Some can control it and some can't.

Questions:

Are you temperamental?

What do you do when you loose your temper?

Do you like to break things? swear?

How long does it take you to get over your anger?

What do you think of temperamental people?

What advise do you have to offer them?

Why can some people control it and some others can't? Is it related to maturity?

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Answer and discuss. :cute:

Are you temperamental?
No. I am quite cool and calm. Proactive would be a good description.

What do you do when you loose your temper?
Talk to someone I know who cares, they are 2 only who I can really open up to!

Do you like to break things? swear?
Noooo, I think it's wasting energy! Although I heard it helps..

How long does it take you to get over your anger?
Until I get the problem solved and settled.

What do you think of temperamental people?
It's their nature and something they can't get rid off! I don't blame them! I just try to stay as far away possible when they are in that state!

What advise do you have to offer them?
I wouldn't! If I had to, I would ask them to get some anger or stress management sessions!!

Why can some people control it and some others can't? Is it related to maturity?
No I think you're born that way!

Are you temperamental?
not really, depends on the reason that would make me reach my boiling point, I calm down quickly though!

What do you do when you loose your temper?
I used to punch anything I see, until one day I punched a mirror and I cut my fist badly :os, now just a walk for a long distance would make me feel alright.

Do you like to break things? swear?
Used to break things, not anymore. Nowadays I curse when I reach the maximum limit!
How long does it take you to get over your anger?
5-15 minutes if its a small fight, but it takes me ages to get over my anger if I'm really hurt by someone I consider as a close friend

What do you think of temperamental people?
should control their anger (applies on me too!)

What advise do you have to offer them?
to walk away from the reason that make then angery, walk, walk and walk!

Why can some people control it and some others can't? Is it related to maturity?
not really, in my opinion, it denepds on how well the person can control himself, so it's related to wisdom more than maturity

Are you temperamental?
sometimes, depends on my mood.

What do you do when you lose your temper?
2 things:
Remain silent until I cool down. (unless provoked)
Have a serious conversation with the ones involved.

Do you like to break things? swear?
no

How long does it take you to get over your anger?
very long... unless the problem was solved or I saw those involved trying to compensate... then my anger leaves instantly.

What do you think of temperamental people?
who get angry at every single thing?... not highly.

What advise do you have to offer them?
anger management

Why can some people control it and some others can't? Is it related to maturity?depends on the reasons that make them angry. It's not only to do with maturity... it could also be determined by what environment they grew up in.
But mostly I also think it's education.

Are you temperamental?
yea......:XD:


What do you do when you loose your temper?
shout, yell or hurt hit tht person or any1 infront of me


Do you like to break things? swear?
yea:XD:


How long does it take you to get over your anger?
i dunno maybe one whole day!!;)



What do you think of temperamental people?
i dunno coz im one of em!! but i can say tht u shunt mess wit thm they r dengerous...when get angry no one can stop em!


What advise do you have to offer them?
shud control on theirselves (i shud say tht to myself!!)


Why can some people control it and some others can't? Is it related to maturity?
i dunno:think:

Are you temperamental?
-Yes, very. I loose my temper quite easily & quickly. The simplest things can irritate me.

What do you do when you loose your temper?
-I just get mad at everyone, start yelling & fighting! :rolleyes:

Do you like to break things? swear?
-Nope. I never broke anything, but sometimes I feel like throwing something, lol. About swearing, I used to before, but not anymore. I only yell out things now.

How long does it take you to get over your anger?
-Hours maybe. What helps me relax again is staying alone, listening to music & eating chocolates. :p

What do you think of temperamental people?
-Hmm I don't know, I'm one of them, lol. But there are some which are very very temperamental, & they kinda scare me! But it's not something you can help in, I mean it's something you're born with.

What advise do you have to offer them?
-Hmmmmmm, try to keep yourself away from things that get you mad, learn to forgive easily, & keep in mind that some things aren't really worth all this.

Why can some people control it and some others can't? Is it related to maturity?
-I think those who can control, learned to do so by experience, while other's it's just in their nature.

Are you temperamental?
most the times im cool

What do you do when you loose your temper?
lol just try to shut my mouth or else ... gonna say stuff people dont wanna hear

Do you like to break things? swear?
no .. swear maybe sometimes i swear .. but its not like i like it

How long does it take you to get over your anger?
maybe 3-5 mins

What do you think of temperamental people?
normal people ?

