls (Relegion one).
Salaami
Qais???? now how come u have the same sign like badoora???
i'm really shocked when i saw it for the first time..i was like.. Oh i have to refresh the page again.. :eek:
so ?? may i know the reason..?? or she gave it to u?? :) (if u dont mind ya3nee)
badoora didnt like my old signature so i decided to change mine to her signature
Oh i see.. so now i have to focus at the nicks well to know between u and badoora..:p
yellow sapphire
29-06-02, 12:46 PM
man
thanks i like your reply to me and to the others but frankly speaking i do not like to attend any doroos in masjid coz they do not talk what is in quran,only very few times they talk about quran but mostly they keep saying what Khamees and Rashid have said.do not think i am joking here or trying to make anyone angry,it is not me who do this but ana mita3qad from Khamees and Rashid.
amo0or
do not be angry at me in religion sablah;)
I'm not angry Y-S...how can i get angry from my brother?;)
Yellow,
It might not be a great comfort to you....but I think you've posted the most popular personal problem thread ever!!!!!!:D
yellow sapphire
29-06-02, 08:34 PM
Do I need a prize?
Your prize is to know that you have brought pleasure to the masses.......the prize may not be redeemed for a cash alternative.
Bless you Mr Sapphire, may all your wishes come true :)
yellow sapphire
30-06-02, 08:10 AM
mimosa
you are so sweet,thanks alot,may Allah help me fast to get a good wife and i start thinking of my future,i hope i will get a job soon coz still my father is paying me,my father is very good with me not like the others.and may Allah help u too.
so..you still crying Y-S?? well..i suggest you fill your time with things to do..read a book...go out with friends or watch movies!!! there are many things that you can do to forget your problems! listen to music...oh..wait..i don't thik you can do that..i suppose you're gona say it's 7aram..especially after reading your posts in religion sabla!!! anyways...just trying to help..after all..i do understand what you're going thrue!!! ;)
yellow sapphire
30-06-02, 07:07 PM
Boy-Interrupted
yes i am still crying but not like before.By the way u told me to go out with friends and listen to music.I want to tell you my frineds are only here in sablah but in real life I have no frineds.I am always alone.My thinking is different,what to do,I am like this.About music,I do not listen to music and at the same time I will not say it is haram.
Well well well...
I don't think that there is a reason now for crying Y-S.. am i right.. coz u sounds better than b4 i guess..and crying wont solve any problems.. its true that we are your friends, but its only here in sabla.. i think u should look for a friend or at least some of your cousins.. anyway Y-S..u just take care of your self and we are here to help u ..
:)
yellow sapphire
01-07-02, 01:08 PM
amo0or
you are always good with me,thanks alot:)
X-press
02-07-02, 02:27 PM
Originally posted by mimosa
Yellow,
It might not be a great comfort to you....but I think you've posted the most popular personal problem thread ever!!!!!!:D
I also noticed that all Yellow's threads are very popular and reach easily the 3 pages length! It is already very positive, but I think it will be even nicer if we could really help him solving his actual problems.
Yellow Sapphire, do you understand that you, as a man, have to first built something around you (carrier wise, social wise etc...) as a foundation, before thinking marriage? Hope you will answer my questions this time.
yellow sapphire
02-07-02, 08:40 PM
X-press
;) wooow i am becoming famous then,any way you are right i should have a job and money but does that mean a person who is not working and having no money can not find a divored wife who is having money and can support him or support herself only till he find a job,<font color=red><b>are ladies bad like this</b></font>and they want only money from their husbands,i am sorry but it is just a question.
arabian-brain
03-07-02, 02:22 AM
YS
I advise you to listen to what our Senior Member Nokia said. I’m telling you this guy is a professional. He knew the problem and analyzed it and then advised you. Well-advised.
I believe him.
yellow sapphire
03-07-02, 12:46 PM
arabian-brain,
I read what Nokia said again,my problem I want to have sex.
arabian-brain
03-07-02, 08:12 PM
I’m amazed by your signature, I TRUST IN ALLAH.
Then be patient.
Originally posted by yellow sapphire
arabian-brain,
I read what Nokia said again,my problem I want to have sex.
If u are a real muslim and u want to get married and have sex but u can't then why u don't apply profet Mohammed (PBUH) saying to protect yourself from making mistakes until u find a divorced wife.
yellow sapphire
04-07-02, 09:56 AM
Originally posted by arabian-brain
I’m amazed by your signature, I TRUST IN ALLAH.
Then be patient.
oh my God,for how long
yellow sapphire
04-07-02, 09:59 AM
Originally posted by IceTea
If u are a real muslim and u want to get married and have sex but u can't then why u don't apply profet Mohammed (PBUH) saying to protect yourself from making mistakes until u find a divorced wife.
my dear you are happy with your wife like the others,they are happy.Do you think fasting will be enough for u if u have no wife.
and do u want me to fast day and night,in this case i will be sick and fasting will be haram.
and who know know about the hadeeth,is it right hadeeth comes from Mohammed peace be upon him or it comes from somewhere else.
Y-S I think u are not serious cuz many members advised u and u don't listen to anyone. So keep on crying at night and day as well :weep: :weep: :weep: :weep: :p
yellow sapphire
05-07-02, 02:33 PM
:weep:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by IceTea
Y-S I think u are not serious cuz many members advised u and u don't listen to anyone
i kinda feel the same way!! whaever we say he just responds negatively!!! this is just a big joke!!!
Y-S..My dear..
Now lets know about your major??? tell us where are u studying? and is it bi3tha or u are studying 3ala 7saab your parents??
second thing.. for every problem there is a solution, and i think that the luck door will open soon for u!! u just tell me all of your story , talk normaly, feel free, and if u dont like posting everything here.. u can send me a PM then telling me your problem from the begning! so plzz try to help yourself , just to make the members happy for u , and see u in your house with your VIRGIN wife.
H-Highness
06-07-02, 03:06 PM
I'm not good adviser nor willing to sympathize with you all I see is <b>"Wastage of Server Memory & Web Space."</b>
Just take a chill pill
H-H
Where are u Y-S??? you've been away for three days now??? khair inshalla??? i wish everything is ok with u!!
yellow sapphire
08-07-02, 08:43 AM
amo0or
i was only thinking of you and thank God you are here.i did not like what is said by H-Highness :(
thanks alot for coming back and asking about me:)
H-Highness
08-07-02, 08:57 AM
I knew you would not like my comments. You know why I took all my effort to read all above 100 replies to your problem but it seems you're not serious willing to change or looking for solution.
As I can recall from other members suggestion since you're not working and still college student, it will be tough for you to get a wife either it be divorced or widow. Any woman want a husband who will protect her and not vice versa, if you're lucky to find one be sure that will not last long.
Sexual desire is part growing up, any human being has to face it lifetime but the smart ones are those who know how to control it. I'm sure you're capable enough to control your sexual desire if you're willing to do it and make it happen.
I'm done
H-H... you said : Sexual desire is part growing up, any human being has to face it lifetime but the smart ones are those who know how to control it( can u give him a solution for it , it seemd that u have many solutions..so we are waiting haa.. coz we dont want our friend to be sad )
and by the way .. i think you should talk with him in a good way... why u all guys treating him like he dont know how to deal with his problem..just be good with him guys and he'll understand everything.. plzzz
H-Highness
08-07-02, 02:53 PM
Fasting, if you can not afford to get married more over this is not my words it has been recommended by our Prophet (SAW).
X-press
08-07-02, 02:53 PM
Originally posted by IceTea
Y-S I think u are not serious cuz many members advised u and u don't listen to anyone.
