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Cute_Ting
24-11-07, 12:54 PM
Alrite, theres this thing i wont lie its about me!

What if u like two ppl well u dont know if u like them two but one is always in the back of ur head and one just feel like hes killing u, like W0o0o0oW i dont even know how to put it in words but hes killing me??!!?! what does it mean?!?!

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Pygmalion
24-11-07, 12:57 PM
Love dilemma? … there is the point where we should consider the so called “other things” which is $$$$$ :p

Cute_Ting
24-11-07, 01:04 PM
^^ What do u mean?!?!

Snooky
24-11-07, 01:04 PM
^
Actually I'd suggest to go for who's better in bed.

Cute_Ting
24-11-07, 01:06 PM
GUYS im talking JAD((serious)) Sheeesh ur no use

TripleTee
24-11-07, 01:15 PM
you've a crush on both......

wow... never happened to me... it was always one.
so I'm somehow not sure.... but perhaps you like one of them better.

Elvenblade
24-11-07, 01:17 PM
well i would not confess anything to any of them
i would give myself sometime to know my true feelings, and which person do i really ""like""
us humans can be hasty
:)

Lym
24-11-07, 01:18 PM
Make a list; Pros and cons, and the one with the longer column is the one you pick! Though my opinion would be don't pick the murderer, no body wants a man who kills them :rolleyes:

Thalia
24-11-07, 01:22 PM
Give it time cute ting.

Of course it's easier when your crush is stronger for one of them. And it's not illegal to dream, I've been told. The thing is, you have to decide if there's anything that can realistically come out of it. Like, is it just you dealing with your feelings or is it a situation where you have to make a choice that will effect your life?

If it's the first, just take is easy and enjoy it while it lasts. (one day you'll be much older and you'll forget how it feels to have a crush ;) )

If you have to make a choice, don't base it on infatuation. Give it plenty and plenty of time.

Charm
24-11-07, 01:30 PM
Miskeena it must be really tough on you, well I guess Fengy said it all. Time will help clearing things out for you, go for the one who knows you better and care for you more and make sure he is romantic :love:

spirit
24-11-07, 02:14 PM
Why not having them both?

I say have both as long as you can ;)

QuEeN
24-11-07, 02:19 PM
^^she'd lose them both if they found out wut she's doin

HairlyMan
24-11-07, 04:59 PM
It is natural to some people to love more than one person at time.
Try to find out is it your nature.

Superbia
24-11-07, 05:05 PM
Ah I know what you mean :os It's like you like this one guy so much 'coz he's hot and so wow and all, but doesn't give you the attention you want ... Then on the other hand there's this other person who treats you perfectly, like how any girl would want, but he's not as great as the other person :os Ah, a mess!

amo_l_oman
24-11-07, 08:37 PM
what does it mean?!?!

that they're both hot and you fell in the trap

Amjad
24-11-07, 08:47 PM
I have a crush on more than one girl, I don't see that as a big problem, not at all :D

Libellula
24-11-07, 09:26 PM
Make a list; Pros and cons, and the one with the longer column is the one you pick! Though my opinion would be don't pick the murderer, no body wants a man who kills them :rolleyes:
That's what I'd do, in that sort of situation.

I say when you pick someone, you shouldn't just listen to your heart - listen to your head as well. So, you obviously feel something for both.. now pick the one who would be a wise choice.

Spanarr
24-11-07, 09:34 PM
I say go for the better looking one, DUH!

Arabian Princess
24-11-07, 09:35 PM
you are too young to chose .. and as long as the crushes will stay between you and your mind and heart .. dont choose .. enjoy them while they last .. just dont act on them

Cute_Ting
25-11-07, 02:58 AM
thnx for the 411 ppl, i'll see, but AP im 19 not that young lol

I just feel like i cant take it anymore

Thalia
25-11-07, 03:30 AM
thnx for the 411 ppl, i'll see, but AP im 19 not that young lol

I just feel like i cant take it anymore
19 is young, believe me.

Don't 'do anything' before you are atleast 25.

Cute_Ting
25-11-07, 03:53 AM
W0o0o0o00oW dont do anything as in what physically!?!?

Mesmie
25-11-07, 07:02 AM
Yeah 19 is pretty young lol but sometimes you just can't help it...it just happens...I think it's very normal to have a crush on more than one person but obviously you can't love more than one at a time. Whos the guy you feel more at ease and comfortable with? Who do you lean to more? And as some people already mentioned, just listen to your heart..

