The past days I feel that I am not me.
I feel very heavy and I feel dizzy so fast and all that...
I get mad so quick and feel sad so fast as well.

Right now I am so confused and I don't even know why.
I have so much to do for the coming days and it all has to with studying...
But studying makes my mood go bad and mad.. that i get...
But what might make me feel the other symptoms?:help:

I feel very heavy and I feel dizzy so fast and all that...
:

This means you are pregnant

I get mad so quick and feel sad so fast as well.


This means you have the period

Oh wait, you are a boy :p

HAHAHA! :XD:
ElRey I am serious here! :p

If you were a girl, I'd say it's that time of the month! :p

same as ElRey! :p

I am serious people.......

Get a better life. Involve yourself in things that are out of the norm and be easy.. Don't just sit there and say I hate life or I am bored or I have nothing to do.. DO something!

Had those feelings. It simply means you are in a bad mood for a while. I was like that a few weeks ago. So just make a change in your life. That is all I can tell you :)

The past days I feel that I am not me.


Mybe you are possessed by jinni.

Mybe you are possessed by jinni.

Whoa! What a conclusion :os

I feel very heavy and I feel dizzy so fast and all that...

This is typical of gastroesophageal reflux disease
Is one of my favourite chronic diseases

Squinty seriously
If you haven't understood til now that the only problem is to change the way you are and the way you relate yourself to life and people, then I dnt know what to do anymore with you
You might need medical help, nothing wrong with it
If you ask Hitman, he will tell you how
Trust him

You are too much on English Sabla, thats why! :bored:

Maybe not just with studying...Do you have a crush on a girl who is not feeling the same towards you and it makes you sad?

Sometimes when this happens the person who is not receiving the same attention back will feel like this. Sucks big time.

Just a thought.

Get a better life. Involve yourself in things that are out of the norm and be easy.. Don't just sit there and say I hate life or I am bored or I have nothing to do.. DO something!
maybe cold weather has to change as well! :XD:
I am doing new things and I feel weird about it but I will keep doing it, it might help! :D


Had those feelings. It simply means you are in a bad mood for a while. I was like that a few weeks ago. So just make a change in your life. That is all I can tell you :)
Change in my life... will do that! :)


Mybe you are possessed by jinni.
Wow.. very nice.. maybe I will shoot fireballs soon.. :p


This is typical of gastroesophageal reflux disease
Is one of my favourite chronic diseases

Squinty seriously
If you haven't understood til now that the only problem is to change the way you are and the way you relate yourself to life and people, then I dnt know what to do anymore with you
You might need medical help, nothing wrong with it
If you ask Hitman, he will tell you how
Trust him
Change as in how?
Please explain this?
how I see life and people?
And when you say medical help... What exactly?


You are too much on English Sabla, thats why! :bored:
Since ES is the only place I can come to and talk and have fun! :bored:
But thank you for ruining it...


Maybe not just with studying...Do you have a crush on a girl who is not feeling the same towards you and it makes you sad?

Sometimes when this happens the person who is not receiving the same attention back will feel like this. Sucks big time.

Just a thought.
Not in a million years!
I would NEVER feel something for anyone in here...
But good thought.. I think it is true..

Change as in how?
Please explain this?
how I see life and people?
And when you say medical help... What exactly?


Is 6 months or more, we're discussing the same problem you have
You are not happy
And til here, welcome to the club
Thing is, that you dnt seem to do anything to change this status
You keep on asking for help but you dnt move from where you are
Apparently you are not happy with life in UK but I tell you that even if you come back here, even if you find the old friends, even if you change major, you won't solve the issue because everything change with time so you will not find the same friends, you will not find the same places and you are not the same as before
You need to analyse the components of your situation :
yourself and your world
1]how they are 2]how you want them to be 3]how to find the road between them to recreate a situation in which there is still harmony but in a different way cause nothing and nobody remains the same forever
We need to adjust ourselves to new or old situation or viceversa
In both cases we're not giving up anything : we can just be happy in a different way by looking at things from different perspectives
Is a long and difficult process and needs careful management : talking to a friend or asking for advice here, might not be enough
That's why you might require specialised help
You are stuck in the middle of nowhere, just need a little push in the right direction

