Endure Whisper
22-05-07, 12:54 PM
Halal or Haram?
Is it allowed for a man with 2 wives to have a threesome?
Please don't lead this thread to something else, I just want to know whether or not it's allowed.
Dam3eti
22-05-07, 01:43 PM
I don't think so, coz women also have a 3awra, they can't look at naked women.
plus it's disgusting.
MorphaKnight
22-05-07, 01:46 PM
if thats the case then put a black curtain between the bed and the women wouldn't see each other.. the man would be underneath and boom! you have a threesome :p
ah its amazing how people can be creative to find ways to avoid sinful stuff :XD:
Mr Tickle
22-05-07, 04:07 PM
EW,
Are you looking for two men - or one man and another girl?
MorphaKnight
22-05-07, 04:13 PM
pino read the question again :p
"Is it allowed for a man with 2 wives to have a threesome?"
Mr Tickle
22-05-07, 04:18 PM
only if you give both equal amounts of 'attention'.............down to the nearest second
Frozen Echo
22-05-07, 04:28 PM
Even about the disgusting part?
Wouldn't you like to engage in a threesome?
It is haram.
Thread locked.
Before members start talking about four boobs etc
NiGhTFaCe
22-05-07, 04:46 PM
Ladies don't want their husbands to have other wives, & here they are thinking of threesome :bored:
You can't have that for sure.
Question
A person is married to two wives. He wants to have sex with both of them together in the same bed as a threesome. Is it haram to do so if the wives are willing to do it? Thanks!
Answer
In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.
All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.
Dear brother in Islam, thanks a lot for your question, which reflects your eagerness to seek Islamic guidance in all spheres of your life. May Allah enlighten our hearts with the light of Islam!
As regards the question you posed, it is to be noted that having sex with one’s wife in front of any other person, even if a second wife, is not permissible. Having sex with one’s two wives together is prohibited even if they are willing to do it, as this involves allowing them to see the private parts of each other, which is not allowed in Islam. This also goes against the Islamic teachings that require that bedroom secrets should be confined to the husband and wife only. Moreover, this violates the basic norms of modesty.
Elaborating on this, Sheikh Faysal Mawlawi, Deputy Chairman of the European Council for Fatwa and Research, states:
“It is not permissible to have sex with one’s two wives together for two reasons:
First, it is not permissible for a woman to look at the `awrah of another. The `awrah of a woman with respect to other women is what is between the navel and the knee. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said, ‘… and a woman should not see the private parts (`awrah) of another woman…’ (Reported by Muslim and At-Tirmidhi)
Second, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) prohibited the man and the woman to talk to others about details that happen in their bedrooms. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: ‘Do not do this. Do you know the similitude of those who do that? They are like a male and female devil who meet each other in the road and satisfy their desire with the people gazing at them.’
This indicates that with greater reason a man must not have intercourse with one of his wives in the presence of another, as the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) did not make exception for the second wife in this Hadith. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) was very keen not to have intercourse (with any of his wives) while anybody could see or hear them.
In his book Al-Mughni, Ibn Qudamah stated that if the two wives agreed that the husband have sex with one of them while the other can see them, this is not allowed, as this is mere degradation and absurdity that violate the rules of modesty and go against sound taste.
Source: Islam Online (http://www.islamonline.net/servlet/Satellite?pagename=IslamOnline-English-Ask_Scholar/FatwaE/FatwaE&cid=1119503547196)
Since the question asked in this thread has already been answered with a good source, I am going to lock this thread to prevent it from turning into an inappropriate and a chit-chat based thread.