Are you a "what if" person?

Do you usually think of the worst case scenarios that could happen to your life (career, love life, etc)?

Or are you a "now" person who enjoys every moment of every second?


I am a "now" person. I don't think of what could happen in the future, I just plan on making the best of what I have now, because I believe that if I do my best now, I'll be happy later. Besides, I don't know how long I am going to live for, so why think ahead?

Share your thoughts :)

I don't like to plan ahead .. I do think about the future and my life but I don't stress myself over it... I just live the moment and enjoy it as much as I can. So I'm more like "what if tomorrow never comes?".

I live in the now. I enjoy every second of it and the fact that I am alive and well.

But I also think ahead sometimes. Like where will I do my masters after I'm done here. Or how hard it is going to be to say goodbye to my friends here..

I'm a now person, living life as it is, without thinking about the future .. When it comes, it will come and I'll have to deal with it the, so why bother giving myself a headache?

What if, lol. but I enjoy my moments too.
I always plan ahead.

I spend a lot of time thinking about the future, what things I want to do, what kind of life I want, how to get there, etc because most days I still have no clue what I want. I'm just trying to figure things out, but it's not like I don't enjoy my life now. :)

well, i'm not sure..but i think i'm a tomorrow person, 'cause i noticed i think of tomorrow more than today.
i try to enjoy my now, living the moments, and sometimes i do. but thinking of tomorrow never leaves my head. sometimes i become annoying with the what ifs i share with the people i allow myself to be vulnerable around. 'ugh Nella, you worry a lot!'

:inno:

My stupid head always thinks a lot... I am not a "now" person.. I always look ahead and never think about now.. which is bad...

Definitely a "what if" person..

This is a maltese saying.. "Ahseb fil hazin biex it-tajjeb ma jonqosx" (think of the bad, so there is no less good)
It means think of the worst case scenario, so you can be prepared for it and keep things as best as can be or from going bad..

In a way.. by thinking of the worst case scenario, I prepare myself for any eventuality.. if it's good, then great! If it's bad.. I'm well prepared.

See, I like surprises, but only good ones :D

well, i'm not sure..but i think i'm a tomorrow person, 'cause i noticed i think of tomorrow more than today.
i try to enjoy my now, living the moments, and sometimes i do. but thinking of tomorrow never leaves my head. sometimes i become annoying with the what ifs i share with the people i allow myself to be vulnerable around. 'ugh Nella, you worry a lot!'

:inno:

heh so0 ditto!

I'm definately a 'what if' person. I always tend to think of the worst scenarios so i'm prepared, unfortunately because of this i tend to overthink things and worry a lot.

I like to think I am both...I can be a daydreamer and at the same time I realized that I have accomplish allot in my life so safely I can say I am both.

Am a "if I had not" person

I'm very pessimistic. I always tend to think of the worst, which is something I really need to tone down. :bored:

I'm definitely a "what if" person, but not in a negative way...I'm normally thinking "what if I do this...it will be great!". Doesn't always work out of course, but I guess I prefer to be positive and optimistic. I don't give much thought to what might go wrong...maybe that's why it does quite frequently! But..it's just me I think...

I'm very pessimistic. I always tend to think of the worst, which is something I really need to tone down. :bored:

I am like that too...
But not VERY pessimistic...

umm..its kinda complicated.. mostly,,im a "what if" person.. 2 me, its a good thing.. cuz I always have a good thought about something before I do it! =D So, im both (A)