Since ES is the only place I can come to and talk and have fun! :bored:
But thank you for ruining it...
Because you come here to whine :bored:

Is 6 months or more, we're discussing the same problem you have
You are not happy
And til here, welcome to the club
Thing is, that you dnt seem to do anything to change this status
You keep on asking for help but you dnt move from where you are
Apparently you are not happy with life in UK but I tell you that even if you come back here, even if you find the old friends, even if you change major, you won't solve the issue because everything change with time so you will not find the same friends, you will not find the same places and you are not the same as before
You need to analyse the components of your situation :
yourself and your world
1]how they are 2]how you want them to be 3]how to find the road between them to recreate a situation in which there is still harmony but in a different way cause nothing and nobody remains the same forever
We need to adjust ourselves to new or old situation or viceversa
In both cases we're not giving up anything : we can just be happy in a different way by looking at things from different perspectives
Is a long and difficult process and needs careful management : talking to a friend or asking for advice here, might not be enough
That's why you might require specialised help
You are stuck in the middle of nowhere, just need a little push in the right direction

If I look at those then I would say this:
1) Things are messed up and I don't think I will be able to fix it.
2) I want it to go back to normal and be the old me first which might help me a lot!
3) (I really don't know how to answer this....)

I have been thinking today a lot today.. I know it is "me" which is the problem as you said. Careful management is... hard to do when you have a lot on your mind especially at the end of the year you know?
I think now it is either I do it all at once or just forget about it all and live on.
Asking for advice as you said can't always help and talking to people may not always be good.
Seeking help... Did that.. The question that I asked myself which I couldn't answer was:
Q. Who am I?

Weird I know... I couldn't answer that simple question and that is where the problem lies, I think?
I told myself I will have to get the answer to that question then maybe I can move on and feel better...

Because you come here to whine :bored:

And you make my mood worse! :bored:
How come you have a "Personal Problems Sabla" but I can't say what I want and get all the "insults" from you?
If you don't like it then you can either leave or DELETE this sabla.. see how easy I am making it for you?

I don't think I will be able to fix it

Cause maybe you want to fix it in the wrong way and you are convinced that you cannot do
You are still stuck

Wrong way... I see everything is wrong here...

And you make my mood worse! :bored:
How come you have a "Personal Problems Sabla" but I can't say what I want and get all the "insults" from you?
If you don't like it then you can either leave or DELETE this sabla.. see how easy I am making it for you?
See, a thing like this made your mood change & it wasn't supposed to do so. So far I can see as amo pointed to, you are stuck in the same problem. An action should be taken instead of talking about the whole thing again & again.

What I meant by English Sabla is try to avoid revealing this negative view of yours, try doing something positive outside the English Sabla.

You are still stuck

You need to give him a hard push to the right direction.

See, a thing like this made your mood change & it wasn't supposed to do so. So far I can see as amo pointed to, you are stuck in the same problem. An action should be taken instead of talking about the whole thing again & again.

What I meant by English Sabla is try to avoid revealing this negative view of yours, try doing something positive outside the English Sabla.
If I go back to ALL my threads.. and show you what YOU wrote... Then you will know why mood goes bad when you post.
Saw snow... took it in my hand.. threw it... didn't feel happy... continued walking... and it was the 1st time I actually touched snow...
That didn't make me feel better and it was new to me and something I wanted to do a long time ago..


You need to give him a hard push to the right direction.
And that is where?

If I go back to ALL my threads.. and show you what YOU wrote... Then you will know why mood goes bad when you post.
Saw snow... took it in my hand.. threw it... didn't feel happy... continued walking... and it was the 1st time I actually touched snow...
That didn't make me feel better and it was new to me and something I wanted to do a long time ago..
Because I want you to motivate yourself instead of being still on the same point & keep on crying about it.

You didn't feel it, because you didn't want that. Sometimes it should work like this way, you erase whatever thoughts you have, go forward with a clear mind. Try to be positive, sometimes even the simplest things these bother us can be a push for us to look for a better situation or status.


Let me ask a question, is this mood you are in has to do anything with another person, what I mean is there a person involved in your case?!

Get a better life.

Excatly! :dev:

Get a better life .. and Move on!
Every little feeling or phase that comes to your life doesn't have to be on a thread in ES believe me! This is old school !

