A problem case :

Lets say this situation is faced by a girl named Nada, Nada had a collage girl named Reem, Reem has just got married to Hassen, and after the hunny moon, she came back to the college, Reem was always telling Nada how wonderful is her husband Hassen, never talked about her husband negitively or with details, Nada doesn't know hassen personally but she knows his full name, Nada had a brother called Sami who doesn't even know that she has a collage girl called Reem. One day, Sami and Nada where talking about marriage in general. Sami was telling his sister Nada men always regret geting married. Sami, said to Nada can you believe at work college of mine just came from his hunny moon and he is complaining about his wife, she is studying with you in the same college. Nada asked for the name of his wife and surprisenly it was Reem . Nada felt very dispointed that couples doesn't respect each other as they may think.

in this case what do you think Nada should do to be fair? just be quite and do not tell Reem forget about it, or she should tell Reem though maybe she won't believe her and it may cause a big problem.

Smilier this case pased by me? why do husbands spoil their wifes names by talking about them even with whom they just have slight relationship with, they even give detailed information about their relationship with their wifes. how can a wife know if her husband is talking about her from behind her back. To be clear, even wifes sometimes talk about their husband badly. So it happenes in both cases.

how to solve such spreading problems between couples now days, and how could the wife/husband be able to mantain their reputation?

the wife was talking to her friend, why cant the husband do the same!!

anyway, I think Reem should just mind her own business... The girl is aware of her marriage problems why should she embarass her more and tell her i know all about it!

I Strongly believe when a lady starts talking and alot on her husband then she is simply trying to hide what she thinks others might see or detect but instead she is just making the smoke darker and more obvious when trying to cover it up

I say let her enjoy the little things she has to keep it going, like telling others what she wants to happen

as for the solution, I think it is all on the wife, by now she should have sensed that there is something wrong and instead of talking the oppesite to others i think she should shut up and try to work it out, discuss , learn what her man likes and what he doesnt... educate her self about her husband from his family!
anyway such fresh couple problem often happen in the first year of marriage cause it take time for them to get used to each other and learn each other habits and behavior..they just need time and little bit sacrifice from both sides and hopefully they will get to the right track

Best solution: Keep quiet and don't get involved.

Smiles can lie but shoes always tell the truth!

This is so normal, it happens very often everywhere. Words can always be misinterpreted, so yeah she must keep her mouth shut at all cost..

We say in Kuwait "Min 7abbek lashaak".. It means who loves does not mean to hurt even if he/she does.

I don't think its applied to every single husband, however, the girl "Nada" shouldn't get involved as if it would cause her many troublesome issues.

about the case, I think its more likely normal to find some misunderstanding from now and then.

I'd say Nada should just stay out of it to avoid chaos. Who knows, she's most likely to be blamed for it.

Best solution: Keep quiet and don't get involved.

Ditto :boo:

I blame khlafan.

What kind of husband is he, they just got married and he is complaining. Even if he found her not virgin he shouldn't complain to strangers.

Best solution: Keep quiet and don't get involved.
i agree!
and even if Nada talk about this to her friend, her friend won't believe her... :os

....ppl cant keep their mouth shut. even abt this thing supposed to private they will talk abt it. best thing to marry quiet person. so u will no he wont ever talk abt ur relationship at his workplace !

First rule of thumb. Never get involved between two married people unless one of them asks you to help them out.

My husband and I are friends with another non-muslim/muslim couple and we meet up with them about once a week. The husband takes a hold of my husband and they walk off to some other cafeteria to 'talk'. His wife and I are left 'alone' to chat. For me, it doesn't really bother me because I get along with her fine and we can talk about stuff that might be embarassing infront of someone else's husband.

When we get home, my husband starts to complain. Her husband keeps grumbling about his wife with my husband (about their sex life) and my husband is lost for words. He doesn't know what to say and doesn't want to get involved. And he's pretty sure he doesn't like staying near his wife when we meet up so he can go and look and stare at other women where his wife can't see him.

Now, imagine knowing this and seeing her every week and not saying anything.