one of my freind need ur help .....please she want to involve someone in cause of disgracing her via media...because this person called her last night,and she never know this person ..and who gave him her contact number??? and her started to punish her...

So what do u say ,,,in this case what she has to do...need ur help please...please ...please..:help:

:cry: :cry: :cry:
this is a seriouse case ...so........????????????????????????????????:cry: :cry:

I really wish I could help but I dunno whats going on :os What do you mean by media and how is he threatening her

Can you try to explain again. Cause as MorphaKnight mentioned; it isnt much clear what is happening nor anything else.

media as in pic and videos ... do u mean someone is blackmailing her into doing stuff (and if she dosnt he will publish her videos and pic)???

Tell her to talk to a reliable male family member, and ask him to take care of the guy.

I'm as confused as the rest..

...huh...?:os

Hire an assasin. :D
I'm available if you can afford to pay me.

Can you try to explain again. Cause as MorphaKnight mentioned; it isnt much clear what is happening nor anything else.

i meant that this person called her around 11:30at night ..so she thougt maybe this call from one of her friends .and ..bla bla.

but when she pick up the line this person said hi to her then he said (fullana) with me she shocked and by mistake she replied "yes" still she was wondering and thinking maybe this person her friends brother but suddnley he started to punish her by using very very bad words..ok

in this case..what she has to do
~does she should go direct to police station for complaining about this caller or does give this caller another chance and nerver asking for her rights ...or what ...or is better asking help via media

and one thing , he said to this lady that he has a Video Clip about her then disconnect the line immediatly...(professor how u guessed this)

so please help ...what she has to do in this case...please..

how does he have a video clip of her if she doesn't know the guy?
if she didn't do anything wrong then she shouldn't worry at all!

So he claims to have a video of her?

- he called her once and asked for her name and she said yes, then he started insulting her?

~ now she is wondering what to do??

- If she has nothing to fear, then it's best she tells the closest male family member about it and discuss with him what is there to do.

But again, if it was just one call, then perhaps the guy was just trying to scare her off.

? - Did he say what did he want?

* I highly recommend that she doesnt reply to his calls or sms's if any. He can use that against her.

What I want to know is what that video clip contains of her.. is it something serious or just normal? if its normal and she has nothing to fear then either a male member of the family or the police

how does he have a video clip of her if she doesn't know the guy?
if she didn't do anything wrong then she shouldn't worry at all!

Some guys can get videos of decent girls from girls. Since girls get a little comfortable when they party together. Some of them take videos. And of course I dont think all of the girls can be trusted. Again this is just an assumption, which is very easily possible. Especially if a girl wants to revenge from another.

- If she has nothing to fear, then it's best she tells the closest male family member about it and discuss with him what is there to do.



* I highly recommend that she doesnt reply to his calls or sms's if any. He can use that against her.

exactlly!!

So he claims to have a video of her?

- he called her once and asked for her name and she said yes, then he started insulting her?

~ now she is wondering what to do??

- If she has nothing to fear, then it's best she tells the closest male family member about it and discuss with him what is there to do.

But again, if it was just one call, then perhaps the guy was just trying to scare her off.

? - Did he say what did he want?

* I highly recommend that she doesnt reply to his calls or sms's if any. He can use that against her.

no he just was insulting her, even he said for her if u want to comlain about me go and do im not scared of polices..but how he knew her,,and how he got her number....

me2 wondering here, i asked her lots stuff, but she said no i dun know who is he,,,,then started to cry..:weep: :cry:

ask her about the video what it contains and if its a serious thing

Maybe he's a stalker! :o

no he just was insulting her, even he said for her if u want to comlain about me go and do im not scared of polices..but how he knew her,,and how he got her number....

me2 wondering here, i asked her lots stuff, but she said no i dun know who is he,,,,then started to cry..:weep: :cry:

So all that from one phone call? And he never called again ?? Has this been going on for a while or just now this one time??

She's crying? How long did she listen to him :eh: ... so far this sounds like a prank call.

If this story is true, the guy must have had a decent reason to abuse her on the phone

well it depends on wut's in the video, if she knows she's done nothing bad thn she should go 2 her father/brother/guardian & let them take care of it, bcuz in the end even if it was something like... lets say a footage of her in an all-girl's party or something doing wutever thn no1 can say she did anything indecent or wrong....

however if she did do something indecent or obcene or wutever & there was a chance it may have been videoed thn wut she does abt it is up 2 her, bcuz in the end she has 2 take responsibility of her actions & their consequences... so she can either confess 2 her family wut she's done & thn explain the whole situation (obviously accepting wutever -ve reaction she receives) thn let her family take care of everything, cuz in the end they r her family & they do love her & would never let any1 hurt her... or she can choose 2 keep quiet abt it &/or try solving the issue some other way...

I think it must be a prank... no one just calls and insults out of the blue...

as long as she doesn't think she did wrong this guy shouldn't be given much attention.
If he keeps bothering her, then she could talk to a close male relative as the rest said.

If this story is true, the guy must have had a decent reason to abuse her on the phone
Not really. It maybe smething far frm what youre thinking, maybe boredome..which isnt a decent reason.