Yellow_Sapphire in fact has more than one problem:
1) Sexually frustrated
2) Wants to get married for wrong reasons
3) Wants a divorced women more precisely
4) Wants a divorced women who can support him financially and satisfy him sexually (I suppose)
5) Doesn't have a good relation with his family
6) Doesn't have a job himself
7) Show no interest to work for now
8) Doesn't really listen to our advices
Now YS, life is like a house....you have to start building it from its foundation in order to maintain it upright. The first step is for you to work from the bottom of my list and go up. If you are not willing to concentrate first on #8, there is no need to jump to another level.
H-Highness
08-07-02, 02:58 PM
Yellow Saphire
<h1>8) Doesn't really listen to our advices </h1>
Thats your problem
Very well said X-P.
I wonder who is the lady that will agree to marry someone have all this problems !!
yellow sapphire
09-07-02, 08:40 AM
Originally posted by IceTea
Very well said X-P.
I wonder who is the lady that will agree to marry someone have all this problems !!
that means ladies are bad and they have no ra7mah.they just want eat by their husbands money.they r sellfish.they think of themselves only.
i am asking to support herself till i find a job.and you people are eating me.
then if she wants me for my money why should i marry her.let her marry a very rich man who can pay mahar 5000 O.R and then get divorced after one month and live like this till she dies,will she be happy with 5000 riyal.that rich man will marry another with 5000 riyal and keeps divorcing ever month.will the divorced lady whose age is 20 be able to live without a man till she dies.the answer is no so she will starts roaming around in alharthy complex or CCC or may be having food in burger king.
amo0or
if you are here now infront of me i will kiss your head.you are very good person and i like your personality.
yellow sapphire
09-07-02, 08:47 AM
Originally posted by H-Highness
Fasting, if you can not afford to get married more over this is not my words it has been recommended by our Prophet (SAW).
stop acting smart here,i think i have answered this question before so stop bringing it again and again.i told u if i fast during the day,what about the night,shall i fast also,shall i fast day and night,that means u want to kill me.why u do not like me,i can not understand,did i say anything bad about you.tell me no one from your family face this problem before,did u advice him or her to fast,ha,tell me.so fasting is not that easy,as i said what about night time.my problem increases at night.
yellow sapphire
09-07-02, 08:53 AM
Originally posted by X-press
Originally posted by IceTea
Y-S I think u are not serious cuz many members advised u and u don't listen to anyone.
Yellow_Sapphire in fact has more than one problem:
2) Wants to get married for wrong reasons
wrong reasons,wrong reasons,hellooo,listen,i want to have wife for sex ofcourse,then for what,for eating my brain or what,oh my god,what kind of person u r.did not quran say:"honna firashon lakum wa antum firashon lahom"
Thanx Y-S... so sweet of u.. but this is my job !
yellow sapphire
09-07-02, 01:30 PM
amo0or,
if you want to have wife,will u have wife for sex or to play football with her,can u answer me this.
other member,
i know you are happy with your husbands and wives but also i want to be happy in this life and hereafter both.or i will be happy only in hereafter.you are happy here and you will be happy in hereafter,also i want the same thing,i want to be happy in both lifes.today only i looked at a lady from head to toe and this makes me more tired.i told u before i can not do anything till i solve this sex problem.it is horrible,hello there it is horrible,oh my God it is horrible,believe me it is horrible.
Y-S do u think people are getting married for sex only ?
If its "zwag al mut3a=marraige for pleasure" which sheea believe in then its right for sex only.
Well..Y-S...
It's true that if i got married, i wont play with her football.. but also i wont marry her just to have sex..coz my point in marrige is not only for sex, its for rasing children and living together in peice and to complete my half (deen)..thats it..but sex wont be my first reason to get married.:)
yellow sapphire
09-07-02, 08:10 PM
amo0or
you are not with me,so sad:(
about me my first reason is having sex.
You know what YS I don't think you are going to find a woman to marry you-if you'll excuse me for saying so-for only sex... and if you do she won't be much of a woman will she?
I suggest you lay off thinking so much and read quran, that is what heals if anything does.........and don't say it won't help because Allah never leaves us without help, we always have him to turn to.
did you ever think that this is ibtilaa from allah, and to prove to him you are a good muslim you must be pateint , isbir issbir ya akhi.:)
Y-S.. My dear.. everyone has its own reasons.. and that doesnt mean that i'm not with u ..! its your opinion :)
So dont get upset , how come i make u upset?? ;)
god!! you are sicker than i thought?? how can you think of marrying just for the sake of having sex!! i wash my hands from your sad case!!you have way too many problems and it's obvious that you're not willing to change any of your pathetic habbits!!
yellow sapphire
10-07-02, 11:26 AM
runnin' around
i am happy to read words from new member like you,but i did not say the only reason,i said my first reason is sex.there is different between the two sentances.
i did not say only i want a wife for sex but i said my first reason is sex and i think i am right or some one will say the first reason of having a wife to play football with her,of course no.i am using logic in my words but i do not know how some people do not know understand me.my dear till when i make sabr,i am tired.please pray for me.
amo0or
am i right or wrong,when i say the first reason for having a wife is sex.then if some one wants to play football with her that will be according to him(the husband) and what if the husband does not know how to play football.
X-press
10-07-02, 01:34 PM
Originally posted by yellow sapphire
wrong reasons,wrong reasons,hellooo,listen,i want to have wife for sex ofcourse,then for what,for eating my brain or what,oh my god,what kind of person u r.did not quran say:"honna firashon lakum wa antum firashon lahom"
yellow sapphire, you have another problem (#9) which I forgot to mentioned in my previous list: you do not have respect for those who are trying to help you here....and I am one of them.
Though you are very stuborn, we are trying our best to show you why you will never solve your problem, unless you change your way of thinking. Instead of analyzing yourself and focusing on what you do wrong, you jump on onother topic or disrespect our posts by being rude.
Originally posted by yellow sapphire
my first reason is having sex.
...if that is your first reason to wanting to get married, and as you do not want to listen to our advices, I wish you good luck to find this woman.
Though your case could be true, I am still not convinced that this is not just a little game of yours...
yellow sapphire
11-07-02, 12:27 PM
X-press
today in the morning i saw a dream,i saw myself riding a camal,but it was like real.
please if u have tafseer ala7lam for ibn sereen or any book,i want u to tell me the meaning of camal in the dream.please do this for me.i do not know but i am getting scared.last night i was in one boy flat where i was waching t.v,then i remember my problem so i started to cry.then when i came back to my flat i started to cry,i am tired and scared,i am not a liar.some times i hate myself when i find myself alone without a wife.
X-press
i do not know how to lie.i am not a liar.i am the founder of a new madhab.i just need what other men need.i am not insulting anyone,i can not insult anyone.even if people insult me i can not insult them.that is me,yes that is me.just i need u and the other to pray for me.do not look for a wife for me,just pray for me to find a wife.
X-press
11-07-02, 06:03 PM
Originally posted by yellow sapphire
i want u to tell me the meaning of camal in the dream.please do this for me.
This is what I found on a site explaining the meanings of dreams, but to my opinion you should not believe that it is necessarily predicting the truth.
Camel= They are the ships of the desert. Portraits of endurance. To see this beast signifies great financial gain, perhaps inheritance. First there will be hardship and obstacles to overcome.
Originally posted by yellow sapphire
X-press
i do not know how to lie.....
i am the founder of a new madhab....
just pray for me to find a wife. [/B]
I just hope for you, not for us, that you are truthfull with what you say, as at the end it is between you and your God.
Though it has nothing to do with this problem, but what madhab (or secte) are you talking about?
