When I was abroad, it was so easy to hook up with a girl which I admire,I would just go to her and say some thing nice or how I find her.

How girls would like the guys in Oman to approach them ?

if a guy saw a girl and he admired her style and how she looks and he was interasted to know her further, how he can approach her ?

what he have to say to her ?

How do girls want it ?

Most Omani guys dont know how to sweep a girl off her feet

Tacky and unromantic

Try a Hindi movie style.. singing a song and dancing on that song :p

I have never been interested in a girl that I don't know... takes really time before I get really interested in a girl; personality matters to me :p

well

for me

i dont think i would just see a nice looking chick and would want to approach her...

here it's different, this is considered kinda bad with most ppl

Most Omani guys dont know how to sweep a girl off her feet

Tacky and unromantic

fine, what why am asking you as a girl point of view , how you wish the guy to approach you..
E.X: walk to you and say " sorry , but i like how you look.. can i know you more""? !!


what he have to do/say ?

dont try in Oman
u will go crazy from the girls here :P :P

I think it is stupid.. :mmhmm:
But just be you... Why would you change and BE SWEET for 1 day just to get her?

If you do that, that means you don't like yourself...
If you don't like yourself how can people like YOU?!

Be who you are, talk to her NORMALLY and don't go like: "I...ummm... think your... style is.... nice...?"
or you will be laughed at and/or hurt when she leaves...

IF she was interested in knowing you she will make a conversation with you if not GET THE HINT and leave...

well......the problem here is some or let me say most of the girls if u approach them or show them you are interested .....thier head will grow much bigger :) !!!! then 6ab3an u will be rejected n probably get the usual lacture " qaleeeel il2adab how could u do this....bla bla bla"......6ab3an they do this even if they r interested !! strange isnt it:)...
but to b honest i dono how to help u :)

If you know her friends, then try to tell them how you feel about her and they'll pass your message to her. And then after discussion with her friends, she'll either accept you or not :D

Most of Omani guys don't have the right skills of approaching girls.

Real examples talk louder:

Scene I:
Guy: وش ذا الذي عيني تشوفه؟ وجه البدر أو مطلع الشمس
translation: What am I seeing? The face of the moon or the Sunrise?:cool:

The girl: روح زين.. من زين ويهك يا ويه العنز!
Go away, you with your goat-like face!:angry:

Scene II:
The guy: Give me a kiss baby, ummuaah!
The girl: *slap* *slap*
The guy: Ok, gimme a tissue :cry: *whipe his tears* :hyper:

I think if you know someone who knows her, then your better off telling that person to inform her with your interest.

First the girl has to be interested on you! :bored:
since most girls are not interested in guys approaching thiss way.. it wont happend!!

unless a girl is interested in your style or how you look or maybe your perfume then any approach you make, even if a cough and ask for tissue will be a way she will talk to you before you talk to her..

depends on the girl mood more than your approach!

First the girl has to be interested on you! :bored:
since most girls are not interested in guys approaching thiss way.. it wont happend!!

unless a girl is interested in your style or how you look or maybe your perfume then any approach you make, even if a cough and ask for tissue will be a way she will talk to you before you talk to her..

depends on the girl mood more than your approach!

Lets say you went to a mall and while shopping a guy notice this nice girl whom looks respectfull and she got a very nice style with decent make-up.

So the guy with to know if the girl is smart/educated/good personality..

He will go to her and ask her for a tissue ?
How you will know if she is interasted , what he have to do/say ?

Most of Omani guys don't have the right skills of approaching girls.

Real examples talk louder:

Scene I:
Guy: وش ذا الذي عيني تشوفه؟ وجه البدر أو مطلع الشمس
translation: What am I seeing? The face of the moon or the Sunrise?:cool:

The girl: روح زين.. من زين ويهك يا ويه العنز!
Go away, you with your goat-like face!:angry:

Scene II:
The guy: Give me a kiss baby, ummuaah!
The girl: *slap* *slap*
The guy: Ok, gimme a tissue :cry: *whipe his tears* :hyper:

As far as i know ,, only low class/non educated guys use such style .. I never saw an educated well manner guy saying such lines!

he deserv to be rejected ofc

don't approach at all :p you'll be doing the 'chick' a huge favor.

seriously..

