View Full Version : Raising Your Voice at your Parents?


zulfa1981
12-05-08, 02:08 PM
Would you like to raise ur voice or shout on your parents with no reason ? :mmhmm:

Elvenblade
12-05-08, 02:11 PM
never did that in my life
and the only time that i hit my brother was because he shouted on my mother

PrinceofArabia
12-05-08, 02:13 PM
With a reason I won't may be we debate and why should I if there is no reason!:no:

nosa
12-05-08, 02:25 PM
i wouldnt like it, i dont think any1 woul ( like ) to shout at their parents.. but sometimes when an arugment gets heated up without u feeling it coz my mom was shouting at me, well that happened once only with me n i still hate myself 4 that!

sameerb1
12-05-08, 03:11 PM
Nop...but as everyone does...during an argument but not shouting...

actually in Nizwa a father killed his son just because he use to shout at the parents

zulfa1981
12-05-08, 03:14 PM
Nop...but as everyone does...during an argument but not shouting...

actually in Nizwa a father killed his son just because he use to shout at the parents

oh..OMG i cant believe this:os

FLORENTYNA
12-05-08, 03:19 PM
Would you like to raise ur voice or shout on your parents with no reason ? :mmhmm:

what a question Zulfa sometimes u suprises me with ur questions!!!

i will argue/disagree with them but not shouting or raise voice..and those who do that are stupid *SLAP*

Thalia
12-05-08, 03:37 PM
lol @ for no reason..

why would anyone shout for no reason? And who validates this reason?

Until about the age of 18, I used to argue with my mother and yes, we have both shouted. I would rarely argue with my dad or shout, because he scared me.

If you asked me then.. how I felt towards either, I'd tell you I disliked my dad and loved my mum to bits.

Now that I can say wtf I want to my dad, we have gotten closer.

As a mum, I don't see an argument as any form of disrespect. And in arguments, people are likely to get annoyed, angry and impatient.

I see lying, hiding things and selfishness as a greater disrespect.

EvilFire
12-05-08, 03:40 PM
Would you like to raise ur voice or shout on your parents with no reason ? :mmhmm:

This is where the beauty of our Islamic teaching come...
it always says " Mothers are the key to heaven",and islam always asked us to respect parents what ever happen and always lower our voices.

I never rised my voice on my parents,I always stand with respect even when I was getting beaten " I was a naughty child"

Angel_Eyes
12-05-08, 03:56 PM
yeah i argue...who doesn't?:rolleyes:...but i don't shout:os...damn!..

Endure Whisper
12-05-08, 04:45 PM
Thank God I've never done that and never needed to ... But I do know some people who raise their voice and although I am not a parent, it kills me inside.

Nella
13-05-08, 04:25 AM
i don't even argue with my parents, let alone shout. it's more like discussing things politely..and if i was ever angry at them, it would be in the form of complaining. i've given up on having a proper discussion with my father since if i don't succumb to his ideas and opinions, then i'm the stupid ignorant and in some cases brainwashed daughter. but i've complained, discussed almost everything with my mother. i adore her.

Pygmalion
13-05-08, 05:00 AM
Would you like to raise ur voice or shout on your parents with no reason ? :mmhmm:

I would rather have my tongue cut off.

Lym
13-05-08, 12:34 PM
My mother would cut me in pieces and feed me to her gold fish if I ever dared shouting at her. There are arguments, but we need to make sure NEVER to raise our voices. It is the ultimate sign of disrespect and non of my parents will take that from me.

5alfanooh
13-05-08, 12:41 PM
I never argue. They order I obey. thats perfection

Treate your parents as you want ur children to treate you

zulfa1981
13-05-08, 12:42 PM
same here if i raise my voice on her my mother will gonna cut of my tounge

Dante
13-05-08, 12:56 PM
Never dared & I don't see myself doing so.
I love 'em more than everything in my life .. They order, I obey.
Simple as that.

spirit
13-05-08, 12:59 PM
ROFLMAO (http://sports.yahoo.com/nba/blog/ball_dont_lie/post/LeBron-James-scolds-mom-during-Cavs-Celtics-game?urn=nba,82089)

I love the thread starter :hyper:

Libellula
27-05-08, 05:02 AM
Yeah, I have, but it's not for no reason and it doesn't happen that often.

If they start shouting at me because of something I've done wrong (supposedly), I instinctively raise my voice too, because I want to be heard, otherwise they'll just end up drowning out my explanation.

I hate it when I'm not given the chance to explain myself.

H_Q
27-05-08, 07:23 AM
never ever do that to my parent... just follow their orders
and totally same as 5alfanooh said

Cute_Ting
27-05-08, 08:01 AM
i talk back, cuz parents dont understand what life is for kids these days it aint like before


so0o0o call it what u wanna call it :cute:

Calla Lilly
27-05-08, 08:15 AM
:no::no:

no way and i shout at my younger sisters for arguing with mum. Parents are to be respected

Cute_Ting
27-05-08, 08:24 AM
raising ur voice does not mean u dont Resepct them

Orgullo
27-05-08, 09:27 AM
^^
yes it does, y should u raise ur voice at someone u respect?

once i saw a man calling his dad by his name
and shouting at him..
what do u think that dad is thinking that moment infront of everyone???

i think he would love that the earth crack and fall in it
because its so shamefull to have a son like his son..

J'adore
27-05-08, 09:48 AM
Theres plenty of psychiatrists around if you feel the need to shout at your parents for no reason.. wtf type a sh!t is that? Lol


If i'm mad or angry.. Natrually my voice gets louder..
I have alot of self control but in moments where your mad its normal to get louder than usual.. My parents are pretty chill though.. They don't have it where I'm not able to speak my mind about things.. If I disagree on anything, I just go I disagree because of this and that.. and Then they'll do the same thing for me but telling me their point of view..

98% of the time We get eachother completely..

But I love being able to discuss things with them because I learn more that way ;)

[AB]
27-05-08, 10:01 AM
I wouldn't raise my voice to anyone without a reason! So how can I raise it to my parents ?!!

such a silly question ..