~ Do you talk about your sex life, even if little tiny details, with your friends, relatives or really closed ones only?

~ How do you respond when someone asks you about it?

~ If someone was talking about their sex life in front of you, would you listen or leave the room?

~ If your husband talks about your sex life, how will you respond?

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I don't know about men, but with the girls.. it's sometimes the talk of the night! I once went out with this girl and she told me EVERYTHING.. honestly, I now know how the size of her husband's buddy .. so that answers my question, I wouldn't mind if someone talks about it but I personally don't talk about mine.

I've been asked a couple of times about my sex life and I always ask them not to ask, and they keep on asking again and again,, but again I won't share and ask them to not ask.. with my cousin, after her sister's consistency in knowing, she took it all out.. lol!

I asked my husband a couple of times if the guys he hangs out with talk about their sex life and he said that they only do with the girls they date, not their wives. But he did tell me once that his uncle asked him (just after we got back from the honeymoon) if it was a boy or a girl and my husband laughed it off.. We didn't even know what's that supposed to mean :os

Anyway,, your turn.. answer :) This doesn't need to be answered by the married ones only.. others can put their inputs on what they think they'll do or the people around them do :)

I am celibate.

Those who talk about it with me I ask them not to. Not my business.

One of my friends though did tell me that she and her husband have not had sex in 2 years since the birth of her daughter.

One thing in a marriage DON'T use sex to manipulate your partner either out of anger or to get something.

Not only is that childish but you can jeaporidze your marriage.

I never talk about it with ppl. I have one very good, close friend and sometimes I may mention something to her, but not intimate details.

If ppl want to talk about it, then I say let em...... maybe I'll learn something new you never know!

I don't have a sex life yet but when I do I don't think I'll be talking about it with friends, that's just not something I would be willing to do, however If sister asks then I might give her a hint here and there.

Well I enjoy listening to people talking about it.. but I cannot talk about it, unless as a wana-be lol

When I get married I won't share any details with anyone :os Seriously, its nobody's business but me and him so why put someone else on the picture?

No body tried telling me about their's before and if someone tries it will feel very weird to listen or even comment. =l

If my husband talks about it? Hmm, I seriously don't know what I will do maybe I'll shoot him :p (Depends what he says, to whom he says it and how I find out about it I guess but I guess he will be found dead)

I often hear guys talking about them nailing that one nailing this one etc etc, I don't understand how they can talk like that, or on the other hand I just KNOW they're lying.

When I have a sex life, that would mean I will be married, I will forget my friends :D

im still not married.. but i dont think ill ever talk about it.. i have a couple of friends that r married with children.. i sometimes get curious about some things.. but i never asked accept for once n it was about protection coz there ws this BIG discussion about all of us about it, so i said better ask some1 that's actually going through it..

if some1 talks about theres.. ill simply ask them to keep whats privet privet! i dont wana know.. n i dont wana tell ( later ) its between 2 ppl only, n it should stay that way!

^what if your husband tells and u find out about him telling?? will u take revenge and tell on him? :D just curious!

It depends on what kind of level of intimacy you have with the person you are telling and why.

Some people who think that this is a no go area will not even go to a doctor if they have a sexually related problem because it's "oh so embarassing" to talk about it to someone else.

Well guess what? Everyone (almost) and everything has some form of sex.

I wouldn't care if my husband spoke about ours to a very close friend.

Someone I'm not extremely close to that comes out with inquisitive questions about my sex life will get an equally rude answer back. I think if someone is offering the info, then ok. Their choice. But I don't think I'd delve in there and quiz them about it.