Something witty, funny and that made me smile or laugh. A gentle play of words always went a long way.. :D


"Hi. You're cute. Can i have your number" .. never worked.

Why would you wanna approach a random girl you don't even know? Just cause shes pretty? Anyways, I dunno what's the most reasonable way to approach a girl...coz if honestly some random guy came up to me and told me he's interested in me then I'd definitely freak out. I guess the best way is to ask around about her to know who she is .. find out a lil about her...but don't stalk her!

^ yeah, just going up to the girl doesn't really work. She'll just most probably walk away and laugh it off.

would be easier to get close to this girl's circle first....get to know her from her friends. mingle mingle mingle then swoop on your target :hyper:

^ yeah thats a pretty good tactic.

^ it's the tactic they should use, seriously..stalking her and throwing stupid flirting comments is just hilarious, and what's even more hilarious is that some girls actually fall for it..

i'd like you better if you didn't follow me like a dog repeating your phone number, regardless of the many times i told you off and gave you signs that i'm just not interested. :)

i'd like you better if you didn't follow me like a dog repeating your phone number, regardless of the many times i told you off and gave you signs that i'm just not interested. :)

LOL!:yes:

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Its not what you say, its the way you say it.

I think the key is recognising whether she is interested. In Oman and other Gulf countries, if you make an approach to a nice respectable girl, then you will get one of two responses to know whether or not she likes you:

1. If she is NOT interested, she will say something like:

"Sorry I'm not interested, and no, you're not having my number."

2. But if she IS interested, she will say something like:

"Sorry I'm not interested, and no, you're not having my number."

Somewhere in the female mind, they think this is perfectly clear to men and we should just KNOW what they mean. And they wonder why we say women are impossible. Charming though isn't it?

I'm not sure yet how to crack that code, but if you do there are some other things you need to know: According to the ancient Indian text the Kama Sutra, before approaching girls you should set yourself up as follows:

Once a man achieves the necessary financial resources, he should become the head of his household. He should reside in a town that can sustain his livelihood, live in a house near the water, and have two apartments - an outer one, and one for privacy. The inner apartment should be the dwelling of his lady

Hope that's all clear. Once you've done that, then cracked the double-meaning-go-away code and started talking to your girl, then apparently this is what you have to do:

"When a boy has thus begun to woo a girl that he loves, he should spend his time with her and amuse her with various games and diversions fitted for their age and acquaintanceship, such as picking and collecting flowers, making garlands of flowers, playing parts of members of a fictitious family.. the game of odds and evens, the game of finding out the middle finger, the game of six pebbles. Hide-and-seek, playing with seeds, blind-man’s bluff and other games of the same sort."

I'm sure all the Sabla ladies would find this very stimulating. Good luck!

^

Now that really made me LOL!

Diversions fitted for their age lol...I wanna play blind-man's buff!! :D

Alternatively you can use the traditional Khaleeji courtship ritual - the "ten steps to love":

1. Write your mobile number and your first name on several small pieces of paper, and fold them up. Put them in your pocket.

2. Go to a large shopping mall, perhaps with a group of your friends.

3. Sit on a bench, or in a coffee shop on the seats facing outside (with one bottle of juice between six of you), or just lean against the wall along one of the walkways. Wait for women to walk by.

4. Make the irresistable secret female-hypnotising noise: "psss...pssssss...psssswwwsssss.....pssss...."

5. Throw one of the small pieces of paper with your number at each suitable female.

6. When the female has passed, bounce up and down and cackle like a monkey, looking like you did something very clever.

7. Repeat for nine hours every Thursday, and every evening in Ramadhan, for ten years.

8. Check that your phone is working properly even though it didn't ring.

9. Marry your cousin who you've known since you were five.

10. Realise you once threw your number at her in a shopping mall, and so did all of your closest friends.

^ it's the tactic they should use, seriously..stalking her and throwing stupid flirting comments is just hilarious, and what's even more hilarious is that some girls actually fall for it..

i'd like you better if you didn't follow me like a dog repeating your phone number, regardless of the many times i told you off and gave you signs that i'm just not interested. :)

I find a guy chasing a girl and repeating his number is very cheap,and probably consider the guy as a dog,and twhat made him a dog as you called it ,, is him trying to know a girl he liked physically and trying to know what kind girl is she...that why I was asking u guys whats the way liked to be approached ?!

I would think the guy is really an A-hole if he just came up to me and told me "Hey, I think your pretty and I would like to get to know you better?" :bored: The way I prefer to be approached is through people I know, people I am comfortable with. In Oman, it is pretty easy to find someone that you both know and I guess that is your best shot to show that your intentions are sincere and genuine.

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Do her homework.

Let me give another scenario to make things simpler.

“A guy studying in a Uni/College and he liked this girl who was with him in one of his modules…He always see her around the college and he find her respectful and nice and he would like to know more of her. The guy don’t have a clue if she like him or not so he have to ask or communicate with her.


In a girl point of view , what’s the way she would like to be approached,,,,,


I agree with all girls that these are very cheap and I wouldn’t personally think of’m or do them:


1-A guy chasing a girl in a mall and trying to spell their phone number.
2-Chasing a girl car until their house and do a camping job.
3-Following a girl and saying flirting lines “so bedwin”.


Regardless the scenario I wrote up there, I wish to know how a girl think and how she would like the guy to act when he wish to approach her.

Sorry gents, I know am more directed to the girls in this posts than to you.

Alternatively you can use the traditional Khaleeji courtship ritual - the "ten steps to love":

1. Write your mobile number and your first name on several small pieces of paper, and fold them up. Put them in your pocket.

2. Go to a large shopping mall, perhaps with a group of your friends.

3. Sit on a bench, or in a coffee shop on the seats facing outside (with one bottle of juice between six of you), or just lean against the wall along one of the walkways. Wait for women to walk by.

4. Make the irresistable secret female-hypnotising noise: "psss...pssssss...psssswwwsssss.....pssss...."

5. Throw one of the small pieces of paper with your number at each suitable female.

6. When the female has passed, bounce up and down and cackle like a monkey, looking like you did something very clever.

7. Repeat for nine hours every Thursday, and every evening in Ramadhan, for ten years.

8. Check that your phone is working properly even though it didn't ring.

9. Marry your cousin who you've known since you were five.

10. Realise you once threw your number at her in a shopping mall, and so did all of your closest friends.

ROFL..

Thank you very much for sharing your personal experiance.That was so brave..

Pss Pss, guys dont be him.

Let him be friendly. He should talk to me in a respectable untacky way. He should not flirt but somehow subtly show that he is caring and nice. So yeah, let him be a friend first, then after I get comfortable with him as a friend, he can start expressing his feelings where he should show that his intentions are genuine and sincere.

This should take a couple of months, or perhaps up to a year.

Up to a year? Hmm...seems a guy's really got to do the hard yards these days hehe...patience mimo, patience....:angel:

yeah that is enough time to get to really know him and at the same time know that he is willing to stick it out as being your friend and only your friend up to a year which takes lots of patience. So yeah, it says tons about him and his intentions.

So if he's thinking you'd be just the girl he wants to marry...you don't want to know for a year? Does emotion have no place in this ritual at all?! Or is it just on the outside you have to be "friends"...and hope he understands what is unspoken? :hmm:

From a guy's point of view, if I'm nice and friendly with a girl for months, a year, or whatever, and she keeps saying "you're a friend"...I kind of get the message she doesn't want me to be anything else! Is this wrong?!

