Can you tell your loved one that they are wrong with honesty when they are?


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Let's be honest here ;)

yeah they should accept it

Yes, you should tell her/him when she/him is wrong. and u should guide her/him to the right path of the relationship. :)

And they should accept it, because they should know that u want the best for them. and by guiding them, u`re doing what u see the best for them..

and as the beloved one.. you should always think about the best for the two of u .. to keep your relationship going as smooth as it could be.. :)

but dont be rude or mean when you tell him/her

what's so hard about telling someone you love that they're wrong? :rolleyes:

I'll say... hun... you're wrong.... I'm saying this cuz I love you :p

nah...for real... i will speak my mind. The only difference with a loved one... is that I'll speak it differently :XD:...lol... but in the end I speak it, one way or another.

Why not? Is it wrong to be wrong sometimes? The truth hurts, but we all have to live with it. :cute:

^ Exactly.

Yes, definitely. I'm very blunt and straightforward, no matter who it is I'm talking to. In fact, the closer I am to the person and the more comfortable I am with them, the more outspoken I am.

Yeah, that is easy! & it should be more easy since we have this relation.

A relationship without pure honesty does not exsist.

I can't find any relation between LOVE and being honest about your feelings and wut is right and wrong ..

You can't let love to be the exit of your failure to admit wut is right and wut is wrong ...
Btw, If you are really in love with the person , then you have to tell them that they are wrong and they have to admit it .. As long as you are not lying to yourself ..

I think I find it difficult to tell those I dont love that they are wrong than the ones who I love!!

for me i would say it, but it's harder to say it in some situations than other...

I think I find it difficult to tell those I dont love that they are wrong than the ones who I love!!

Well, you don't love them, so you don't care if they get hurt or not, so why is it harder?

Well, you don't love them, so you don't care if they get hurt or not, so why is it harder?

i guess it's like, they r gonna say: "who is this person to tell me what's right n what's wrong" :angry:

the loved ones will understand ur doing that for thier own good :)

Yes, definitely. I'm very blunt and straightforward, no matter who it is I'm talking to. In fact, the closer I am to the person and the more comfortable I am with them, the more outspoken I am.
Exactamundo.

I'd tell anyone they are wrong. I once got detention for correcting my teacher. He didn't like it even though I was right. :hyper:

Just made me more defiant to be blunt. If you can't deal with it, go bang your head somewhere. I'm not really one to tiptoe around people's feelings and if they are people I love, even more. I should feel completely comfortable in saying what's on my mind. That is true communication. I hate it when people aren't like that with me back. I feel like I have to mind read and do alot of guess work to find out what's on their mind or what they think.

Just be honest and come out with it!

you can always find a polite way to say to anyone that he/she is wrong..
It doesnt have to be harsh and rude..
& especially yer beloved once.. they know for sure that u just want what is BEST for them.. :cute:

Being blunt is not harsh and rude.

Being blunt is being real, without beautifying and accessorising what you want to say. It's simply cutting to the chase. I'm not capable of decorating my dialogue with a load of gimmicky touchy feely crap. It's too false for me.

i guess it's like, they r gonna say: "who is this person to tell me what's right n what's wrong" :angry:

the loved ones will understand ur doing that for thier own good :)

Aha I see. But why would you tell a person you hardly know, what's right or wrong? What's it to you?

Can you tell your loved one that they are wrong

With pleasure! :D

:p

I'd tell. No problem
try not make them feel so bad/guilty about it (I don't like making ppl feel that way xD)
Keep an air of lightness - if it’s not too serious
Just learn your lesson or get the point and all’s fine :p
I think it's easier to tell a loved one..

To me, it’s only difficult when the person is really really sensitive xD
Then I’d have to be cautious with what and how I tell them

Oh and when the person doesn’t like me (unrequited love? :p )
I won’t say anything
Because they wouldn’t care lol..

Also, when it’s me they’ve wronged
I sometimes tend to keep it to myself..
Hehe maybe they’re not massive wrongs that’s why..
Tolerable.
Or when bringing it up won’t serve any purpose
It doesn’t matter anymore..
Or sometimes I just don't want to show that I'm hurt xD ?

A relationship without pure honesty does not exsist.

I agree

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I would tell her that she's wrong in a private conversation between the both of us if she was wrong towards someone else but if it's between us only then yeah I won't hesitate to let her know what I think and I'd expect the same from her.

Yeah, you should not scold your partner in front of other people and embarrass them. Everything should be done in private.

i would Tell her In front of every one i will embarrass her :) , nothing can be done in private since she is not my wife :) , am sure she would love me more :)

Yah I would..there is nothing wrong with that

It might be hard at first but I won't let it pass without saying anything and I prefer saying it in person and in a private place...

i would Tell her In front of every one i will embarrass her :) , nothing can be done in private since she is not my wife :) , am sure she would love me more :)

loool
and if she your wife you still gonna embarrass her ? :p

Hey! it's abit hard.. why do you all think it's super easy?

^ i dont thinkits easy ....its not
specialy if hes so convinced that her right lool
hell i dont even know how to tell my friends that they're wrong .. 3ad ofcourse its gonna be hard :p

loool
and if she your wife you still gonna embarrass her ? :p

:) am too old to think about having a wife :) my life is already over.
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As they say "Truth Hurts, but we got to face it someday!"
I`m frank to my points.. I dont mean to be harsh or rude.. I might look for a polite way to say things.. But I dont Find anything wrong to be frank and honest.. Especially when it comes about telling yer beloved ones that they did something wrong. :)

I think it is easy to tell the truth! Why wouldn't I? I wouldn't Want to live with him being wrong and the fact that i know he is.