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Cute_Ting 28-01-08, 01:29 AM Hey Ya'll alrite i'd like to say first i3uoon, b7r and j'adore u can all go screw urself and dont laugh
anyhow alrite my sis is pregnant and one day we were sitting down and talking and she was talking about names and stuff and im like i loveeeeeeee the name Rayah and my name starts with an "R" and if my grls name starts with it that would be awesome and i told her how i got it cuz one of my friends name is rayah anyhow s0o0o now she wants to name her baby grl rayah and i was explain to her that she got it from me shes like "no i dont remember and wut not and i told her shes a liar and i dont like liars"
i dont know wut to do i swear if she named her rayah i wont like the baby nor would i talk to her EVER yes its just a name but its a name i was soo passionate about and wanted to grls name to be that
J'adore 28-01-08, 01:41 AM looooooool... :shy: I kno u said no laughing but thats exactly wut I just did!!
Mamiii I sayyy screw it.. if she wants to name that name let her name it..
and whooooo knows.. she might even end up changing the name ORR.. ur ***** might even end up bein like "I thought I wanted that name but I dont want it anymore" U kno wa I meanz? Just wait and seee
And wut if Double Drama won't even like it? loool ( I kill myself my word I do! )
P.S .. You can't hate on your baby niece.. I kno u say u would.. But I'm sure once u see the lil baby girl you'd change ur mind ;)
Dam3eti 28-01-08, 01:42 AM looooooooool
that's annoying! Now u'll have to find another name
I'd kill my sis :p
Cute_Ting 28-01-08, 01:42 AM Nooo shes telling everyone thats the name and me and her dont get along and i feel like yelling now...shes so0o0o annoying she does things to piss me off and she makes mom change her mind about things she says yes too
Cute_Ting 28-01-08, 01:45 AM and no joke i swear j'adore i wont like the kid and IF IF i did i'd name her something else like sara GOD!!!!!!!!!!!!! must kill someone
Cute_Ting 28-01-08, 01:46 AM And wut if Double Drama won't even like it? loool ( I kill myself my word I do! )
Double drama doesnt like it but double drama doesnt have a choice i LOOVE the name
j'adore dont make me laugh i dont feel like it
MissKindy 28-01-08, 01:48 AM Lol..wa7lailish t9ei7een ( You make me wana cry)
It's okay no one said she can only call her baby that..call yours that too
Or find a better name..or find better names and tell it to her so she can choose lol
Good luck and go easy on your sis shes pregnant you know :p
Cute_Ting 28-01-08, 01:51 AM i hate pregnant grls and they act like everything they do is okay and we should be nice to them
i picked that name cuz its not even kuwaiti lol and NO ONE i know from kuwait has that name and my sis is the type that gets jealous of me so every lil thing she can do to piss me off she does!!!
there is only one solution: get rid of the child
agh i mean you know in yourself that you chose the name, so when t he baby rayah comes, tell herthat you chose her name not her mother lol.
agh i feel girly here chao .. dnt tell any guy that i've been here :shy:
J'adore 28-01-08, 01:51 AM Double drama doesnt like it but double drama doesnt have a choice i LOOVE the name
j'adore dont make me laugh i dont feel like it
lool... I can't help it u fool.. I love u too much to see u get mad over somethin like this.. Wallah just ignore her.. or better yet.. Everytime she mentions that name.. U just go oh U mean " and pick a name of ur own " and than get everyone to call her baby by that name.. LOL
The more ppl that call the baby by the other name the more it will stick! ;)
And there u have it... Problem solved.. lol
Cute_Ting 28-01-08, 01:52 AM el rey......... u made my day OMG i might just do that and tell her that i raised her hahahaaay
Cute_Ting 28-01-08, 01:54 AM j'adore wut if i just keep saying that i gave her the idea until she gets sick of it and than i should tell her husband to insist on naming the grl the name that he picked lol
She's got a baby and you haven't, say ma sha Allah and don't be a brat! Rayya is nice, let her have it, and then yours can be whatever you want...even Rayya as well. Little Rayya and big Rayya...what girl wants to be "Big Rayya"?!
Anway...Rayya, Reem, Ranya, Rihab, Renad, whatever, your husband will call her Fa6ma anyway so suck it up :D
She's got a baby and you haven't, say ma sha Allah and don't be a brat! Rayya is nice, let her have it, and then yours can be whatever you want...even Rayya as well. Little Rayya and big Rayya...what girl wants to be "Big Rayya"?!