What advise do you have to offer them?
try to control your self hehe

Why can some people control it and some others can't? Is it related to maturity?
no ... i donnu exactly .. but maybe they're born like that hehe

nice thread

Are you temperamental?
I don't think I am..

What do you do when you lose your temper?
Steam?
Scowl :p
go grar

Do you like to break things? swear?
nope
I never swear
And I don't like hearing swear words

How long does it take you to get over your anger?
Not long..

What do you think of temperamental people?
Some are scary
Some amusing. Imagine a real human version of Donald Duck :p
I don't know.. maybe they've had it tough. Hehe or maybe they need to learn to laugh at things..and just take it easy.. *shrugs*

What advise do you have to offer them?
Don't sweat the small stuff?
I'd give the same as DR :D It'll be up to them how they do it :p

Why can some people control it and some others can't? Is it related to maturity?
It's a trait..
So the factors are the same as those with developing your personality I guess..

Are you temperamental?
I don't lose my temper easily.

What do you do when you loose your temper?
I get frustrated and fidget alot.

Do you like to break things? swear?
Break yes, well I don't like to break things I like to throw plastic things that I know won't break for the sake of getting rid of that feeling. Swear yes... I used to not swear but now I'm picking this weird habit of shouting things whenever I feel trapped and furious :os.

How long does it take you to get over your anger?
A while, I get over it easily.

What do you think of temperamental people?
I don't like them. :)

What advise do you have to offer them?
Laugh at it and don't let it get you..(How come I'm advising while I don't exactly have the best composure? Lol)

Why can some people control it and some others can't? Is it related to maturity?
I think you inherit it from your parents, it's in the genes..I don't really know.

Are you temperamental?

i don't think i am..

What do you do when you loose your temper?

take a deep breath and isolate myself till i cool down

Do you like to break things? swear?

Nope

How long does it take you to get over your anger?

a few hours..sometimes less

What do you think of temperamental people?

well, my dad is one of 'em..pretty scary and not good for your relations with others and for your health..

What advise do you have to offer them?

take a deep breath, try to count till 10 or something and just chill..it ain't worth it! :cute:

Why can some people control it and some others can't? Is it related to maturity?

maybe it's mental? :dev: i don't know really..but ppl are different i suppose, so some are and some aren't :rolleyes: and no i don't think it's related to maturity..alot of ppl seem mature in so many ways but they still lose it when they're angry

Are you temperamental?

Yes. If my patience is up, then it's up.


What do you do when you loose your temper?

Usually, I raise my voice, which is quite strong, (i'm sure they can hear me along the whole street) while my husband goes round the house shutting the windows :hyper:... I start ranting and walking from room to room... usually tidying things up as I move..


Do you like to break things? swear?

I used to swear ALOT. Now with kids I gotta be extra careful. I don't break things so the pent up energy has to come out somehow.


How long does it take you to get over your anger?

Depends. If it's a small issue, I get over it in a few minutes. If it's a full on war, it can take days and weeks.


What do you think of temperamental people?

I think it's a pretty normal. Some people take a walk. Which is ok.. Others need to punch something or someone. These ones need to address their problem, because other people shouldn't get hurt for the simple reason that one can't control his emotions and anger.


What advise do you have to offer them?

Best way it to let rip, then take a walk to cool down. You'll probably realise what a fool you've just been and go back grovelling for mercy and forgiveness. LOL


Why can some people control it and some others can't? Is it related to maturity?

Nope. It's related to self control. Why can some people stick to diet and other's can't? Same reason. The people who can control it have programmed themselves to bail out while they can. To walk away or shut down and refuse to speak. Others can't because they lack self control in such situations.

Are you temperamental?
Not at all.

What do you do when you loose your temper?
Go to my room and start drawing.

Do you like to break things? swear?
Not my thing, really.

How long does it take you to get over your anger?
I don't know, I haven't been "really" angry since ages.

What do you think of temperamental people?
I think that they are sensitive. Anger is mostly the cover of sorrow.

What advise do you have to offer them?
They should look for help before the anger controls their lives.

Why can some people control it and some others can't? Is it related to maturity?
Self-discipline, perhaps?

Are you temperamental?
Oh yeah, you bet I am.

What do you do when you loose your temper?
Get seriously angry. Lock myself up in my room 'till
I calm down. Or just let it out on someone.

