Brother&Sisters&Parents.

[amo0or]

I really wanna ask u guys something!!
why do allmost brothers and sisters fighting with each other??
what do you think the reason for this problem, why the brothers dont get along with each other?? do you think the reason is from their parents or its a normal thing??
i really wanna know the solution for this problem!! :confused:

[Seniora]

it depends how deep the fighting goes, i guess, if its really serios, it might be to the way they were brought up, or one sibling is more dominant and so the other one gets jealous,

i think the reasons for this is different for every situation.

but i think if anyone could put a stop to the fighting , then its the parents.

they can clearly state that they are not ready to accept such behaviour, and be a little bit harsh to the kids, then it stops, ( it worked with me and my bros!)

[ReVeLuTiOnAl^]

amo0or...

Are you talking about brothers and sisters when they are little kids cause this is normal...
Or do you mean even when they are youth..?,,,
Let's hear from you first...

[Arabian Princess]

Welcome Amoor to our sabla,
Well, I guess as Seniora said, it is something some how normal .. many brothers and sisters fight because they live with each other all the time .. it is like why Husband and wives fight .. sometimes the fight are not about something serious .. but it is just to fight :)

BUt, if the fights were so so serious and creat unpleasent relationship between the two there might be a reason. Sometiems it is the parents, sometimes it is the behaviour of one of them (like a behivor that the other dont like) and sometimes it is just jelousy esepicially if somone has someting the other dont have.

if you are facing this problem personally, tell us more about the nature of the fights and we would try to help u.

[amo0or]

ReVeLuTiOnAl^: i'm talking about brothers in general, coz u can see a man 25 years old and he has a small brother around 15 years old..and they fights with each other.. so i'm not talking about an exact age!!

Arabian Princess: well .. u can say that there is a small fights with my bro's with no reasons,, but i'm not talking about myself,, i'm talking in general..

[NaBHaN]

i can totaly relate to this...as i always find myself in fights with my brothers and sisters..but they're always small fights, and we always find ourselves laughing about them!!

[Bimzoori]

This reminds me of myself and my brother..when we were young, we used to fight 24/7, something like Tom&Jerry :D:D j/k

I think its very normal to disagree with your siblings on some issues which might create arguments... no matter how much you argue, in the end, they remain your siblings..;)

[amo0or]

Guys.. why did you stop posting here??? i really wanna know the reason of this problem.. so plzzz continue posting(if u don't mind ya3nee).

[lulu]

Amo0or....I guess this is all about LOVE!......if you love someone and you care about them sometimes you disgree with them because you want the best for them..if i talk about this issue i won't stop but i will say that it differes from age to age for example if a 25 years old fights with his younger 15 years old brother as you mentioned....it's clear here because the elder brother might not like the bad things from the younger brother so he tries to talk to him and as for the younger brother he won't see it in that way because he has got his own ideas and a different way of thinking so here comes the fights....this is just one example and there are more....so it's all about care and love each other.

[4-ever-young]

i agree with lulu on the issue of love but i also think that RESPECT is very important too we all knw that we have to respect our elders but the elders have to respect the young ones too..it doesnt mean that i am the eldest then i can talk to my young bro/sis anyway i want..especailly when both siblings are adults...lack of respect can lead to rows.

so RESPECT your elders and the younger ones..

[amo0or]

No other solutions guys??? i wanna answer my friends.. i wanna tell them the seasons .. by the way i'm copying all the solutions that already posted.. waiting for the rest:confused:

[SoMe1]

Fighting with your brothers and sister is a normal thing, I have 2 brothers above the age of 27 and 2 younger sisters between 16-20.

Now my brothers are not much around us so we don’t fight a lot. But sometimes we disagree on thing which makes us argue with each other “might swear at each other” but no hitting included.

I have arguments with my sister who is only one year younger than me all the time. You see our personalities are totally different from each other, even our taste is not always the same. But we respect each other, when it comes to fights we just get all angry but not to hit each other either.

Even twins argue and fight, you can’t have a brother or sister who thinks exactly like you. Thus fights and arguments would always be there, despite the age issue.

You might have more respect for your elder brother/sister and not argue or just try to avoid the fight with them, doesn’t mean you agree with them.

[IceTea]

This is beacuse they live togeather for more than 20 years.