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Endure Whisper 07-04-08, 11:59 PM Two is a Company. Three is a Crowd.
Does that relate to your lifestyle in anyway? How?
To me, it only does when I want to have some quality and alone time with my husband and someone (a friend or a family member) tags along.
marianna 08-04-08, 12:00 AM I don't mind being with a few people in a gathering but a crowd makes me ansy. I also don't have any problem with being alone. That is the difference: being alone verses being lonely and I am not all together very lonely.
nezitiC 08-04-08, 12:06 AM And what do you call not-two-nor-three? not-company-nor-crowd!
Endure Whisper 08-04-08, 12:06 AM You tell me :D
marianna 08-04-08, 12:09 AM Depends on who you are with. If I am with my lovey (however single at the moment) and there was someone else invading our snooky moment and I wanted to be alone with my partner then 3 would be a crowd but say for example my partner and I had an argument and I am mad and we are somewhere together and someone (i.e. a friend) comes into the picture then 3 for me would not be a crowd.
AMARANT 08-04-08, 12:12 AM interesting...
i rarely prefer a company over a crowd, companies r boring :bored:
but, at sometimes, a company is needed, and a crowd would be a boundary...
Superbia 08-04-08, 12:31 AM Depends with whom I'm hanging out with.. When I hang around with my classmates, I prefer being in a group of 3+ 'Coz I really don't feel comfortable with hanging around with one person alone, it gives them a chance to get closer and intrude my personal space. Then again, there are people like my mum, where I hate it when someone else comes along.. Or tries intruding our conversations or outing.. It burns me! Even if it was my little sister :bored: Hate it! If you want to tick me off, get close to my mum while I'm around! =\
NiGhTFaCe 08-04-08, 12:49 AM It depends on the company/group.
Endure Whisper 08-04-08, 12:59 AM Depends with whom I'm hanging out with.. When I hang around with my classmates, I prefer being in a group of 3+ 'Coz I really don't feel comfortable with hanging around with one person alone, it gives them a chance to get closer and intrude my personal space. Then again, there are people like my mum, where I hate it when someone else comes along.. Or tries intruding our conversations or outing.. It burns me! Even if it was my little sister :bored: Hate it! If you want to tick me off, get close to my mum while I'm around! =\
I really did not see that coming from you! Out of all the people :o
Superbia 08-04-08, 01:02 AM I really did not see that coming from you! Out of all the people
Huh, why is that? :D lol.
I rarely like hanging out with more than one friend but I don't mind the occasional gatherings, I also don't mind including friends when I'm hanging out with family. I have a handful of friends whom I'm really close with and allow them to observe even my personal life with my family, it's all cool and makes things easier so that I don't have to ditch anyone during certain events cause then I can just gather them all together.
What's wrong with Crowd? :mmhmm:.... The more, the merrier :hbd:
*shushu* 09-04-08, 04:59 PM The more the marrier, I say. Well, most of the time. The thing is, I am easily intimidated. When I talk to someone, I rarely look into their eyes. Most of the time, my eyes would just wander here and there and when I do look into someone's eyes, it would just be for a sec or two:P lol. Adding to that, being alone with someone you have nothing in common with is just... well... What an awkward moment that would be. I guess it all comes down to the person you are with.
Depends if I want ALL the attention or not. :hyper:
That, in a nutshell, is what it all comes down to, doesn't it? :D
Think about it.
I believe there should be time for both.. you need to have your 'couple' time and your 'family' and 'friends' time... and once you have kids.. you start to become something of an expert on imaginitive ways at how to ditch the 'crowd', that has become the norm...
There is one catch. If you're with a boring, semi-dead person, you won't be wanting no alone time. :no:
FAITH86 09-04-08, 07:13 PM I rather hang out with a company than a crowd. But it depends on my mode.
Pygmalion 09-04-08, 08:23 PM To me, I think
For a movie two people is optimum
For an overnight faraway travel three is optimum
For work team three is optimum
With family members, the more is the better….
But I need to be alone for a couple of hours every night…
But I get so depressed if left alone for a long time
squinty 09-04-08, 09:20 PM Hate the crowd!
Love company... Too many people make me feel uneasy and feel like leaving...
depends i guess, sometimes it's the more the merrier, but sometimes you want to be alone with someone. i usually prefer a crowd, 'cause i rarely want all attention on me. i agree with Thalia, it depends if you want all the attention or not.
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