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Angel_Eyes 29-04-08, 06:14 PM Do you consider it lowering yourself by asking others for their help?
Is it okay to ask for help once in a while?
Does that mean you are incapable?
How often do you ask for help?
Cinnamon Queen 29-04-08, 06:18 PM no, I ask for help when I need it, thats not considered lowering myself, and it certainly does not mean that I'm incapable. And I wouldnt think that someone is lowering themselves if they asked me for help. I dont know how often I ask for help, but whenever I need it. I guess.
Endure Whisper 29-04-08, 06:33 PM I always ask for help when I really need it and can't do without it.
Superbia 29-04-08, 06:48 PM I have so much ego, I hate asking for anything. One day I'll have to step on my pride and let it go.. One day.
The brain. 29-04-08, 07:03 PM [QUOTE=Angel_Eyes;1073936]Do you consider it lowering yourself by asking others for their help?
NOPE
Is it okay to ask for help once in a while?
It more than OK
Does that mean you are incapable?
Nope, It is an additional smart way in using the available resources ..
I hope this ‘ help’ worrd doesn’t include the word’ Money’
*shushu* 29-04-08, 07:06 PM Do you consider it lowering yourself by asking others for their help?Not at all.
Is it okay to ask for help once in a while? Yeah
Does that mean you are incapable? Not in all cases.
How often do you ask for help? Whenever I need it:D
sameerb1 29-04-08, 07:37 PM Do you consider it lowering yourself by asking others for their help?
Nop..i consider it wise instead of breaking wutever i m about to do
Is it okay to ask for help once in a while?
its more than okay
Does that mean you are incapable?
Nop...it just means i m learning
How often do you ask for help?
Whenever i need help
squinty 29-04-08, 07:41 PM It is okay to ask for help.
I just don't like it to ask for help UNLESS I have to...
I don't feel at ease at all when I ask for help..
I just feel like I am bothering someone because of what I want or need..
Yeah, I ask when I need something. However, it depends on what. Like for lecture notes from friends, I don't hesitate to do so. But regarding financial matters, nope!
dam3t-malak 29-04-08, 11:45 PM it really takes time with me to ask for help, i do ask but once in a while and i'll think alot before taking that step. BeCAUSE i hate the word "No" thats why i hesitate before asking.
i always use to ask 4 help.. in anything.. n from any1 n never feel that im begging even if they said no a 1000 times.. now.. i hate asking for the fear of getting embarrassed by a rejection. espacilly if i need a ride! ahhh
Angel_Eyes 30-04-08, 12:55 AM my answer is the same as squinty's.
Depends on who am asking help from ? Usually, I don't like asking for help but sometimes we have to.
Kreeemy 01-05-08, 06:41 AM I never ask not because of ego but mainly because I have a phobia of being unpleasant to others
In addition, I hate the thought of owing something to someone
Angel_Eyes 01-05-08, 12:44 PM I too don't like asking for help...not because of pride or whatever but i just dont want to be a burden on anyone. i like to do things on my own.it's very rare if i ask for help..but if i do, know that i REALLY need help.
i always ask for help when i need it and i don't think its degrading at all.
Calla Lilly 02-05-08, 12:27 PM Gosh i asked for SO much help when i first moved abroad, so yea i have no problems with asking for help when i need it, i dont think its degrading at all.
When i help someone out i feel good about myself, so i assume people who help out dont feel terrible about it either ;p i
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