View Full Version : Wut Do U Grlz Think About Grlz, When They Get A Man In There Life?!?!
Cute_Ting 11-07-06, 10:46 AM ....Well to be honest i have a friend and shes like in "love" with this guy shes going to get engaged to, and s0o0o like i use to see her everyday and now i see her every 2 weeks or more...and to be honest i HATE it...ya3nee who does she think she is just changing and i aint saying anything about it to he to her face, but when she does ditch me for something i just tell her to F*** off i dont wanna hear it, and she like lies to my face and i HATE ppl who lie...
Are ur friends like that?!?!?!
dangooo 11-07-06, 11:12 AM 2 of friends r in love...its true that they've changed...we dont see them that much...i mean i c them everyday in college but smthin is missin... but we r still friends after all...
Cute_Ting 11-07-06, 11:24 AM 2 of friends r in love...its true that they've changed...we dont see them that much...i mean i c them everyday in college but smthin is missin... but we r still friends after all...
...ya but not the same fun as before...
dangooo 11-07-06, 11:29 AM exactly!!!
but since they r happy am happy....we r still friends thats all what matters :)
ur friends but she's getting married or engaged that means that she's busy ... my best friend is married n we're not soo much in touch as b4 but we're still very close.. we din have to see each other like everyday like b4.. but we're still good :)
u should give it time n shouldnt make such a big deal about it coz things change :) o inshallah everything turns out to be good..
zulfa1981 11-07-06, 11:48 AM here is same my Boyfreind married last Month Still He Keep calling just to Say Hi for me, but still we r close to each other in all ways
he just calling me when has something to ask or advice and im already there for him because im a good advicer for Him..and he was my boyfreind and his beloved was my best friend but she is changed lil bit...
just leave it
Lightning2 11-07-06, 06:03 PM well this is life...nothing lasts 4 ever !.....any way one day u will b engaged n get busy also :P
weirdgoat 11-07-06, 06:30 PM Seriously...When the relationship ends...If it ends that is...They'll be back to who they were...My advice...Don't screw things up...Or you'll lose any chance of getting back together as friends...
Pearly Eyes 11-07-06, 06:41 PM If I had this problem, I'll go look for single friends, there is something happens when your friend get a man in her life its like she goes from the single zone to the I'm taken zone, you can still keep in touch but things wont be same till you move to the same zone ...
Oblivious 11-07-06, 06:46 PM ppl grow up and hv responsibilites and get busy... the time will come when u fall in love and get engaged, it doesnt mean ur friends sld be mad at u and hate the fact that u got busy..:)
Just give her some time till she feels comfortable...this is what friends are for, right?
u as a friend should feel happy for her and try to understand her point of view :)
Cute_Ting 12-07-06, 12:31 AM Thnx, Ppl....
FaRaSHa 12-07-06, 01:00 AM ....Hey Cute thing, not to worry your turn will come soon and you will know how it feels to have someone in your life and be occupied by him....;)
......As others said, its the way that life takes you to change things, indirectly and with no plans.......
....I perssonally, used to take it so seriouse when few of my friends got married and we never used to hang out as a typical gang as we used to be.....
......but sometime later i got used to the idea and every time a friend gets married will just say here is another gone, and who is next to go...and we just laugh:D...
...we learnt to accept things and changes, though when ever we have a time we gather all of us, but for sure with some additions every time we get together, one of the married friends will have her new baby born with her.....:eh: ....sometimes is soooooo boring just to hear mothers talking about their motherhood and what they had done or baught......:yuk:
....but again its Life.........:angel:
Cute_Ting 12-07-06, 01:04 AM ....Hey Cute thing, not to worry your turn will come soon and you will know how it feels to have someone in your life and be occupied by him....;)
......As others said, its the way that life takes you to change things, indirectly and with no plans.......
....I perssonally, used to take it so seriouse when few of my friends got married and we never used to hang out as a typical gang as we used to be.....
......but sometime later i got used to the idea and every time a friend gets married will just say here is another gone, and who is next to go...and we just laugh:D...
...we learnt to accept things and changes, though when ever we have a time we gather all of us, but for sure with some additions every time we get together, one of the married friends will have her new baby born with her.....:eh: ....sometimes is soooooo boring just to hear mothers talking about their motherhood and what they had done or baught......:yuk:
....but again its Life.........:angel:
Thnx a lot ^_^ wallah thats really kind of u and to be honest ya trus i'll get the hang of it but shes the first to leave u know...and trust my i dont want my turn to come i like my life the way it is...
X-press 12-07-06, 04:48 PM Cute Ting, I think it is totally normal for your friend to act the way she is. If she has finally found the love of her life, she has to put the time and effort in this relationship so it can work. This doesn't mean that she will no longer be your friends and will forget about you, but her energy has to be put somewhere else now and not concentrated only on you.
Life is like that. Even if it hurts you not to have her around you as much as it used to be or as much as you want, you have no other choice but to accept the fact that her life goes beyond your friendship and she has to settle with a partner.
Her turn has maybe come before you, but I can reassure you that you will have to go through the same change when you find Mr.Right. When that time will come, you will no longer be able to stay as much with your friends or even your family as you used to do in the past. It will be a new and another chapter of your life :).
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