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Endure Whisper
06-05-08, 10:32 AM
I am running out of some lovey-dovey ideas that I usually do for my husband.. and thought maybe this thread could do me some good when I get your inputs..

The attachment is something I've done once when he came back from work for a nap and I wasn't going to be home.. I drew a heart with rose petals :flower:

Can you share some lovey-dovey ideas? I want something practical and fast :)

Riv
06-05-08, 10:40 AM
that's cute what you did!

Yeah ppl, give some lovey-dovey ideas!! my pen and paper r ready to take notes!

Angel_Eyes
06-05-08, 10:46 AM
oh that is so sweet what you did :) really a nice idea, endure whisper.

I have a few great ideas but i kinda wanna use that:shy: i don't wanna give out all my secrets but ..hmm..lemme see if i can think of something....


Are you good at writing poems?

Endure Whisper
06-05-08, 10:53 AM
^ LOL Angel Eyes, it's not like we're gonna marry the same husband and I'd use your ideas before you :color:

Anyway, no I don't like writting poems.. and as I said: fast and practical.. :D

Angel_Eyes
06-05-08, 10:57 AM
^LOL@ U! haha..:XD:

hm..okay then this is harder than i thought.:XD:

*thinks* fast and practical..hmmm..oh oh...yes....i got it...

take your red lipstick (if you have...or just use any color) and write 'I Love You' on the bathroom mirror! :p

:love:

or instead of where it says 'love', draw a heart:p

Endure Whisper
06-05-08, 11:01 AM
^ Ahh I've seen that alot. My dad did it for my mum so many times haha :p

But then, when you start washing the lipstick off the mirror it's not fast :p

Oh well, that's an idea. Thanks :)

Looking forward to more :)

Angel_Eyes
06-05-08, 11:08 AM
hmm..how about lit candles in a heart shape?:p

spirit
06-05-08, 11:11 AM
I don't get it

You want an idea where you leave your hubby a message?

Angel_Eyes
06-05-08, 11:12 AM
and to show him how much she loves him...
is that a foriegn language to ya mister spirit?:rolleyes:

Endure Whisper
06-05-08, 11:16 AM
I don't get it

You want an idea where you leave your hubby a message?

Not necessarily a message that he needs to understand. Just sweet cute things to do.. Ever heard of lovey-dovey stuff? They trigger your emotions :cute:

Thalia
06-05-08, 12:17 PM
write a message on the milk carton.. or stick a message on the fridge with a fridge magnet..

Write a note, leave it in his pockets, shoes etc.. You can do this all before.. and weeks from now, he'll find the message in for example a trouser pocket..

Put a small box of his favourite chocs under the blanket where he sleeps or in 'his draw'..

There's other saucier things you could do.. but I won't suggest any for you. You know your husband better than anyone of us.. what he's like.. what he likes and what he does.. I mean.. I have this mental imagine of a man at a meeting, opening his briefcase infront of a room of people and a pair of pink frilly nickers hangs from the upper inner edge.

That would be.. embarassing to say the least. :hyper:

You have to keep the element of surprise.

Angel_Eyes
06-05-08, 12:19 PM
Some great ideas Thalia.......:love:

NaBHaN
06-05-08, 12:44 PM
Notes, roses..bah! All I need is for her to lay naked on the bed, Or the kitchen table.

Thalia
06-05-08, 12:50 PM
Notes, roses..bah! All I need is for her to lay naked on the bed, Or the kitchen table.
Woooooh!

Nabhan? Is that you?

:hyper:


seriously.. I think little stuff like this, like notes and little surprise gifts.. keeps things interesting...

Riv
06-05-08, 12:52 PM
^someone's havin kitchen fantasies!

make something for him which u never made and which he knows u cant make but u make the best one. ofcourse m taklin bout food.

Endure Whisper
06-05-08, 01:26 PM
write a message on the milk carton.. or stick a message on the fridge with a fridge magnet..

Write a note, leave it in his pockets, shoes etc.. You can do this all before.. and weeks from now, he'll find the message in for example a trouser pocket..

Put a small box of his favourite chocs under the blanket where he sleeps or in 'his draw'..

There's other saucier things you could do.. but I won't suggest any for you. You know your husband better than anyone of us.. what he's like.. what he likes and what he does.. I mean.. I have this mental imagine of a man at a meeting, opening his briefcase infront of a room of people and a pair of pink frilly nickers hangs from the upper inner edge.

That would be.. embarassing to say the least. :hyper:

You have to keep the element of surprise.

Ooo I like :love:

Thanks :)

UmKhalid
06-05-08, 01:28 PM
You could make a video for him using something like Movie Maker. Put pictures of him, or both of you together and put a song you both like in the background.

Riv
06-05-08, 01:33 PM
make him feel ur presence even if ur not there. like he should smell u n all, spray ur room with ur perfume before leaving it?

Riv
06-05-08, 01:34 PM
get a cup, at inner bottom write i love u -(ur name, so he knows u hav done it), when he finishes the tea/coffee he would c it and aaaahhhhh

Angel_Eyes
06-05-08, 01:34 PM
leave him some ironed comfortable house clothes for him on the bed.

Riv
06-05-08, 01:35 PM
when he first opens his eyes in the morning, he shud c ur smiling face, just like movies.

Riv
06-05-08, 01:36 PM
embroid ur heart his name on his PJs

EvilFire
06-05-08, 01:41 PM
I am running out of some lovey-dovey ideas that I usually do for my husband.. and thought maybe this thread could do me some good when I get your inputs..

The attachment is something I've done once when he came back from work for a nap and I wasn't going to be home.. I drew a heart with rose petals :flower:

Can you share some lovey-dovey ideas? I want something practical and fast :)

I cant tell you what I would do for a girl but its bit hard for me as a man.
But you can try:

+When he is sitting in the house "wear some thing very nice and sit next to him and cuddle him"

+When he is back from work "make sure your not smelling food and look smart and you are not all swetting and soap on your hand and smile.

+See what he loves ,, for example if he loves cars then "buy him a key chain of the car he loves"

If he loves books " then try to get him a book not available and gift him ... because usually a man dont expect that.

**Call him randomly and invite him out for lunch.

**Let him feel you are happy..

Hmmm these are some stuff mybe I would love...

I dont think me having 100 papre cuts in my pocket would really help me :D

Angel_Eyes
06-05-08, 01:46 PM
those are REALLY NICE IDEAS evilfire:o
mashallah..

*takes down notes*

Endure Whisper
06-05-08, 02:17 PM
make him feel ur presence even if ur not there. like he should smell u n all, spray ur room with ur perfume before leaving it?

get a cup, at inner bottom write i love u -(ur name, so he knows u hav done it), when he finishes the tea/coffee he would c it and aaaahhhhh

Cute.. Thanks Riv!

I cant tell you what I would do for a girl but its bit hard for me as a man.
But you can try:

+When he is sitting in the house "wear some thing very nice and sit next to him and cuddle him"

+When he is back from work "make sure your not smelling food and look smart and you are not all swetting and soap on your hand and smile.

+See what he loves ,, for example if he loves cars then "buy him a key chain of the car he loves"

If he loves books " then try to get him a book not available and gift him ... because usually a man dont expect that.

**Call him randomly and invite him out for lunch.

**Let him feel you are happy..

Hmmm these are some stuff mybe I would love...

I dont think me having 100 papre cuts in my pocket would really help me :D

Wonderful.. I do all except for inviting him for a meal. He never accepts that :hyper:

EvilFire
06-05-08, 02:19 PM
You can invite him and allow him to pay .. I think he wont mind that ;)

Endure Whisper
06-05-08, 03:00 PM
^ Wondering, what ideas would you do for a girl EvilFire? ;)

BrAiKi
06-05-08, 03:13 PM
It's always good to learn :p

EvilFire
06-05-08, 03:16 PM
Hmm let me say some thing simple...

