View Full Version : What do you think of people falling in love on the net?
Wardat_il'7leej 29-10-00, 11:01 AM Give me your ideas and thougths on this subject...
Do you belive that there could be such a thing as love on the net?
Can you find that 'other half' that 'soul mate' through a computer?
I want to know if it just infatuation and a comforting idea to have someone you feel connected to through the net. If that feeling can develop into some thing real and more than words appearing on a blank screen. A monitor that does no allow you to see the smile, the laughter, the saddness or even the look in his/her eyes !!
Looking forward to reading you messages...
Byeee
HATE_QOOM_LOOT 29-10-00, 12:28 PM ( may be many dislike my openion but this is me and my thinking )
But what do u mean because there are many Issues :
1- chat room : I think this is selly Idea ( because the people who chat are really say alot of lie and they chat at the same time with several people and tell them that they love them,,, how he could love sevaral in one time ,, especially while he/she didn't even saw the other person)
2- marrage through the net :
A- In euorope and America : there are some only few honest people who put there pictures and addresses want really to get clean marrage ( this may be because the muslims want to marry some muslims ) ,,,, but many of them just want to spend some time with the other sex.
B- in countries like oman or Islamic nations : honstly this is really bad Idea because this culture is much strong then this kind of things snd there are many apportunities to select from rather than going and trying to find someone in the internet,,,,, and the people who do it they just want to pass time ( bel3omani play with other sex ).
3- Some people more cleaver and they hunt in another way ,,, they has a web page and put there photo in their web page after putting some makeup ,to attract her or him ,,, and these kind of people promise many people to get married with them,, especially the boy these days as they say ( wa7da felqalb we meyah ta7t el 3ein ).
When I see pictures at web sites especially with makeup I know that this guy is stupid. :)
Thug4Life 29-10-00, 05:24 PM ok this topic was posted here before 2 times
but no problemo
my short summary of my answer was:
Love can happen any were any way any time..in the air..under the ground..whatever..once it comes...it comes
But this is true if this love is hounist and un conditional
pure and soft Trust in its right place between the 2 right people is the key word plus Luck plays a role here
with the meeting ofcourse (date)
HATE_QOOM_LOOT 29-10-00, 06:01 PM Thug4Life
Are you planing to find someone. ;) ( kidding )
question Do you believe in the love through the chat ????
Thug4Life 30-10-00, 01:53 AM through the net..by chat..Yup i do believe in that..But again..this should be based on truth (difficult) and trust (more difficult)...and last and not least..a date (hell difficult)...never the less..not imposible..:D
P.S. Love is such a word that inspire alote of people and now people developed new meanings for love all fall in the same basic meaning of it. like e love..chat love..net love...sky love..cable love...etc
Love is Love and again once it comes it comes
HATE_QOOM_LOOT 30-10-00, 08:18 AM Thug4Life
The way you say about the love ,it seems that you have experienced it,or you had split and searching for new modern one through the net. ;)
Ok can I ask you aquestion plz plz : Do you believe in marrage through the internet(any type)?
Wardat_il'7leej 30-10-00, 10:53 AM You have the strangest questions! how would you have marriage onthe net....the way i understood it is the idea of publishing your wedding on the net...or the pictures??
Is that it? Hmmmmm.... marriage onthe net ba3ad any type.....explain?!
HATE_QOOM_LOOT 30-10-00, 06:32 PM wardat_il'7aleej
It was marriage through the net not marriage on the net !!!!! :)
It means you meet the opposite sex through the chat( cyber chat ) ,or by seeing the picture in advertisement for marriage ,or knowing them by their web sites and sooo. ;)
So wardoooh do u believe in such relations. ;) :D
Thug4Life 30-10-00, 08:48 PM what do u think about marriage through the magazines like kul el usra or what ever?...raasain bil 7alal?
it happens...right? well this is simmiler..(i.e. through the net)....
In every generation new stuff rise up..when they invented Tv i am sure that alote said that this is a devil.and no one should own it!...(in a way it is if it is used in a wrong way)...now the internet came....what do u think about it? ...lets use it in Good way ..even for marrages bil 7alaaal
Wardat_il'7leej 03-11-00, 02:46 AM lol...
I must say that things like this do happen and could happen bas it has never happened to me. I would not even know how?!
Bas for you smile and wink...i think i am starting to see how.....lol........ ;)
I have a friend who met her current husband on the net. So it is possible if ofcourse the people are honest and make sure they know each other well. A good thing about meeting on the net is that when you chat for a while you really get to know how someone thinks. People are more confident to speak their mind. No worries about how you look or what silly thing you say. When you e-mail you have time to think about what you want to say before u write it.
HATE_QOOM_LOOT 03-11-00, 06:12 AM Thug4Life :)
I agree with you that we have to use the internet in a right way ,because of that I said that many people lie on the opposite sex and pass their time,, example : I know someone has several girfriends through the chat room,,,, and I know someone ihn UK search for marriage addvertisments and call the girls and meet them ,,then leave them after sometimes,,, and I know girls has many male friends in the chat room.... However I know not all of them are the same,,, but our duty to advise our sisters and brothers in oman from this danger.
Wardat_il'7aleej ;)
The way I smile and wenk ,, I am trying to show that I am not angry and this is just a disscution and openions,,, and the smiles make the disscution more relax and modern as people these days say. :D
Warda :D
You have one friend who got married through the net,,, ;)
I know dozens of people met through the net and didn't got married,,, As Thug4Life said that the internet should be used in a right way ,, so let me tell you that the honest people in this world are rare,, believe me rare.
To all of you ,, have you guys tried to read my post about the 12 years old girls in the chat room,, if you didn't then read it and tell me what do u think. :(
Wardat_il'7leej 03-11-00, 09:42 PM Hey HQL,
I was only teasing you and nothing more , you did not have to defend yourself or clearify anything. I have a great respect to all of my Brothers and sisters on the forum. I understand that we express what we want to potray through the little smilze.... :)
As for findinf ture love on the net, well that is still something new to be and i do not even come to consider if it could happen.
Warda could you tell me more about the couple who have met on the net and then got married......
As in how long did they chat ?
Have the chatted all the time, then come to get married as soon as they met, or did they call each other and kept in touch through the phone?
How was the parents recation to the idea that they had met on the net?
If you feel uncomfortable in answering my questions please tell me...thankx
Dear Wardat Al-Khaleej,
I'm sorry but I'd rather not comment, except to say that she is happy and that she had a big wedding.
Nimr Mal Zibala 04-11-00, 01:57 AM hehehe funny ..........
Wardat_il'7leej 04-11-00, 01:59 AM What is so funny fishfood21? Would you care to explain?
fishfood just has his own thoughts about things....
I agree with Thug4Life. Love can happen anywhere.As silly as it may seem ,Love happens it doesnt follow any laws of the mind..its about being blind and a fool at the same time..and accepting the whole package as it comes..
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