And last, praying for u to find a wife is not enough, you and only you have (after listening to our advices) to do something right to see your dreams come true.
yellow sapphire
14-07-02, 06:07 PM
X-press
thanks
Bro..what have u been doing lately??? hope that everything is going well and fine???
yellow sapphire
17-07-02, 12:25 PM
amo0or
i am not well at all,i am getting scared,the future is very bad,i can see it.boys are going to f **the girls by haram coz girls want to have 5000 omani riyal mahar and all know that no simple person can get 5000.
i am getting scared the future are not only bad but too mad.who wants his sister to get f **.who wants,the answer no one,they know the problem but they are not doing anything.at the end zina will be spread every where.
amo0or
i am getting scared,i am tired.let me ask you a question.is it better for a rich girl or poor girl to marry me with 25 riyal supporting herself till i find a job or better for her to reach 40 years old without a husband.
amo0or
if virgins do not want me what about the divorced women,is it better for them talking in their mobiles with the boys every night or marry me with me 25 riyal.
amo0or
some people say the solution is fasting.i do not now are they aware of what they are saying.what about night time.my thinking is at night more,will i fast at night also.we eat food and drink water to live,if we stop we will die.they want me to die,i do not know.
amo0or
i am in a country where bad girls are not that difficult to get.i am tired.what should i do.shall i go with young boys and keep f ** them spoiling their future or i go with gays.
or i keep doing masturbation till i die.
amo0or
amo0or
amo0or
help me i am getting scared.if i were not muslm i would have killed myself.
ya Allah what i do.
X-press
17-07-02, 01:51 PM
Yellow-Sapphire, I did read what you just posed and believe me I would like to find a solution, as there is always one to solve a problem or at least a way to ease that problem.
I feel that you bring different social problems seen in Oman within your main dilema, which is to find a wife. Maybe it will be nice to open different threads dealing with each of them.
It will be nice to hear the other members point of view before I give my opinion on this.
Y-S...Gosh...all of this??? i'm really sorry for you.. if have the solution i would give it to u..but i'm so sorry i dont have it.
It's true that its better for a rich girl or poor girl to marry u and not to reach 40 without a husband, but dont you think that 25 riyals these days are nothing???? the max u should give for a poor lady is 1000. even if the girl agreed her family wont agree coz they dont want their girl to be less than the other girls who got married by paying her 5000 or 4000 O.R,, ok.. now u said that you dont have enough money to get married?? then why is the idea in your mind always??
Ok..why dont u build yourself , the try to find the girl that u want, its just for few years..beleive me..u'll find a job and u'll find the lady that you are looking for !
Tell me .. who will agree from the girls to take 25 OR for their maher?? coz the life is too expensive and she cant even buy the wedding dress!! no gold, no cloths, no money for herself?? even if she is 40 years old ..she wont agree.
Ok,,now i'm with you that fasting is not the solution coz u can think of having sex all night.. and no one wants u to die beleive me..instead of sitting there and dreaming why dont you use that time in something good for u !! like going out with friend( i remember one time u said that u dont have friends why dont you make friends, even one or 2 friends are enough), also like reading a book or watching TV..or go and walk yourself on the beach..u have alot of choices.
about your stupid idea for boys and gays..you should stop thinking of this NOW..coz this is even more 7aram. u shouldnt think that way..you are old enough and u can control yourself i think coz every human can do it .. and its very easy..i dont want you to bring this salfa about gays again coz u know ( yahtaz 3arsh allah )
bro i need to know you more..if its ok u can add me to your MSN list to chat their without any out presures.
about killing yourself faa i dont think that u'll do it coz no one can kill him/herself , if u are really muslim u shouldnt think that way..
anyway god bless u and try to do what i said,, if u really wants your problem to be over.
:)
[QUOTE]Originally posted by yellow sapphire
i am getting scared,i am tired.let me ask you a question.is it better for a rich girl or poor girl to marry me with 25 riyal supporting herself till i find a job or better for her to reach 40 years old without a husband.
as amo0or said 25 rials is nothing these days! so you'd better pick yourself up and start doing something for yourself!! believe me a woman would find it much better to not get married that get married to someone who's no different than the furniture in the house!!
if virgins do not want me what about the divorced women,is it better for them talking in their mobiles with the boys every night or marry me with me 25 riyal.
what's all this talk about virgins and divorced it's just sick~!! a divorced woman is no different that any other woman, so what makes you think that divorced women would want to marry you? the thing is that your main reason is to have sex, but when a woman thinks of marrige she thinks, Family, Love, Commitment!! so grow up and think clearly!
some people say the solution is fasting.i do not now are they aware of what they are saying.what about night time.my thinking is at night more,will i fast at night also.we eat food and drink water to live,if we stop we will die.they want me to die,i do not know.
it's not people who came up with this it's the prophet Mohammed who did , and yeah..i might agree that fasting won't help much, but hey tough luck!
i am in a country where bad girls are not that difficult to get.i am tired.what should i do.shall i go with young boys and keep f ** them spoiling their future or i go with gays.
or i keep doing masturbation till i die.
what do you mean gays!!! oh god..you're sicker than i though you were!! hey man..if everyone was like you, Earth was gonna be a big zoo!! being such a religios person i didn't expect this from you!!
help me i am getting scared.if i were not muslm i would have killed myself.
Kill yourself for this? you should thank god that this s your only problem, people have much worse problems and are finding ways to beat them instead of just sitting and complaining!! listen, the girl won't just come to you, you have to get things going for yourself so start from now and you'l see than nothing but good will happen to you!
i'm not trying to be mean or anything am just trying to put some sence into your head! and i do hope that your problems will end soon! :)
yellow sapphire
17-07-02, 08:47 PM
Boy-Interrupted
did u see how i am so tired.Did you believe that my situation does not allow me to even think.
X-press
i know you are trying to help me but at the same time i do not think you do not know any girl who is divorced and ready to marry me but you have your own reason not help me in this,may be u think i am crazy or something.let me tell u i am a good person and i know myself and i am not a crazy but i do not know if my situation be like this longer may be i will be crazy(i do not know the future).may Allah save me and make me not crazy till i die.
by the way,may be u do not know a divorced woman who is searching for a husband.maybe who knows.you know yourself.(not do not misunderstand me please :( ).
amo0or
you are the only one who is with me from the beginning.i really like you too much.i need a person like u to be with me.
X-press
17-07-02, 10:11 PM
[QUOTE]Originally posted by yellow sapphire
i do not think you do not know any girl who is divorced and ready to marry me but you have your own reason not help me
Yellow sapphire, from all the advices we gave you earlier, I think it is sad that you feel that none of us help you or are with you but amoor. We are with you too from the time you posted this 5 page thread and try to find a solution to your numerous problems.
Now I will certainly try my best to help you verbally, but do not expect me to find the woman you are looking for and bring it to you. A woman is not a can of soda on a shelve of a supermarket that can just be bought and brought to you. You and only you should work your way up to "earn" her. If you still don't understand that then I have to start to believe that indeed you are not thinking right...
Anytime bro..and as i told you b4 that i'm your brother and if u want anything i'm here...i like to help ppl.
And i'm with you bro when ever u want me ..i'm here!!
:)
yellow sapphire
18-07-02, 08:50 AM
X-press
okey okey i did not mean it but i do not know why my heart goes to amo0or.
i like you too :).
you and amo0or and the other memebrs,i want you to pray for me and for all boys and girls who have this problem.
nowadays i come to know why people kill themselves.sometimes we see a person smiling but he is burning inside.only Allah knows how he or she feels.
shamsery
18-07-02, 12:27 PM
Seems this is Perversion & delirium .
