View Full Version : There's a boy inside every girl?


Superbia
07-01-08, 10:46 AM
The title says it all, what do you think of the statement and why?

Personally, I believe it's so true! Well atleast it is with me :p I have some guy-ish things in me, such as a loud/non-lady like voice and I love playing or watching football. Oh yeah, I used to play with WWF toys when I was younger, hated Barbies! :mmhmm:

Pen_it_Black
07-01-08, 10:55 AM
I love shopping and make up and dressing in awesome outfits and all those girly stuff but not to the extent that most girls do.
I am crazy about video games!! I beat the guys at my uni when we have an unreal tournament session :cute: Oh it feels good to be a girl when that happens ^_^ I love fishing, snorkelling, playing football, watching gore...hehe I am not "banoota" (girly girl) as my friend said.
But for me to like these things makes me boyish? Nah...it's just what my intrests are :p I like killing stuff in games, but I also like looking fabolous and being dala3ed ^_^ If this statement was true, then every boy must have a girl within him :)

Superbia
07-01-08, 10:58 AM
then every boy must have a girl within him


Haha. Even if it was true, trust me no guy would admit :rolleyes:

Pen_it_Black
07-01-08, 11:01 AM
Haha. Even if it was true, trust me no guy would admit :rolleyes:

ooh...reminds me of Madonna's song (What it feels like for a girl)

Girls can wear jeans
And cut their hair short
Wear shirts and boots
'Cause it's OK to be a boy
But for a boy to look like a girl is degrading
'Cause you think that being a girl is degrading
But secretly you'd love to know what it's like
Wouldn't you

cLueLess
07-01-08, 11:21 AM
every boy must have a girl within him :)

Well, scientifically speaking, every boy DOES have a girl withing him! :p It's because the male's body produces a certain amount of female hormones (estrogen). However, if the level of estrogen was higher than normal, they start getting complications, such as big breasts. Same goes for females, we all have male hormones, but those with higher than normal levels are possibly the ones with deeper voices, heavy facial hair, etc.


As for me, I neither like football nor action movies, and I'm not crazy about cars and video games, but I also don't enjoy long gossip sessions much and I don't like the feel of makeup on my face. Who said girls should be or act a certain way :)

i3u00n_ildenya
07-01-08, 11:22 AM
Yeah, I believe in it! It actually goes both ways, for guys & girls.
I was never lady-like when I was a lil girl, until I got older, and started to realise it, but sometimes, the guy-in-me still comes out until this age. :cute:

Pen_it_Black
07-01-08, 11:30 AM
Well, scientifically speaking, every boy DOES have a girl withing him! :p It's because the male's body produces a certain amount of female hormones (estrogen). However, if the level of estrogen was higher than normal, they start getting complications, such as big breasts. Same goes for females, we all have male hormones, but those with higher than normal levels are possibly the ones with deeper voices, heavy facial hair, etc.


As for me, I neither like football nor action movies, and I'm not crazy about cars and video games, but I also don't enjoy long gossip sessions much and I don't like the feel of makeup on my face. Who said girls should be or act a certain way :)

Also according to Carl Jung's Analytical psychology every male has what is called the anima which is the unconcious feminine component in them while females have the animus which is the unconcious masculine component in them :p

Spanarr
07-01-08, 12:18 PM
I like cars and football and sometimes video games (when I'm good at it! :P). I like a lot of "guy stuff" actually. But I also enjoy being a girl with make up, dressing up, shopping and all those "girly stuff". So I guess there's a guy within me, lol.
However, I've been told that in certain guy discussions, my thoughts are based on feminine thoughts. Lool! But SOMETIMES. Hahahaha.

Dam3eti
07-01-08, 12:35 PM
Not necessarily, why are cars, video games and football associated with boys? Who lay down that rule? It's just a stereotype, you can love those things whether ur a boy or girl :p

Bonita
07-01-08, 12:54 PM
what the ?
who said that ?
ew boys are ew.
girly pinky fairy glittery feathery :omg: is the thing.

Thalia
07-01-08, 12:56 PM
ooh...reminds me of Madonna's song (What it feels like for a girl)

Girls can wear jeans
And cut their hair short
Wear shirts and boots
'Cause it's OK to be a boy
But for a boy to look like a girl is degrading
'Cause you think that being a girl is degrading
But secretly you'd love to know what it's like
Wouldn't you
The lyrics make alot of sense, cos it's so true.

The thing is if we look at it from outside the box, a girl can do and like more things than a guy can which are sociably acceptable.

The whole "being like a girl is degrading" only sets the boys back. While as a girl, I can do girl things and boy things without anyone blinking an eyelid.

There's nothing I am afraid to try. Except lifting heavy sacks of cement and doing my back in. But, of course, there are tools to do this for you today so you won't need to anyways.

Give a girl a car engine and tell her how to service it. She'll wonder if she might not do it properly, but she'll at least try.
Give a guy a facial kit and tell him how to use it. His first concern is not "would I know how to do it properly?" ... is it?

;)

I'd say there's definitely a 'guy' side to me when it comes to manual work and ability (like DIY), although I'm very very girly when the situation warrants. (like shopping time rofl)
I think I can understand a guy's psyche fairly easily though..

Thalia
07-01-08, 01:01 PM
what the ?
who said that ?
ew boys are ew.
girly pinky fairy glittery feathery :omg: is the thing.
I have two daughters and we're like a little "girls club".. lol.. and they're at the age of princesses and fairies.. all things pink, glittery and girly.

So last summer, I taught the 4 yr old the nursery rhyme:

What are little girls made of?
Sugar and spice and everything nice,
That's what little girls are made of.

What are little boys made of? (and here... the look on her face is so funny.. like 'eww' lol)
Snips and snails (eww) and puppy dog tails (big eww)
That's what little boys are made of.

And she'd go.. "Boys are so icky, mummy.."

"yes...yes they are."

ROFLMAO

Bonita
07-01-08, 01:19 PM
^ LOL thats cute.
we say "the girls the girls, the prettiest creatures.. the boys the boys, the drain's cockroaches"

but in Arabic ofcourse, it rhymes. :D

b7r
07-01-08, 03:56 PM
I believe that phase goes through most grlz in this life, cuz i remember me and i3uoon_ildenya used dress tomboyish b4 we got into high school but as we get older we realise that it for us, but as most grlz get older some dont loose their manly voice wen they yellin at ppl...:P

Riv
07-01-08, 04:39 PM
i thought the sayin went like boys have a girl inside, not the other way around! like they say in movies or books, he's in touch with his feminine side!
girlz become tomboys, but if boys become tammygirls, they r taken for being gay! But BOYS WILL BE BOYS n girlz will be girls.
Sometimes if guys see tomboy girlz, they think of em as lesbos!

Endure Whisper
07-01-08, 04:58 PM
I believe it's true, and vice versa: There's a girl inside every boy. Sadly, guys won't admit it :P

FAITH86
07-01-08, 05:55 PM
I had the same feelings sometimes. I hate acting over "girlish" lol. Maybe it's more like childish..

pixie girl
07-01-08, 06:09 PM
I read somewhere that boys start out as girls in the womb cause of the X chromosome thats already there...or something like that.
Thats why guys have nipples:p

marianna
07-01-08, 06:17 PM
Besides served in the Army (but I can still see a woman being a woman while serving) I used to love to play with my brother's toys and didn't mind getting dirty. I think the roles of men and women can be stereotyped. Like even today if I saw a boy playing with a barbie the way girls typically do I would be like ???? because it has been programed in me to view that as wrong. Something like that can be difficult to eradicate out of my system.

Thalia
07-01-08, 09:17 PM
That's very true. :yes:

ti3gib
07-01-08, 09:28 PM
Yeah. There's a girl in me. Total **** her she is.

Jeff
07-01-08, 10:43 PM
Masculinity is just an expression of femininity.

Guys are just a special kind of girl.

Girls can be guy-like without giving up their femininity.

But the reverse isn't true.

HITMAN
07-01-08, 10:50 PM
There's a boy inside every girl?

what do you think of the statement?



It's true but only after puberty

Jeff
07-01-08, 10:53 PM
HITMAN:

Don't you mean "after pregnancy"? And only half the time?

UmKhalid
07-01-08, 11:03 PM
I don't think they are boys yet, just tiny little eggs.

Angel_Eyes
08-01-08, 10:20 AM
loooool@ the title...well,hmmmmmm..now that you mention is JUVE, i think it's true...maybe when we women get mad enough, a beast (guy) comes out! we all have a tough side...:)

death rose
08-01-08, 01:34 PM
i love cars and knowing more stuff about cars .. love watching argentina play football .. i dont think it means im kinda boy-ish xD ..
dont blame me argentina is an awesome hot team and that cars are just a wow in everything .. :p

may tulip
08-01-08, 02:47 PM
That is deffinetly true from my experience in this world :p
For me, I enjoy watching football matches and play winning eleven with my brother or watch scary and action movies but that doesnt mean i dont follow fashio and enjoy gossping.

This boy inside every girl might be more in some girls than other because of the environment they are in..if they are raised between boys then most likley she'll turn to a tomboy (but this is not true all the time :XD:)

Evana
08-01-08, 03:10 PM
I totally agree :D

I have being accused that I walk like guys, ….nah I admit it :bored:, I don’t have a girly walk. lol

Bint_Arab
08-01-08, 07:13 PM
In my case I might be 10 times a man, but I'm a woman with all what that word has of meanings.

If there is a bou inside every girl, the does this boy grow as the girl grows up or that boy will sometime as the girl grows up?

