As we all can see nowdays, teenage love is taking a nice job in teenagers life and some boys or girls just say that they love that person but they dont really love him/her well thats called playing i guess and playing is the worst thing that a boy/girl can do in the other person life!


What do you think of teenage love that teenagers are talking about?!

I say sometimes it can be real love, do you agree?!


They do not love that do not show their love. The course of true love never did run smooth. Love is a familiar. Love is a devil. There is no evil angel but Love. - William Shakespeare


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Two words:

Hormonal RAGE! :XD:

^ i agree with AE
love doesn't just happen like that
in our teens years we tend to love the 1st person we see :XD:
and in time we realize it was just a crush

^exactly! Once you reach an age where you mature...you know the difference between a crush and true love.....:love:

In our teen years we are exposed to many new things and tend to "want" to know how it feels when you go out with someone, or how it feels like to be in a relationship and talk to that special "one" late at night. It's normal and at that stage, you do not really realize that it's not true love; you think it's "THE" love!

But some teens get lucky, hardly though.. I was one of the teens who knew my husband at the age of 16, and he was just 20! It wasn't the first love, but it was a teen love which got serious..

teens r sooo wanna be like grown ups.. so they tend to just like any1 infont of them even if it was a bus driver.. n they just wana look cool.. so they think if they werre in a relationship every1 will be like ( ooh n eehh ) to them!

put poor thing.. after couple of months they notice its just a crush n they feel soo STUPID!

i just think its a phase every1 has to somehow fall into, come on teenage girls have some girly secret to whisper n laugh secretly among themselves..

but i think adults should try to telll them in an indirect way that this isnt real so they wont get hurt.. n when grow up resent love.. ( i witnessed a case.. a frined didnt wana get married coz she was afraid that when she loved him he'd c another gal, like wt her cousin did to her, so she's just rejecting everything 4 that lil mistake of falling for her cousin when she was in grade 9 )

but some seriously work out.. the lucky ones.. who meat responsible partners !

But some teens get lucky, hardly though.. I was one of the teens who knew my husband at the age of 16, and he was just 20! It wasn't the first love, but it was a teen love which got serious..
heheh i just mentioned that ! n u posted just a minute b4 i did post my reply!

lucky u .. wish u always have the happiness n pleasure all ur life..

nice job in teenagers life

Nice job you say? :yuk:
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I don't think it's love, I just think that the person loves the attention, instead interprets it as love.

Well sometimes its real love i guess

Mostly, it is just for "fun" which I hate so much!
True as Angel_Eyes said it is "hormonal RAGE" but at times it can be true love.
I think if they REALLY were in love they wouldn't go for a relationship until they are 100% sure they are in love then they can just go tell their parents.
Get engaged if not married...
I really hate one thing the most which is this:
"I am SOOOOOOOO in love with X and if X was not there I would die!"

When something happens they NEVER try to fix it and say it is TOO big to handle so they leave. In TRUE love there is nothing called "TOO big to handle" because you know you WANT to be with that someone forever!

IF the couple (wish all of you don't think of being a relationship for fun... :mmhmm:) work things out always and go through things together to make it work THEN I would say it is true love.

CompulsiveWaves... True love can happen if the couple try hard to make it work but that rarely happens so I would say maybe only 5% or less is true love...

teenagers are inexperienced and immature, that's why they often mistake infatuation for love. that doesn't mean you can't really fall in love when you're a teenager. happens..you just won't know it's real love until it survives your teen years. :P

I prefer not to call it teenage love

I'd rather call it the "trouser snake love"

^ haha .. well he does make a good point. I mean it first starts out as a normal phone/chatting relationship where everything is innocent...then things evolve a little. They start seeing each other sneaking out behind parents back to meet up with the lover... so on and so forth. The guy probably just reached puberty and wants to experiment a little and the girl is too dumb to know what's going on.

But honestly I think that once you hit 17-19 you should be old enough and mature enough to realize if it's real love, commitment kinda love... or only messing around.

It's the nature of human being of wanting to be loved and cared. At that age it's a serious matter as the picture of real love is not clear and things can go horribly wrong.

i think teenage 'love' is necessary to affirm your sexual identity. as in you start liking certain traits in the sex opposite to you, you start exploring what you like and what you don't, what agrees with you and what not. it's important because when you get to the age of choosing your life partner, the experiences you've had with having different kinds of friendship (some you fancy, some you love their character, some you love the way they make you laugh, some you love their dedication towards music/art/hobby)....will help you to make a better choice.

^oh and i didn't mean that you have to date all of the people you 'fall in love with'. sometimes you are in a group and you fall for a particular person. you get to know what you like and especially, what you don't want to spend your life with.

teenage love isnt necissarly just an illussion. I know a few people that loved each other since they were 13, now their married and have 3 kids. I guess *most* of teen love is just a game, where they break-up in a few moths or so, however, some teens keep their love till marrige sometimes..

i do beleive in teen love