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Feja
06-07-07, 07:14 PM
Sallam 3alaikum...:)

Hello..
Let's see guys if you would have a big "personal" problem..
Would you share this problem with you parents? Or with your faithful dearest friend? And Why?

cheers

Miss_Crocodilo
06-07-07, 07:20 PM
I'd share it with my sister. Simply because she listens without critisizing me.

Filly
06-07-07, 08:29 PM
i'd tell my cuzn, or my bestest frnd! coz there r sumthings i cant tell my parents!!

Feja
06-07-07, 08:54 PM
Thanks guys for your replays..
I think if I'm gonna tell mom.. or dad they criticizing me!
But friends, Cuzins totally gonna listens..!
BTW.. We totally can't tell anything to our parents!!

CHEERS

death rose
06-07-07, 09:03 PM
my sisters :D
i learened my lesson ... never tell a friend my secrets

Feja
06-07-07, 09:15 PM
Thanks dear.. But for me..! I'd like to share my secrets with my dearest faithfull friend! But not all the secrets 3ad !! heheh
cheers

i3u00n_ildenya
06-07-07, 09:32 PM
I never share any problems with my parents, even my friends, you don't know when they'll turn their backs on you (experienced)!
I always share my problems with my sisters, and no one else!

AMARANT
07-07-07, 12:06 AM
usually my bro and cuzns, but there r some problems where u need ur parents to help u with ...

DodiKita
07-07-07, 12:30 AM
I usually tell my mother even if she doesnt a solution I feel better anyway I sometimes tell my friend, I just expect her to listen and rarely expect a response.. I just keep it to myself alot of the times, I dont like talking about my problems alot!

Feja
07-07-07, 12:48 AM
Thank you all for your replays
all of you guys lovta share your problems with your cuzins, Bros and sister..
Sound Fabulous..
Cheers to u all

Soulless
07-07-07, 01:14 AM
i dont really remember , but when ever am in trouble i just take a deep breath think about the situation and solve my problem by my self , if i couldnt do any thing about it i just tend to ignore them.

Lemon
07-07-07, 01:15 AM
i'd share it with my elder sis/my best friend.. cuz it's just a sharing.. but if i need a peice of advise.. i'd probably tell one of my parents..

in general.. i always prefer to keep everybody away from my personal problems..

Soulless
07-07-07, 01:22 AM
in general.. i always prefer to keep everybody away from my personal problems..

yeah even if you have a dangerous disease don’t tell any one just keep it for your self dont even tell the doctor , keep it for your self until you face death :)

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The P!an!st
07-07-07, 01:57 AM
with my friend !!!!!!!

Dante
07-07-07, 02:13 AM
For Me, Sharing Secrets with anyone is hard .. really hard. :shy:
I dont know who to trust. and I take time till I open up for a friend and talk to about stuffs related to me ..
For me. Solving them by myself is much better .. and I count on myself in such manners..

LosT_SouL
07-07-07, 02:15 AM
I find it easier to share my problems and thought with my dearest friends ..
I don't think we have secrets .. I feel more open with my friend more than my family .. They are so many things that I can't share with any member with my family even the closest one to me

DarK PrincesS
07-07-07, 10:49 AM
Tell my eldest sister who's just like a friend to me. I don't like to tell friends Cz I wouldn't really Relaxed about it. And I'd tell my parents if its something that they need to help in.

Dam3eti
07-07-07, 11:12 AM
If it's something big I'd tell any1 from the family, if it's something that upset me I'd talk to my bestfriend.

Lemon
07-07-07, 11:18 AM
yeah even if you have a dangerous disease don’t tell any one just keep it for your self dont even tell the doctor , keep it for your self until you face death :)

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how would i know that i have a dangerouse disease without a doctor?!?.. plz don't make it complicated..

thanks anyways :)

MorphaKnight
07-07-07, 12:25 PM
usually I never tell anyone because I eventually solve it but if things get really tough then I tell my dad and only my dad.. no other family members and not my friends although I do tell my friends the story eventually

Nella
10-07-07, 06:12 PM
sister....

Rossonero
10-07-07, 06:21 PM
It depends on the problem. Mostly I'd go with my close-friends, but the problem is that some friends kind of use you and would want to sound as if they care and as if they are listening, and some really do listen to you and try to help you out.

If it was something very big, I'd go to my parents, but I do not recall doing that so far.

Lym
11-07-07, 10:57 AM
No one :rolleyes:

But if I can tell somebody, then it would be either some of my closest cousins or sister.

Case
24-07-07, 01:34 AM
A close friend

Libellula
24-07-07, 01:38 AM
I prefer keeping my problems to myself, but if I had to tell someone, it'd be one of my cousins. I feel that they're the only people I can really trust with anything.

NaBHaN
24-07-07, 01:57 AM
If I had to share then it would be with my best friend.

ti3gib
24-07-07, 02:00 AM
"Talking it out" never worked for me. I don't like telling people what they don't want to hear and can't help me with.

NiGhTFaCe
24-07-07, 02:03 AM
I keep it to myself.

*FaLLiNG STaR*
24-07-07, 03:06 AM
It's extremely hard for me to talk out my problems or what's bothering me! So most of the time I keep it to myself. If I really had to, then I'll tell my best friend about it. If it was like huge then parents. I just don't feel that comfortable telling people what's happening around!

Charm
26-07-07, 09:32 PM
Sallam 3alaikum...:)

Hello..
Let's see guys if you would have a big "personal" problem..
Would you share this problem with you parents? Or with your faithful dearest friend? And Why?

cheers

Most of the time if it's really bothering me I'd talk to some1 I trust but sometimes it's better to keep things to yourself if you can deal with the issue yourself why tell others?

Oblivious
28-07-07, 09:20 PM
Friends will go like..aaah! sorry for you..etc. Useful?

Parents will kick your *** anyways...so I'll tell none. Will wait for my parents to find out :p

Maybe it's because I don't have a sister.

5alfanooh
28-07-07, 09:25 PM
I tell no body about my problems, I will try to solve them by myself and if I couldnt and I really had to tell someone.. then its my dad.

monaaa
30-07-07, 10:19 PM
i would tell my mom and my sis, cuz they r my bestfriends:cute: