Men: would it bother you if your wife was a member in a forum? would it make you jealous that she communicates with men?


Women: would it bother you if your husband was a member in a forum? would it bother you that he communicates with other women?

Not one bit

No it doesn't bother me at all.. He used to be a member in English Sabla few years ago..

so dosnt bother me, its only a fourm n there's trust, so y the big deal about a fourm!

n id like it if we were both in the same fourm, it would be fun!

I know a few couples who use the same forums.. it's fun. They tease each other on it, and we tease both of them even more. :hyper:

It wouldn't bother me at all.

What WOULD bother me is him taking my pc. :D

Am not married. So I don't really know how would I feel.

personally i wouldn't like the idea of him being in the forum to monitor wut i do and wut i say XD
but if he's here to discuss his point of view just like i do then it's okey we'll be talking and discussing stuff about the forum ..which is boring XD

what if he's a member in another forum?

My husband is a member in another forum.. Why would I ever be bothered? :os

I mingle and communicate with men here. He does the same. So what?

^lol i wasnt asking only you. i was asking everyone..some people get jealous.

I personally don't have a problem with it if he talks formally. If he flirts, then that's another story.

^ I didn't say you were asking me. It was simply MY answer!

It's not because you're married that you can't talk to someone anymore.. even from the opposite gender .. at least that's the way i see it .. :)

if he was in another forum i'll join in ;p if it bothers him i'll join without him knowing and just keep an eye on him loooooolz

I wouldn't mind it at all

The online Forum is better than the off-line one "m3a9raat"...women daily gatherings, gossip factory!

What WOULD bother me is him taking my pc. :D

loooool exactly my thought!! my husband claims the reason he is not so intrested in forums is that I am always hogging the laptop! :p

I dont mind at all, it would be hypocrtical for me to say I mind while I post here!

I would mind it big time. I don't want him reading my posts and I don't want him interacting with "forum girls".

I think getting screwed offline is rather enough for me, no thank you

I would love for him to be a member :cute:

my husband is a member in lots of forums that he's interested in, i'm a member in forums i'm interested in. don't see what the big deal is.
like thalia said, i know the couples she's referring to, and it's really fun to see them teasing each other online. especially when it's a mock-war men vs. women. :D

I don't think I'd mind. However it would get annoying if he'd read everything I wrote and then comes and teases me about it lol.

I don't mind nor see it as an issue whether he talks normally to anyone or not. I'd like him to join actually.
He's no kid for me to let him or not. and vice versa is also true. it all has to come from him.

So what ?
She has her own personal life..
As long I know she's faithful to me, I wouldn't mind.

She started talking to guys in MSN, shared secrets with another one or fell in love with someone else, I'd come back and date her best friend and break-up with her. :cute:

Though, I know what makes my spouse burst from anger. ;)

No at all, it would be fun I suppose.
I’ll make sure I put something to the wish list thread before an occasion so I don’t get crappy gifts.

sometimes i feel dat my wife will be from ES!!! lol, it will depend on the way she would participate though. If like Endure_Whisper, i would be proud of her and would know how much she cares bout me n all those lil things!

Hell no...too annoying lol

why would i mind? it would be so much fun! :p

sometimes i feel dat my wife will be from ES!!! lol, it will depend on the way she would participate though. If like Endure_Whisper, i would be proud of her and would know how much she cares bout me n all those lil things!
we want to see a list of contenders :hyper:

With no hesitations I wouldn't mind it at all
I got nothin to hide baby so it would be straight if he's the same way ;p hehe

Dont know i am not married, thought about it didnt know what i would feel about it.

it may bother me it may not.

I'm not really attracted to guys who spend a lot of time online when it has nothing to do with working. I just figured that I like guys who spend time with their friends, family, and on others meaningful things. I can't imagine myself being with someone who'd spend most of his day online posting in a forum or chatting on MSN, it's just sad...And I found that about myself just recently lol.

Wouldn't be more fun if no one knew you were husband and wife? :D

^ You're talking to me? lol..if you are, then not really. I think you can find that kind of fun in other ways than the internet. I mean, so what if no one knew you were a couple? or so what if someone knew you were? It's only people you haven't met and might never meet. The only thing that I might find fun is that when you see how people think of you as seperate people and whether they think you suit each other or not, and yet, I wouldn't like it if the guy was into such things online. I don't know, I don't find guys spending time on internet for fun that attractive anymore. Even at my university, when I see guys who spend a lot of time chatting or whatever, I don't think of them the same way for some reason. There's this guy with me at uni, he's so smart and I really respected him for that, he's older than me too. I saw him once in class posting in a forum with (Al-Za3eem) as a nickname and he's soo active. I swear I kept making fun of him and I feel like I don't think of him the same way I did. *I hope he's not here hahaha*

Nope.
I think here where you can see if the "trust" is strong or weak.

By letting them see what they do when you are not around and if they will tell you somethings.

I wouldn't mind it as long as she doesn't bring 'forum' incidents to our personal life and let it effect us on a personal level.

I wouldn't mind at all. He is free to do as he pleases.