^ good point. a year is a lot Lym. xD

So if he's thinking you'd be just the girl he wants to marry...you don't want to know for a year? Does emotion have no place in this ritual at all?! Or is it just on the outside you have to be "friends"...and hope he understands what is unspoken? :hmm:

From a guy's point of view, if I'm nice and friendly with a girl for months, a year, or whatever, and she keeps saying "you're a friend"...I kind of get the message she doesn't want me to be anything else! Is this wrong?!

Well...can't you be friends but you know you like one another kind of thing? :inno: If you like one another, c'mon most of the time it will show. i am just saying, for me to be able to trust some stranger, i will need a long time to get to know him and know that he is sincere enough to stay friends even though it might seem to him like I am not interested. But I'm thinking, if he likes me and reaaally wants me as a partner but he feels that I don't consider him as more than a friend, then he will confront me about it and that will be cleared.

I am not saying it has to be a year. If a strange guy from uni gets to know me and I happen to get to know him in a couple of months and we end up liking each other, I am not going to wait up to a year with my calender just for us to make a move to the next level. I'm not an obsessive planner! lol My point is that i would like to be good friends with him for a while before anything happens.

I get you, and actually I like your attitude, it's a good way for a respectable nice girl...the kind of girl a guy would want to end up marrying ya3ni.

BUT...it's the "you know you like one another kind of thing" that is the problem. See, we are guys. Guys are stupid in some ways. We don't get it. If you don't have a neon sign on your head saying "we like one another kind of thing", there is a big risk we won't get it until it's too late. Especially if she keeps saying "we're friends". Or worse, he decides to "confront" the issue like you said, and the answer is still...er..."let's be friends"...

It's a minefield Lym...how can a dumb guy just know? :help:

Most Omani guys dont know how to sweep a girl off her feet

Tacky and unromantic
HAHA totally agree :p

i wouldnt like it if a guy i dont know just comes and says blu blu ... lol ill ignore
...if a guy liked me as in we know each other .. then ..ummm i dont know he can tell me how he feels :p

if a guy saw a girl and he admired her style and how she looks and he was interasted to know her further, how he can approach her ?

what he have to say to her ?

How do girls want it ?

1st rule of picking up chicks is don't ever listen to what other chicks have to say about picking up chicks.

I'm not sure...for me the first rule about picking up chicks is don't use expressions to chicks like "picking up chicks" :hmm:

I'm not sure...for me the first rule about picking up chicks is don't use expressions to chicks like "picking up chicks" :hmm:

ahahahaha :hyper:

I'm not sure...for me the first rule about picking up chicks is don't use expressions to chicks like "picking up chicks" :hmm:

lol...yeah...

So if he's thinking you'd be just the girl he wants to marry...you don't want to know for a year? Does emotion have no place in this ritual at all?! Or is it just on the outside you have to be "friends"...and hope he understands what is unspoken? :hmm:

From a guy's point of view, if I'm nice and friendly with a girl for months, a year, or whatever, and she keeps saying "you're a friend"...I kind of get the message she doesn't want me to be anything else! Is this wrong?!

Then you are just a friend to her.

Jihad4Truth ,

why is that ?

Jihad4Truth ,

why is that ?


Because most ladies tend to speak negatively and condescendingly of guys who approach them. And the male who listens to that, may subconsiciously internalize it and think he is doing something wrong and thus more likely to convey anxiety or apprehension to the lady. Which is a definite turn off.

Also women are unique creatures, they all have their own idea of what is charming and what is not. Some girls like unapologetic assertive men, some girls don't. It does not do the male brain any good to listen to such contradicting messages.

Always be respectful....see if she has interests you dig. Smile...when you do that and it is genuine allot of women love it because it shows you are nice, happy, and full of life.

It's a minefield Lym...how can a dumb guy just know? :help:

Really??!? That's scary. I always thought most guys think all girls like them...or perhaps only the guys around me think like that!

Hahaha...well maybe...

But seriously, if you keep telling a guy you're just friends, how do you expect him to know you like him? Really, we are way stupid sometimes...

Do her homework.