Do you like to break things? swear?
I do...in moments of extreme anger.

How long does it take you to get over your anger?
Depends on the degree of harm done. Sometimes it takes two days.

What do you think of temperamental people?
They need anger management sessions.

What advise do you have to offer them?
No clue...

Why can some people control it and some others can't? Is it related to maturity?
It all depends on how easy-going you are. Some people just don't give a sh*t. Dummies lol

I'm a pretty cool guy and try not to get angry over trivial things. But sometimes i obviously get angry and my method of cooling down is just keeping quite, not talking and isolating myself. Because i know that if i talk i might end up taking my frustrations out on people who had nothing to do with me getting angry in he first place.
Why do temperamental people get angry quickly? I guess it's a habit you learn like any other habit, and you can also learn to break it like any other one. I know some really nice people who have raging tempers sometimes, so i guess if you get angry it doesn't mean that your a bad person. But it is a horrible habit!
The danger is if you really get angry without realizing that you actually have a problem. If you do realize that you need to manage your anger, then you just need to work harder in expressing your frustrations in a more civilized way rather than lashing out.

Are you temperamental?
yes .... in someways:shy:

What do you do when you loose your temper?
I shout ,swear , yelling ......all things ;)

Do you like to break things? swear?
may be swear but I dont like violence so I stay from breaking things

How long does it take you to get over your anger?
Depends on the anger and wut does cause it ... and my MOOD:)

What do you think of temperamental people?
This something u dont choose , so I have respect for al people
but if the it exceeds the limit then there is another case !!

What advise do you have to offer them?
Just try to be away from all thing that may could affect their temper
and try to control it before it control you ..

Why can some people control it and some others can't? Is it related to maturity?
This is Man , you cant have all things the same in everybody ...
It relates to Maturity in some cases but that cant be applied on all
MANKIND

Are you temperamental?
Yes i am.

What do you do when you loose your temper?
Let it all out on the thing or person who made me loose it.

Do you like to break things? swear?
I dont break things, but unfortunatly I do swear, or cry out of frustration or just forget all about it by sleeping:XD:

How long does it take you to get over your anger?
It depends, not less than 2 hours and not more than a week.

What do you think of temperamental people?
Nothing!:rolleyes: It's not like they can control it at least most of the time.

What advise do you have to offer them?
Try to calm down or get away from anything or anyone who get on your nervs.

Why can some people control it and some others can't? Is it related to maturity?
It depends on the nature of every person.:dev:

Are you temperamental?
Depends on who...I am to my sisters SOMETIMES if they piss the living shyt outta me

What do you do when you loose your temper?
mmm..

Do you like to break things? swear?
with my friends 24/7 :P for example: The f*ckin locker wont f*ckin open, F****CK!! or Dumbass (name), go screw urself ( as a joke ) :P

How long does it take you to get over your anger?
depeneds if im reaaaly mad so I'd need my time alone

What do you think of temperamental people?
Like really tempermental people for example my dad ...**gulp** :P I'd shyt in my pants if its neccesary :P

What advise do you have to offer them?
NO ADVICE!!! ITLL MAKE THINGS WORSE

Why can some people control it and some others can't? Is it related to maturity?
I dunno...

Are you temperamental?
unfortunately yes

What do you do when you loose your temper?
Do you like to break things? swear?
i cry!!!

How long does it take you to get over your anger?
depends...smtimes it takes me an hr n smtimes it takes me days days

What do you think of temperamental people?
am sure that deep inside them they r the sweetest n the kindest ppl ever :)

What advise do you have to offer them?
its good to try to control ur temper smtimes :)

Why can some people control it and some others can't? Is it related to maturity?
no it has nothing to do with maturity....its all in the genes i guess!!!

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Questions:

Are you temperamental?

yes and no

What do you do when you loose your temper?

sometimes i just give dirty looks or just hurt the person that pisses me off ((thats when im really pissssed))

Do you like to break things? swear?

hurt someone, swear 24/7 sometimes i just ignore it and make a joke of it

How long does it take you to get over your anger?

hrs, min, day depends

What do you think of temperamental people?

ay shay

What advise do you have to offer them?
GET A LIFE

Why can some people control it and some others can't? Is it related to maturity?
lifes too short to get mad at every lil thing
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Are you temperamental?
At times yeah.. Im the type they call scary, not because I shout.. but because I mostly keep quiet it creeps them out.. They know i might burst any minute!