QUOTE]Originally posted by yellow sapphire
... i am in a country where bad girls are not that difficult to get.i am tired.what should i do.shall i go with young boys and keep f ** them spoiling their future... [/QUOTE]
i am geting confused that these words come from THE FOUNDER of new Madhab :fire:
ya al- habeeb the solutions is on your hand. i will just give you a crue ok.
first try to have very relaxing day then do the following when its get at night open this thread and start reading it from beganing read it care fully and keep thinking of every things members wrote to you from the first day you posted it on till end. then have a rest for about an hour have a hot or cold drink while you are printing out this thread. next day go to a PSYCHIATRIST sit with him/her explain your problem in details and how is it hard for you to hold you self or calm down when those thoughts start to pump your brain and present him the print-out of this thread. tell him that you are not able to get a wife now and the bigest problem is you cant stop thinking of sex.
if he ask you to fallow any instructions keep doing what he says for about a month and see what will be the results.
i hope to read this thread after one month with positive reactions from you, followed with positive results.
best of luck bro.
yellow sapphire
19-07-02, 08:41 PM
Nokia
I said the truth.i am in a country where bad girls are not difficult to get.I am not in Oman.
and what is wrong with sex.Allah did not created us malaekah having no sex feeling.what is wrong if the founder of a new madhab is tired looking for a wife for sex as first reason to have a wife.
did quran say no new madhab will come in future.did quran say madahib are only four.
our prophet had more than 4 wives.having wives is not shame for a religious man.
Nokia
i was told by my sister to see a PSYCHIATRIST but why.since i know the solution.my problem which does not allow me to sleep at night and does not allow me to use my brain is i want a wife.ya nass i want a wife.i want a wife.so what the PSYCHIATRIST will do for me.will he marry me his daughter or his sister.
Snow^Lady
19-07-02, 10:13 PM
Is this thread with the most replies????:eyes:
Originally posted by Snow^Lady
Is this thread with the most replies????:eyes:
maybe cause he's the person with the most problems over here!! :duh: ;)
X-press
20-07-02, 12:57 AM
Originally posted by yellow sapphire
i know the solution.my problem .....is i want a wife.
Please yellow sapphire do not take us in circle. If you had a solution to your problem, you will not be posting here ok.
True that if you feel lonely or sexually frustrated and wants a wife, the solution is to get married. However, we all know that your problem is "HOW TO GET THE WIFE YOU ARE LOOKING FOR"?
How to get a wife for someone who doesn't want to work? How to get a wife who would agree to support you? How to get a wife who is willing to get married for R.O. 25 only? How to get a wife who is so desparate herself that she will accept to get married under such low conditions?
After 6 pages threads I was hoping that you will finally analyse our advices and say:"hum...guys maybe you are right I should get a job while I feel this frustration....guys, I didn't think that it was wrong to get married without having nothing to offer to a girl...or guys, just feeling frustrated doesn't help me right now, at least I will try to find a job, any job for a start...there maybe will be the wife I am looking for."
I think he has only ONE PROBLEM... so no need to make fun of this poor guy.. he doesnt have any problems except this.. so next time plzzz know b4 u throw any word!!
Thanx
LOOOOOOOOOOL man this thread is getting funnier and funneir.
sooory yellow but it seems that its gettting LOL LOL LOL
Nokia Bro well said..The new madh'hab creatre:D
alla yihdeeena wayahdi il muslmeen fi masharreq ilardh wa magharebha. may god guide us to the right path.
Originally posted by amo0or
I think he has only ONE PROBLEM...
i'm not the only one over here who thinks that he has more than one problem, and seems that you're the only one over here who's always defending what he says!! well..nice of you but deep down in your heart what do you really think?!! ;)
First of all i didnt post that msg to you to answer it boy-I..so you got me wrong.. second thing u said that i'm the only one beside him..this is true i guess.. coz non of u guys can feel his feelings, and this is something bad .. coz if some of you guys are in a big problem u need ppl supporting u and say good words to u just to make u co0ol down and to forget about it.. now u dont care about him all what u do is making fun in this thread and chit chat with each other..
He is one of the memebrs so i (myself) should help him to get out of this, even if i cant do anything except being with him, beside him, knowing him well and make him feel that somebody is supporting him, not just throw words like hell.. if u were in his place u would do the same.
i hear you amo0or, but your support is not helping him, as about us chit chatting over hear, read again, we never chit chatted or anything , all we did is advise him and tell him what he should do,but he seems that he doesnt wanna listen!! and anyways, up to you, you can do whatever you wanna do! ;)
yeah..i didnt say that u didnt advise him, u did Boy one or two or three times.. go check the rest...or do u want me to post them here..
3/4 of your posts were teasing him..
anyway gee thanx and i know its up to me.. :)
X-press
21-07-02, 02:58 AM
Originally posted by amo0or
I think he has only ONE PROBLEM... so no need to make fun of this poor guy.. he doesnt have any problems except this.. so next time plzzz know b4 u throw any word!!
Thanx
To who are you talking to here amoOor?
I don't think you are the only one helping yellow sapphire, but I am happy that he seems to see only you here and be gratefull to your support...
As he previously said that he has no friend, maybe it will be a good idea to meet him as you both live in the same country. Talking face to face is not the same than via the net.
yellow sapphire
22-07-02, 08:14 AM
X-press,
I did not say that you are not supporting me,I am happy that you are really with me but did u see how amo0or answered Boy-Interrupted.He knew what Boy-Interrupted was saying 100 %.
At the same time I think all have seen when Boy-Interrupted insults me,I do not answer him and he knows that.When he says anything I answer him but when he insults me I do not answer.you can all go and check.
X-press,
if the woman wants to marry me for my money,I do not want her.
najah,
quran did not say that mathahib should be 4 or 5 or 6 and frnakly speaking I left religion sablah so I do not want to start it again here.
But one thing I want to tell you.I am happy coz you are happy and really I am smiling coz I like your post.May Allah makes us smiling here and hereafter ameen and in the tomb also ameen.
Y-S, I can see that you are running into a circle about your problem just to be famous and noticed by everybody. Now I don't think this will solve it or will do good to u, at the same time I'm 100 % u will not find a wife in the sabla. So it's better to go back to you parents and aske them to help u to find a wife if u are really serious and interested. Thus I call to colse this thread.
X-press
22-07-02, 01:14 PM
Originally posted by yellow sapphire
X-press,
if the woman wants to marry me for my money,I do not want her.
IceTea, I don't think it is necessary to close this thread as not all problem can be solved in one day. We have to continue to try to help yellow sapphire even if it takes more time than for another member.
Now yellow sapphire, you say that you don't want a woman to marry you for your money. If a woman has a choice between two men:1) someone nice, who has a job and at least a minimum income and 2) someone nice, who has no job and no income.....do you truely believe that she will choose no.2? Why would she put herself in an unstable situation from a start, especially if she doesn't even love that man and it is an arrange marriage?
If YOU have a choice between 1 and 2 will one will you go for?
1) a girl who has something to give or 2) a girl who has nothing?
Originally posted by yellow sapphire
He knew what Boy-Interrupted was saying 100 %.
At the same time I think all have seen when Boy-Interrupted insults me,I do not answer him and he knows that.When he says anything I answer him but when he insults me I do not answer.you can all go and check.
maybe it's true that i insulted you a couple of time , but my intentions were noble as i was trying to let you see yourself and how people think of people like you!! i was trying to show you your flaws so that you can fix them!! anyways..it's up to you, and as you see 95% of the members reacted exactly like me!! so what doeas that show you??!!! ;)
NO COMMENTS!
i'm so sorry for you guys..:sorry:
sounds that everyone is saying whats in his mind.. no one cares about others feeling..almost everyone just want to comment..i'm so sorry!!
yellow sapphire
24-07-02, 08:04 AM
amo0or
I do not know why Nokia throw word then he disappears.
amo0or
I do not know what IceTea wants from me.Is he feeling Jealous that I am becoming famouse here also.Does he wants me to leave this sablah also as I left religion sablah.