I hardly think calling and insulting a person is decent or resembles a dignified manner even if it was calling the worst person on earth

ask her about the video what it contains and if its a serious thing

it is something related about sex...

So all that from one phone call? And he never called again ?? Has this been going on for a while or just now this one time??

She's crying? How long did she listen to him :eh: ... so far this sounds like a prank call.


he was talking to her for half an hour..
Me thought the same ..here maybe it is just a prank ..i really dun know..im confused ..

I hardly think calling and insulting a person is decent or resembles a dignified manner even if it was calling the worst person on earth

Maybe.....

and one thing , he said to this lady that he has a Video Clip about her then disconnect the line immediatly...(professor how u guessed this)..

Zulfa I guess professor was A director during the shooting of that Clip..:color: J/K..

Zulfa I guess professor was A director during the shooting of that Clip..:color: J/K..

hahahahaha...lol@you sleyum..mabye...hahahahaha..huhuhhu:D :D :D :D :D

media as in pic and videos ... do u mean someone is blackmailing her into doing stuff (and if she dosnt he will publish her videos and pic)???

exactly..how u guessed it:mmhmm: :think:

If she did not do anything wrong she should not be worried about all this saga.. and if the guy keep bothering her... she should then notify male member of her family and let them together trap Him in their own way... and if they need more help we at Sabla we will be more than happy to do so..

I think she should contact a reliable male member of her family.. but I am guessing that she did something wrong which is why she's so scared and worried.

in this casedoes she should go direct to police station for complaining about this caller or does give this caller another chance and nerver asking for her rights ...or what ...Nope forget the police [unless she knows someone there who has the power to scare the guy
This is one of those cases which has to be solved via tribe
Ask some male of her family to fix the gentleman

I think she should contact a reliable male member of her family.. but I am guessing that she did something wrong which is why she's so scared and worried.

thanx nabzy i will try to explain for her about this,,

oooooooooops
i forgot one thing that she is already gave that person number to her fiance but still that man, insulting her alot even while talking to her fiance..

her fiance
shocked and
then he become angry because of that after tooking long brearth her ficance asked his fiance ..do you know this person...she said" No"

then they decide to go in Police station and complain about him in Accomplishment about this Person.....

so that guy's blackmailing her with a "something related to sex" video clip of her?? she was in the video clip??

zulfa: is this a real story or you are making it up? Cause you are not mentioning the facts directly nor explaining the complete situation. I am sorry, I have doubts now about this whole thing. Unless you come up with straight and honest answers, I don't think anyone can give you any proper answer.

Zulfa I guess professor was A director during the shooting of that Clip..:color: J/K..
lol ,,, and guess who was the assistent director :p

and one thing , he said to this lady that he has a Video Clip about her then disconnect the line immediatly...(professor how u guessed this)
im good at unveiling the truth :D .... i agree with DeSerTDesTroYeR ,, something dosnt seem right. if he disconnect the line immediatly how did she know what was in the video clip.... he only mentioned he had a video clip of her. i think there is more to the story. and not to mention this to her fiance at the begining i guess she is hiddening alot. plus why would she listen to a guy on the phone for more than half an hour.. if some one calls u and starts insulting will u listen to him 4 hours or will u disconnect the phone immediatly. she kept listening cuz she knew she had no chooise and she knew what it was all about ...

i agree with Professor, and if her fiance knows about it know (and he should be the most conserned guy in the whole story), he should be able to sort it out......So what the police did????:think:

Unless she did something wrong she has absolutely nothing to worry about.

This is what I understood about the situation:

A guy called your friend and started swearing at her and threatening to expose a sex-related video of her. She's upset and she doesn't know who this person is and what to do about it.

Well, obviously since she told her fiance about the situation, then she must not have done anything wrong. And therefore, if she didn't do anything wrong, then there won't be anything for this stranger to spread through 'media'.

So what is there to worry about? What exactly did the guy say he had in that video? Do you know?

Probably he has no video or anything, just messing around

I am totaly Confused....:mmhmm:

okay Guys just leave it ..i don't why u ppl thinking that me makeing the story up in some thread, it happens in reality u just thoughts that im making it up...

thanx for all of you no need for any help or any solution
i will try to find out the solution for her by my self because i have big supports in Oman by media...

and others thanx again for u repling for the posts ..i really appreciated it.

You don't have to be defensive. Just explain the unexplained, giving us vague information, wont help us to help.

But if you think you can manage and you don't need help anymore, then all the best :sabla:

she's done something hasn't she?... otherwise I don't see why any of this would be an issue to her...

if some one calls u and starts insulting will u listen to him 4 hours or will u disconnect the phone immediatly. she kept listening cuz she knew she had no chooise and she knew what it was all about ...Ya, last year a guy called me every day for more than a week saying that he wanted to go out with me, living with me blabla
First time i closed, second time when he mentioned am Italian i started to be worried and kept him talking to try to understand who this could be
Look this is a small place, tomorrow you go round saying Balqis is a b****, everybody will believe it

Hip Hip Hury..we go all informations about this guy

and the Result is within one week and less he will be in a Prison...for Six month ..huhu...