View Full Version : Sensitivity.


Oblivious
01-07-06, 03:36 PM
Well, as we all know, some ppl are jus too sensitive, which makes it so hard to deal with them.

Like, I'm a very sensitive person, and some of the members here who know me will agree I think, but, I met someone who shocked me with her sensitivity..

How do u deal with sensitive ppl, because..from my experience, when u be careful with them, they get upset bcoz u're treating them differently:os and, if u treat then like the others, they get upset bcoz u're being insensitive:os .
And, when u tell them they're sensitive, they get upset too...

So, I really wanna know, how do YOU deal with sensitive ppl? and if u are one..tell me how do u wanna be treated?

Lym
01-07-06, 04:23 PM
I simply can't stand over sensitive people. I mean they get on my nerves, so I usually end up distancing myself from them because I know I'll hurt them constantly with my indifference towards their sensitivity. They whine too much, make a mountain out of a hill, complicate matters and fill your life with unnecessary drama. Why put yourself in that situation to begin with?

Some people have the right to be sensitive or over sensitive when it comes to me depending on our relationship -but not everyone. If that person has no right to be over-sensitive, then I say hard luck because I don't have it in me to deal with those type of people.

Monkiette
01-07-06, 04:26 PM
We'll get back to this.:)
Nice topic:D

FluidNutria
01-07-06, 07:02 PM
ahh I'd probably have this wierd look on my face telling them to stop whatever they're whining about. Not that i mean to, but i just cant deal with these things.
I was sensitive, once upon a time... i just grew out of it i guess with my own personal sh!t. Sometimes things happen which just makes you stronger and think "hey, why should i care??".

Oblivious
01-07-06, 11:15 PM
You can't jus ignore and avoid them, can u:think:

Libellula
01-07-06, 11:46 PM
I avoid sensitive people like the plague.

I honestly can't be bothered to tip toe around them. I'm not gonna choose my words carefully or reconsider everything I want to do, in order to avoid hurting them. They need to stop being so sensitive. If you're constantly being careful around them and you're always worried about how they'd react to everything, they'll never change. Either ignore them or give them everything to their face and force them to toughen up a little.

Tiny Heart
02-07-06, 12:07 AM
well, am kinda EXTRA-SENSETIVE :bored:
Sometimes I hate it, coz I get hurt easily & I tend 2 take things personaly sometimes...

I'd really wanna get rid of this habbit, which I dont know how...

Frozen Echo
02-07-06, 11:33 PM
It depends on my mood.
Sensitive people really annoy me.
So I either ignore them or treat them like crap for fun.
If the person is my friend I treat em like everyone else, there won't be anything special or extra from me.

TripleTee
03-07-06, 02:06 AM
depends on what they get sensitive about. if it's something that deserves it I'll try to calm them down or make them feel better. But if they get sensitive over the silliest things...I at first remain silent until their complaints get on my nerves. Then I ask them to shut their gobs and stop being ridiculous.

Libellula
03-07-06, 06:37 PM
This may sound mean, but I know someone who is super-sensitive, and I really enjoy taunting her and getting her all worked up. It's funny watching her squirm and fuss about the stupidest things.

Maybe I'm actually doing her a favour - someday she'll finally realize that it's not worth getting sensitive about every small issue.

Oblivious
03-07-06, 06:39 PM
but, it's not like they wanna be sensitive...some of them try real hard to change that..like TH for example.

~*rana*~
15-07-06, 06:32 AM
i'm think i'm becoming quite sensitive lately,about the treatment well i just want people to understand how i feel..i guess thts it..

Oblivious
30-07-06, 12:12 AM
When u say understand..it means like they have to deal with u being sensitive or over...right? most ppl wont do so, and to be honest..they dont have to...

nosa
30-07-06, 03:48 AM
i use to be very sensitive.. but i kinda worked my way through that .. all i did was make 6aaaf for things.. i just ignore everything that's said... n i make my brain forget .. until it happens by itself now .. i do sometimes get some talk directed to me which my brain got used to not listing so my friends even say hey nosa i think she insulted u .. then i go thinking .. im alot better now .. i dont care about anything .. i use to cry a lot b4 ..

Miss G
30-07-06, 04:34 AM
being over sensitive irritates the cr*ps outta me, but tht doesnt mean im "insensitive" 2 ppl like tht :mmhmm: i just be careful not 2 joke around with them as much as i would with other ppl & choose my words carefully if i ever need 2 confront them... other thn tht i would explain myself if they ever took something i said the wrong way... & if they'r still upset thn tht honestly isnt my problem bcuz i dunno wut else 2 do.. cuz i havent really done anything wrong have i?!

death rose
11-08-06, 11:33 PM
im very sensitive 2 !!
n i say we try to not be mean to them :D

NicoBambi
11-08-06, 11:38 PM
i don't think i am sensitive and i'll care if someone is sensitive or not ... but there sensibility must have limits

princess ~R~
12-08-06, 04:44 AM
This may sound mean, but I know someone who is super-sensitive, and I really enjoy taunting her and getting her all worked up. It's funny watching her squirm and fuss about the stupidest things.

Maybe I'm actually doing her a favour - someday she'll finally realize that it's not worth getting sensitive about every small issue.

:yuk: thats really mean ! why would u wanna do that ?!

*****
anyways i have a friend who makes everything into a drama ,, GOD u have no idea how i have to suffer bcoz of hey hyper-sensitivity :angry: i always try to say the " right " thing or the " safe " thing so she wont get hurt , but sometimes its hard to keep it for too long , if she gets hurt , she'll be angry and act like a baby brat :yuk: .... ma3raf esh asawi ?!

Riahy
12-08-06, 02:50 PM
just be yourself around them and try to understand, that's all.

if you were a sensetive perosn, you'ld want ppl to treat you like they treat all .. so that's the way

Superbia
12-08-06, 03:41 PM
just dont say wts on ur mind .. ! stay on da safe side ...

Mesmie
12-08-06, 10:21 PM
I'm sensitive and I bruise easily hehe but I don't really get ticked off by silly billy issues lol.