Is famouse people in this sablah get prize from somewhere.I really can not understand what is going on.
X-press
24-07-02, 10:30 AM
Originally posted by X-press
If a woman has a choice between two men:1) someone nice, who has a job and at least a minimum income and 2) someone nice, who has no job and no income.....do you truely believe that she will choose no.2? Why would she put herself in an unstable situation from a start, especially if she doesn't even love that man and it is an arrange marriage?
If YOU have a choice between 1 and 2 will one will you go for?
1) a girl who has something to give or 2) a girl who has nothing? [/B][/QUOTE]
yellow sapphire, don't go off topic again and concentrate on sloving your main problem. You didn't answer my questions...
Originally posted by yellow sapphire
amo0or
I do not know why Nokia throw word then he disappears.
amo0or
I do not know what IceTea wants from me.Is he feeling Jealous that I am becoming famouse here also.Does he wants me to leave this sablah also as I left religion sablah.
Is famouse people in this sablah get prize from somewhere.I really can not understand what is going on.
Y-S even me I can't understand what's going on !!
Why should I be Jealous, so u admit you main objective is to be famous by runing around a hollow circle and not to solve your problem, right or wrong ?
X-P I don't think u will get an answer from him.
X-press
24-07-02, 12:06 PM
y-s, with all my respect...if you do not concentrate by answering our posts or questions, which purpose is to solve your main problem, I am afraid this thread will be soon subject to closure.
yellow sapphire
24-07-02, 01:54 PM
X-press
i will choose no 1 but if no 1 is not present shold i stay at home without a wife or i marry no 2 who has nothing to give.
i spoke to one boy here with me(i can not say he is my friend coz i am very strict to choose friends)and he told me there are many girls in Oman who want someone to marry them,i told him ok show me the way to them i want to marry at least one(i prefer 2 but let me catch the first one first,otherwise if the first one knows that i am going to have another one she might not accept me from the beginning).The problem i can not lie.
X-press
i have no power to stop you,you are free to close any thread you want coz you are moderator.
u cant even support ur self and u want to marry 2 women
yellow sapphire
25-07-02, 08:02 AM
qais
do not you notice something.whatever i say,it is not haram.i am proud of myself that i say the truth.many man keep telling lies for the girls who want to marry but i will keep telling the truth.I do not lie.Please tell every one about me that i do not lie.so what am i before marriage i will be same after marriage.not like someone who keep saying i have i have i have and after he gets a wife,the wife will discover he has nothing.
i think even amo0or is starting to find you ridiculous !! i don't think any woman will accept you!! i'm sorry! but i can't seem to find any good point in neither your way of thinking or your personality!! you'll be lucky to get one wife, let alone two!
good luck!! i'm finished with this thread!
Originally posted by yellow sapphire
amo0or I do not know why Nokia throw word then he disappears.
well i thought i will read this thread againg and find some improvement on you but :lost:
Dear bro from starting of this thread i asked you few questions and till today you never answer them. I sked you again but you were still runing away from question. I stoped teling you anything but at the same time keep observing you and how you reply to all members. till that day i though of helping you again and gave you some hints to overcome your problem. But the problem with you is you never listen to any one any thing. You juts keep jumping up and down i cant sleep people! . So please read the abouve again and follow what i told you thats if you really want to overcome this problem but if you are enjoying this and just look for people attantion then don't listen to any one ok! :fire:
But one thing you should know is THE SOLUTION OF YOUR PROBLEM IS ON YOUR HANDS.
yellow sapphire
25-07-02, 08:15 PM
Boy-Interrupted
every woman knows that her husband is having the right to marry another woman.so stop acting smart and if u r trying to make misunderstanding between me and amo0or(i am saying if and i know u do not mean it),you are wrong.you do not know how the relationship between him and me.
hello people and please mr Nokia,did i say anything wrong above.am i not right about every woman knows that her husband has the right to marry another woman.
from this thread i have discovered many things on you people.are you okey there or no.oh my God.oh my God.
I think i should start writing my book and i am sure my book will be read by most of you coz it will be called al7aq almubeen.i will stop some people who r acting that they know islam and they know nothing.or the name of the book will be 3indama yofikker aljahil(aljahil here is me).i think this name will me more attractive.my book will be about logic not about people who...(i better stop here otherwise i will enter religion sablah ):wink:
Y-S...My dear.. make sure that no one here can make me hate u or get mad at u.. coz i dont hate ppl a9lan..and i'm here to help...and u have the right to listen or no..and at the end we are friends bro..and i dont think that Boy-I meant something wrong..he is one of my friends also in sabla..so just (la takhith fe kha6rak). :)
el7ilwa
26-07-02, 07:19 PM
Bro Mr yellow I think ur problem is not a physical problem . It is some thing in ur mind lead u 2 think of a wife & nothing else. Pls 1st don't conect ur family prob with ur problem. 2ed try to think of ur future what r u doing out side Oman not studing? so u can find easly a job & in ur situation u want any jop so it is easy if u try. A bout needing a wife maybe because u didn't fell in love & I mean the ( TRUE LOVE) ur ideas about the women only in 1 case ........
but if u tryied 2 love a girl she will give u the power & the hope 2 do whatever u want even going 2 the moon:p . Also both of u can help each other 2 make ur own house & family. It is just changing the way of thinking about the marriag is not only .... & money, it is a life 2geather u shar it with some1 u love not some1 who buy u with his money & I'm sure when u 'll find a job u ''l find the good girl who 'll give u the hope & make u forget every thing at night just loving her .just take it easy it is not a big prob as u think:)
yellow sapphire
27-07-02, 08:14 AM
el7ilwa
you make me happy from the morning and i pray that Allah will make you happy here and hereafter.
first of all i am happy to see a new person trying to be with me like most of the others.
you and me and Allah is reading what we are writing(I know He knows that we are going to write this before He created us but there no need to enter hindi film about alqatha wa alqadar).Tell me my dear,if i am not going to buy her with money(as i know)then
-why she refuses 25 riyals as mahar.
-why they are talking about mahar although mahar is not a must to make it islamic marriage(I hope I did not say anything wrong in this point).
-in islam it is not haram if the wife supports herself till the husband find a job(but some people want to follow 3adat wa taqaleed motakhalifah warathoha from their fathers and mothers and they do not know that this 3adat wataqaleed will encourge people to go for zina).
-the girl or the woman(with all my respect) knows that her husband is having the right to marry 2 wives but when i say i want two wives some people attack me,why,did I say anything which is not from islam,hello people i have got ayah from quran not from what my father and mother told me that tom,**** and harry said.
why i am insisting that every omani should have two wives,hello people I am doing this for your own benifits,if every omani has two wives that means every woman in Oman will be having a husband,whatever her age is,she will be having a husband,whatever her case is,virgin,divorced,widow,she will be having a husband,then you will not see girls and woman roaming in group in this ccc or alharthy complex or going for food in pizza hut,but you will see a girl with her husband.
<font color=red><b>Hello people I am having solution for you and i should get a prize for my idea</b></font>
the people who think i am mutashaddid as they describe me in reiligion sablah after my thread(when i say one year for women in haj and one year for men),i am telling you i am not mutashaddid at all and the proof yesterday i drank a white rum but by mistake(i know i should not go to such places and proudly i say i am the founder of a new madhab).use your brain to think about my ideas and discuss using quran and logic but really i do not know why this happens only with me.
inna lilah wa inna ilhi raji3on
I'm happy for u Y-S coz u are happy from the morning.. and if el7ilwa will make u happy .. i'll let her post daily here :p
and yesterday..how come u drunk by mistake??? tell me!