Its 7aram according to your dogma ya Bogus

Most of Omani guys don't have the right skills of approaching girls.

Real examples talk louder:

Scene I:
Guy: وش ذا الذي عيني تشوفه؟ وجه البدر أو مطلع الشمس
translation: What am I seeing? The face of the moon or the Sunrise?:cool:
lol Italian guys used to say "your father is a thief, he stole the stars from the sky to give you eyes ":D

From this sort of threads it always comes out that Omani guys find girls not interesting and Omani gals find them predictable
I think is lack of communication

Hahaha...well maybe...

But seriously, if you keep telling a guy you're just friends, how do you expect him to know you like him? Really, we are way stupid sometimes...

I guess I am stupid like that too, because I really can't tell when someone likes me :rolleyes:. But apparently, I am the only one since all my other girlfriends and male friends can. Something about flirting and body language, about showing interest more than usual and the other person doing sweet things.

To me that is what friends do minus the flirting of course. But then what is the different between flirting and complimenting somebody sincerely?

Approaching chicks is overrated.

female figures are like question marks to me.

IBut then what is the different between flirting and complimenting somebody sincerely?

Intent...!

So how would you let someone know you're interested?

Approaching a chick!!If you really want to catch a chick ... Approach her from behind ... if not she'll see you!

Intent...!

So how would you let someone know you're interested?

I won't. The only way he will know that is if he asks me.

But there's the Catch-22 isn't it? You want him to just act like a friend...but then you want him to ask if you're...interested.

Women are impossible ;)

But there's the Catch-22 isn't it? You want him to just act like a friend...but then you want him to ask if you're...interested.

Women are impossible ;)


old news ;)

But there's the Catch-22 isn't it? You want him to just act like a friend...but then you want him to ask if you're...interested.

Women are impossible ;)

But he is going to be my friend, nothing more. But eventually, if we end up liking one another, then yeah, he should ask me, since he likes me, doesn't he? I hope guys don't expect us females to make the first move, and become the hunters!

Correction: women are not impossible, which just give out that image so we could get away with almost everything. Isn't that clever? ;)

ROFL Lym , I guess you already proven what he stated above :)

Wow...we truley are a bit of a complication? I actually kinda feel slightly sorry for you guys.

Oh well all the better when you end up with one of us you'll know she's worth it for the headache you went through :XD:

lol @ Lym...yep...for sure you're cleverer than us!

when you end up with one of us you'll know she's worth it for the headache you went through

You know, I kind of believe that...when you have to work for something you value it more ;)

i would never agree to even talk to a guy who approaches me and ask for my number. It clearly shows that he probably does that to loads of other girls. which isnt very cool lool. It is kinda weird if a guy approaches a girl he has never seen before and just want to hook up with her to talk to her just cause she looks good. On the other hand, how long do those things last?

bubbles what an avatar!!!

I remember this guy following me everywhere,

him: Excuse me
Me: (gave him a very serious look... like expecting him to tell me something very very important:
him: Excuse me (he is already shacking):shy:
Me: whats matter with you? :6:
Him: Pls dont be mad at me!!! Can I tell you something!!!
Me: Speak :angry:
Him: mumkin..; Can you
just before he complete his sentence I told him NO...

My friend couldnt help but laugh: she told me i have embarassed him..i think he deserve it...

some boys are just stupid he is not even confident enough to approach a girl,,why doing it...

^^ looool good one

Guys should stay the hell away from women coz they don't know what they're in for :6: YOu never know what kind of woman you're going to have to face and deal with:p
Better to keep some distance:D hehe..
NO APPROACHING! :XD:

It's better if SHE does that..:rolleyes: i guess:bored:

am not confident enough when it comes to approaching a girl I like!!
Although I can speak contentedly to any girl... but when it comes to expressing my feelings, I can never do that!
And if I ever do it, they can't be sure wether am serious or just joking!
Which is good in a way; bad in another :D

^ tip, girls do like confident guys, as long as their not over-confident :D