Part of living a good life is finding the right people to be with! So find them! but with this kind of behavior you won't find no one!

I say change!
You need a major change in life!
You study aboard yeah? .. So im guessing your 18 or 19 ?
Believe me .. the person i see posting seems a lot younger than that!
Socially .. You are good .. You are really good .. Your just not that good !

it could be that you are not eating propely that is why you are

feeling dizzy- it could be that you are not eating properly ( skipping meals or eating only junk food)

feeling heavy- maybe the place you are living in is so messy, small and not much day light comes through.

get mad or sad so fast- You are defiantly home sick

Because I want you to motivate yourself instead of being still on the same point & keep on crying about it.

You didn't feel it, because you didn't want that. Sometimes it should work like this way, you erase whatever thoughts you have, go forward with a clear mind. Try to be positive, sometimes even the simplest things these bother us can be a push for us to look for a better situation or status.


Let me ask a question, is this mood you are in has to do anything with another person, what I mean is there a person involved in your case?!
No person is involved in this... maybe?
I DON'T KNOW!
UFF!
Clearing my mind is not something I can do anymore!
I sat for like over 30 minutes thinking who I am and why can't I just move on and got upset!



;1059309']Excatly! :dev:

Get a better life .. and Move on!
Every little feeling or phase that comes to your life doesn't have to be on a thread in ES believe me! This is old school !

Part of living a good life is finding the right people to be with! So find them! but with this kind of behavior you won't find no one!

I say change!
You need a major change in life!
You study aboard yeah? .. So im guessing your 18 or 19 ?
Believe me .. the person i see posting seems a lot younger than that!
Socially .. You are good .. You are really good .. Your just not that good !
Then why are you replying?
You can just leave and continue your life.
Who said I am 18 from the inside?
I can be still 3 or 4 years old and that is what people "love" to see because that way they can have fun and make jokes and blah blah!
People here are not very good.. they only love people who drink and smoke and I am none of the two.
I don't mind being alone then..
If I am forced to be here then I will force myself to stay alone...



it could be that you are not eating propely that is why you are

feeling dizzy- it could be that you are not eating properly ( skipping meals or eating only junk food)

feeling heavy- maybe the place you are living in is so messy, small and not much day light comes through.

get mad or sad so fast- You are defiantly home sick
Yeah I don't eat well.
Of course I am home sick. (BIG TIME!)

Then why are you replying?
You can just leave and continue your life.
Who said I am 18 from the inside?
I can be still 3 or 4 years old and that is what people "love" to see because that way they can have fun and make jokes and blah blah!
People here are not very good.. they only love people who drink and smoke and I am none of the two.
I don't mind being alone then..
If I am forced to be here then I will force myself to stay alone...

Oh please!
How many people i know live in the same community you are in and came from the same community you used to be in plus the same age you are in! A few from this forum as well !
Yet none of them complain!
They probably do feel homesick and similar problems of yours .. It's just that they don't bring it up to public!

;1059353']Oh please!
How many people i know live in the same community you are in and came from the same community you used to be in plus the same age you are in! A few from this forum as well !
Yet none of them complain!
They probably do feel homesick and similar problems of yours .. It's just that they don't bring it up to public!

And maybe they don't because they do whatever they want as well!
And have friends to be with!
And don't care about studying as much as I do!
I can go on all day...:angry:

No person is involved in this... maybe?
I DON'T KNOW!
UFF!
Clearing my mind is not something I can do anymore!
I sat for like over 30 minutes thinking who I am and why can't I just move on and got upset!
Huh?! :os So is there a person involved or not?!

This is the problem, you keep on thinking of it!! :bored:

Huh?! :os So is there a person involved or not?!

This is the problem, you keep on thinking of it!! :bored:

I don't want to think about my parents or friends.
I am accepting the fact I am alone in this world.
So I don't want them to even BE in my head... :bored:
My head thinks a lot!
I prefer this then the bad thoughts!

squinty, so what if they drink or smoke...you can't expect everybody who you're gonna like to be exactly the same as you. open your mind, you might find that the smokers/drinkers might be nice people after all.
they can have a beer. you can have an orange juice with lemonade.

And maybe they don't because they do whatever they want as well!
And have friends to be with!
And don't care about studying as much as I do!
I can go on all day...:angry:

A lot of people are top students .. yet they are socially active and can make a combination between both studying and gathering!

I am not trying to upset you here .. I'm just trying to help you change!

I don't want to think about my parents or friends.
I am accepting the fact I am alone in this world.
So I don't want them to even BE in my head... :bored:
My head thinks a lot!
I prefer this then the bad thoughts!
Then Why this thread if you accepted that fact?! :bored:

squinty, so what if they drink or smoke...you can't expect everybody who you're gonna like to be exactly the same as you. open your mind, you might find that the smokers/drinkers might be nice people after all.
they can have a beer. you can have an orange juice with lemonade.

No .. I think he means that THEY don't like him because he doesn't drink or smoke! LOL

squinty, so what if they drink or smoke...you can't expect everybody who you're gonna like to be exactly the same as you. open your mind, you might find that the smokers/drinkers might be nice people after all.
they can have a beer. you can have an orange juice with lemonade.
I know what you mean but I have a problem with smoke and the smell of alcohol that is why I can't stand them.


;1059361']A lot of people are top students .. yet they are socially active and can make a combination between both studying and gathering!

I am not trying to upset you here .. I'm just trying to help you change!
Yeah well.. They are better then me in studying and they just study before the exam by 1 day just like you and do well..
But when you study your @$$ off and do your best and keep getting worse it is not a good feeling!
When it happens to you, you will lose it... And I don't mean once.. I mean when it keeps happening EVERY SINGLE TIME!



Then Why this thread if you accepted that fact?! :bored:
Accepting the fact I am alone is different then feeling bad...

Accepting the fact I am alone is different then feeling bad...
When I accept the face of something that bothers me, so then for sure I will feel bad. The problem you are in this wrong way & you keep yourself on the same direction, forget whatever you are going through & simply change the direction.


I don't think I can compare my case here with yours. But, let me mention it, I got the chance to go abroad for one year with this scholarship, though it wasn't one of my best studing years. But, I enjoyed it to the maximum because I wanted that. I got a break at the mid of the year, my brother suggested to send me a ticket so I can fly back home, I refused because I wanted to stay there even I was kinda missing Oman. Being abroad can be a chance for building a good personality & you don't want to miss the experience. Live it for the moment!

When I accept the face of something that bothers me, so then for sure I will feel bad. The problem you are in this wrong way & you keep yourself on the same direction, forget whatever you are going through & simply change the direction.


I don't think I can compare my case here with yours. But, let me mention it, I got the chance to go abroad for one year with this scholarship, though it wasn't one of my best studing years. But, I enjoyed it to the maximum because I wanted that. I got a break at the mid of the year, my brother suggested to send me a ticket so I can fly back home, I refused because I wanted to stay there even I was kinda missing Oman. Being abroad can be a chance for building a good personality & you don't want to miss the experience. Live it for the moment!

See.
YOU wanted it.
I don't.
If people understand that.
Then maybe you will know why I feel bad most of the time..
Anyway, I tried to do so many different things.
I even do things and ask myself "Why am I doing it?"
But I go with it because I want to see if I can feel better.
Since I heard the worst things I can hear from the people I love I never had fun and always went back to study.
I told myself to forget what they said and do what I want!
The problem is.. what I WANT can't be done here since I know no one here, the cold weather makes me want to stay in doors and I have nothing to do.

I went through what you were feeling the 1st year when i went abroad. And I strongly believe that what was making me depressed is how people were cold towards me. People are so friendly in Oman and having to deal with such people seems to some how depress me.

I joined the gym thinking that if I had an active life, I would feel less miserable but
then I felt I was working out all by my self.
I felt even lonelier, 10 people in the same room and I am just invisible to them, not even a smile comes out from them.

Even if they were friendly I found their topics or way of having fun totally not interesting to me. I couldn’t force my self to be interested in what they talk or do because that’s just not the way I am. I basically couldn’t relate to them.

I cried almost every single day and I hated talking to my parents on the phone because that would make me miss them even more.

And when I complained about my situation back home, some people felt that I was weak, maybe boring… etc so I learned to just keep it to my self and took it as a challenge.

At the end of the day, you are there only temporary, it’s not like you will live like that for the rest of you life and besides you are sacrificing now for a better life in the future.

Anyway in the second year I started getting used to it a bit but still hated it.
The 3rd year I decided to move to a busy city and I am much happier here. With A lot of international people around, I found a good group to hang around with.

Maybe you should move to a busier city hehe.

I hate crowded places! :p

To me I think it depends on the people, if you WANTED to go abroad, the place you live in, etc.
To me nothing is good enough... in the UK.
I can't even smell the FRESH AIR!

Next year, hopefully, I am moving to another city. Maybe I will like it more and if I stayed the same. Then I will keep things in me and die because of it. :)

See.
YOU wanted it.
I don't.
You don't want to stay abroad?! Okay, whats forcing you?! And if there is someone forcing you, lets say maybe family, you can tell them that you don't want to be there as you aren't feeling comfortable. But, at the same time, you should provide with an option of what else you want.

If you don't have the option, or you can't convince them with the option you got, then you should try loving what you have for now.

Squinty, is this the first time you go abroad alone ? I've been to Australia in a very young age and alone and didn't complain like you do. And when you say people in the west like those who drink and smoke you are very wrong. In contrary, when you have your persoanlity and defend your beliefs they will respect and love you for who you are. And as NightFace said, if you don't like to study abroad just don't. Come back home and am sure your parents will understand.

I always have this as an encouraging quote for me when am stuck and feel depressed: The poison that doesn't kill me, makes me stronger. make this weak point of abroad phobia as a strong point for you. Try to love what you have and why you are there. Having some problems is not the end of the day you just have to know how to handle them and keep on.

You don't want to stay abroad?! Okay, whats forcing you?! And if there is someone forcing you, lets say maybe family, you can tell them that you don't want to be there as you aren't feeling comfortable. But, at the same time, you should provide with an option of what else you want.

If you don't have the option, or you can't convince them with the option you got, then you should try loving what you have for now.

I think there were like 3 topics about WHY I can't go back? :think:
Anyway, yes I am forced to be here and TRYING to cope... not working.
No matter how good things are... It backfires...
Yes, squinty is a baby who wants to go back to his mama country Oman.
Who cares!
I just don't get why when THEY do it WE have to do it...!
They don't want me to go through my option because then they will have a hard time CONTACTING me! :bored:
As if I care...

Squinty, is this the first time you go abroad alone ? I've been to Australia in a very young age and alone and didn't complain like you do. And when you say people in the west like those who drink and smoke you are very wrong. In contrary, when you have your persoanlity and defend your beliefs they will respect and love you for who you are. And as NightFace said, if you don't like to study abroad just don't. Come back home and am sure your parents will understand.

I always have this as an encouraging quote for me when am stuck and feel depressed: The poison that doesn't kill me, makes me stronger. make this weak point of abroad phobia as a strong point for you. Try to love what you have and why you are there. Having some problems is not the end of the day you just have to know how to handle them and keep on.

Yes first time abroad AND I always hated traveling!
Which makes it worse... And if YOU didn't complain does that mean I have to be you and not complain? :think:
El_Rey... CHECK my old threads and SEE what ALL my family said and how HARD I tried to change their ideas... They never listen to me!
The poison doesn't kill me NOW but it is certainly taking my life away slowly..
How would you feel if every move you do your heart hurts like HELL and feels like it is going to explode?!

The problem with everyone here is, they talk about themselves and not SEE why I hate this.
YOU ALL WANT to leave while I DON'T!
I am FORCED to be here!
And everyone is different!
I am not you and you all are not me!:angry:
If you can do something that doesn't mean I CAN DO IT!
Before "flaming" me with all your insults and CRUEL posts THINK about it in my point of view!

The problem is, you all WANT me to live with it when I hate it!
If you hate something how can you love it?
If you hate someone and I FORCE you to live with them, work with them, eat with them, sleep in the same room with them, talk to them... How would you feel?

Don't give me the crap and say: "We will be who we are and try as hard as possible to stay calm" because I know that is a LIE!
When you do that for OVER 1 year then come to me and tell me EXACTLY what you did to feel "better" when you are with the person you hate!