Cute_Ting
25-11-07, 07:09 AM
^^ well thats the thing, one of them started to like me but hes backing away, he doesnt want too cuz he made a vow to himself and well me and him click like theres no tom and the other one he changed in a good way he expresses himself to me more and im liking it

mimosa
03-12-07, 07:41 PM
The short answer is that if you're thinking of them both then you don't really love either of them enough to commit forever. So forget the pair of them and wait 'til you find one who can occupy your WHOLE mind ;)

Yeah OK, I can talk...but then maybe I'll marry four :p

squinty
03-12-07, 08:00 PM
I have a crush on more than one girl, I don't see that as a big problem, not at all :D

you and Cute_Ting need to think about it!:p

I would say that you should:
1. see who makes you happier
2. who you love talking to more
3. who you think of more

I would tell you to not talk to both of them for at LEAST a week...
There has to be 1 of them in your mind more and you will go crazy because you are not talking to him...


P.S: Amjad! Try that as well!:hyper:

UmKhalid
03-12-07, 08:27 PM
I give you, belketheer a month (less than a month), you'll forget about them both.

Listen to AP.

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You're 19? Ay Shay!

Cute_Ting
04-12-07, 04:28 AM
Well i talk to one every weekend cuz hes in the military training thing and the other one well he dont talk much anymore cuz he changed kind of...but i dont know


umkhalid ya 19 why?

e M o
05-12-07, 09:33 PM
You want a serious reply right ? well, yes you do like them both , but you have to know if they like you back sincerely, which is difficult to know unless one of them initiated and said something to you . Otherwise , it's all about deciding habibte because you like them both. you just have to choose and make sure that you like them not for shallow reasons .. :dev: enjoy that period because you will be always flying squeeek squeeek in wonder land :shy: ok i got carried away ..

I hope everything will get cleared for you soon ...

Black Lolly
05-12-07, 10:14 PM
Make a list; Pros and cons, and the one with the longer column is the one you pick! Though my opinion would be don't pick the murderer, no body wants a man who kills them :rolleyes:

Ok, I REALLY don't like this reply..
I just don't like it when people do that! Organize everything prepare for everything ..when some stuff just doesn't work that way..
It's feelings we are talking about here.. not some work assignment.. I don't think you can define your feelings sometimes you don't even know they exist or .. ok I got lost.. lol..anyways it doesn't work that way for me at least
And yeah I'd say give it some time.. the one you trust and feel more comfortable around is probably the better match for ya..
Good luck :D

J'adore
06-12-07, 12:27 AM
Geya.. im gonna kill u when I get back!! loool ;p

I'll make this easier 4u just wait for it ;p

Cute_Ting
06-12-07, 12:36 AM
EMO, well u see one i know his family like his brothers and sisters and one i dont, and one likes me ina way like hes shy but opening up more since im his first "gf" or wutever and the other one im kind of moving on about


Aluuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu OMG i have sooo much to say

squinty
06-12-07, 03:02 PM
Then go for him! :p

Cute_Ting
07-12-07, 04:55 AM
for which one?!?!?

squinty
07-12-07, 02:19 PM
the one you who treats you in a special way?
But what do YOU want?!
We can't choose for you since we don't know who is better and who really likes you...

I would say who treats you in a speacial way will be good but sometimes i don't trust all guys... :mmhmm:

Cute_Ting
08-12-07, 02:03 AM
I dont know looool..

ToomuchaT
08-12-07, 03:16 AM
The question is.. Do they like you?.. I mean do they have a mutual feeling for you?

If you can not tell..then I agree you are still young and that's why you are confused.

Shy
08-12-07, 03:20 AM
Have em both, cute ting's harem.

Muggle
08-12-07, 03:24 AM
Wait you said he thinks you're his girlfriend. Does this mean you're dating 2 at the same time?!

Libellula
08-12-07, 03:28 AM
Ok, I REALLY don't like this reply..
I just don't like it when people do that! Organize everything prepare for everything ..when some stuff just doesn't work that way..
It's feelings we are talking about here.. not some work assignment.. I don't think you can define your feelings sometimes you don't even know they exist or .. ok I got lost.. lol..anyways it doesn't work that way for me at least
And yeah I'd say give it some time.. the one you trust and feel more comfortable around is probably the better match for ya..
Good luck :D
... See the thing is she said she has feelings for both of them, and if she can't choose, then I imagine it's because she likes both of them equally.

You're not going to get your answer by analyzing your feelings anymore. So the smart thing to do would be to make a Pros and Cons list, and pick the guy who sounds like he'd be a better match. In the end, whichever one you go with, you'll have feelings for.

I actually think people should listen to both their hearts and minds.

Cute_Ting
08-12-07, 04:00 AM
Well i think ima just chill and ignore both of them for now...one i busy with military and one just doesnt know where god put him....