What do you think of members who come here with a fake attitude as in not the attitude they usually have in real life and are just here to make a joke out of the forum? I really don't understand why ANYONE would do that to him/herslef. Is that persons life SO boring that he/she has to come here and make a fool of him/herself?

^the answer to that is yes... their life is boring

and its kinda fun when they do that ! :D
i was thinking about doing that myself ! :)

Never fake it .. Coz you will need to be honest with yourself before being honest with the others ..
Once Fengy said ; fake it once, you will have to fake most of the time :) ..
It's nt making the Forum looks bad but their picture will be dishonest as a reflection of his personality ..
Most of the people who do such an act are not satisfied with their own personality and their attitude .. They always try to figure out how they will look in front of other people .. They never thought of their own satisfaction as the first issue to be understood and recognized ..

I think they were/are losers at school etc. So they come up here with all their hatred to the world and try to boss people around just like they have been bossed around and bullied.

People who come here with a fake attitude really do have a problem.

Never fake it .. Coz you will need to be honest with yourself before being honest with the others ..

Once Fengy said ; fake it once, you will have to fake most of the time :) ..
It's nt making the Forum looks bad but their picture will be dishonest as a reflection of his personality ..

Most of the people who do such an act are not satisfied with their own personality and their attitude .. They always try to figure out how they will look in front of other people .. They never thought of their own satisfaction as the first issue to be understood and recognized ..



You either have the memory of an elephant or you just made that up. :hyper:

I don't even remember myself saying that!

I can't comment on members being fake because I don't know anyone IRL. Only online.

You either have the memory of an elephant or you just made that up. :hyper:

I don't even remember myself saying that!.

Wut I can remember is that you said this line after Hitman or IceTee or Dark Project comment in one of the recent threads :) .. (not sure which one)

I always stalking your comments and 3Tee :6: * since the gay thread :XD: *
Always find something unusual or interesting :)

Fengy... give him ur autograph already.

Why dont u see u from this way, maybe here the person is his/herself, but they fake it with ppl in real life..
i mean some ppl they fake their personality infront of other ppl around and they are known as this personality, thay act very well..but maybe here they wanna show their real personality since no one know them.

i said MAYBE

^ when I talk about faking it I'm talking about the people who sometimes post normally and then suddenly one day they go crazy and start posting idiotic bull all over the forum. We have a good number of members who do that on this forum and it's extremely sad.

can you give us a few examples of those members nabhan ? :)

oh nah... they know themselves pretty well :p...

maybe they dont realize it yet so it might be better to list the names of those members! :cute:

^ agree :P
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i hate fakers ...

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Yasir, I didn't start this to flame specific members, I just mentioned that there are some who seem to do this. I'd rather not turn this thread into a flame thread so it's best to avoid mentioning any names.

but its not allowed and as a mod you are obligated to do something about the issue i reported ! :(

who exactly is being refered to in here?

Fake members, if they exist

oh nah... they know themselves pretty well :p...

who are they? I dont see how anyone would want to do that in the first place! And how can a member be "Fake"?:yell:

^ when I talk about faking it I'm talking about the people who sometimes post normally and then suddenly one day they go crazy and start posting idiotic bull all over the forum. We have a good number of members who do that on this forum and it's extremely sad.
Honestly I fail to comprehend what you mean
What is normal and what idiotic
can you make an example

I dont see how anyone would want to do that in the first place! And how can a member be "Fake"?:yell:

Me neither!!

Ugh..I know many! what's funny that some of them are my friends :p

I don't think their life is "boring". But, maybe they do this to sound "cool" or..they do this to sound like they don't need the sabla, and that it's just a "joke" to them (I'm getting my butt kicked after this post :p)

So ya...well, I think they're fake, and I've told them so :hyper:

To pass time ...

To pass time ...

Sometimes I agree with you :rolleyes:

It is not 'Fake Members' it is, "Suicide Membership" and there he can blow a surprise (posting porn, saying filthy words, attacking in politics...etc.). They just feel ecstasy and it relives lots of their inner pressure due to any outside factor.

They come here to say what they can't say in their own face. They burn that face and leave it dead "duplicate" identity.

Ohhhhhh it is such a painful thing to know that a member that you respect did that and sure he is lowered from the level you usually keep him in by such an action.

