What exactly happens after a couple breaks up?
Do they keep in touch?
Do they hate their X's guts till death?
Can they get back together in a week's window?
Does is hurt more than finding out if the other was cheating on you?
How do people deal with break ups? (not just eating ice cream!!)
What is the best remedy to feel good, other than going to a strip club!

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Any experiences?

It depends on the couple and why they broke up. Sometimes, breaking up is more of a relief than broken hearts, which in my opinion is much much better because you don't have to deal with "getting over it".

Sometimes, it makes you better deleting/blocking them on your MSN or deleting their phone numbers from your phonebook..

Sometimes, no matter how much you've been hurt and think you hate your ex, you get to realize you don't really hate them, but you hate what they've done to you and when you're over them and find someone else who's making you happy, you don't care about them and hardly have any hate feelings towards them.

If couples break up for a silly reason there's a big chance they'd go back to one another if there's consistency from either sides of the relationship. Other couples choose to forgive and forget and no matter how big and hurtful the issue was that lead them to break up, they'd still go back to one another.

To me, cheating is a different story. If my spouse ever cheated on me, there won't be any "reunions"! That itself shows me the kind of person he is although people change and it could have been just a phase.

Dealing with breakups differs from one person to another. It all depends on what makes YOU feel better when you're down and feeling sad. Crying alone could be enough for you, but for me, I need to talk to someone. I have to take it out or else I'll explode.

In my view, there's two kinds of break ups, one is just for torturing your guy/gal, the other is the real thing. The girls nowadays I see around don't much care for a relationship, they are like button switches, the guy comes turns the switch on and they become gfs and when the guy wants to make her cry or just torture her or vice versa, switch turned off, after a week or so they turn the switch back on, capiche? Dunno how to really say these things!

This all leads me into another question, does love really exist in the current society? Does it just appear automatically after marriage or after kids?

ok i can share my experience

What exactly happens after a couple breaks up? Got relief ahhhhhhh feel like i can live again and got my freedom back:)
Do they keep in touch? No, stop calling me dont pretend like nothing has happened:angry:
Do they hate their X's guts till death? NO
Can they get back together in a week's window? NO
Does is hurt more than finding out if the other was cheating on you? I wouldnt care to find out.. but honestly i think it will hurt...
How do people deal with break ups? (not just eating ice cream!!) you have to get on with life, put things together so u can live happly, dont waste time with regret because u cant change anything that happened.. What is the best remedy to feel good, other than going to a strip club!? i think its better u go to GYm..get back into goodshape, spend more time taking care of urself and with people u love..

i think its better u go to GYm..get back into goodshape, spend more time taking care of urself and with people u love..

what if it was him/her only?

Usually one totally forgets about the other, but the other still clings on to the one who broke it off.. Until he she gives up :p

Usually it is not healthy to keep in touch after breaking up, unless the person didn't really mean alot to you. The deeper the relationship is the worse it is when break up takes place.
I'd offer my friendship in all cases and help her whenever she needs, as a friend or a stranger!

what if it was him/her only?what u talking about, thats means u still have feelings for that person, so try to work out together to solve ur issues before te break up.

but me when I make up my mind I just dont look behind..oww may be am not that emotional person.

Yes Superbia is right!!!

I've never been through a break up then again I've never been in a relationship so that i could have a break up. answering the question it all depend on the reason of the break up if you ended it in peaceful term u will keep in touch but if either of them cheated I'm sure they would hate each others guts

Personally I dealt with break ups very well.. probably because I was always doing the breaking up lol. I'd be over the person even before I ended things with them. Once I feel like the relationship doesn't satisfy me anymore, I gradually pull myself away and get detached from the person (while we're still together) and then I'd just drop the bomb. There'd be no chance of getting back together because by then whatever I'd felt for them before was gone. I'd just delete them from my life forever.

well, it depends how did the relationship go, if it was intense and lasted a long while, it will most likely break your heart, and takes it's time to heal.

getting over someone you once had feelings for is weird, sometimes you suddenly stop feeling anything towards them, when you were crying the night before.

sometimes it's a relief. and sometimes you think you're over it, but a tiny little part of you is still hung up on them.

Depends on how you guys parted ways. I still keep in touch with my ex. We broke up about a year and a half ago...we always want the best for each other.

If I went through a sour phase with anyone in my life, I hate keeping it that way. So generally, "whatever" would be resolved and I would not hold a grudge against them. This does not mean we will remain close or friends, it just means we would be able to have a conversation like two adults without awkwardness, without the hate and without getting personal yet maintaining a distance. Basically, I would be indifferent to their existence. It's too exhausting to "hate" anybody.

I would rather forget about her and move on.

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