.......If it happens at moments of anger and middle of fight with another person........... do you leave the scene without saying a word and go away........ or do you end it with a slap or......... swearing words?............

I do 'em all, depends on the person and my mood :D I love slapping too!

so far..no one has made me angry enough to slap/beat/punch/butcher them :rolleyes:
no one will like me when i'm agry..so people dont . lol..actually,i'm a very patient person...i DO have my moments..i can be the devil...but i will NEVER EVER hit anyone..no way. But..BUT...if anyone insults my family ..i will make sure that that person either has one broken bone in his body..or make sure he never has kids :rolleyes:(that's if it's a guy)
if it happens to be a woman who insults my family, i'll hit her so hard that her head will spin and then make her ancestors dizzy! :bored: ..:rolleyes:

I have never slapped someone in my life and never will inshallah. When I lose my temper I try to calm myself down before I talk because I know am gonna say stuff that will embaress me firstly and hurt the person I am spewing the words out to secondly. If I feel like I'm going to lose control then I walk away and talk to the person at a time when I'm completly calm and have thought things through. Fighting isn't my thing. I hate seeing people fight and hate it even more when I hear or see people yelling.

I say we need to learn to discuss our problems in a calm and rational manner coz too many people end up hurt after a fight where either each is trying to prove who's the toughie or someone loses complete control of themselves.

I do rarely get into one of these, but whenever I do.

I make sure I burn them down with my eyes and calm talk.

I'm a very peaceful man.. I don't fight.

^awwwwwwwww..how lovely..*cough*..liar..*cough*...LOL..kidding..tha t's great actually...:)

Pen_It_Black..i love what you said..i'm the same..i never hit anyone in my life and i probably wont. I might just walk away..or i'll make a comment in comparison to the comment i got from that person.
But if anyone insults my mama or papa(or family in general)...yaaaaaaaa wailhum ! (they will get it:think:)

I always try to end an argument ASAP. I hate prolonging an issue or make it a big deal. But I take a long time to recover and get back to normal.

most of the time i keep arguing till i reach a point...

but if there's no point, i would walk away...

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hitting happens when some1 really crosses the line, and off course it wont be a slap :rolleyes:

I don't get physical unless I'm really really mad, then I'd shove them.. although this hasn't happened in ages. I'm learning to control myself :p

I tend to argue until I "win" the argument. I can't just give it a rest if I have something to say. The angrier I am, the louder I get....

The angrier I am, the louder I get....

Haha, so true! Typical, it's good that you realized though :hyper:

I might give a slap *didn't happen yet* but I can not swear.


The angrier I am, the louder I get....

Try to avoid that habit because it's known that the louder your voice means the weaker your situation. which is arabic we say: ارتفاع صوتك دليل على ضعف موقفك

I just wont waste my breath on something unless its necessary! but Im no drama queen thats for sure....but i make sure with my quitness and the things that happen that person will realise whos mistaken in the end...and feel ashamed (6)

The reason we get louder is because we feel we are being ignored, that who we are talking to isn't listening to us.

When I get angry, I usually end up walking around the house (which isn't that big - so there is no where to 'get away' to) and start subconciously cleaning it. Moving the place of things.. anything to occupy my hands and waste energy.

I've only ever really 'lost it' twice in the past 3 years.. and I hate to break things because I know I'll have to either stay without them or replace them.. so for me to reach that point takes a helluva lot. I don't like violence, and the worst I've ever done is to push someone out the way or shove. But. If that person should ever touch me, there will be no stopping me then.

It depends on the person. I used to get physical when i was really mad at my sister or brother. Back in those days, it would really get out of control. I'd end up with scratch marks all over me.

Now a days i tend to 'settle' my fights verbally, if that doesn't work, i just run out and slam the door. I haven't had a fight in a long time. I wonder when the next one will be.:dev:

My last fighting was 7 years ago. I was very naughty boy, I just liked fighting even for silly reasons but after I finished my high-school I became a sane guy, no more fighting.