I believe that if you feel shy to say something in public, never say it in private. And that is applicable to concealing , so if you feel shy to say something with your face open, never say it while concealing your face, it will "only" make things worse "never" better. This is how you get better day after day, when your inners are just as clean as your outers.

Sometimes not saying something you want to say is far better in consequences than saying it out, even if you have the right and you are speaking the better good.

^ Wow, an essey you got there Hroundb ;)

It is not 'Fake Members' it is, "Suicide Membership" and there he can blow a surprise (posting porn, saying filthy words, attacking in politics...etc.). They just feel ecstasy and it relives lots of their inner pressure due to any outside factor.
But where is the fake part
If that's their personality in the forum then what ?
Unless you're speaking of multiple accounts but that's another story

I think the internet allows for people to 'come out and just say it'. Sometimes, this can be something considered taboo, or something that takes courage to say, even online. But sometimes, it also can be a place for people to be silly. To let off steam or to simply be annoying.

NabHaN.. you do not have the right to judge those people by saying that they are so called "fake".. you don't know them nor you don't live with them so you can compare between their personalities in real life and their personalities on the net.

Everyone has the right to post whatever he feels like posting.. whatever that particular post may be.. it could be posting porn or swearing or anything that you and me don't want to see, then comes your job or any other moderator job of erasing whatever you think is not allowed to be posted or kickin' them out or whatever you guys do :bored: .

In conclusion:

Eveyone is accountable on him/her self.

AE: I know some people that fit this criteria... but why do I feel those asking "who is it" feel like the accused may be them???? This is hilarious :p

what I understood from fake members is when they suddenly switch from what they've been to something completely different in the forum itself.
I don't know whether they fake it or whether it's their actual personality. Or whether it's their moment of craziness...

But where is the fake part
If that's their personality in the forum then what ?
Unless you're speaking of multiple accounts but that's another story
Not, the, same, ... A different name a fake name, posting with it all the bad things, while keeping the good face for the members in the Sabla.

Haroun
I will make a personal example :

I like Sloath as a person [for how he shows himself here] but I don't like his political views and I express this in harsh way cause that's my way, I cannot change it
If [and I do it many times, believe me] I kept myself quiet from replying to him when he says unreasonable things just to be nice, that would be a fake behaviour
And this is after 4 years we're here

OK... NOw I Just Understand...Sorry I misunderstood , thanks Ammo for explaining, and Yes that was clear! :)

Back to the topic...I am not fake, and I just now that there are some members here who are "fake" and pretend that they are "genuine" while they are not! Those people just come here to compensate their failure in life, so they just make a balance with their inner problems. Let them live and just skip their attitude.

What I didn't understand (re-reading Nabhan's Post) is how would they make a joke of our forum?... If someone can explain please I would appreciate it.

^ when I talk about faking it I'm talking about the people who sometimes post normally and then suddenly one day they go crazy and start posting idiotic bull all over the forum. We have a good number of members who do that on this forum and it's extremely sad.

Maybe its the other way around, maybe they started with pretending to be all nice and Rosy and then turned in to real them!

One thing i know you can't really determine the real personality of a member by their posts, ppl can fake, lie , pretend ,act in the net!

and also can be extremely honest

So whats real whats fake can not be distinguished !

Its a world of chaos!

I believe its the other way around.

members who take this forum too seriously , thats what sad to me those people have boring lifes.



not fake, not too serious... thats a good attitude .

.. i think it's even wrose and more FAKE is when a person says something then some ppl just go blindly agreein with him/er ..that's big mother FAKE-ers!!

life.star is an example of fake members ! :)

:XD: LOL


^ when I talk about faking it I'm talking about the people who sometimes post normally and then suddenly one day they go crazy and start posting idiotic bull all over the forum. We have a good number of members who do that on this forum and it's extremely sad.



but i dont think thats being fake ?

Can we please give names? :hyper:

welcome in ES lol !

and yeah give us some names :)

i do believe that am fake , but being Fake is better than trying to give a perfect image about your self.

yeah !
i haaate it when its so obvious that this member is just like tryin sooo bad to be soooo perfect !

he means people who suddeny change
well thats not being fake
people dont act the same way ALL the time
unless he means members like life.star ! :os

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I think they were/are losers at school etc. So they come up here with all their hatred to the world and try to boss people around just like they have been bossed around and bullied.

