OKKKKK here's another thing..

This is mostly for the guys...but girls , please DO share your thoughts..

Let's say you have a best friend.. a CLOSE friend.. a friend who's your shadow and soul (a guy of course).. he knows about your love and emotional history.. and at the end, you fell for his sister.. like you SERIOUSLY want to marry his sister.. would you tell him? or skip the situation (skip asking him and skip about his sister)

Let's say you have a best friend.. a CLOSE friend.. a friend who's your shadow and soul (a guy of course).. he knows about your love and emotional history.. and at the end, you fell for his sister.. like you SERIOUSLY want to marry his sister.. would you tell him? or skip the situation (skip asking him and skip about his sister)
That's normal. If you seriously want to marry a friend's sister, you would openly talk to him first and let him know. Nothing is wrong in it. In fact, I know a lot of people who married their friends' sisters, and actually asked their friends to help hooking them up with their sisters for a MARRIAGE.

So yes, if I was interested in marrying a friend's sister, I would tell him first before going to his parents to ask for her hand.

I guess its normal & actually I will feel comfortable telling him. I know a guy from my college, his two sisters got married to his friends/mates from college.

It would be normal, actually easier.

would even be better

I agree.. It would be even better.
:)
goOdluck

even better for the guy cos they won't remain friends anymore, but become brothers. if i were this guy in this situation, i'd make sure i'd show my best side to my friend, whose sister i like, so he'd help me out when i go to meet the parents.

i think as long as you're serious about his sister, and he knows it, it'll be a lot easier having your friend by your side when you propose.

If I want to marry a girl who is a sister of my friend, I will let him know.. but then this excludes any pre-marriege relationships; RESPECT.

But if am just interested in getting to know her, then forget about it; my friend's sisters r my sister.. so I cannot do that to them!

Just make sure he knows you are serious and it is MARRIAGE, nothing else. Also, if he knows your past which might include something he doesn't want his future brother in law to have done, you can always tell him that you were young and you have changed and basically turned a new leaf.

One of my best friends Married her brothers Best friend ;)
Speak the truth and be respectful about it and I don't see why the friend would have a problem with it. Especially if the guy himself is a good man, The brother would already know a lot about em and can put in a good word for em ;p

It's normal .. It's what a true man .. a true friend should do ..

wut's wrong with marrying ur best friend's sister? he'll be so happy if he was truely you friend :)

I think it would be even better to him than having his sister marry a stranger, especially if the two guys are this close.
in saying that ive seen it happen where the brother oposes because he knows everything his friend has been upto and hence might not want his sister marrying him .. not always the case though ..

Just make sure he knows you are serious and it is MARRIAGE, nothing else. Also, if he knows your past which might include something he doesn't want his future brother in law to have done, you can always tell him that you were young and you have changed and basically turned a new leaf.

Exactly :yes:

Well the thing is, he knows about your love history.. he knows about what you think of "girls" in general.. so he would probably be suspicious about his sister being a VICTIM..

you dig me?

if ur intention was true you'll tell him straight forward that u want to go to their house and ask him and his father for the girl's hand

I dig you..

But im taking a wild guess here and correct moi if i'm wrong..
None of those previous "love history incidents" were something that was serious right?

So This friend would know whether or not you're being real here..
And ur not saying i'm trynna date ur sis..
Ur saying I wanna Marry her which is a huge difference..

And having a history is so over rated bsara7a..
I'm pretty sure this guy has a history himself.. So the dude should say something like
"We've all been there man.. Live and learn right? " lool

J'adore..
even if they were serious, they weren't successful because there was no goal! They were fantasies *i love the word* lol!!!!

The rest above.. thanks for the positive responses!!! :D
We're in 2008! We pass through DRAMA and still, life moves, and life goes on!
Anywhos,
ENJOOOOY ;)

peace V!

Normally if I mention to a friend about his sister, he goes "HAHAHA...HAHAHAHAHAHA...erm...shall I get some more coffee?"

Well the thing is, he knows about your love history.. he knows about what you think of "girls" in general.. so he would probably be suspicious about his sister being a VICTIM..

you dig me?
but then again, if 'you' tell your friend that your sister is not a girl you want to just mess around with, but you are serious about her, he'd be extra vigilant. if he thinks you are man enough for his sister, then he'll be cool about it (not to mention he'd also be super vigilant.....you hurt her he hurts you double lol )

marry his sister.. if he thinks u suit her he'll agre.. if not.. then go on.. new page n start all over again..
coz people change.. n every1 has a past! so try ur shot..

I'd know that his sister is as nice as he is & that's really great.
I would honestly tell him that I'm falling for his sister and I do like her, because she's absolutely like him and I like who he is. =)

To be honest, I'd feel even more comfortable telling him .. He's my best friend, after all.