…………….which one you need more in your marriage relationship, LOVE or UNDERSTANDING?.........

understanding.... because without that, love deteriorates.

Love comes with understanding; if you love someone you will learn how to understand & appreciate one another.

Definitely understanding. Understanding is part of communication, and if you can communicate with your partner and understand who they're are, their views, their personality, their interests, then you will grow to appreciate them and love them.

With love, comes understanding.. Just like trust and so on.

Love is just like a wholesale package =p .. you get everything with it ;)

For those who said "With love comes understanding"..well, not necessarily.

I second Lym and Tee...or I third :XD:

I need BOTH :p

Understanding. When we understand each other more, I get attracted to him more and thus my love for him is more ;)

Understanding..then LOVE comes and couples will carry on with their lifes knowing that whatever they do..each one is understanable, and they get the point from only an eye contact.

.................i think that love is not necessary brings understanding……….but understanding can bring love………..


…….though both are important to have………….…but sometimes its hard to get what you want in one person………………..

You start with understanding and then end up in love , then as you go on you loose the understanding somewhere and then love brings back understanding. :p

I dont much trust in love...so I will go for understanding

I'll go with the Understanding .. As long as they understand each other with love or without it ..... many marriages last coz of understanding ...... But if you can not understand your partner , love never help you understand him/her .. Try to search for both of them that will make your relationship better and stronger and last for ever ..

well, i don't know..i mean they both lead to the other somehow..ne?

How come many say love means understanding? many are really in love, but jealousy blinds them...they can't be understanding even IF they want to. They do NOT lead to each other all the time.

An understanding person will always be so, even if she/he aren't in love with you.

A lil bit of both would make the bestr bride.
nothing is better, I think both complete each other.
you can't love whoever you want and ruin ur life later on.
u can't marry someone who understands you with no love, u dont marry machines.

amor !!! :D

i'll go for understanding, its the only way for love and relatioship to occur

None muwahaha :6:

well, i say Love ! and if jealousy blinded him, then ops,
there goes his sight with the air ..

both :P.........

…………….which one you need more in your marriage relationship, LOVE or UNDERSTANDING?.........
In this case I can say that marriage is like a tree, understanding is the earth for it and love is the water.
Without understanding, any storm can bring the tree down, throw it away dead. Without water, the tree will be standing still, but with no life in it!

You know FaRaSHa, without understanding love is weak, like a snail without a shell, so fragile and tender that anyone kan step over it and destroy it, eat it or let it dry in the cold.

Being without love, is being without life, dead no matter durable it would be, like a wonderful painting of a natural scene, you can always see it there on your wall but you can never really touch the waterfall or smell the lovely rose inside it...

I think Nella's answer is the best.

Love is more than romance. Love is something deeper. You can have love without romance and you can have romance without love.

If all you have is romance, then understanding will begin, but it will dry up and blow away when there are challenges.

The thing about romantic love that is so wonderful is that you feel that the other person is the most wonderful thing in the history of the universe. And, really, I think that's closer to the truth than our daily attitude toward people. People really are amazingly wonderful! And when you see that about a particular person, you are seeing the Truth much more than you are seeing illusion.

But will it survive the day-to-day grind, when the other person's faults become more obvious and you get used to them? Then, if you are really committed to increasing understanding, love will grow. If you don't direct it, it will shrivel up and blow away.

dear Jeff love is also BLIND!

sometimes love could turn to a curse than a blessing

love is a dangerous weapon if experienced by the wrong people