What would have happend if love had limits?!
Do you believe there are limits for it?! If so how?!

What do u mean by limits

.. depends if u believe in love before marriage or after it!!

.. before , it has limits.. after has no absolute limits.. infinite limit!!

whether it be before or after... to me it's got different limits to different people.

after marriage is more commitment than love.

What do u mean by limits

Feelings, is it true when they say it's a hard thing to be able to control your feelings towards your loved ones?!

3T do you think love dies after marriage?! Commitment sounds a bit dry...

^^no no no... not necessarily...

I was referring to toomuchat because he believed there to be love only after marriage and whatever comes before it is not true... my point was what he sees in many cases after marriage is mainly or most likely commitment... because not every marriage comes with love.

but if you ask whether there's a limit to love...
I say as long's true love exists there's no limit (then the question comes "is there such a thing as true love?")... the limits come according to how much you love the person...
that's why I said there are different limits to different people because love comes in different levels.

if any of that made sense :XD:

Yup, it made alot of sense!:D I guess you are right it all depends on how much you love the other person:flower:

An emotional person like myself would definitely say , YES no limits in love.

besides why do u wanna set limits? love unconditionaly and limitless. :love:

Because then you get attached to them and you fear losing them...

well, insanity has no limits..and to me love is very much associated with insanity so.. :rolleyes:

lol Nella! That's a strong way of expressing how you see it:p Cool!

When we go asking how much?! So then we will see limits!

Love is bad for health
if you want to love
love without humping !

There are no limits, it's like business, what you give is what you expect in return

The above applies to relations outside the marriage bound, in my case at least, you spend handsome money on the girl, buy her gifts, take her to lavish dinners & you will get the worth of that in other means

I was referring to toomuchat because he believed there to be love only after marriage and whatever comes before it is not true... my point was what he sees in many cases after marriage is mainly or most likely commitment... because not every marriage comes with love.


sorry but.. you are utterly and completely wrong when u said that i believe that love before marriage is not true!! .. i think love before marriage is the foundation of the marriage life.. but it has to be with the limits of shari3ah and adaab.. u can love someone u r not married to but u have to put ur limits.. dont tell me i love this person so i tell him/er my extreme feelings and affection *we didnt come to action yet*.. say that person has no intention of loving u, what would be the shock like!!

.. love after marriage is a commitment, is true because one of the essentials of marriage is to live in love n peace with ur partner.. and since it's a commitment, and when we r committed to something we have to do it with no limits!!

I believe a person should have limits towards love because how would you know what the future predicts ? What if your partner isn't as loyal as you thought, or what if his feelings change ? Anything could happen. However, I believe there's limits to everything. Also, I prefer if my partner loves me more than I love him to avoid getting hurt in a case of a conflict or splitting up.

I think since we can't define love, and it comes in different forms, degrees and extremes, it has no identifiable limit. You can never say how much you love a person. That goes to show there is no limit because you can't differentiate different kinds of love according to it.

However generally you can differentiate between lust, infatuation, crush and love, but not different degrees of love.

However generally you can differentiate between lust, infatuation, crush and love, but not different degrees of love.

But those could be some stages or degrees of lone ?!

Love ; :think: . .
What would have happend if love had limits?!
this means that U do not think LOVE has limit :) .. I could agree with
only if we figure wuts love in the first place coz we can not say something has no limits when we can not define it .. So how do we know its limit if we dont know it in the first place ..:think:

Do you believe there are limits for it?! If so how?!
Can't say Yes or No . Can someone define the real meaning of love :rolleyes:

You guys think there is an infinite love after marriage, where in fact, and in my strong opinion, marriage only consists of an infinite number of series rooms and in each one you have to make a compromise, a hell one even.. Because of love, you have to do nothing but to make compromises.

Of course, the beauty and nature of true love is being in love unconditionally; however, marriage in fact starts with conditions.. She wants that and he demands this.

For example, a girl in ES once said; one of her conditions to marry her future knight is that he must speak perfect english, around a score of 7 in IELTS. If she understands love perfectly, she could convince her knight to let go of being a knight in some stupid war and instead learn english, for instance..

Not to mention the 7 or so stages of love (7ub, gharam, hawwa, 3eshq).. Of course the strongest of them is called "Al-jawwa", this is the highest of love levels where you could be extremely lucky to be in that.. To the point, love after marriage is limited, before is not.. It tastes an awful lot sweeter before marriage..

I wonder if there is anyone in ES has experienced the strongest level of love or the extreme joy of loving unconditionally..

To be loved unconditionally is the greatest achievement anyone can ever own in this entire life and to return it with being in love unconditionally equally or more is a well-deserved achievement!

An example of that is a mother-to-son love..

Of course love has limits!
What? It's RESPECT! When you love someone, you respect them and there's a line drawn in between!

For example, you can't call your wife "my ****" even if you love her so much because you'd be disrespecting her!

You'd be surprised how some men do call their wives "my ****"!

^ That's not was I talking about but somehow I can see your point some guys are rude even to thier wives:mmhmm:


gal3ty so love is stronger b4 marriage than after?

I guess if you say that love has to have limits than your feelings towards some1 should be somehow limited:os Oh god, that's confusing:bored:

You love a friend with a limit, because you cant love that friend like you love your wife/husband/boyfriend/girlfiriend/fiancé

"LOVE" and "LIMIT" dont go in the same sentence together ! :)