LOL this is...okay...
ahem...i am not married yet but when i am...i am not about to tell people (friends or family) about my sex life...are you kidding me? :XD:and i wouldnt give them the impression that it's okay to ask even. :bored:I don't think it's anyone's business really. I'd keep that COMPLETELY private and i hope that my husband does the same.:cute:

If anyone DID ask me, then it just shows me how nosy they are coz really, it's in no way of any concern to them. How can anyone dare to ask!!! ufff...

i don't know..we will see how things go...i MAY say some things...depends on who i tell and what it is...but as for the details...OH HELL NO!

we will see;)

~ If someone was talking about their sex life in front of you, would you listen or leave the room?

i'd listen..lol..i'd laugh here and there maybe..but i dont think i'd leave the room:XD:

~ If your husband talks about your sex life, how will you respond?

ummm..okay..tough one...that would be embarressing:XD: i wouldnt like it honestly...but we will see...i will cross that bridge when i get to it.

It depends what the subject is .. but mostly .. I can talk about it .. that's natural things .. and as Hijabi said, listenning to other may make you learn something :p

IF I want to learn sexual techniques I will read a book. As a romance writer I have to know the ins and outs so to speak but of course sex and romance go and in hand but not always all the time.

As far as the doctor thing I would always go no matter what for my annuals.

Just for me and others there is a fine line of what is appropriate to discuss and def. would never with the family. Just crosses some boundaries not meant to be crossed.

IF I want to learn sexual techniques I will read a book. As a romance writer I have to know the ins and outs so to speak but of course sex and romance go and in hand but not always all the time.

As far as the doctor thing I would always go no matter what for my annuals.

Just for me and others there is a fine line of what is appropriate to discuss and def. would never with the family. Just crosses some boundaries not meant to be crossed.
marianna.. we have no choice as women. We need help having our babies.

What I'm talking about is sex itself, not a smear test. Imagine someone with a sexual problem.. not a problem with a spot or whatever on his 'tools' but a problem with HAVING sex. Some people would rather die than go to a doctor and explain that.

I wouldn't mind going to a doc for sexual dysfunction issues just won't discuss it with family or friends.....but my close female friend won't have sex because she says 1. what if the baby wakes up (the baby is 2 years old). 2. She still breast feeds...again that baby is 2. She says she is "too small" down there" but the doc meant her hips not the patootie. I just don't get that mentality.

~ Do you talk about your sex life, even if little tiny details, with your friends, relatives or really closed ones only?
Guys dont talk about their sex life in details...but as Endure Whisper said, they always tell how the girl they dated was in bed. its just their opinion on that girl or comment...
and tellin anything about wifey or even askin is a big NO NO...could end up causing big fites

~ How do you respond when someone asks you about it?
we say...NON OF YOUR BUSINESS

~ If someone was talking about their sex life in front of you, would you listen or leave the room?
Listen and ask silly questions over it unless its an elderly talkin about their sex experience in life...usually we ask them to shut up or try to change the topic or just leave the room

~ If your husband/wife talks about your sex life, how will you respond?
talk about my sex life? tell them..you dont want to get hurt so just shut up

When I am married, I think I will only discuss it with very close persons to me and for educational purposes. I mean, when people close to us get married, it is an opportunity for us to know things that our mothers/or aunts will never tell us before we get married. So married people close to me tell me that when I am about to get married, they're prepared to disclose everything I need to know. For now there is no reason I should know the details. I guess that is good enough and I think that is how I am going to be.

hmm..probably my sister, nothing too intimate though. it's just too personal.

i think it's good that guys discuss things 'in general' and not about their wife/gf in particular. since as men, they don't like to read instruction manuals. tell each other where some important areas of interest are and how to approach them. :)

One thing women in general need more time to get excited and sometimes that is forgotten and things are "rushed."

I wouldn't mind going to a doc for sexual dysfunction issues just won't discuss it with family or friends.....but my close female friend won't have sex because she says 1. what if the baby wakes up (the baby is 2 years old). 2. She still breast feeds...again that baby is 2. She says she is "too small" down there" but the doc meant her hips not the patootie. I just don't get that mentality.
So you know that your friend and her partner have had no sex probably for 2 years and you know the reasons why.

See what I mean? People will talk, because we are all human, and most of us will have sex at one point or another.

I dont think its appropriate to talk about sex life. I know men in general dont (generally bec they are men, and know whats right), while women are quite explicit.

For me I think it is the details I don't want to know about. But as far as my friend telling me they have not I cannot wrap my mind around a married couple NOT having sex.

I dont think its appropriate to talk about sex life. I know men in general dont (generally bec they are men, and know whats right), while women are quite explicit.
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Men don't because they're scared their friend has better or more sex. That's why.

After I got married, I got asked some questions by my mum, aunts, cousins and some close friends. Some asked because they were concerned (ie my mum and aunts), while others because they were curious (I'm actually the first one from my friends to get married). Whether or not I answer depends on the question. I wouldn't give details about my sex life like what we did, and where, and exactly how it happened.. etc, but if someone asked a question that is generally related to sex like "how painful is the first time? is there a lot of blood? what contraceptive methods are you using? is it fun/enjoyable or is it gross? don't you feel really self conscious and awkward about letting someone see you naked?" I'd answer questions like that because I don't think that's very personal and honestly it's something I think every girl should have info on before she gets married so she knows what kind of things she should expect.

I wouldn't mind someone talking about their sex life, I won't ask for details, but if the information is volunteered it's not like it would offend me. One of my friends here at uni used to tell me all about her one night stands. I actually found most of her stories funny because she slept with the most random guys and they were always intoxicated and the situation would always have some kind of drama.

I wouldn't want my husband to talk about our sex life with his friends. Generally, it's not something I'd be okay with him talking about unless we were having problems and he needed advice from someone more experienced who he actually trusted.

It happend once that I was sitting with a bunch of women I don't really know well and they started talking. I felt very disgusted and left the room, it is like they have no respect for their husbands, I feel so sorry for their husbands to have such wives.

I think people ( be it a wife or a husband ) who talk about their life sex with others are really sick. But asking some general questions related to sex just to know and learn I think is Ok.

I think its too personal and i wouldnt honestly talk about it.
its so private

^what if your husband tells and u find out about him telling?? will u take revenge and tell on him? :D just curious!

i guess ill talk to him about it.. or if he refuses or says its okay bla bla.. ill tell him ( next time show them a vid) !!!
i dont think a jealous respectful man does that to his wife.. i mean its man's nature to be possessives, when it's with family n wifes i dont think they do, but with cheap gals then they r more then proud to tell i guess.. its us women who yap about these things a lot..

i dont think a jealous respectful man does that to his wife.. ..

Best answer briefs all answers in one line :super: . And it goes to the wife as well.

~ Do you talk about your sex life, even if little tiny details, with your friends, relatives or really closed ones only?
I am not married yet, so I have no sex life.

~ How do you respond when someone asks you about it?
If a girl asked me I would respond: “excuse me? You’re crazy? “ I would probably take it as a joke.
If a guy asked me I would respond: “excuse me?” then gives him that look.

~ If someone was talking about their sex life in front of you, would you listen or leave the room?
It really depends on how intimacy they get. Sometimes I smile and stay to listen, sometimes I think it’s too embarrassing for me esp when it gets too intimate. I’d feel disgusted.

~ If your husband/wife talks about your sex life, how will you respond?
I would never degrade my husband as a sex object and talk about his sex life in front of public eyes of people I interact with in my daily life. That’s not the image I’d like to represent my husband. So I’d really expect him to do the same thing.

Best answer briefs all answers in one line :super: . And it goes to the wife as well.
Jealous and respectful don't go in one sentence. Sorry.

Maybe it's not the same ' jealous ' you have in mind. We say any man who's jealous for his family ( doesn't talk about them in an embarrasing way and doesn't like anyone talking about them as well) is a respectful man.

My sexual life with my wife is not a topic to be discussed. Never heard married guys talking about their sex. Its rarely to mention the details for these guys who go into dates.

if u have a problem then you can ask some1 that's close to u n u can trust.. with no details!

there's hadeeth that dosnt allow a couple to talk about their privet times together.. but i so cnt recall it..

I think sex life should 'only' be between the couple, no one from outside should know about it, as it is a special thing between the two....

i tell everyone!


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