Now how come u wanna marry a women and she knows that u are drinking??? tell me which girl with agree??? so if u really wanna marry a women (bemuwa9afatak) then stop this bullshi*.
It's just an advice from brother to another and u have the right bro not to listen to my words.
el7ilwa
27-07-02, 12:44 PM
Bro actually u u r going through different topic which is (ta3adod al zawjat) which is not the main prob:confused: . & when ppl say (motawa3 or motashadid ) it doesn't mean to try 2 be the oposit (mon7arif) & sorry 4 that word. Just try 2 spesify what is ur main prob, & try not to get into another probs:duh: .
yellow sapphire
27-07-02, 01:48 PM
amo0or
if i am good there is no girl to accept me and if i am bad there is no girl to accept me.frankly speaking i noticed if u r bad girls will follow you and if u r good girls will be away from you so i said i would mentioned what happened yesterday so maybe almo7taramat will accept to marry me.
amo0or
aboout what happened yesterday since you asked,i will tell you the story,there was a party in 5 star hotel and i was called for the party and price of the ticket was nothing coparing to the drinks and food,every thing was unlimited the drinks and the food.
usally when i go to these places i go to eat food and to drink.when i say drink i mean not liquor,do not missunderstand me.so i asked for pina colada and i told him without alchohol.this person told the one who made it and he told him with alchohol.the man who makes it,he knows me when i go there i just have this drink without alchohol.so he gave me this drink with whit rum.when i teasted i noticed the difference in the taste,then i taste it again,then i asked the man who made it,he told me it is with alchohol.i told him make one without alchohol,this man told me that he knew that i do not drink but he said maybe i am starting to drink and he told me he was told by that man who told him to make it.i called that man and i told him what is this he told me it is with white rum.he did not hear me well so they made that for me.then i took 2 pina colada without alchohol but before that i went to wash my mouth.
amo0or
that is my story and after the party i took a boy to his house where he is staying with his mother all alone.when i reached to his house he told me to park my bike(we r using bikes here).do you know what he wants from me.he wanted me to f,u,c,k him.
yes amo0or,yes that what happened yesterday,he was gay but i did not park my bike,just i left him.i came home i got up late for my fajar pray.after i prayed i red quran.that is my story amo0or.
amo0or
one girl came to talk to me and coz the music was too much she put her ear close from my mouth to hear me and by mistake again my mouth touched her ear.believe me it is all happened by mistake.girls was wearining nothing in the party.they were dancing and drinking like animals,i was told to dance but i did not coz i am a good guy :wink: ,as u know me amo0or.today i am invited for a party in one of those people who were there in the party and believe me i do not want to go.i do not know till now what will happen will i go or no.the people who were with me they were most of them very big people.i am not saying this cos i want to be famous as something thinks in sablah(no need to mention his nick name but starting with ice),coz these things r not good so how i become famouse for such things.
el7ilwa
you red my post so please just tell me is there anything haram in my words.ta3addot zawjat or what,just tell me have i said anything haram,do not u think i am just using logic and quran and do not you think my solution needs a big prize.if there is anything tell me so we can discuss everything together between you and me and Allah is reading what we are writing.
Oh i see.. its ok..
but u didnt have to mention that boy story..coz its not necessery a9lan..and thank god jaat 3ala kitha..u take care of yourself and god bless u!
yellow sapphire
27-07-02, 02:01 PM
amo0or
you are here man,i was editing my post,so read it again.i am so happy that you are here,what to do man,i want some one to understand how i am tired.
Remember that we all understand u here and we want your ma9la7a..
el7ilwa
27-07-02, 02:38 PM
About ur words I didn't said that 2 marry more than 1 women is 7aram but this subject is not related 2 urs:confused: .
But if u like 2 talk about it u should open a new threed cauz the paper in this thread finished:cool:
yellow sapphire
28-07-02, 08:13 AM
el7ilwa
please u open a new thread coz if i open a new thread some people will think i want to be famouse.you do not know them but i know them coz they said it before and i did not like it.
amo0or
my thinking about having a wife is less than before,these days i am not like before keep only thinking and thinking and thinking,i still think but not like before.i know here you and the others want my benifts but tell me one thing if u do not mind,i feel that you know me.
MODS this thread should be locked coz its taking alot of space and the guy with the problem is becoming worse everyday and he never listens to us but argues and comes up with more problems every day.
IF u listen yellow Sa we will all be happy to help u but u dont.
iam telling u this thread is a waste of time and space
LoL.. well i dont think that i know u, but i do know u here in sabal...and may i ask u a Q? why did u ask me?:)
ba3dain how come i know u ??? u are not in oman and i'm in oman and we only met here in sabla, its just maybe coz i'm trying to support u and advise u thats it.
yellow sapphire
28-07-02, 07:31 PM
qais and others who are thinking about space and this thread has to be closed.please stop repeating this sentance if u want to close it close it ufffffffffffffff.
Originally posted by yellow sapphire
...aboout what happened yesterday ......then i took 2 pina colada without alchohol but before that i went to wash my mouth.
......
wooow ya3eenii WHY DID YOU GO THERE AT FIRST PLACE?
isnt it HARAM to be where they serve alcohol and all people around you drinkig?
Originally posted by yellow sapphire
..believe me it is all happened by mistake.girls was wearining nothing in the party.they were dancing and drinking like animals,i was told to dance but i did not coz i am a good guy :wink:
Good guy :confused:
Originally posted by yellow sapphire
i am just using logic and quran and do not you think my solution needs a big prize.
Please dont bring Qur'an here casue if you really follow the Qur'an you will never be at those places you will overcome your problem long time. Are you awear of ayat which said
"waman yataqeiy Allaha yaj'3al lahu ma7'rajaa"
And please if you have many things to say about your self out of this perosnal problem sabla please open thread called
"This is me yellow sapphire! "
yellow sapphire
29-07-02, 03:18 PM
Nokia
i think i have said why i went there so please stop acting smart.i said to eat food and to drink.since i am away from home it is not easy to find beautiful food and it is so expensive so that party was cheap,that is my aim only.i really enjoy the food and the drinks(without liquor).you are happy there having beautiful food coz u r at home,why do not u think of me.also i want to have beautiful food.
when i saw them dancing like animals,i remember Allah and i thank him for islam.i became proud that i am muslim after i saw those people dancing like animals.
yes my dear i am using quran and logic,i do not use what Khamees and Rashid are saying coz maybe they are wrong.
i hope i made myself clear.
Nokia
do u know something,i respect u.
one thing about ayah"min yataqi Allaha yej3al laho makhraja wa yerzoqho min 7itho la ya7tasib" i remembered this aiyah and i know this aiyah but do not forget "alakhth bil asbab".
if a person who is having 100 riyal as salary and he is alone how will he collect 5000 riyla to have a wife.how many years he needs to do that and do not forget he has to eat from his salary.
Allah will not bring rain without clouds,i do not know if u got me or no.
Bimzoori
29-07-02, 06:50 PM
Allah Akbar...founder of a new mathhab and attending dancing/drinking parties... :fire: :fire:
yellow sa...IF ur that poor then why dont u move ur ***** and work.
yellow sapphire
30-07-02, 08:15 AM
Originally posted by Bimzoori
Allah Akbar...founder of a new mathhab and attending dancing/drinking parties... :fire: :fire:
what if i do not attend these places,will i be able to make a new mathhab or no.
please tell me what r the rules to make a new mathhab.any help from u would be appreciated.
