What's wid me and relationship thoughts today?? Creepy!

I have seen this between friends and couples.

Ex. my mate has a GF, and she does all the nagging when he doesnt call for whatever reason or doesn't buy her a present or is late for a date. But when she does it and he nags about it, she just tells him "screw you, wanna break up?" That breaks my boy's heart because it just shows she doesn't care about him and is just interested in everything about her. That might be what I mean by stuck up.

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What to do with people like this if your involved? A recent discussion with another friend about this concluded to just ditch him/her because they are just taking advantage of you in one way or another.

Your opinions?

she's a mean nagging b.

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seriously. being late, forgetting dates and not phoning is bad manners.
next time she tells him 'ok you wanna break up?' he should call her bluff and say 'ok, bye!'. see how her face changes. i don't like control freaks and emotional blackmailers. immature f'ers.

yeah she probably says it because she doesn't think he'd actually leave.

That's what happens when you show/give so much love that makes you look weak without him/her. Always, and I always give this advice to my friends, never show your husband/wife or in this case, boyfriend/girlfriend that you're nothing without them being in your life. You'll end up becoming a ring in their fingers; replacing you, throwing you, and then decide to use you for the day.

I am not saying you shouldn't show infinite love.. Do it, by all means, but never show your weaknesses.. Never say: "I'm nothing without you" or anything equivalent. Show your importance and that if they ever let you go, someone else will replace them right away.

As minerva mentioned, next time she says something like that, he should just accept the offer "wanna break up" and see what happens. If she doesn't apologize or goes back to him, then I guess it's her way of breaking up with him and she's been waiting for him to initiate it.

Lol, girls..it's never their fault.

I'll defiantly end it especially if a person is that mean. come on its ok for you to nag however if i do u get all worked up what sort of person i can't stand people so selfish and uncaring.

He should ditch her, she's clearly into him for her own interests not because she cares about him and he is a little too naive for missing that point. Its funny how blinded some people can be in the name of "love"!

yea, well he did just that, n they're over. guess its better for him without her.

:p
Guys think they are in control.
Girls want things to go there way.
:p

^lol, so we agree

Let him give her a couple of slaps then leave! :bored:

Let him leave her, that's the only way she'd realize he won't tolerate that kind of attitude, and anyways, I hate people who think they're better than the rest, that's a major turn off for me.

I think a relationship is a two way process, give and get. If you don't give, you don't get. I suggest that your friend is better off without her, 'coz she's used to it and he allowed her to.

so she warns to break up if he asks her for these small things? in that case who's she to demand it?

say yes then... if that's all it takes for her to decide on a break up. then break up he should. it's not like she's an angel worth keeping.

i suddenly feel like there's so many wounded souls here in ES!

I wouldn't be into someone like that in the first place. Can't see how I'd be attracted to that sort of personality.

i suddenly feel like there's so many wounded souls here in ES!how so? :hyper:

lol! how old is she? seriously..

so it breaks his heart, but they're still together? he should've taken off long time ago. she's very slef-centered, and needs to be ditched.

i suddenly feel like there's so many wounded souls here in ES!

YEAH! :hyper:
But I guess they are right.
If someone treats you badly even though you love them then why stay with them?
I think he is really better off alone! :)
(away from her...)

If I was in his shoes, I'd simply stop calling her. She doesn't even deserve the time wasted in "declaring" the break up.
Such girls need such shocks to bring them back to reality

well said guys, n now the stupid guy is crying over her, wat to do, she showed her real colors though, she's got a new bf alrdy, in one day

well said guys, n now the stupid guy is crying over her, wat to do, she showed her real colors though, she's got a new bf alrdy, in one day

sometimes... love hurts... and people say love is blind meaning they DON'T want to leave the person they love no matter what...
Hope he gets better...

she just tells him "screw you, wanna break up?"

Let him actually screw her & break up

Well i was going to say the same thing Endure and minerva said.
If she kept saying wanna break up every time then just say yes if you want :d she will get shocked because it will be something new to her, i mean didn't use to hear it from him.

and yes i agree with not showing the weaknesses to the Gf\Bf .

she's just playing.. dump her.. have fun.. n never get into a relationship again until u get married :p

^lol nosa, das da best way to put it! heehee

You talking about me ? :rolleyes:

LOL .. Joking.

This kinda girls always freak the heck outta me.
I'd tell her to back off ! I need my own space .. It's not like she's babysitting me. :p
She want to break-up ? Oh plz .. BE MY GUEST !

I'd ditch him. In the earlier stages of the relationship I probably wouldn't notice that type of behavior...he might reveal his true colours soon afterwards.

People like that need to be shot :o

If I was in his shoes, I'd simply stop calling her. She doesn't even deserve the time wasted in "declaring" the break up.
Such girls need such shocks to bring them back to reality

she's just playing.. dump her.. have fun.. n never get into a relationship again until u get married :p

been there done that and i think there is no other way better than this!!!