I don't know if that statement is true, then now I can understand why do lesbians exist!!

squinty
08-01-08, 07:20 PM
Haha. Even if it was true, trust me no guy would admit :rolleyes:

You sure? :p
I mean.. True that guys won't admit it but some of them do cry and feel emotional and like somethings that girls like.. (Maybe like me?! :p)

AMARANT
08-01-08, 07:23 PM
every girl has a small percentage of wishness to be a guy so they can go wild like us :p

squinty
08-01-08, 07:25 PM
i thought the sayin went like boys have a girl inside, not the other way around! like they say in movies or books, he's in touch with his feminine side!
girlz become tomboys, but if boys become tammygirls, they r taken for being gay! But BOYS WILL BE BOYS n girlz will be girls.
Sometimes if guys see tomboy girlz, they think of em as lesbos!
I think every guy and girl have a PART of them which is different to their gender.. I can see a lot of that these days! :p


Masculinity is just an expression of femininity.

Guys are just a special kind of girl.

Girls can be guy-like without giving up their femininity.

But the reverse isn't true.
So WE are special? :hyper:
Guys will always act tough and all that even if they feel like crying that is why they never think guys can be girls.. But when they are ALONE they cry as much as they want but still deny it!

Mesmie
08-01-08, 07:26 PM
I drive like a guy, does that count? Other than that no I don't think I have a guy in me, I'm very feminine lol and having a passion for cars or video games does not mean you're a tomboy.

squinty
08-01-08, 07:38 PM
^^
That is true but I don't know why girls think guys do that only?!

UmKhalid
08-01-08, 08:24 PM
Guys are just a special kind of girl.


LOL, that is so funny.

I don't think Bedus would agree.

Jeans Girl
08-01-08, 10:57 PM
thats so true.. am a girl i love shopping i love make up i love shoes!! but i also love footbal alot i love cars 2... so i agree with you 100%

Jeff
08-01-08, 10:59 PM
LOL, that is so funny.

I don't think Bedus would agree.

Well, they say an Y chromosome is just a distorted X chromosome. Our bodies are poorly made compared with yours and we sicken and die more easily and succumb to wounds more quickly.

Just a special variety of discardable girl.

Oblivious
08-01-08, 11:15 PM
Many say I'm a guy trapped in a woman's body :p

1. I HATE shopping.
2. I don't really like long phone calls.
3. Pink isn't my fav. colour.
4. I don't stay ages in the bathroom and I don't have to go to the ladies room in groups :bored:
5. Never liked barbies..................etc!

toxic_honey
09-01-08, 02:05 AM
am a girl whos better than 10 men :cool:

anyway

its true sometimes we want to do/like things that men mostly do/like as well!

-like watching and playing football.
-dont like to go to fitting rooms and try clothes! just buy what i like an get the hell out!
-hated barbie dolls well dolls in general.
-used to fight with boys like everyday! lol and ya am the one who starts! when i was 7-11 years old
-when am hungry i eat like a boy -_-

AMARANT
09-01-08, 02:16 AM
^^ i think these stuff that girls say are "boys" inside them make them even cooler :cool:

Nirvana
09-01-08, 02:41 AM
i didn't realize how girly i am until i checked this thread

Evana
09-01-08, 02:42 AM
^^ loooooooooooool good for you:D:p

Jeff
09-01-08, 02:48 AM
i didn't realize how girly i am until i checked this thread

Why should there be a boy inside every girl?

Like saying there's a camel inside every chicken.

Angel_Eyes
09-01-08, 10:28 AM
looool toxic...reading that just shows me how much more we have in common...
nice! *thumbs up!* now let's get together and make a gang of 20 men (since you are counted as 10 men and me as well):XD:

squinty
09-01-08, 01:52 PM
Why should there be a boy inside every girl?

Like saying there's a camel inside every chicken.

What kind of explination is that?! :hyper:

I think there is a girl inside every boy and a boy inside every girl! :p

ok.. I won't GENERALISE! :p
But they say girls only cry and I cry! :)
They say girls are emotional and I am emotional! :)
They say girls are clean and I am a CLEAN FREAK! :hyper:

Can't think of anything else now... :XD:

XGirL
09-01-08, 03:18 PM
boys are ew, except Patrick :love: *faints*

girls rule all the way.

QuEeN
09-01-08, 03:33 PM
every girl has a small percentage of wishness to be a guy so they can go wild like us :p

i have to admit it's true :XD:

J'adore
09-01-08, 03:55 PM
When I was younger I was on all the sports team.. Never played with barbies much.. Watched Wrestling.. like it was a part of my life.. lol.. As I got older.. My interest in WWF and WWE Faded.. My love for fashion Exploded ;) .. On the outside.. You can't get anymore gurlier than moi.. I dont act or look anything like a dude.. lol .. Buttt on the insidee.. lol.. I still have alot a love for sports and although im not into wwf anymore.. I lovvvvvv UFC and Boxing! and still watch stuff like that regularly.. Sooo I'm positve theres a guy in all of us whether we act like it or not ;p