Originally posted by yellow sapphire
please tell me what r the rules to make a new mathhab.any help from u would be appreciated.
that will be getting out of toppic, maybe you should open a thread in religion sabla regarding this matter!
For the first time,
I agree with Qais.
yellow sapphire
01-08-02, 08:52 AM
Originally posted by qais
yellow sa...IF ur that poor then why dont u move ur ***** and work.
what,only poor people work.what about the rich people,do not work or what.
i did not say i am poor but i said i want a wife who accepts 25 riyals as mahar,coz she is not going to marry me for my money but she will marry me coz she wants me.
hello if there a girl who wants money,it is easy,she can(with my respect) sale herself.believe me she will be very very rich.
they r rich people who pay 5000 as mahar,they marry a girl and then they divorce her after one month,then she will be in whole her life alone and sorry(i do not know for how long the 5000 will be with her).
yellow sapphire
01-08-02, 08:53 AM
Originally posted by man
For the first time,
I agree with Qais.
agree with him in what
I think u went to the party to find a girl and not to find a beautiful food as u said, maybe u mean beautiful girl :).
yellow sapphire
01-08-02, 09:16 AM
IceTea
no believe me i went for the beautiful food,i did not lie :(
yesterday an actress made a cup of tea for me and she used to make eggs but i told her no more eggs.
yesterday also a female doctor saw me and she was with her kids and she gave me an invitation and i told her i will come for a cup of tea but i do not think i will go.she is having 3 female kids(their age may be 2,4,5),my god they r so so so so so so beautiful,i used to teach them (not the youngest one)how to swim for maybe 2 or 3 times.yesterday also i went somewhere and i was told there would be a breackfast in 5 star hotel and a lady mentioned my name to be with them.the price will be very less coz they arrange it for us.believe me i just go for food coz i am missing my home food,u do not know how i love food.i want my wife to know how to cook beautiful food.i want her to know how to make basboosah.
Y-S u are eating a lot are u fat man :)
BTW why don't u marry one of the girls which they invited u to eat with them.
I like basboosah too, and my wife doing it very well.
yellow sapphire
01-08-02, 10:19 AM
say ma sha Allah,yes i eat too much but i am a thin person.
i am looking for omani wife.those who invited me all having husbands so do not think anything bad about me,when i am invited i will not be alone with her my dear.do not misunderstand me wrong.
u love basboosah like me,what about baqlawah and konafah but i do not like Khabeesah :(,i love salad with yougert,i like mango mokhallal.by the way,do u know how to cook.
Fantasia
01-08-02, 11:04 AM
YS - sorry to hear about ur problem in finding a wife. by the way, how old are u (if u don't mind my asking)? i wish i could help you find someone, but it seems that you will just be a problem to the woman. a problem cannot be solve by creating another problem.
try to finish your studies and i am sure you will find a lot of nice girls from school. but again, you want an omani lady..... i wish i can help you.
good luck in your hunting.....
yellow sapphire
01-08-02, 01:06 PM
Fantasia
my heart stopped for a second,am I dreaming here,am I going to find a wife at the end,I am so happy but before telling you my age which might i send a private message for u,will she accept me with 25 riyal.
by the way about my study I have secondary school(thanawiyah).
thanks alot Fantasia from my heart.
Hi brother again
well you know what there is no problem with the girls or women and by this way you will keep dreaming and dreaming and you will never find a wife in the way you want and even if you do find one then most probably there will be somthing wrong with that girl or women.
Now why dont you acept the fact that you have to study hard and graduate then work and get nice job so that you can soport the your wife and future kids.
One thing brother you should know is WOMEN OR GIRLS DO NOT SELL THEM SELVES, you maight find lots of girls want to marry you BUT every one has future to think of. So stop that kind of thiking.
I wish if i can chat with you via msn and try my super best to help you.
yellow sapphire
01-08-02, 09:37 PM
Nokia
thanks
Fantasia
02-08-02, 12:36 AM
:color: lolzzzzzzzzzz, Y.S. ---- i will have to figure out first the exchange rate of your 25 Riyal to US dollars.....:wink:
hang in there.... you are not dreaming.... you are just in lo-lo land, :wink: you will eventually find someone MEANT for you. just be patient and wait until that time comes. i am sure you have a nice heart, so just pray and i am sure your prayers will be answered.
yellow sapphire
02-08-02, 07:58 AM
Fantasia
thanks,u r making me happy from the morning.that is really sweet of u.
one of the best do3a to have a wife is that one which is said by Mosa pease be upon him,here in quran"rabbi inni lima anzalta illia min khirin faqeer",the following words"fajaatho i7dahoma tamshi 3ala isti7iaen".
hey wassup?
how u dopin?
i dont think it wud be easy for u to find a divorced lady to be ur wife... coz she was divorced and first of all it wud be hard for her to accept u easily as her husband... it wud be a difficult decision for her ...
secondly ... dont u think u shud get a job before u think of getting married...coz as BOY INTERRUPTED said ... u wudnt get a woman who wud like to spend her earnings on her husband or family!!!!
anywayzz before u do anything ... think bout the matter and get a job !!!!!
yellow sapphire
04-08-02, 09:56 AM
Originally posted by misSy
u wudnt get a woman who wud like to spend her earnings on her husband or family!!!!
anywayzz before u do anything ... think bout the matter and get a job !!!!!
I will look for a job soon,insha Allah i will be back in 2 weeks in Oman and I will find a job insha Allah but is that words which u said above is agree by all ladies or it is only your point of view.
by the way does that mean ladies are selfish,they want to take and they do not want to give.
what about alsiydah Khadeejah.
hey wassup?
listen ... i dint mean tht women r selfish wen i said tht the lady wudnt like to spend on her husband ....the reason is becuz tht she wudnt like to help u if u dont try to help urself..
secondly the wife is suposed to depend on her husband and not vice versa...
marriage is a big thing and dont think tht its gonna be a solution to ur problems... infact it can be even worse..
if u want a wife just to satisfy ur sexual needs... then i think tht its not possible at all ..
newayzz... all i got to say is tht ur a saaaaad brother... good luck man!!!
PS..ur story is so fake ... the next time u make up a story u shud make it sound realistic...
if u made up the story to get attention or sympathy then u havent got tht from most of the ppl around here includiong me... i think u cud do better mate!!!! u can approach me anytime if u need a story ... i have the right spices!!!! loo l
well misSy.. its a very strong words.. i dont think that Y-S will except it. anyway who said that u created a story..he might be right..u dont have to judge like this without any profe, never judge a book by its cover.
yellow sapphire
06-08-02, 10:10 AM
Originally posted by misSy
hey wassup?
if u want a wife just to satisfy ur sexual needs... then i think tht its not possible at all ..
what a new joke,I have said before I want a wife for sex and I do not want a wife to play football with her.
Then I have said okey but my main reason of having a wife is sex and I insist,yes my first reason of having a wife is for sex.not to play football with her.
why sex coz we have to protect ourselves from going to zina.you people what you know.
As u said about yourself,u know how to make stories.
hey I think I need you,I am looking for a person who makes stories,I am not joking just now I remember.But I can not tell u here I should send u private message.
do u know something about story board,how to write them,do u have certificates,please answer me
thanks
amo0or
do not start please
Ok..Y-S...
