1) Would you go for someone who was more attractive than you? Would you admire them, or would it make you feel insecure?

and

2) Would you go for someone who was so obviously less attractive than you?

A lot of the time, when a couple is seen where one person is very good looking and the other is average or below average, somehow these thoughts would always be voiced: "What does she see in him?" or "She can do so much better".

I read somewhere that we choose people who we believe are on the same attractiveness level as we believe we are. For instance, if you believe you're a 7, you would be more comfortable going for someone that you believe is also a 7 on a scale of 10 in attractiveness.

i go for more attractive ! :)

Im a very secure person when it comes to look and personality, so i wouldnt mind really if he is more attractive or handsome or what ever better ;)

i hear the comments many say on couples specially when the groom is more handsome than the bride... honestly i sometimes think it is coming out of envy cause if he didnt marry her for her beauty then he married her for her mind which is even more valuable and real

Personally, I care about the chemistry between us and how he treats me. I mean there are men who are so good looking but might cheat and treat you like trash. While there are other men who are average looking, but are diamonds. I think what is important is 1) that I am attracted to him. He might be so good looking, but I may not be attracted. 2) Is there respect, understanding between us.

looooooool another good thread..but looks are not everything..who ever i love...i know that they are attractive regardless of what the really look like or feel :)

I'll go for someone who is less attractive, because I don't want to go through the competition of maintaining a good body and taking care of myself quite alot on a daily bases. It would just make me feel insecure and lead to chaos.

Uhm, I don't think I follow one pattern. He can either be more attractive or less, it doesn't matter. As long as I am attracted to him, and him likewise. But it would be great to be with someone who is on somewhat the same level of attractiveness as I am. It's cute to be a good looking couple :p

Apparently, I am quite different. When I fall in love with someone, I automatically see them as 10/10!! :love:

For example, before I knew my fiance, I never thought he was good looking. I never thought he was bad looking either. I just never thought of anything. When he came into my life, I thought he was perfect!! He still is :love:

I'll go for the same level, or perhaps less attractive :cute:

as i can't say i am/not atractive, i cant say i'll go for more attractive or else..
same level should be fine :)
and what i can see here, it's : girls are always cuter than the guy there are with ! don't know y :think: