i hear a lot of storied about how parents control everything their kids do, even when their old enough to take care of themselves.. eg:no this n that coz i said so..
or a wife complaining about her husband, that he wants everything his way n makes sure it goes his way..
both of the above feel suffocated n in jail becouse they cant do what they wish to do..

how do u think this can be treated n then solved?

a little rebellion. bit by bit every day. in total silence.
he likes two sugars in his tea, she'll put four, or one.
he likes his eggs soft, she over boils them for an extra minute.
tiny things that would drive him nuts until he opens up negotiations :D

^^ looooooooooooool

A slap on one cheek and a kiss on the other will control everything

Loooooooooool

What Minerva said is the best solution when someone doesn't want to listen lol :p

as el ray has put it...a slap on one cheek and a kiss on the other should solve it...

a slap on one cheek and a kiss on the other should solve it...

Thats the best solution. i agree

^^^how !?
LOL

What I learned is:
Listen, agree and leave quietly...

Because when I try to make my point heard I always can't do it AND they will always say something that I can't reply to..

(you can't insult your parents/loved ones to make a point and calling them a liar is a big problem..)

I just live with it.. No one has to know what happens really.. :rolleyes:
If it happens to you just TRY and do something that will make you think LESS about it..

A slap on one cheek and a kiss on the other will control everything

You will do that to your parents?

Then they will kill one half of you and save one half because of this kiss! :hyper:

Negotiate .. give and take.. make them happy so they can make you happy ..

Gain trust and show them that you can be eligible for it.

^ exactly :yes:

a little rebellion. bit by bit every day. in total silence.
he likes two sugars in his tea, she'll put four, or one.
he likes his eggs soft, she over boils them for an extra minute.
tiny things that would drive him nuts until he opens up negotiations :D

What if she doesn't know how to cook :p that's how most girls in Oman are right now :yes:

What if she doesn't know how to cook :p that's how most girls in Oman are right now :yes:
don't marry a person with no skills. full stop. cooking might be one of them.
i think the more skills a person has, the more in control THEY will be.