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First-date sex 'is the best' (http://www.thesun.co.uk/article/0,,2-2007190505,00.html)
SLEEPING with someone on a first date can INCREASE chances of a long-term relationship, a biologist claims.
Dr Barry Gibb rejects the belief it is best to wait before having sex.
His new book, The Rough Guide To The Brain, says love-making sparks chemical changes in the brain that lead to love and commitment.
Dr Gibb said yesterday: “Behind all those romantic coy looks is a brain on chemical rampage.”
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That's interesting & perhaps can be applied on arranged marriages as well
lol arranged marriages are crazy!! Hitty what's the point from posting this here when you know that Islam has forbidden the sex before marriage thing! What's your goal?! :XD:
amo_l_oman 01-05-07, 09:26 PM his theories are based on instant chemical reactions which take place during orgasm
am not sure but I doubt is the same for arranged marriages
TripleTee 01-05-07, 09:29 PM if you eat the plum sooner, it finishes sooner. :XD: no... it won't last.
amo_l_oman 01-05-07, 09:31 PM Sorry Hitty
hadn't understood your point
Indeed arranged marriage is a sort of first date sex
but not always the choice is based on attraction, so it couldn't be the same
Rossonero 01-05-07, 09:57 PM Dr.Gibb had it work for him, but it doesnt always work. It's who you are destined to be with.
Yo Dr.Gibb, gimi what you're smokin'
It will increase illegal kids only and the chance of marrying a virgin girl is zero as well.
Oblivious 01-05-07, 10:05 PM You mean we should do it? :p
You can do it with your husband :)
Oblivious 01-05-07, 10:12 PM You can do it with your husband :)
You mean on the first "date" with my husband? :bored:
why ist restricted to arranged marriages only ??
Maybe am missing the point here :os
Cute_Ting 01-05-07, 11:20 PM his theories are based on instant chemical reactions which take place during orgasm
am not sure but I doubt is the same for arranged marriages
....I Agree!!
Rossonero 02-05-07, 12:27 AM You can do it with your husband :)
Two thumbs up!
LosT_SouL 02-05-07, 01:11 AM This would be Interesting ... Hitman :p
NicoBambi 02-05-07, 01:26 AM It will increase illegal kids only and the chance of marrying a virgin girl is zero as well.
illegal kids ? what's that ? :os
Rossonero 02-05-07, 01:29 AM illegal kids ? what's that ? :os
Lol, that would be Bastards
SLEEPING with someone on a first date can INCREASE chances of a long-term relationship, a biologist claims.
That's why I try my best to sleep with qti and omani girls on first date, but take my time with other nationalities.
Rossonero 02-05-07, 02:40 AM That's why I try my best to sleep with qti and omani girls on first date, but take my time with other nationalities.
Make sure you get Gillete Venus with you then .. ;)
LosT_SouL 02-05-07, 03:05 AM LoL @ Rossonero
So does this theory support arrange marriages? Afterall, the first night could be considered sleeping on the first date ;)
illegal kids ? what's that ? :os
Means kids born out of boyfriend/girlfriend relationships.
illegal kids ? what's that ? :os
well illegal kuds are in other word ILLEGITIMATE (Illegitimacy)
lol arranged marriages are crazy!! Hitty what's the point from posting this here when you know that Islam has forbidden the sex before marriage thing! What's your goal?! :XD:
well the same makes me wonder what is the objective bringing this up when its unthinkiable islamic to have sex before marriage!!!
You mean we should do it? :p
Mum dont even think about it.. until when i find right step dad for you..:)
amo_l_oman 02-05-07, 10:19 AM well the same makes me wonder what is the objective bringing this up when its unthinkiable islamic to have sex before marriage!!!
Is a very correct comparison
First date sex is when you have fatal attraction and have sex first time you meet
In arranged marriages you have sex with your spouse exactly the very first time you meet her alone
The fact that many members here didn't get his point, make me think that many are thinking to meet their soul mate in private before the wedding night ;)
And that's very unIslamical :cute:
The fact that many members here didn't get his point, make me think that many are thinking to meet their soul mate in private before the wedding night ;)
And that's very unIslamical :cute:
Well Bringing this kind of theory over here when we have Young energic boys and girls, then someone overthere could take for granted this kind of story to try up the bad Do's.
Oblivious 02-05-07, 12:48 PM I'm shocked by the number of Sabla guys who support arranged marriages...wow!
Rossonero 02-05-07, 12:53 PM I'm shocked by the number of Sabla guys who support arranged marriages...wow!
Agreeing with not having sex until marriage, does not mean I agree with arranged marriage.
Oblivious 02-05-07, 12:56 PM Agreeing with not having sex until marriage, does not mean I agree with arranged marriage.
Why did you assume that I was talking about you? plus, it's not like I am agreeing with the sexual relationship before marriage.
Is a very correct comparison
First date sex is when you have fatal attraction and have sex first time you meet
In arranged marriages you have sex with your spouse exactly the very first time you meet her alone
The fact that many members here didn't get his point, make me think that many are thinking to meet their soul mate in private before the wedding night ;)
And that's very unIslamical :cute:
amo i oman :XD: I don't want an arranged marriage and I also don't want to sleep with my future 2 be husband b4 marriage!;)
This is AMAZING, I should try and score that !
You guys speak about sex like an easy kiss to get in the first date.. Do you know what I had been through to have sex in my first dates? :p
Actually, sex at first date or at first night of the wedding or marriage is only beneficial for men's perspective. I'd rather not go into this in details. Taking it longer is more beneficial to women than men, however, it may be negative, extremely negative when times pass on.
So yes, Sex can increase the chances of long-term relationship, by all means. It's similar to who you will lose your virginity with. This has been proven way back in the past, great greatest generations. I assume so many people interpret sex as only an action, or penetration if you like. But sex goes beyond this point, where in fact, it helps you develop long-term relationships quicker than anything you could think of. It's not just down to how you perform sex or how good you're at it, it is a matter of what goes with it, or what can be said when it's happening. The best words I could use to describe sex on first dates from my own experiences are simply that, sex gives you the real deal or the real image about your partner, it just never lies to you even if he or she does. So, hell yes, it takes the relationship to a safer place.
After I have said all of that, I am still a virgin guy! P.S. I used condoms all the time :p
LosT_SouL 03-05-07, 05:20 AM I'm shocked by the number of Sabla guys who support arranged marriages...wow!
where did U got an idea like this :)
Sex from the first date..its either u will love the person and carry on in a relationship, or u hate the person and u dont wanna continue with him/her.
thats what i believe in.
Otherwise im not that type of person who can have sex from the first date..unless its a different case. ;)
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