If someone was trusting you with something about his/her own private life. Would you go on telling your partner about it? Why?

Nope. My business is my business...when they trust me and ask me to tell no one..it doesn't mean my partner is 'no one' :p. Plus, it really depends.

Not unless it concerns him. Maybe.

I don't like breaking promises, especially when they are about confidentiality.

There's nothing wrong with keeping secrets imo. Your brain is yours. Store what ever you like in it.

I would not tell. No explanation necessary. When you give your word, that's that.

Not unless it concerns him. Maybe.
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Ya..like saying : Can I tell you something, but please don't tell anyone!..I'm going to kill your husband.

What the hell man! :hyper:

I wouldn't.. Unless it was funny..! lol

Maybe I would. Maybe I wouldn't. It depends how close I am to this person and how grave the secret is. If it was my sister's secret, I doubt I would tell anyone. But perhaps if it was a mere friend whom I see once a month and her secret is trivial, then I would.

I can't pretend that I won't tell anyone. It's sometimes far from the truth when people say they won't tell anyone and they end up telling more than ONE person!

Lately, I noticed that I tell my fiance everything!! So yeah, maybe I would..

depends if my partner is talkative and has many close friends or not !

nah .......

I can't keep my mouth shut

Why should I? Its not my busniess to go on telling someone else's secrets. And besides, that trusts me not telling anyone, and I respect the trust we have. :)

i believe its not even my business to go telling anyone or anything i also believe its none of my business to mention it to the person that told me, if they asked for help or advice i'd give it to em, if they just wanted to tell me to just take it out than, they would do that....

anyhow in other words i wouldn't even if its the simplest stupidest thing...they have there own reasons for not telling everyone

depends on how serious the matter is, how much my spouse is concerned, how much I care < important... cuz if I don't care I don't bother mentioning it most of the times. Also depends on how reliable he is in keeping things to himself.

Ya..like saying : Can I tell you something, but please don't tell anyone!..I'm going to kill your husband.

What the hell man! :hyper:
hahaha ... no I meant like... If someone told me something about a friend of his or someone he knows. Things that don't concern him are none of his business. :D

if someone told me they were going to kill him, you never know, I might not tell him at all. :hyper:

^your as wicked as a witch from salem as usual ! :hyper:

I will share everything with my partner...so people shouldn't tell me secrets if they don't want my future wife to know them..simple as that. I don't see the joy of having a partner if I can't tell her anything I feel like telling her.

I'd like to say "absolutely not" but truth of the matter is, I don't know. If I'm close to the person and we've known each other for a very long time I might keep their secret to myself, or maybe if my partner knew the person and would be interested in the news, I'd tell him. I honestly don't know.

Nope. Simply because it doesn't relate to me.

I'd ask if it's ok to tell my husband first, if they answered no then I won't..
It's not like he's going to die if he din't know lol.

NO. Last year i told my best friend something and asked her not to tell her husband until i was ready for him to know. She made that promise to me and then broke it that night - that is really not nice and shows that the person cannot be trusted.
You should be close to your partner, but if you are asked not to say something - then you either keep your word, or you tell your friend that that is a promise you cannot make. Honesty is better than lying. If you lie you risk losing your friend and their trust for ever, so be honets and say you cannot make that promise.

I'd tell him..no matter how important or trivial the secret is..i like sharing every tiny little thing with my husband..even if it doesn't concern him

never!! i will never, since its meant to be a secret...

i would tell my partner if im 100% sure she wont tell anyone else

and if my friend asked me SPECIFICALLY not to tell anyone, i wouldnt

No I won't tell anyone his/her secret till I forget what the secret is:cute:

Because that's me simply I do keep people's secret and never let anyone else know about it, they can trust me with no worries.

Ya..like saying : Can I tell you something, but please don't tell anyone!..I'm going to kill your husband.

What the hell man! :hyper:

Huh? What the hell was I talking about? This didn't make any sense whatsoever!

Never ever, i don't want to break his/her trust of me to telling someone els, so no meaning than for his/her trust.

As far as I remember I don't talk about other peoples secrets. I also keep telling people please don't tell me secrets I just dont want to know. Cuz it breaks up the relation, if any one knows that secret and it wasn't you who told them. This person will point their fingures to you thinking you told them. So it is better you don't know.

Huh? What the hell was I talking about? This didn't make any sense whatsoever!

i think you were having a blonde moment back then haha :p

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2008 update:

i'm not so sure i'd tell my husband everything, even if it's seem like the ideal thing for me to do. if it doesn't concern him and it wouldn't make a difference whether he knew or not, then i'll most likely not tell him. it depends on the 'secret' really.

Never trust a woman. She will say I promise, I won't tell anyone. and the next day she tells everyone you and her know. Also guys who are pussies.

Well, I don't trust anyone easily. so not for me.

I am Fort Knox.

if someone asks me not to tell a secret then I won't.

Secret is secret otherwise no need to call it secret!!!!

Never trust a woman. She will say I promise, I won't tell anyone. and the next day she tells everyone you and her know.

I don't agree with U in generalizing this point, not all women the same:hmm:

If someone was trusting you with something about his/her own private life. Would you go on telling your partner about it? Why?

No. why? because it's immoral. I don't talk about such deep and personal things about others. It's just the way i am. I respect peoples' privacies and i don't let them down and ruin a trust bond. I'm good with secrets too.:yes:

My wife doesn't really have to know about my friend's private life, but if it happened and I got married, I'd tell my friend that I have someone closer than her in my life now, so I dont want her to share her secrets with me, avoiding getting in troubles later on. :)