+Get a box .. fill it with dry flowers then put a candel in the middle and small tedy bears.
+Chose an orange rose which represents (Admiration) and another red Rose (Love+Passion) and make sure they they are not cut short and cut long ( coz it means more)

+Then wrape them with two single ribbons (not so fancy).
+I will give her the roses and tell her who is she to me.

Charm
06-05-08, 03:28 PM
^ Dr. Love is in the house ;)

Ok, I can think of nice table set, a meal he loves which you prepared on your own (men love that) and you looking nice hair is done nicely in away that matches what you are wearing try to look better than you'd normally do when you go out just for him so he can feel special:p

I hope this help, am not as good as Dr. Love but I hope this adds something although its nothing new..

Good luck and awwwwwwww :love:

nosa
06-05-08, 03:39 PM
now this is an ( awwwwww ) thread !
n THANKS every1 for the ideas! hehehehe >> i love romance that's all :cute:

i love surprize from the back hugs! anything unexpected is soo extra sweeet!
buy matching mugs, or matching Pjs, but not somthing cheesy, well nothing between a couple is so cheesy anyway :p

i love the (notes) idea, but thalia alreeady mentioned it

i dont know.. my mind is not so active now to imagin wt i could do n tell u! hehe will be bk later..

EvilFire
06-05-08, 03:41 PM
^ Dr. Love is in the house ;)

Ok, I can think of nice table set, a meal he loves which you prepared on your own (men love that) and you looking nice hair is done nicely in away that matches what you are wearing try to look better than you'd normally do when you go out just for him so he can feel special:p

I hope this help, am not as good as Dr. Love but I hope this adds something although its nothing new..

Good luck and awwwwwwww :love:

*me* "Bow" and buy her a nice dark color mug with a simple design and serv her "hot chocolate" and *smile*

nosa
06-05-08, 04:14 PM
putting on his fav. perfume :cute:

hijabi
06-05-08, 04:41 PM
Thalia already mentioned all my usual lil treats... the lil notes hidden in his pockets, windscreen of his car or even pop one in his briefcase...

Other special moments (I'll just focus on the "innocent" ones for now)
You could just call him to say I love you. Dont say anything else, just call him when he'll least expect it, say I love you and Im thinking of you or I just needed to hear your voice cos I miss you so much and hang up.

Foot spa/rubs - most men love them and its something romantic and tender without being overtly sexual.

Take a bubble bath together - set the scene, candles, scented bubbles and you! He'll love it - trust me......

mmmm cant think of any others that fall in the innocent category - when youre ready to get romantic and a lil naughty let me know

there are a couple of other ideas but theyre borderline cheezy - depends on how long youve been married and how cheezy you two are together.

Men need to feel loved, special and they need to know that they make us happy. Men are much easier to please than women - just show him that you love him and that he is the centre of you universe and he'll love you to eternity.

Thalia
06-05-08, 05:04 PM
Men are easier to please then women?

:hyper:

If anyone wants a "challenge" for a husband, they can have mine. :D

Lym
06-05-08, 05:31 PM
I am a sucker for surprises and things that are totally unexpected. So here are my ideas:

- Prepare a surprise outing. Blind fold him and drive him to a place only for him to see that you prepared a romantic picnic somewhere gorgeous. Most likely to be suitable during winter, since it is hot to do that now. (oh and you will have to convince him to let you do the actual driving..you know how men get about that :p)

- I love surprises, so I loved it when my dad planned for my mom and him to stay at a hotel without her knowledge. She thought they were just going there for lunch and she actually said "oh, how I wish I was going to spend the night here!". My dad then told her that they should tour the rooms to get ideas for when they start building their new house. So when she entered the suite, she saw a suit case with all her necessary clothes packed and a bunch of flowers on the stand. She was surprised to tears :p. So that is another idea!

- Get a huge box beautifully decorated with a ribbon on the top and place it in your bedroom. There should be an envelope on the top, saying that this gift is for him from you. When he opens it up, you jump out of it, perhaps with a costume on (since guys seems to be into that :rolleyes:) lol. Or you should have a cake in your hand, and when he opens it up, smack it on his face :hyper:

- I love puzzles and riddles. You can create one specifically for him and for a certain purpose like to find a gift you prepared for him around the house or in order to find you. The first envelope should hint to the 2nd, then to the 3rd, then to the 4th until he finds it. That should be fun and obviously, the gift has to be worth it ;)

Diabian
06-05-08, 05:57 PM
Whipped cream ;)

BrAiKi
06-05-08, 06:03 PM
lol @ Diabian. I'd add 3 strawberries :XD:

Lym
06-05-08, 06:09 PM
Guys, quit being naughty! I have already deleted many posts which are not innocent. This thread is about "innocence". Please Lets keep it that way :bored:

Endure Whisper
06-05-08, 06:09 PM
Lym and hijabi, loving your ideas.. thaaaaaanks! I'll definately do the box thing.. me inside the box.. FUNNY.. but without the cake :p

As for the whipped cream and strawberries.. they're better off in my stomach than anywhere else!

Diabian
06-05-08, 06:27 PM
Guys, quit being naughty! I have already deleted many posts which are not innocent. This thread is about "innocence". Please Lets keep it that way :bored:

Well, that depends on your definition of Naughty :angel:
We're just trying to help :yes:

And agree with braiki.. Strawberries.. add to that Godiva chocolates ;)
Don't worry EW, most of them will end-up in one of the two stomachs ;)

Lym
06-05-08, 06:37 PM
Well, that depends on your definition of Naughty :angel:
We're just trying to help :yes:


Thank you. You help was appreciated, however it is no longer needed :rolleyes:.

minerva
06-05-08, 06:44 PM
challenge him to a game of strip poker.

Thalia
06-05-08, 07:18 PM
I am a sucker for surprises and things that are totally unexpected. So here are my ideas:

- Prepare a surprise outing. Blind fold him and drive him to a place only for him to see that you prepared a romantic picnic somewhere gorgeous. Most likely to be suitable during winter, since it is hot to do that now. (oh and you will have to convince him to let you do the actual driving..you know how men get about that :p)

- I love surprises, so I loved it when my dad planned for my mom and him to stay at a hotel without her knowledge. She thought they were just going there for lunch and she actually said "oh, how I wish I was going to spend the night here!". My dad then told her that they should tour the rooms to get ideas for when they start building their new house. So when she entered the suite, she saw a suit case with all her necessary clothes packed and a bunch of flowers on the stand. She was surprised to tears :p. So that is another idea!

- Get a huge box beautifully decorated with a ribbon on the top and place it in your bedroom. There should be an envelope on the top, saying that this gift is for him from you. When he opens it up, you jump out of it, perhaps with a costume on (since guys seems to be into that :rolleyes:) lol. Or you should have a cake in your hand, and when he opens it up, smack it on his face :hyper:

- I love puzzles and riddles. You can create one specifically for him and for a certain purpose like to find a gift you prepared for him around the house or in order to find you. The first envelope should hint to the 2nd, then to the 3rd, then to the 4th until he finds it. That should be fun and obviously, the gift has to be worth it ;)
I love treasure hunts. :hyper:

Love planning all this stuff.. it's just as fulfilling to watch it all happen to who you've done it for..

Riv
06-05-08, 07:27 PM
challenge him to a game of strip poker.

i wonder which couple Would'nt do this!

toxic_honey
06-05-08, 11:54 PM
^^ me! :os!