People who come here with a fake attitude really do have a problem.


lool i agree

Wow long time havent been to ES!

you know what... EVERYBODY ONLINE IS FAKE!

including all the members here, no one is real when he/she is in a forum, including me! and this is a perfect generalization,
because in reality you use TONE to talk which reflects more than 90% of your personality. while in forums u can never use that tone therefore you are FAke!

and yes im a fake member like all of u...

ban me!

^ lol if u wanna get banned .. they wont ban you for that :P

Thanks to the members who posted seriously about the issue..and no thanks to the members who continued to post names even after I clearly said that no names should be mentioned here.

I opened this topic to try and show those members who 'fake' their personality that not many will respect them and this disrespect could follow them to real life because people will always be confused about what kind of people they really are. This is a discussion forum, not a circus, people should be here to discuss in a friendly and mature way. To goof around, post silly remarks about every single thing, to bully members just for the fun of it..well that just doesn't give out a good impression about who you are whether it's here or in real life and people will question the way you were raised so you're not only harming yourself but your family as well on the long run.

i dont think anyone has a consistent personality
i mean i believe every person has many sides of his/her personality
but that doesnt mean that the alternative side is "fake" !

I think people should try their best to show their good side then, especially if they're smart. Why dumb down yourself by being silly?

just because someone was not serious for second doesnt mean that the person has dumbed down him/her-self
some people cant be all serious and robotic ALL the time !

They really want to look "cool"

I know some who're trying to copy HITMAN and Neztic (Dunno his nick. :inno:)?...I'm not kidding :hyper:

Again, I'm not talking about people who get silly for one second. I'm talking about those who parade all over the forum and post silly remarks in every topic they come across.

Fengy I believe is the perfect example of someone who can be funny yet serious when it comes to discussions, Her posts never disturb the flow of the discussion.

But some members JUST post unnecessary and silly comments thinking that they're funny and cool but they just aren't.

But some members JUST post unnecessary and silly comments thinking that they're funny and cool but they just aren't.


And what's the problem ?!

And what's the problem ?!

they disturb the flow of serious threads. I thought that you understood these sort of things.

sorry for eroor my englishe not well coz i my language is frensh so some bady help?

well i do believe that nothing in this world is perfect that human made even this fourm, some comes over to learn , discuess , bored , fun ,....etc so i think you'll face many types here as in the real world , i don't think there is a rule says no Fake ppl should sign in this fourm but again every person have his own reasons to sign...even as nabs says there will be no respect for them but maybe it's their goal.....ppl thinks in many ways that might get some sick from him but again it's not about how you think about him...it's about how you will let him to respect what are you doing...but making it all over makes them feel that they have achived their goal by making you loss your nerves that's all :)

yes thank-you well i wentto participate in all the subjects but ?

Fascinating the way this thread, which I think Nabhan intended as a small nudge to a tiny class of annoying people has taken on a life of its own! A lesson in human psychology...

I've been called "fake" by some people here, but it never bothered me because I understand where they're coming from. (See? MORE fake! :p)

I just think of myself as paying attention to the positive things I really see and feel and paying less attention to the negative things.

But I figure that there are always people on the internet who "invent themselves" and that's part of what makes them happy. It's a way for people to hide parts of themselves that are hard to hide in real life and an maybe reveal other parts that are hard to reveal. It's a fascinating way to begin learning about someone.

Of course, some people just like to play jokes, too! As long as they aren't trolling, I don't see what they problem is.

they disturb the flow of serious threads. I thought that you understood these sort of things.
Nabs dear

I understood this is one of your moments "is me against the members" :D
solve it in private or using your adm powers

Nabs dear

I understood this is one of your moments "is me against the members" :D
solve it in private or using your adm powers

addressing the problem is more important than taking an action against it. I wanted to make a difference by talking about it but I guess my intentions are always taken the wrong way.

You know...for This i can answer you in One Line which is very suitble In my opinion:

"Sabla is Not and Will Never be a Country""

Why should we complicate Things
as Long as every one respect each others within the Limits of Sabla rules
things should be flexible and fine...

