For the women only. Men can share their point of views if they have something good to say.

So, women:

If your husband worked with a SUPER HOT lady who's not committed, would that intimidate you?

By working together, I mean same department and are with each other almost all the time.

If yes, would you tell him that? Or would you ignore it believing in your husband's faithfullness towards you?

Share how jealous can you get from your husband's women collegues..

(For those who are not married, how do you think you will be if you are put in this situation since you should already know how extreme your jealousy can get).

I'm an extremely jealous person, so I'd rather him not tell me about this colleague to avoid unnecessary fights. If he did tell me about her, and he did tell me that he finds her pretty I'm sure I would drop a few hints now and then on how I feel about it. In the end it's not his fault that he's working with her.

The wife needs psychotherapy

Wouldn't phase me in the least.

By being jealous, you don't make matters better or easier. And it won't change the fact that if he's willing to do something, he'll do it whether you are jealous or not, whether she's hot or not. So why worry about it? Worry about the kind of person HE is, worry about how close you are and worry about what makes him want to come home to YOU at the end of the day. Not who he is working with, especially if he has no control over it.

Just imagine it the other way around. Imagine a good looking guy working with you and your hubby throwing a fit about it.

HAHA WOULDN'T EVER Never HAPPEN in his wildest dreams ever!

:mmhmm: i would kill her if he talked about her :/

so he better not tell me about any girl no matter what

Hey, don't be selfish.. maybe he will bring her home one day as his new hotter younger second wife. It can be a "surprise" too.

:hyper:

I honesty don’t care, he must have been surrounded by hot girls before meeting me and while getting to know me so why should I bother now that he is married to me.
He picked me for a reason, and I am sure it is not only for my looks because it is not like I am the prettiest girl on earth.

And I know that he is not the cutest guy either but there are other qualities in him that makes him the perfect match for me and I guess he feels that same way about me

my husband's work is with a lot of pretty girls. am i bovvered? not in the least. pretty girls are everywhere, if he wants to do any dirty stuff, he won't need work to do so. plus it's totally unprofessional and can cause a person to lose their job.

I'm the clingy and jealousy type to the extreme! I'll make it clear to him that he should NEVER bring his work home FULL STOP

I'm not the jealous type, so it wouldn't really bother. I would trust him and so there's simply nothing to be worried about, but obviously i wouldn't like it if he talked about her at home 'excessively'.

I'm not the jealous type, so it wouldn't really bother. I would trust him and so there's simply nothing to be worried about, but obviously i wouldn't like it if he talked about her at home 'excessively'.
oh if he talks about her in a certain way that raises my left eyebrow...i'd let him talk and investigate :D

i would rather not tell her about the hot girl, or at least not mention she's hot...

and i dont think i would bore my wife with what work we do :)

As long as boundaries are not crossed I don't care. I should trust my husband. If the woman acts like a **** and wants to get into my husband's pants I expect him to take care of it by telling her to stop and if she doesn't then he has to report it as harrassment.

I will find her a husband. It will be my sole mission. LOL :hyper:

Seriously though, I'm not the jealous type unless my partner gives me a reason to be, if he is attentive to her, mentions her a lot or her physical attributes. But I do want my husband talking to me about his work, even if it involves a hot girl. So long as he doesn't "drool" over her verbally, we will be fine.

my wife is lucky or lucky...i almost never had a female colleague i would work with especially now i would not even see a lady at work!

Mentioning the hot lady at work can be for teasing, if I am going to be a player, so then my wife shouldn't know about her at all! :D

Mentioning the hot lady at work can be for teasing, if I am going to be a player, so then my wife shouldn't know about her at all! :D lol.. precisely!!:yes:

If your husband worked with a SUPER HOT lady who's not committed, would that intimidate you? no....I don't mind comments, admiring or flirting about beauty cause I do the same :p and I know it is just words or shallow feelings atleast my side!:rolleyes: so how can i jump on him!

If yes, would you tell him that? Or would you ignore it believing in your husband's faithfullness towards you? tell him what exactly?.. quit your job or show him how un confident im towards a hot chick! lool :D ... nah :XD: probably i will try to solve my problem not make it his problem or blame him

anyway, I have been told by many that im careless cold blood ...might not be good in many way but im sure it is good in this one :p

^ Actually sweety, very good in this area ;)

Here comes lack of confidence, if you think your husband would leave you for a hot chick at work, you're not confident about yourself, hence you won't please him .. which might let him leave you for her.

Firstly I know that I’m the jealous type however I don’t like showing my jealousy but if one day I get married and my husband works with a hotty I’d prefer him to tell me I don’t know why but by he telling me proves that I trust him.

The wife should make herself even hotter when her husband gets home to her :P

I will find her a husband. It will be my sole mission. LOL :hyper:

Seriously though, I'm not the jealous type unless my partner gives me a reason to be, if he is attentive to her, mentions her a lot or her physical attributes. But I do want my husband talking to me about his work, even if it involves a hot girl. So long as he doesn't "drool" over her verbally, we will be fine.
i second lym ^_^
i wont get jealous until he tells me something soo abvious her apperence or like he cnt stop tlking about her.. so its all about how he bring it up to me.. but in terms of trust.. i wont have a doubt.. i mean i married a man.. i should well enough know he thinks n know that he wont leave me 4 some hot chik coz he'll lose me :angel:

The wife should make herself even hotter when her husband gets home to her :P
so true.. be something that he loves so he wont look at any1 else!