-anyway i have some Ideas show him some dresses online or in a magazine or even a shop and just ask him which one u think is the best, the one he choose buy it LATER for him,, wear it and cook for him his fav dish,, send him a txt msg while hes at work tell him that there is a surprise also tell him to give you a call when hes in front of the door ,when hes back he would call you hide somewhere tell him to come in and he will see the table with with candles and there is his fav music, and tell him loook for me
lol and when he finds you he will see you wearing the dress he liked, then set together tell him that you cooked his fav dish and tried your best.. then set the bubble bath when hes done from his food :P


- leave him a note in his pocket or his work bag something u would like to say like i miss you so much , or i love you or u know!

-call him when hes in work and tell him is a massage day, set everything to look at hes in a spa..

:/ aah am not married i cant get lot of ideas

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Endure Whisper
07-05-08, 12:11 AM
All your ideas are appreciated except for the ones that involve cooking.. I am nowhere close to the kitchen or cooking :os

Angel_Eyes
07-05-08, 12:55 AM
I am a sucker for surprises and things that are totally unexpected. So here are my ideas:

- Prepare a surprise outing. Blind fold him and drive him to a place only for him to see that you prepared a romantic picnic somewhere gorgeous. Most likely to be suitable during winter, since it is hot to do that now. (oh and you will have to convince him to let you do the actual driving..you know how men get about that :p)

- I love surprises, so I loved it when my dad planned for my mom and him to stay at a hotel without her knowledge. She thought they were just going there for lunch and she actually said "oh, how I wish I was going to spend the night here!". My dad then told her that they should tour the rooms to get ideas for when they start building their new house. So when she entered the suite, she saw a suit case with all her necessary clothes packed and a bunch of flowers on the stand. She was surprised to tears :p. So that is another idea!

- Get a huge box beautifully decorated with a ribbon on the top and place it in your bedroom. There should be an envelope on the top, saying that this gift is for him from you. When he opens it up, you jump out of it, perhaps with a costume on (since guys seems to be into that :rolleyes:) lol. Or you should have a cake in your hand, and when he opens it up, smack it on his face :hyper:

- I love puzzles and riddles. You can create one specifically for him and for a certain purpose like to find a gift you prepared for him around the house or in order to find you. The first envelope should hint to the 2nd, then to the 3rd, then to the 4th until he finds it. That should be fun and obviously, the gift has to be worth it ;)
i loved your ideas.
That was sweet what your dad did:love:
LOL@ the costume and the cake-in-the-face-smacking:XD:
Whipped cream ;)
:o

lol @ Diabian. I'd add 3 strawberries :XD:
nasssssssssssty!

Lym and hijabi, loving your ideas.. thaaaaaanks! I'll definately do the box thing.. me inside the box.. FUNNY.. but without the cake :p

As for the whipped cream and strawberries.. they're better off in my stomach than anywhere else!
LOL, NO! try it and see;)

challenge him to a game of strip poker.
hahaha i doubt that that happens a lot here:XD: i cant imagine those typical omani old fasioned girls stripping:XD:

All your ideas are appreciated except for the ones that involve cooking.. I am nowhere close to the kitchen or cooking :os

you're not serious?:o really? you don't cook? or you can't cook?

minerva
07-05-08, 12:59 AM
hahaha i doubt that that happens a lot here:XD: i cant imagine those typical omani old fasioned girls stripping:XD:






it's between a legit couple, in their own privacy. i'm sure the old fashioned ladies have a lot of spice in them. maybe that's what's alluring. you never know what's under that abaya when the couple are together and alone.
btt.... :)

Angel_Eyes
07-05-08, 01:09 AM
it's not that i think anything less of them...i just know some of these women and how they act..you can kinda get an idea..;) some of them are SO boring. i swear.
i think that this new generation is getting better though..if you know what i mean:p

toxic_honey
07-05-08, 03:18 AM
All your ideas are appreciated except for the ones that involve cooking.. I am nowhere close to the kitchen or cooking :os

if you tried! even if its burned he will think its cute!

ask your mother in law to teach you but not tell him ;)