Girls lets say this guy admitted that he has feelings for you and he really is genuine, however this guy is not your type and your not attracted to him yet?

Would you give him the chance? Why Or
Would you refuse him straight away? Why

Personally I try my best not to judge him with his looks even if he is not my type as long as his truly and honestly genuine I’ll give him the chance.

Guys if you want to comment go for it.

I made a promise to myself long ago. IF the guy is genuine and has a good intention and it is known to my family (just to ensure he is noble), I will consider him and more likely so if I think there is a chance I will like him. Looks is important but it is not determinative, so if I fall for his personality, I will end up thinking that he is attractive to me.

There is no reason why you should not consider him even if on the surface he doesn't seem like your type. You never know if your "prince charming" looks like a frog (you get the idea :p) or like Tyson Beckford! So I would consider them, however, it seems that some men are just considered for a minute because there is nothing to do about their shortcomings. Nevertheless, they're considered.

feelings as in ? love or marriage?

and how do you know guy has genuine feelings for u?
and how do you know that the guy is going to stay with u and not get bored of you even if he had so called genuine feelings for u?

Get married not hooked! that's the only guarantee (not really anymore these days)

I think we are talking about marriage purposes. At least I answered it that way.

And you could know whether the man is a player or not. Whether his parents know about his interest for you or not? His reputation among his family and friends? Whether he ever spoke badly about girls he liked or said comments to degrade them? Whether he is ready to speak to your brother to seek permission to get to know you? His personality?

These can all indicate whether a guy is there just to have fun or he is genuinely interested in you. Plus, even if the guy is genuinely interested in you, and you start getting to know one another, there is nothing wrong if you get bored of each other eventually. In that instance, it just did not work out.

Nowadays, it's hard to know how's playing you from who's really loving you. :)

No if he is not my type then i will not give him any hope or lie to him..i know myself if he is not my type then its gonna remain the same.

i think ill give him a shot becouse he's serious n since he loves me i think he'll take care of me n will make me love him with time, n as i know him better, coz i personally dont fall for looks or first impressions,i beleive in taking a deeper look, n only with time n knowing him will i fall in love with him..

if the initial "liking" is there .. I would consider him .. otherwise I better not give the guy false hope. The initial liking are not the looks, its the way he carries himself and he attitude.

feelings as in ? love or marriage?

and how do you know guy has genuine feelings for u?
and how do you know that the guy is going to stay with u and not get bored of you even if he had so called genuine feelings for u?

Get married not hooked! that's the only guarantee (not really anymore these days)

I'm talking about marriage not just hooking up

well, if he was a respectful man, with genuine feelings and intentions, then i'll give myself some time to see how things will go between us, but i'll make it clear to him beforehand, that i'm still getting to know him and he shouldn't get his hopes up. misleading is bad.

Nowadays, it's hard to know how's playing you from who's really loving you. :)

Indeed...... I agree with U.

No. I don't give chances if I don't like the guy.. I don't want to go through that..
I don't like unbalanced relationships, were one has more feelings for the other, than the other.. (er read it again).. It's hard and I'm the type that gets bored easily ..

I will consider him and more likely so if I think there is a chance I will like him. Looks is important but it is not determinative, so if I fall for his personality, I will end up thinking that he is attractive to me.


me too. There's no harm in giving him a chance.

i am falling in love...

I would give him a chance and see how things work..

i been in the opposite position before like i thought someone was good lookin i thought omg i would soo want to date him and than when i get to know him i s0o0o0o dont think hes my type or someone i can see myself with long term

S0o0o in that case yes i would give it a chance BUT not dating only close friends

It happened to me, this guy admitted that he has feeling for me and he wanted to propose but he wasnt the one to me,i didnt like him before, but i thought of giving a chance, and now this guy is my Fiance:D, cant even think i can live my life without him.