Anway...Rayya, Reem, Ranya, Rihab, Renad, whatever, your husband will call her Fa6ma anyway so suck it up :D
:hyper: :hyper:
Ranya is nice... and close enough..
really? hate the baby just because of a name? that's a little extreme don't you think? If I was in your place and loved my sister I'd be happy that she liked a name that I picked. That's how I'd feel. I say be happy for her and I'm sure there's another cute name u'd like to name your child..like lets say Nabhan if you get a boy? :P
MissKindy 28-01-08, 02:31 AM She's got a baby and you haven't, say ma sha Allah and don't be a brat! Rayya is nice, let her have it, and then yours can be whatever you want...even Rayya as well. Little Rayya and big Rayya...what girl wants to be "Big Rayya"?!
Anway...Rayya, Reem, Ranya, Rihab, Renad, whatever, your husband will call her Fa6ma anyway so suck it up :D
Loooooooool!!..k3k3k3k3 this made my day!:hbd:
your husband will call her Fa6ma anyway so suck it up :D
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but wouldn't you like the baby 'cause well, you really like the name? and hey! every time you call her you'll get to say: rayah!
i can understand why you're pissed, but you'll get over it once you see baby Rayah. :angel:
Cute_Ting 28-01-08, 02:40 AM Well Mimosa i dont want those names i always get wut i want and i will still get wut i want and i dont her baby to be named that....
Nabsy Well u see she can name it something she wants and i wish she said oh ya u did give me that name shes acting as if i never said that and she came up with it and if she did say she wanted it and wut not i'd THNK about it
grls are different its not just a name its something that means something to me
As soon as you see the baby you'll fall in love with her. Babies are beautiful creatures anad the fact that she's going to be your niece will make it even more special :love:.
Don't get yourself all worked up over a name. Hey, you should be happy the girl would be called Rayah, especially since you chose it (even if your sister says she did).
Like El Rey said, as soon as she's old enough to understand, tell her you chose her name :p.
ORR just simply name your kid Rayah, too lol.
Hey are you sure it's a girl anyway? It could turn out to be a boy then you won't have a thing to worry about.
well 3adi, name your child Rayah v2.0. Give it a modern twist. :P
Cute_Ting 28-01-08, 02:42 AM im just hoping her husband doesnt agree with the name lol but ya el rey i agree with lol ima do that
Cute_Ting 28-01-08, 02:43 AM well 3adi, name your child Rayah v2.0. Give it a modern twist. :P
im always the different one from the family s0o0o IF she does Oh god help her, i wont talk to her but if she does ima pick something else
Kalemteeha?
Did u talk with her?
You should have a good, proper talk with her... im sure everything will go fine inshalah :)
Ok someone just told me that my answer is a little vague, so Cute Ting, here's a bit of an explanation.
Rules One : I need you to establish that all females would backstab other females in a heartbeat, where it's their mother, sister, cousin, friend ..
Second, I think you should just let it go. Say you confront your sister and she agrees and let's it go, but then in the future when your baby is called Rayah she'd go tell her daughter "See Rayah ? .. That was actually for you" .. and then her daughter would get jealous because
Rule Two : All women are jealous.
So back to topic.
You don't want this fued between your daughter and her daughter. You'd all defend your daughters and actually avoid family meetings when both of you or both of your daughters are all together because someone is bound to say something and ruin whatever shred of harmony men were trying to put in the place. Because generally all women have to talk about something in the past.
Rule Three : Women can't shut up. Really.
So you're asking for solutions. You like the name Rayah, but would you rather your daughter get in a fight with her cousin and you and your sister stop going to family meetings because of a name ?
It's in your hand.
Pen_it_Black 28-01-08, 04:34 AM I don't agree with the rules, atleast not in my case :hyper:
I say let it go as well babes, you'll fall inlove with the little angel when you see her :cute:
Cute_Ting, I think that you're over reacting...
toxic_honey 28-01-08, 08:26 AM do this :
tell her 247 that this name i choose it and tell everyone that u picked it up,oh u can also call ur friend rayah and talk to her and tell her ohhh my sis named her daughter after you! i told her about your name :D ur sis will hate it but she will acts cool :P
naah was jk
believe me i know how some girls act!
maybe she just say that she dont remember just to piss u off for her own reasons so act cool she will leave u alone.. dont give her attention :P and u know pregnant women and their hormones which cost *LOT OF DRAMA* :P
just dont give her the attention which she seeks .. one day you will find prettier name to name ur daughter ;) who knows maybe my name (NOT)heheheee
Bimzoori 28-01-08, 12:56 PM Cute Ting..
Is it Rayah as in رايه
or Rayya as in ريّا
?
Rayah means flag... Rayya means fragrant breeze and also sated (no longer thirsty)..
