Some people just don’t know when to quit. They keep attempting to… to... What is it exactly that these people try to achieve? :os Sinking lower each time. It amazes me how low one can stoop in order to be seen as victorious. While in fact, it is only in their eyes that they are seen this way.
How do you view these people, those that would stop at nothing to satisfy themselves, claim victory? Those of whom actions are as low as can get?
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Personally speaking, I think they’ve got no life, bored out of their heads. They have nothing better to do other than intrude in other people’s life. I see them as people with no dignity, no self-respect, no nobility. Someone that I cannot carry respect for.

I think if you deserve victory then you should definately show it off. The hard work should definately be complimented :)

^ The thread's title may be misleading. I'm talking about those that would stop at nothing, with out any consideration towards one's feelings. As in, those that would preform deeds that show no respect, low actions. Why? to be seen triumphant over the other person.

^ yeps...seems like what little kids do..they keep on and on until they say the last word. my daughter, who's 9 keeps doing it....
i told her to learn how to let go and say 'ok whatever'.

Hmmm :rolleyes:.

Well I say, whatever makes them happy, so long as they're not hurting me or anybody important to me. Let them walk with their trophies on the street and chant all they want, it does not matter.

But for this topics sake, I would try to show those who claimed victory that they in fact and if I was not able to persuade them, then I would just let them be. My life is too important to dwell on unnecessary drama.

Having the ability to ignore is a bliss :love:

I think it's an extremely juvenile act, also.. it's very low and shows how pathetic the person is. Attention seeker.

Ohh thaaat kind of victory... if it's a person you look down to, then why not? but if it's a person you respect, care about, or even like a little, then no way! This is how it goes with me, although most of you find it bad, low, and whatever it is.. if I hate someone or cannot stand someone's guts, I am could be the most horrible/mean person on Earth.. it's really bad but I think it's to do with the way I grew up..

When I was little and complained to my parents about anything.. my dad will always tell me not to complain or be a "baby". He always forced me to go out there and fight for myself.. thus, I became the mean one.. he never once protected me from my cousins or friends.. if my brothers and I fight, he'd give each one of us a stick and tell us to fight until someone gets killed LOL.. he never wanted to anyone of us to complain and bla bla bla.. he'd always ask us to take care of ourselves..

Maybe that wasn't a good approach to raise his kids.. but it definately got us somewhere in the real world. I don't complain or cry or get sad, I take it out right then and there and I take it out really bad.. I was told a couple of time that my words are like scars, they'll never disappear.. now that's very true :os but I don't care!

On the other hand, I was also taught that if I make up with someone, I should apologize; even if the other person doesn't. And that's so me.. I apologize and I express my feelings.. sometimes not because I am really wrong, but for the sake of being the better one! ;) still claiming for victory, even when I apologize haha :p

^Wow I never knew you were like that you have such an innocent face :p

I don't think I'm the type that would do something like that. I don't do things just to prove that I could to other people. And personally I don't care about such people its not my problem they're insecure and try to do whatever they could even if it was doing something low just to reach somewhere or to show off. I'd just ignore them even if they were mean to me, there was a time when I used to get very aggressive towards people who wrong me, however I've learnt how to ignore them and forget about it.

^Wow I never knew you were like that you have such an innocent face :p


Don't let my looks decieve you :p

Well, I am really nice when there's mutual kindness, respect, love, etc.. Once my side of the see saw is heavier, I change 180 degrees.

i don't think i was aggressive my whole life. when my sisters and I were kids/teenagers, and we fought, they'd do something really horrible, like break a toy i love, tear a picture i was holding so dear to me, you know..horrible stuff lol.
i couldn't and still can't make myself do the same. i just cry lol, i think i knew inside me that they'll regret doing it once they calm down. which is true.