What do you do when you loose your temper?

Cry.. sometimes shout..

Do you like to break things? swear?

Never broke anything.. I would kick stuff around, I would swear alot, but.. lets just say not loud enough that the other person could hear it.. Unless I don't give a rat's *** if they did or not..

How long does it take you to get over your anger?

You'd be surprised.. A matter of minutes.. I'd get angry at my brother for example, and make this huge fuss and have a fight, go to my room and come out of it 5 minutes later laughing and as if nothing happened!

What do you think of temperamental people?

Well.. I know im not considered a very hot tempered person, but I've seen those.. And I say "Get a grip!"

What advise do you have to offer them?

Count to 5 before saying ANYTHING, cause they might really regret it.. and oh, breathe! Nothing is really worth getting that vein in your head pumping!:o

Why can some people control it and some others can't? Is it related to maturity?

Not really.. Anger is anger.. whether you're 5 or 50.. But I honestly dont know why people differ, I think they just do... depends on their personality and how they understand things..

Are you temperamental?
I can be sometimes

What do you do when you loose your temper?
isolate myself

Do you like to break things? swear?
cook

How long does it take you to get over your anger?
few hours (3-5 maybe)

What do you think of temperamental people?
I think they are wasting alot of energy in something that is not worth it

What advise do you have to offer them?
anger is a feeling we cant ignore, we need all of our emotions including anger. what is most important is not to go to the extreme

Why can some people control it and some others can't? Is it related to maturity?
not at all, its all to do with personality (type A and type B)

Are you temperamental?

yes..I get mad so easily but I think am over it naw ! maybe ! :shy:

What do you do when you loose your temper?

it depends on the situation that I am in ..

Do you like to break things? swear?
No..

How long does it take you to get over your anger?

it also depends on how angry I am and the rezone I am angry for ! ..

What do you think of temperamental people?

Normal people with a bad habit !

What advise do you have to offer them?

listen to your mom !

Why can some people control it and some others can't? Is it related to maturity?

No..it's not about maturity .. I think it depends on the way you control your life and how you handle the pressures from all the things around you

Are you temperamental?
No, I'm not.

What do you do when you loose your temper?
Slam the door hard and stay in my room, try and calm down.. Sometimes take a walk or watch a movie, It depends on the level of well, my temper, the extent of losing it and so..

Do you like to break things? swear?
I used to punch and kick stuff around, lol.. I rarely swear, I try not to. I just use the words: "hell", "crap" and "damn" alot when I'm angry and putting up sentences.

How long does it take you to get over your anger?
It depends on what made me angry on the first place.. Sometimes friends help me get over it or like watching a movie and just being alone for sometime..

What do you think of temperamental people?
I think they should try and cool off more often.. I mean it's just a lot of waste of energy on stuff that aren't really worth their anger.

What advise do you have to offer them?
I guess, I kind of answered that above. Well, find ways that make their anger go away and not out of control.

Why can some people control it and some others can't? Is it related to maturity?
Perhaps.. to a certain small extent. Plus, what kind of a person they are and so..

Are you temperamental?
yes, BIG TIME!!

What do you do when you loose your temper?
cry alooooot

Do you like to break things? swear?
yes

How long does it take you to get over your anger?
24 hours

What do you think of temperamental people?
they have a reason why they are temperamental

What advise do you have to offer them?
when you get angry, try not to hurt people or yourselves so you wont regret later

Why can some people control it and some others can't? Is it related to maturity?
it depends on the person itselves

Are you temperamental?

I can be angry at a drop of a hat and other times I am quite calm and slow to anger.

For example my neighbours woke me up at 4 this morning (with a party) and the adrenalin was already pumping I was so angry. And I was shaking uncontrollably.

What do you do when you loose your temper?

Most of the time I will slam doors and hide from people.

Do you like to break things? swear?

I have been known to break things and swear.

How long does it take you to get over your anger?

Depends what made me angry. If i take myself out of the situation that made me angry then I get over rather quickly

What do you think of temperamental people?

I avoid them if they are angry all the time.

What advise do you have to offer them?

Nothing cause it will probably make them angrier.

Why can some people control it and some others can't? Is it related to maturity?

I don't think its related to maturity. I think it has to do with what makes people angry, that is, what makes me angry may not make you angry. And people express their anger in different ways which can give the illusion of controlling it.