Anyways, I think Rayya is an awesome name, you have all the right to be upset about it :hyper: but think about it this way, the more Rayya's there are the better :p it's a very common name in Oman you'll often find a family with more than one Rayya.. it's perfectely normal... :)
loooool...sorry i just had to laugh the fact that u said dont laugh makes me laugh but anyway honestly sittin there wen u guys argue bout it makes me laugh as well but i dont know wat to say to ya wallah geya but anyway i have a feelin its a boi and hopefully it is pray wit me that it is a boi:p GOOD luck and see ya
Cute Ting..
Is it Rayah as in رايه
or Rayya as in ريّا
?
Rayah means flag... Rayya means fragrant breeze and also sated (no longer thirsty)..
Anyways, I think Rayya is an awesome name, you have all the right to be upset about it :hyper: but think about it this way, the more Rayya's there are the better :p it's a very common name in Oman you'll often find a family with more than one Rayya.. it's perfectely normal... :)
its the first one رايه
AMARANT 28-01-08, 01:03 PM yah it happened once with my relatives :p
hehe for me, i would talk to my bro/sis, if they dont agree, would do like toxic said in the first lines (really)
and will name my daughter the same, no problem with me ;)
the 2nd name (rayya) is nice as well...
and yah pray it's a boy :p
Bimzoori 28-01-08, 01:26 PM its the first one رايه
Alright cutey... here's your solution: Rayya is just as close to Rayah.. so one can be Raya and and the other one Rayya :p
This kinda happened between me and a friend..
When I had my first baby, there were two names for girls that I really really liked.
Layla and Yasmeen.
My husband didn't particularily like Yasmeen, so in the end, we went with Layla (even though he liked another name - he agreed on Layla)
I said.. if we have another girl, I'm defenatly calling her Yasmeen (or Jasmine). We agreed.
My then friend decided she liked the name Yasmeen and (even though I was pregnant with my second girl and knew I'd like that name for her) she called her second daughter Yasmeen, who was born a few months before mine.
Yes. Women are backtabbers. But it's ok, I'm not bitter or anything, cause in the end I chose a name I liked even better than Yasmeen. I chose Ranya.
Shahrazad 28-01-08, 02:05 PM Choose a name that is similar.. like others have suggested.. Rayya, Ranya, Rayan :)
How about Roger, Raymond, Ricardo, Rupert or Rollo? You said you wanted her to be individual....I'm sure your little girl Roger would be the envy of all her schoolmates....
But you are a BRAT!!!! Can't you just be happy for your sister? You wait until you're pregnant and your brain turns to cheese for nine months, happens to all women just ask. AND you will think you are the centre of the world too, it's simple biology!
Be a big girl now, Tang, and be nice to your sister!
Cute_Ting 28-01-08, 06:24 PM L0o0o0oL im just going to pray its a boi or that her husband picks something else XD, i tired tlaking to her yesterday but everytime i look at her i just smile((which means i wouldnt be yelling not really talking to her))
i3u00n_ildenya 29-01-08, 05:13 AM Okay, to the people who are saying she’s over reacting or suck it up, NO, she has the right to get bad and all!
Geyo wants the name, and she didn’t suggest it to her! Yes, anyone can use that name, but no, we have a lil rule in our family, that, “everyone has different names”.
You go to her and threaten her, and say, I won’t like you nor your lil daughter, and I don’t care if I lose you, because I want that name, and I let you go too many times before for so much things, and this time, you’re just going too far! Enough is Enough! ( This is sarcasm ) ;p
Not talking to each other in the future, blah. Blah, blah, no that sh*t doesn’t work with us. B*tch you asked for it!.
Yes, I know she’s my sis also, but I HATE people who are like this. :p
You’re on your own on this own, but what I suggest, talk to her before that lil girl is born.
*Praying she has a boy* ;p
Lightning2 29-01-08, 10:56 AM interesting to read !!!!!!
but i dont get the point...what is the problem?....let her call her doughter what ever name she wants.....n u do the same.....u dont own that name !! or the rights to use it:P
Exactly...it's not like you already have a daughter with that name...you're not even married yet. Tang, you are being a spoilt brat, be nice!
U know guys as I3uoon_ildenya says WE HAVE RULES IN THE HOUSE and 1 of 'em is not stealin eachothers names we dont really care if ppl out of the fam. use that name too but bwt us i dont think so and we all know that (i mean in r fam.):p
Superfreak 31-01-08, 10:05 PM This is so childish. Stop being such a drama queen. You don't own the name and you can't reserve it. She's having a baby first so she gets to pick whatever name she pleases. Be happy for her and stop with the empty threats.