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Again and Again my famous Quote: SABLA AINT a Country (in an american Slang way)
every one is free to do what they want contact what they want as long as they dont make a fuss out of it and make a public sceen

some wise words from our true leader ...

http://www.englishsabla.com/forum/showpost.php?p=844119&postcount=5

lolz yeh thug is correct
if someone wants to say a joke in EVERY thread wetherits serious or not its his/her choice to do

^ not if it disturbs the thread, and I'm sure thug will agree with this.

^ not if it disturbs the thread, and I'm sure thug will agree with this.

nabs the problem is they sees it from another side that might be right in their opinion and you see it as a disturb so i think you might handle it much easier if you get over and look at their posts and you'll get to know them much more....

lolz now that ive read the first post well i guess im the one who was meant by it from the begenning ! :)

lolz now that ive read the first post well i guess im the one who was meant by it from the begenning ! :)

why do you think it's about you? do you admit to goofing around the forum and ignoring moderators requests to stop using arabic ..etc etc etc?

and anyways..this topic was not directed to you..it was a general statement.

more like hitting two birds with one stone
thanx for making a scene instead of politely telling me that something i did bothered you

oh n btw its pretty obvious from your reply that DID in fact mean ME by it

lol you didnt know that you were world's center ? :rolleyes:

I already told you it wasn't about you, but somehow you're determined to make it about you..you've been hinting it since I started the thread so it's you who's making the scene. I already said I don't want to mention names to avoid turning this thread into a flame thread.

My last Q:
Am I one of them?
It's ok to say yes..hey I gave the green light..Although I don't remember ever fooling around

lol im one of them ?
coz i write in arabic ?

OH MY GOD. it's NOT about arabic posts alone...it's the attitude people.

death rose go to the living room. LOL.

looool nabhan screw u :hyper:
...plus noone is there :P

i know im not fake :cute:

im not fake either ! :)
ppl here are so complicated n need to loosen up ! :cute:

Poor NabhaN, he is speaking French in Bangladish...

1- [Narrow Minded] , [Guilty by Nature], [Accusation Sensitive] & [Attention Seekers] will ask "Is it me you are talking about?"

http://i78.photobucket.com/albums/j106/Haroundb/Yes_I_do_have_a_question.jpg

2- [Pretenders] & [Careless], will try to make NabhaN look 'silly' for discussing such silly issue, they care for more global, universal matters..." Comone NabhaaaN, It is not a 'Country'...Yaaaar...Open up, loosen up, freen up...."!!!

http://www.bikeshak.co.uk/images/geek.jpg

3- [Skimmers] will just post a "I agree" or "I don't agree" and then off to another thread, they are not really concerned..."loool, yaah Nabs, I can tell some names ;) )

http://www.cherrycorp.com/contest/images/geek.jpg

4- [Fake Members] will attack NabhaN and will accuse him of not dealing with the matter in a private way...They feel guilty and they know that they are doing the bad thing. They just can't fight back unless they attack!..."So you could have said it in private instead of making it public"

http://www.avantec.ch/pix/thief.jpg

5- [Other Fake Members] will hit back saying that NabhaN himself is pretending so he shouldn't throw stones on others while sitting in his "House of Glass"... "Just look at yourself first and fix your own problems then tell others to fix their's"

http://www.ce.berkeley.edu/Courses/CE180/shout.jpg

:super:

Nabhan! God help you, lol. Lock it :p

You guys are taking this thread way too seriously

^lol..it's okay, I knew what I was doing when I started the thread. I even told a friend that I was sure that the members would jump all over me.

I just want to say that if a member feels that the thread is about him/her then he/she is probably faking his/her personality over here...otherwise why would you think and feel that i'm talking about you if you're being your true self in the forum?

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Haroundb: :D

Then nabhan y u dnt bann them all these fake members, n see hw many will b left then!

^^ Since when being fake is a reason to ban someone? :os

I conclude SW that you're saying only a few will be left??... rofl.

but heys... I also think of it the otherr way... and I know a few who are like that. Fake in life... real in sabla. Cuz some might find sabla a means of giving out their true thoughts.

how to identify who?... recheck with haroundb. lol