Questions:

Are you temperamental?
Big Time.

What do you do when you loose your temper?
I try 2 avoid ppl, not 2 spill it on them.

Do you like to break things? swear?
Never break, rarely swear... but might end up saying things that may hurt ppl that I may regret later on.

How long does it take you to get over your anger?
Depends on the reason that made me angry.

What do you think of temperamental people?
I know it sucks & its a bad habit.

What advise do you have to offer them?
If I know it, I'd apply it on ma self.

Why can some people control it and some others can't? Is it related to maturity?
I dont think it has 2 do anthing with maturity... its just how ppl get affected n how they handle things they face.

Are you temperamental?

Maybe...not sure, lol.

What do you do when you loose your temper?

Hmm...If the person who made me lose it wasn't there, I might just listen to music to cool down, or cry, lol.

Do you like to break things? swear?
Nope, never break...and I actually don't swear often.

How long does it take you to get over your anger?
Not long.

What do you think of temperamental people?
Hard to deal with..

What advise do you have to offer them?
Think before you act and stay away from me :p

Why can some people control it and some others can't? Is it related to maturity?

Not really, many mature people get angry quickly...I don't think it's related to it.

Are you temperamental?

Getting tempered is a gift from god and a nature.Its one of the ways to take the pressure down and help you not to end up to a shrink.

What do you do when you loose your temper?

I do nothing,I just become very calm and silent.. mostly breath hard and say nothing but if things get ugly and it get related to family then I lettrarly dont feel my body ,even if you hit me with a knife.

Do you like to break things? swear?

I dont like breaking things,but I can do very good in car racing.That why I stay away from my sport car when am tempered.

How long does it take you to get over your anger?

Driving to the beach,,openind the windows and take a nap.Usually if I dont do any action when am tempered,I just get too tired from thinking and callaps and sleep.

What do you think of temperamental people?

I think they should try thair best to control it,becouse you might do/say some thing stupid you might regret on.

What advise do you have to offer them?

My advice is as our profit asked us to do.If you are tempered and standing then just sit.if you were setting then just try to lay down.There is a fact that if you look at the sky you get more calm down.Try to notice the children when they cry and you let them look up.. they just calm down.

and its always good that you go away from the thing which made you tempered and come back to it later on.

Why can some people control it and some others can't? Is it related to maturity?

Its directly related.One of the things which make you mature is to be responsable of your actions.When you are tempered you are never in control of your actions so that is just a clue about how mature you are.

Are you temperamental?
no

What do you do when you lose your temper?

i remain calm and composed and go to my bed and sleep it off then when i have calmed down i think and then have a chat ....

Do you like to break things? swear?

no

How long does it take you to get over your anger?

depending on the extent of the dammage caused but no decison is taken unless i have calmed down... if then provoked the decison becomes calculating....maybe .... it is rare that that happens

What do you think of temperamental people?
i feel sorry for them, and they are a drain to my system

What advise do you have to offer them?

Dr. Phil lol seriosly councelling

Why can some people control it and some others can't? Is it related to maturity?

anger / rage is never related to one thing there are usually multiple reasons for a person to react the way they do......mature, educated ppl it doesnt matter everyone has a button that can be pushed
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Ok, Its very not logical to Answer Question 1 as NO and then Answer question 2 by tell us about your violent actions when you are tempered !

Are you temperamental?
no, i don't think so...
What do you do when you loose your temper?
listenning to music to calm down
Do you like to break things? swear?
nah, i prefer to go away...
How long does it take you to get over your anger?
it depend
What do you think of temperamental people?
that they shouldn't be like that lol
What advise do you have to offer them?
none ^^

[QUOTE=NaBHaN;830757]Some can control it and some can't.

Questions:

Are you temperamental?
naah, am alwAYz cool ..

What do you do when you loose your temper?
well i dnt loose my temper quickly .. but if i did .. i shout my throat OUT :6:

Do you like to break things? swear?
swear, shout & beat .. but that would be RARELY !

How long does it take you to get over your anger?
hmm .. 2 to 5 mins

What do you think of temperamental people?
have REAL issues !

What advise do you have to offer them?
well, life iz too short.
they should enjoy theirs as much as possible ;)

Why can some people control it and some others can't? Is it related to maturity?
probably .. though am nat that old !
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