It depends on the person. I used to get physical when i was really mad at my sister or brother. Back in those days, it would really get out of control. I'd end up with scratch marks all over me.

Now a days i tend to 'settle' my fights verbally, if that doesn't work, i just run out and slam the door. I haven't had a fight in a long time. I wonder when the next one will be.:dev:

Oh, the days.......:rolleyes:

I never get physical and I don't like throwing insults, I do become hurtful however by speaking my mind and being as blunt as possible which I noticed has a much worse effect than any physical beating. I'm not proud of it but I'm the sort of person who has to vent in order to move on so good luck to anyone who pisses me off. :P

I'm a very peaceful man.. I don't fight.

I don't believe that!:rolleyes:
*remember school days...*

I don't mind people saying or doing anything if it is about me.. :)
I can take a lot but when they insult others...
Then at times I flip...

I love fights!!

I remember last year i use to get into trouble for fighting..once i took it a bit too far when i kicked the girls leg pulled her hair and punched her eye..

The next day i was in the wakeel's office ..but really it felt so good hitting her :)

^loooooooooooooooooooooool *points at her* evil evil! guilty guilty! hahha..at least you said the truth.

^ Lol but after that fight the guys in class started calling me spiderman,superman,batman lol

And the girl hated me so bad :p

I'm the sort of person who has to vent in order to move on so good luck to anyone who pisses me off. :P

But Nobby, you're so FUNNY when you're angry! I love you man!

i dont get physical unless i have to but when i do i punch i dont slap, i dont lose my temper unless something im trying to get across isnt getting across and ya good, i do b!tch a lot and i swear a lot and ya like the story i told Superbia yesterday lol it was with some old lady while i was waiting in line

was in line for international student payments with j'ador, j'adore needed to do something and that lady was in line and were standing close to her shes like can i have my space we said okay and se we backed up were talkin not loud not low u know shes like
can u shut up!! im like aaahh u shut up shes like u shut up im like No u shut up rude ***** and shes like ur rude im like its a fu<kin haul way u take a number and wait dont do ur paper work in line and i walked away
than when we left i smiled and she gave me a dirty look, i laughed in her face

Hmm..I got physical once in public and that was ages ago, I usually just argue with the person until that person shuts up, or just ignore and complain about it to some body else.

I hate fighting.. Especially when its a bunch of gurls going at it.. It looks so trashy.. lol
I rarely get into fights or arguments.. But the only way I'd result to violence if someone tried to touch me or hurt me in anyway... And I won't even do none of that scratchin slappin b.s Wallah I'd knock the girl out one time.. lool and go back to what I was doing ;)

waaaaaaaay to go missKindy supergirl! :p

mimosa: i so agree with you :6:

I learnt a lot of bad words from my balushi cuzin'z and balushi frndz xD LOL so yeah, wen it comes 2 swearing! Beware! & yeah, i only swear wen im mad or wen i wanna kick sum1's bu*t xD LOL, I even slap people & kick them and push them, in term 2,, I pushed a gurl and wen she fell on the floor I ran cuz I knew i was in deep shit =S LOL.. I <3 fights ;)

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Karomo! (sawaad wig-hish)

i don't scream , i don't swear and i don't hit .. i control my anger ( i try my best ) and if i can't then probably leave if arguing doesn't work or remain quiet to calm down .. from the inside i'm like a volcano , but i control it cuz i fear my own self if i unleash it on someone .. so i always control it .. ALWAYS .. never show it fully ..

i'll get dat ************

I don't get physical unless I'm really really mad, then I'd shove them.. although this hasn't happened in ages. I'm learning to control myself :p

I tend to argue until I "win" the argument. I can't just give it a rest if I have something to say. The angrier I am, the louder I get....


Ditto..

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i don't recall ever getting physical with someone. i think i'm quite good in controlling my anger. yeah..