Women:

Would you like it if your spouse noticed each and every change you have done? Like a hair cut, nails done, waxing?! All sorts of women beautification?

What if he hardly (almost never) noticed? Would that make you upset?!


I personally would like it if he doesn't notice. I'd want him to call me "beautiful" and "pretty" all the time, not only when I've gotten out of the hair dresser.

What about you?

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I personally would like it if he doesn't notice. I'd want him to call me "beautiful" and "pretty" all the time, not only when I've gotten out of the hair dresser.
If you would not like him to notice that, why do you do it in first place? I thought you would do that for him... Would a women do that for anyone else other than her husband?

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Ya sure, participate if you have to comment!


If you would not like him to notice that, why do you do it in first place? I thought you would do that for him... Would a women do that for anyone else other than her husband?

To answer your question:
I do it for myself, not for him! I take care of myself now and I'd continue with the same routine when I'm married.
What I meant is that, I don't want him to notice that I look good after a few days of looking bad. I don't want him to see the before and after changes. I want him to see me perfect and good looking all the time, and that's why I'd prefer someone who doesn't notice as much :cute:

How about this? I want him to notice when I go all out and try to look good where he compliments me and tells me I look exceptionally beautiful, but I don't want him to notice when I look like crap. Is that too much to ask? :p

I wouldn't like anybody to notice from the 1st place :cute:

Let him get used to the real you from day one, meaning : un done eyebrows and all that .. so that he doesn't be shocked later on in the future. :)

Yes I'd like him to notice.

Specially if it has something to do with my hair.

I do it for myself, not for him! I take care of myself now and I'd continue with the same routine when I'm married.
What I meant is that, I don't want him to notice that I look good after a few days of looking bad. I don't want him to see the before and after changes. I want him to see me perfect and good looking all the time, and that's why I'd prefer someone who doesn't notice as much :cute:
Yeah, I really understand what you're saying. But I guess most of women would love it if their husbands noticed that, especially if they were doing it for their husbands and to please them. Well, let's see what do most of sabla women say :D

Ofcourse or else he is in a big trouble :p , and he's also in trouble if he ever complains about my bad hair days or weight gain days..u know these sorta things. :bored: .

But I guess most of women would love it if their husbands noticed that, especially if they were doing it for their husbands and to please them

I think its very romantic when a woman makes an effort "Just to please her husband" , but i also understand what Endure means that gurls take care of themselves to satisfy their own requirments rather than doing it for someone .

At the end of the day both reasons accomplish the same goal , " a woman makes an effort to please her husband inorder to get compliments, to fulfill her own feminine needs :D" .

for me i would like him to notice my good and bad days. i would like him to compliment me in both good and bad days. say for example i just had my hair nail everything done he comes n says: "wow honey your looking beautiful as usual :p" and then this day comes where im sick my hair messed up my nose is red im coughing in other words im sick he comes and says: " i love it when your sick you look so innocent" :angel: :p

no cause it means he is an X ray person so he'd notice also my nono days

Women love seeking attention especially if its for their men.

When you love someone, you automatically do things to look better for 'him', even when you're doing it to please yourself.

I'd want him to notice when I've done something, I'd want him to compliment me when I look good, especially if i've put the effort into looking good. I'd love it if he tells me that I still look good on my bad days, when I feel like I look like crap for whatever reason. Gives you a sense of security and a high self esteem :)

Yes I would notice her & want her to notice me in return

Yes I would notice her & want her to notice me in return
exactly maan!
The issue here is that many women Out there are purely Selfish!
They tend to forget that even Men do need some attention and boosting up their ego from time to time :mmhmm::hyper:

Hahaha my husband wouldn't notice even if I grew a beard I think.. :hyper:

Well, I get my hair done every week, so its something "normal". I don't wear make-up in the house, so when I'm going out, he does notice it if it is strong enough. :rolleyes:

But hair cut, colour etc.. he doesn't notice it because they are done subtly and frequently.

I love the compliments anyway, so, to get them I kind of 'spoon feed him' with a quick swish of my hair to one side, brushing against his face in an exaggerated 'modelling' motion that says.. "Hey! Look at ME! I'm red with highlights! WOW!"

Other than shoving hair up his nose and eyes, nothing works. :hyper:

To be fair and honest, I never notice when he has shaved his face or hair. I usually notice a few days later. LOL

I notice nice aftershave, nice clothes and such... and yes, I do compliment him. (without the need to spray the aftershave up my nose) :cute:

I'd only want him to notice if it was a major change - like a new haircut. I don't want him to notice when I haven't waxed or done my eyebrows.

I think some men honestly can't tell when you've done something. My dad never notices anything I ever do, but my brother notices and comments (usually negative comments).

it would be cute if he notices eeeverything

it would be cute if he notices eeeverything
It would also be a miracle.


:D

It would also be a miracle.


:D

Yah ....... But it's something nice to notice wut your partner do such to get your attention :D

Yah ....... But it's something nice to notice wut your partner do such to get your attention :D
Sometimes though, men need a neon flashing sign pointing to their wives' hair/nails/dress/*insert new improvement here*...

:P :P

Not me ..... I can notice everything on agirl ;) .. Am good :p

few posts deleted due to :
- some were vulger
- some were abit personal (pm is good!)
- some side person to person question which might lead to drift of topic.

mind me please :)

Women should beautify themselves mainly for their husbands, even I read a fatwa that says she can dye her white hair with hena or black color if the purpose if to putify to her husband.

^ Man..what you're saying is OK, but how you say it just makes me feel weird! are we slaves or something?!

Well, I..umm...I'd like it if he noticed, and if he doesn't..it's ok. I'd just tell him what's new lol...then keep making him feel guilty about, just for fun :p

^ Man..what you're saying is OK, but how you say it just makes me feel weird! are we slaves or something?!
How much does it matter for you that your fioncee/husband, is in good shape ?

hmmm maybe notice me whether i was decked out or not!!!

How much does it matter for you that your fioncee/husband, is in good shape ?

Again, it's not what he says, it's how he says it.

I do care about my partner's shape..as a matter of health and attraction.

Then fine :p Thanks God not all men express themselves like that
When time comes you will do something to make him happy and he will do the same for you
And if he is the right person for you and viceversa, you see it will come natural with no need for both of you to feel as a slave :)
Is a give and get

yeah..noticing and complimenting is nice :cute: and laughing at how i look in my bad days is kinda fun! :p I'd notice, compliment and I'd laugh at him as well..

like saying: oh honey you look beautiful!
when i look absolutely horrible lol! that would be funny :p

yes...i'm weird