So u asked for this?? i wont talk again and i wont say anything..if this is your wish!
yellow sapphire
06-08-02, 04:35 PM
amo0or
khalaas aboi leach alza3al ma7d yerom yeqool shi'.aboi tikallam.
come on man okey I will invite u for a cup of tea but do not tell Ice Tea coz he will ask to invite him also,in this case I will pay 200 bisah instead of 100 bisah.
no no .. its ok Y-S..
i'll invite u and IceTea for a meal..and i will pay..i dont care about the money coz money goes and come, but the reason of it is to meet friends and have fun..:)
yellow sapphire
06-08-02, 04:46 PM
wooooooow since food is there I will come insha Allah but I do not like houses so we will go to a restaurant,even shawarma with hummos and falafil and after that baqlawah or konafah or basboosah will be enough.And I do not speak while having food coz I do not like dirty things come out from a mouth to my food or to my face(stop saying it is sunnah to speak while having food please).
By the way I want u to invite abu suliman also and we will make nice group.
inshalla i will..
by the way ..why dont u send me a list of your best food , just to make the order from now.. coz as i can see from the last post ..u already orderd the meal, la weba3ad 7alait bil kunafah...lol..
anyway u deserve it Y-S,,, itha ma 3azamt akhoo a3zim min?
yellow sapphire
06-08-02, 04:57 PM
amo0or
I know some one will speak about this chit chat between u and me,I do not know why they do not leave us alone,some says that this is not a chit chat and some says this is off topic.okey ya akhi we r free to chat here,this is our sablah or what u say dear amo0or,ofcouse sweet has to be there after food or I do not mind having cream caramala.we will ask some ladies member to make for us and then we take it parcel after that we return the plates :)
if you want to say something off topic you can always use the P.M (msg)ing option!! so please, don't go off topic or you'll get other members confused!!!
ur reply wasnt anything related to wat i said... seems tht u dint understand ... if u need to play football u can go to the naadi .. and if u need sex.. then u can go search for a pros!
btw.. bout my stories ... i dont do anything for free... and now tht u don have a job then i dont think u cud afford my prices!and anywayzz... i dont do bizness with desperate guys:P
yellow sapphire
06-08-02, 08:28 PM
:(
aww YS where is your sense of fun, how come you don't want to play football with your wife?
you know I hear fresh air is really good for the mind........:p
guys!!! are u teasing yellow saphire??? he is telling us about himself and his problem,,so u guys dont have to treat him like this..u should understand him and give him solutions for his prob..outwise u dont have to post and tease each other..
its true that y-s didnt accept any kind of our solutions, but even though we have to help him and try to finish this as soon as possible, even if we didnt find him a wife or what he wants..we should at least find him something good for him..basicaly suit him.
hey amoor. .. y u getting serious man .. !!
no harm intended!
im not teasing y.s. ... just keeping him entertained ...to keep his thoughts away for a while ... u know a little bit of jokes and stuff
btw ... i think runnin around is rite... y.s needs fresh air!
Originally posted by amo0or
no no .. its ok Y-S..
i'll invite u and IceTea for a meal..and i will pay..i dont care about the money coz money goes and come, but the reason of it is to meet friends and have fun..:)
Ok thanx guys for inviting me and I will join, lets all meet and discuss about Y-S problem. Maybe we need to invite MisSy as well to get girls opinion also :)
yellow sapphire
07-08-02, 12:01 PM
IceTea
if you invite her,she has to come with her brother and she has to cover her face so that we do not see her.
I do not want her to come showing me her long beautiful hair killing me by her beauty.
amo0or
thanks man
3aaaaaaaad..awinah..le haldaraja..7asha 3ad ma tafkeer..by the way no ladies will join us, coz it will be men talks only.:p
Originally posted by yellow sapphire
IceTea
if you invite her,she has to come with her brother and she has to cover her face so that we do not see her.
I do not want her to come showing me her long beautiful hair killing me by her beauty.
amo0or
thanks man
LOL :D Y-S you sound like sexualy hungry.
Don't worry I can be like her brother and she will be sitting behind u ok :p
yellow sapphire
07-08-02, 01:39 PM
hello you two I do not want any problem with misSy,please.She can join since she will bring some sweet like baqlawah or she makes basboosah at home and she bring it for us.I do not know how to cook but I know how to eat :)
IceTea
if you invite her,she has to come with her brother and she has to cover her face so that we do not see her.
I do not want her to come showing me her long beautiful hair killing me by her beauty.
if only u knew my age .... u cud take bak ur words
;)
yellow sapphire
08-08-02, 08:48 AM
I have said in another place,I do not mind if she is 40 or less.
yellow sapphire
21-08-02, 12:11 PM
something is happenning with me and it happens suddenly,a girl from Sri Lanka wants to marry me.
I told her I can not marry her coz it is not allowed.At the same time she is not beautiful :(
my life is going like this only without a wife.
the problem I do not like to tell lie and cheat.otherwise I got a wife easily.
But if the situation is going like this,maybe I am going to cheat the girl whom I am going to marry and her family.
believe me I have a good way.
hey there....ys u seem to have a massive problem!!
i dont understand u...! u say u want a wife cus ur lonely...n now a wife comes along willingly n i bet she'd want less than 25 riyals..thats like 250 dhs rite...?
so heres ur solutionn...u want to satisfy ur sexual needs, n u say that shes not beautiful...beauty is not everythin..u even asked for someone who is 40 yrs old so come on..ur askin 4 tooooo much.....marry her...end of discussion!
u should be happy she wants u...u wouldnt get an offer better than that!
if u dont like the idea then thats ur problem...get a job like everyone else n be realistic...u cant have it all.
Originally posted by Cherry
if u dont like the idea then thats ur problem...get a job like everyone else n be realistic...u cant have it all.
Never EVER settle for less... YOU CAN HAVE IT ALL:
MONEY
POWER
RESPECT...
... and of course... DOUGHNUTS!!!
shamsery
21-08-02, 06:12 PM
Two hundred forty three replies are there. I think this is the hottest thread on Sabla. But what is its goal?
u CANT have it all..!
u'll understand wat i mean someday..!
u can have the doughnuts:P or any other food
Originally posted by Cherry
u CANT have it all..!
u'll understand wat i mean someday..!
u can have the doughnuts:P or any other food
I may be a guy... but I'm in touch with my sensitive side too, i understand what you mean, and like Oprah said:
"You CAN have it all. You just can't have it all at once."
- Oprah Winfrey
yellow sapphire
22-08-02, 11:51 AM
Cherry
I told you she is from Sri Lanka and we are not allowed to marry from outside of gulf countries.
so how I marry her,I want one from Oman.yes I said I do not mind if she is 40 year old or less,I do not mind,what is the problem if she is 40 years old.
what do u want to say,no one will think of her.no u r wrong,yes I am thinking of her.I really think of those ladies but those ladies do not know that I am their saviour.
I am thinking of them,if she is divorced I want her,if she is 40 years old I want her,what else.
the other people who r talking about doughnuts,I did not understand anything.By the way what is doughnuts.
el7ilwa
22-08-02, 12:48 PM
Yellow sapphire do u still crying at night till now??!!!!!!!
U should drink milk before u going 2 bed so u can sleep in peace & u 'll not think 2 cry :D .
Talius Brute
22-08-02, 12:49 PM
just pull yourself together and stop being a baby
omania74
22-08-02, 03:49 PM
Salaam to all sabla's memebers..
I have been away from here for such alone time...and alhmedulliah here I am ..back again to the to website I admire:) ..
Lots of improvements are made since the last i was here ...
u people are doing a great job...Keep it up:) :)
Well, this thread is the strangest thread i have been reading at English sabla...
I think most of the memebers did their best to help yellow sapphire ...and came out with reaonable soulations...I don't think I can add anything more...
Anyways..just wanna say that....
All the best yellow sapphire...
Whatever happens,happens for a reason!....:color: :color:
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