Is it Necessary to be in love affair before marriage...or...What do u Think.....:shy:

your Opinion Guys....:rolleyes:

For me yes....or at least in love. Not sure about having an affair (sexual) but in love yes.

totally besotted, head over heels in love. no love, marriage is non existant, sex is mechanical, even the food is stale.

Is it Necessary to be in love affair before marriage...or...What do u Think.....:shy:

your Opinion Guys....:rolleyes:


Islamic point of View its a NO GO!!!

Its Unfortunately That we live in a world of Computer and technologiah things are going in different way from our expectation Very SAD!!!:yes:

I want to get married I don't love and love him after marriage. Crazy but true.

i 'm not understanding something.
does islam forbid two people loving each other, or is there some confusion in the first post. equating love with having sex?
cos people can love and wait until they get married if they want to.

I think it has to do with the word "affair" since affair is connected to sex...usually. I cannot see how being in love is haram for Muslims before marriage.

I think it has to do with the word "affair" since affair is connected to sex...usually. I cannot see how being in love is haram for Muslims before marriage.
oh ok so it's like 'can we get jiggy before marriage' basically. :hyper:

Sex prior to marriage is a big no! (Islamically that is) As in a relationship, it's possible and very common nowadays.

Islamic point of View its a NO GO!!!

Its Unfortunately That we live in a world of Computer and technologiah things are going in different way from our expectation Very SAD!!!:yes:





am agree with your point of view....:cute:

Islamic Enjoys The Originalilty.. No Sex before marriage
Unlike others who do have affairs, having ilegimate child then later they decide to get married.. then question how you legitimatize the illegal child into Legal!!

Actually Christianity has the same thing and Catholics are very strict about sex before marriage but just like others of different religions not everyone listens. Correct me if I am wrong but I do believe there are Muslims out there who have affairs and "illegal" children. Don't point fingers when you have four more pointing back.

and no one is perfect most of the people around having love+affair=everything included...lol

Cool! Love relationship it is then.

True Roman Cathoric and Islam are all following the original principle Rules that NO Sex before marriage....

Naturally their are people who breaks the rule and mostly are those born from one or other religion but they dont practice neither follow it up apart from being born from that religion these are people on the run and eventually One day they will Go back to where they belong and repent!!!

Zulfa, what do you mean by love affair? Do you mean to ask whether we want to love the person we marry before marriage or whether we would like to have sex with them before marriage? It's unclear! :rolleyes:

Zulfa change the topic title pls.. u r confusing us...

sex b4 marriage : NOt necessary lol
Love B4 marriage: Yes necessary

If you mean love before marriage yeah i can't marry someone i don't love or at least know that I'm going to love him.

I should atleast who he is and know him well enough to marry him..

Islamic Enjoys The Originalilty.. No Sex before marriage
Unlike others who do have affairs, having ilegimate child then later they decide to get married.. then question how you legitimatize the illegal child into Legal!!
i have two kids only, does not mean i had sex twice only in my life. so all the people i know. sex does not mean getting pregnant. silly and naive to think so.

Love is not necessery, it good to have (without the sex part ofcourse) buit a marraige could work without love at the start if there is understanding.

sex does not mean getting pregnant.

Then how can u get pregnant without sex?:think:

One can get preggers with sex and one can use birth control so as not to bring children into the world if parents are not ready for them...or doesn't want them.

Then how can u get pregnant without sex?:think:
the stork brings it round for you.

the stork brings it round for you.


Oh, interesting. Male or female stork?

Oh, interesting. Male or female stork?
depends on the baby they carry in the sling.

I guess she means having a 'Qi99at 7ob' - 'Love Story' before marriage.

I'm against it, if the person is not a husband, then he is not worthy of having emotions shared with him.

Lol .. Why the 'Qi99at 7ob' thing BEFORE the marriage, can't you two have it AFTER getting married ? :p

Oh well, I think u need some action in your life, so ya .. Love before getting married, isn't really boring.

But what if u loved a guy and u married someone else ? .. Sad, eh ?

Think .. Think wisely before lovin' someone ? is he/she going to be the one ?
Getting involved in a relationship for just passing time, or knowing if its gonna work or no is no fun.. sometimes it ends with a BIG disappointment.

totally besotted, head over heels in love. no love, marriage is non existant, sex is mechanical, even the food is stale.
I'm with her^

I would rather have a love story and anyways just because you've a love story does not mean you're doing anything wrong. Loving somebody is only natural, acting on it may be wrong in some instances.

Personally, if I was involved in some sort of a love story, it would make it easier for me to commit to marriage. Otherwise, it's going to be pretty hard even though I know it can work if there is respect, understanding and chemistry.

i dont want to marry someone guessing that i might love him..or get engaged guessing it might work or we might love each other
i wanna love the guy before marrying him but without doing anything about it such as sex or anything lol ,,

no but i should at least like him.. love can come after marrige..

but in the melka phase i should be able to like him more.. maybe even love.. coz we'll be talking a lot n going out even