Hey, don't be selfish.. maybe he will bring her home one day as his new hotter younger second wife. It can be a "surprise" too.

:hyper:

:o NO!

I WOULD kill him and her as a surprise too -_-

hmmm..this is a tough one..lol..since i am a bit jealous . honestly, i wouldn't like her existance!:XD: i'd hate her being around him..but then again, it depends on her..if she is the flirty type, then i will have a talk with her to work respectfully and professionally with my husband. If she is one of those women who is hot but takes her job seriously and doesn't flirt, then i have nothing to worry about.
About my husband, i would trust HIM..coz i know he's smart enough to know what i am capable of if he screws up :) so i know he'll think twice if he knows what's good for him:p
It's HER i would be cautious of!! I know women..especially when they are working with hot men!


i sure will marry a hot SMART man :p

for me, i'd make sure my husband has nothing to worry about ...(since i just so happen to be hot :XD:)..i am not the type to joke around or do ANYTHING around men but to work strictly professionally.

IF I'm in this situation, hmm, I would be very honest with my wife and ofcourse tell her bout work colleagues n stuff cuz when she accompanies me to the parties she would know the ppl. About the hot girl who would be working close to me, well wife would know about her and it will be upto her to trust me or not, but she did trust me when she got married to me right?
Oh yea, I wouldn't go on trying to destroy my relationship with my wife for a flirty hot looking girl, it wouldn't matter even if she's Jessica Alba! (my wife might turn out to be Jessica Alba :D)

hmmm..this is a tough one..lol..since i am a bit jealous . honestly, i wouldn't like her existance!:XD: i'd hate her being around him..but then again, it depends on her..if she is the flirty type, then i will have a talk with her to work respectfully and professionally with my husband. If she is one of those women who is hot but takes her job seriously and doesn't flirt, then i have nothing to worry about.
About my husband, i would trust HIM..coz i know he's smart enough to know what i am capable of if he screws up :) so i know he'll think twice if he knows what's good for him:p


Are you serious?! You would talk to your husband collegue without even confirming that she's flirting with him. She could be flirty but she might not find your husband as hot as you do!! I don't think you should talk to those around your husband, that's if you trust him as you said ;)

hmmm..this is a tough one..lol..since i am a bit jealous . honestly, i wouldn't like her existance!:XD: i'd hate her being around him..but then again, it depends on her..if she is the flirty type, then i will have a talk with her to work respectfully and professionally with my husband. If she is one of those women who is hot but takes her job seriously and doesn't flirt, then i have nothing to worry about.
About my husband, i would trust HIM..coz i know he's smart enough to know what i am capable of if he screws up :) so i know he'll think twice if he knows what's good for him:p
It's HER i would be cautious of!! I know women..especially when they are working with hot men!


i sure will marry a hot SMART man :p

for me, i'd make sure my husband has nothing to worry about ...(since i just so happen to be hot :XD:)..i am not the type to joke around or do ANYTHING around men but to work strictly professionally. how would u do that??? go to the girl and asker to work professional? if you are 100% that she is flirting ur man ok but if u r just suspecting its really bad. u cant keep fighting with ever hot girl around him:hyper: its insane.

I would want him to handle the issue, if he is a respected man and if he really wants to keep our relationship then he wouldnt dare think of another girl.

lol..little darlings..i would obviously know what goes on around me and him. I see all..(angel eyes):XD: looool

i would of course trust HIM..it's just her attitude around him that would annoy me (regardless if my husband would do anything or not). Ma y'7u9ni (i don't care):XD:
stay away from the hottie...he's taken:p.... work is work! work means being serious and professional! :p

ok ok..i am sure i wont go all the way to work and talk to her..lol..i may have exaggerated..ahem..:rolleyes:...but it would annoy me..in the end, i'd just deal with it and be patient about it and repeat in my head.." my husband is trustworthy and i have nothing to worry about even if she is a stripper " :D

if he is a respected man and if he really wants to keep our relationship then he wouldnt dare think of another girl.
exactly. i guess i am worrying for nothing..he wouldn't BE interested in any other woman...coz he'd have me :love:

I dont trust a man species, so I would rather he works in a field/desert. lool

It wouldnt phase me for one bit..

I'm really confident and laid back about shit like that..
And the more u gurliez Nagg about stuff
the higher the chances of him doing anything becomes a reaility..

Hes married to moi afterall.. And I wouldnt mind.. if he mentions shes good looking or anything.. IF she is.. THen hes just statin the obvious? lool

I'd Tease em back though.. so its all gewwd with me ;)

It would ring some bells in my head if he kept on bringing up this woman's name in all work-related conversations and seemed to show an interest in her. I'd start to get slightly suspicious, but only if he gave me a reason to. Otherwise, I'm totally cool with it. I'm not a jealous person by nature and I'm definitely not insecure.