True or false:and why?

The Ultimate result of a relationship between a man and a woman is Either Love Or Hate. and in the process of such relationship even if both genders were to say that they treat each others as brother/sister relationship or BEST friend relationship...through time Sooner or later directly or indirectly the thoughts/emotions of either if not both can drift towards something more than JUST what was this relationship originaly designed for?!!!

True or false: and why?

This thought has to come in the mind of the two genders that has a frienship relation ship::


Hey he said what he said maybe cause he is intrested in me??

She is beautiful..hummm just friends?? maybe should go for more??

He is Hot today?on top he is among few who truely understands my feelings (if not the only one!)...Should I aim/ask for something more?????


She is a Woman! understands me well!!! reads my mind better than any other guy friend I had?? why noT!?
a Slip of a conversation:

He: I am intrested in a girl you know her her name is xo?
she: she?? why she is bad for you no no! didnt think your taste will go that low
after few months to years:
He: what do u think of ox??
she: No no! she is a bla bla person! and her beauty is fake! come on!
He: is she jealouse or is truely trying to make me find the right one true heartly...????????


I can go on and on... :)

i dont get it ! :)
IMO both men and women are equal ! :)

:cute: That is a hard question ..

:mmhmm: From my experience in dealing with both genders. I learned that you cannot judge by gender , you can judge relying on their personality and their mentality !

A thought can come & go right ? but it will remain and the person might have the guts to ask or want to do more unless he/she sees acceptance from the other side !

:yes: that's my opinion ..

No man would think of asking more from a woman if he didnt see any signs from her, no matter what and vice versa. S/he wouldnt have any idea or thought of asking her if he didnt get some hints.

Some people wouldnt wana ruin their friendship and what they have, but shaytan can play his part anytime. There are no guarantees that,such thoughts wouldnt cross their minds.

Expect the Un-expected.

sometimes with no signs emotions appear!

If the question is can a man and woman be JUST friends for a long time...

Then the answer is yes. Tried and tested. A friendship between two people of the opposite sex need not be or ever turn into a sexual one.

There are many types of 'love'. The way you love your kids, the way you love your parents, the way you love your partner, the way you love your siblings and the way you love your friends. Not all 'love' is sexual.

As for jealousy, it can go both ways. A lady-friend can be just as jealous as a man-friend. But then again, how much of a friend is she/he, if they envy you?

I think Fengy is right.

But it helps if they are MATURE. Feelings can come and go, but the real question is what you DO with those feelings. Most of the time we fall in love because we LET ourselves fall in love, we abandon ourselves to the flow of the feelings because it feels good at the moment.

I don't think there can be a totally pure friendship between a man and a woman. Generally one party might be secretly interested in the other, or it might evolve into being something more. In only exceptional cases, will there be a pure friendship (like between me and you Thuggy :cute: , or between me and Nabhan). But these are very rare cases. Considering the above, it is no wonder I hardly have any guys on my msn list lol. The ones I have I can count on my fingers. :os Personally, I prefer friendships with women, they are perfect for it, rather than men. :p Men are for other things *ahm*

Men are for other things *ahm*

Bad :6: ..... lol . .

I agree with Fengy and Jeff as well .. Girls as friend something good .. Sometimes you need to talk to girls who are no more than a friend .. Com'on not all the girls could turn the guy such for no reason .. Even if she was in a bikini ..

Even though someone would say: Yes, our relationship is based on friendship only. ... How could he/she be sure the other person thinks the same?

Here's an example :angel:
Who used to watch Lizzie Mcguire? ... For so many years the guy was only a 'FRIEND' ... at the last Lizzie McGuire movie, they kissed!:omg:

(Because, in reality, it's not possible for them to stay friends for ever)

Da-Da-Da-Dumm ... !:hmm:

Bogus, you watch too much TV. :p


You can't say it doesn't work before you even try it. I've had an equal amount of female friends and male friends. It all depends on how you look at them and how they look at you. If you can read people, you will notice straight away that the other person is changing, and then, you can always set him straight.

Like Jeff said, it's all about where you put your boundaries. Some put their bounderies at not having friends of the opposite sex, and that's fine. But it doesn't make sense then for that person to say how it works when a person does have friends of the opposite sex who are JUST friends.

i have many female friends for longer years than lizzie's friend and we never kissed and niether of us are planing to ! :)

There is no gurantee on how they will look at you at any point of time /space :)
Specialy if you having something charming in you...physicaly or unphysicaly

There's no guarantee, true, but what you do from then is up to you. No one is going to force your hand or put a spell on you.

If anyone, absolutely anyone starts coming on to you and it making you feel uncomfortable, all you have to do is speak up. Say, "This is not what I had in mind." "This is not my idea of friendship" or.. "You are making me feel uncomfortable, Please stop"

Simple.

No Guarantee !!!!!
Why on the First place you made a friendship relation with a girl if you know that you can control yourself ... Also, Physically ; wutz on her you did not see when you decided to be friends ..