Cute_Ting 31-01-08, 10:52 PM evana, super freak u both can grow up
I didnt want u to insult me i just wanted to see wut i can do not everyone thinks the same way as u
Superfreak 31-01-08, 11:01 PM ^ Well, you don't always get what you want. The only thing u can do is be a good sister and support her.
Cute_Ting 31-01-08, 11:05 PM i can support her in different ways lol I dont need to support her fully...she has her own Brain she can use it and figure out a different name
u dont have to be a Bi+ch but u r rite Same same :P
Superfreak 31-01-08, 11:11 PM Or you can use your own brain and figure out a different one since you are not expecting any time soon.
FAITH86 01-02-08, 10:51 AM Caaalm down gurl, it's not a big deal after all. I know you won't ever hate your baby niece nor you old sister. All what your feeling right now is just temporary, you'd definitely find another cool name (HELL there are millions of names in the world lol).
Superbia 01-02-08, 11:04 AM LOL :XD: CuteTing you funny! :p Wela yhimish I'll name my child Rayah, although I don't like the name :hyper:
pregnant women have a short term memory has anybody noticed??!wallah seriously :XD:
Cutie listen to my story i hope it helps! :cute:
when my sisters and i were younger we really wanted to have a baby brother so we always told mom when you have a baby boy name him Haytham
anyway my aunt got pregnant and had a boy so she asked us can i name him Haytham?
we were so happy so we didn't mind nor regret it and anyway my mom didn't have a boy till now so we kinda gave up on it looolz but Haytham is like our brother now
so it's ok dear cute ting let her take the name her son is like urs =D hehe
[sweetness] 01-02-08, 02:36 PM All this fuss for a name :mmhmm:
And what b7r and i3yoon are doing .. gurls clam her down please !:rolleyes:
squinty 01-02-08, 05:02 PM I have a name for a boy... I told everyone from my family who asked me..
I don't care if they use it... I will still name him what I want! :mmhmm:
Name her what you want even if the girls will be close and like sisters!
I dunno ... mayb if you've already tried this but why not sit your sister down and explain to her how much this name means to you and that you could never forgive her if she were to name her child rayah. have like a heart to heart you kno and about not liking your niece if she were named rayah isn't right ur gonna b her aunt she'll depend on you dont let her down.
;1014950']All this fuss for a name :mmhmm:
And what b7r and i3yoon are doing .. gurls clam her down please !:rolleyes:
Calm her down bout what i agree all the way wit her...if u were here ud know wat i mean by everythin i say or shud i say we (me geya and i3uoon_ildenya)say...:p
leave this all names and affect one of the our traditional names as :
Moza , shamsaa , salima , nassraa , shikah . hasina , ryyah , shwoanah .
Irrelevant posts have been deleted. Please don't insult the thread starter, if you have anything negative to say, then do articulate it kindly! Thank you :cute:
$hooshi 07-02-08, 02:57 PM hehe! cute thread ;p well, im kinda facing the same problem but its a diffrent subject! Mine is about carz, my sis wanted a dodge charger , her whole life! & i looooved hummer since like 3 yearz ago XD Now, she suddenly changed her mind and now she wants 2 buy a Hummer :bored: I mean! COME ON! i no its 2 early 4 me , but ill get jelouis and might change my mind abt buyin another car! My sis is way older thn me but STILL!:6:
Lightning2 07-02-08, 03:14 PM ^^^ buy the ford F650 n smash her hummer:D
UmKhalid 07-02-08, 08:56 PM I don't believe Cute_Ting is overreacting.
The exact same story happend to someone who is very, very close to me. She wants me to share it with you.
She was pregnant, and her cousin was pregnant at the same time. She was always talking on how she will name her daughter 'A', and her cousin would say it is really nice, very good choice, etc. But her cousin never said which name she will name her baby.
Now, what happend was that her cousin had her baby before her. And when she went to visit, she asked what the baby's name was and the cousin replied: A!
She told me that she was so, so annoyed. She felt betrayed, went home crying, she was so annoyed and she said: I will NOT call my baby 'A', I will call her 'B'!
And now she is SO happy with the name 'B', she's glad she didn't name her child 'A'!
...
So I say, choose another name. Forget about Raya, although it IS a nice name, but be the better one, and Insha'Allah you'll come up with a name that is 10 times nicer than it.
Or pray that her baby is a boy :p
$hooshi 09-02-08, 11:50 PM Some members are kinda mean (she isnt a spoiled brat or anything) she has the right 2 get MAD! If she wants 2 call her future daughter that name or if she really LOOOVES that name, then she has the right 2 get pissed off..Cute_ting try explaining 2 ur sis :) im sure she will understand *hug*
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