which is more traumatic? when a male is raped by a woman? or when a woman is raped by a man? i was inspired by oblivious's amazing thread:)

First of all..thanks:), but does this mean..we're gonna get the replies from there and put them here? lol:blush:

Well, i think both are horrible and it may effect them both to the core...but in the long run..when a woman has a baby..this is the diffence..

And oh, I 4got to say this in the other thread...dont 4get about the depression and the lack of confidence after the rape!

Girls raping is more traumatic, it affects them physicaly and mentaly for a long time, and they will have to always deal with it.

I don't think we can even predict. It would be superficial of us only to allow gender to be the basis of our decision. I think it depends more on the details; the personality of the one who was raped, the identity of the rapist, the method and the age. I believe these factors make the difference, not the gender. I guess getting pregnant would be one of the factors, but then there is always abortion. I would never understand why a woman would wanna keep a child which she conceived against her will :lift:

which is more traumatic? when a male is raped by a woman? or when a woman is raped by a man?
Both actions are very traumatic and should be fought strongly...and there should be no mercy for ppl (if will be described as ppl) who do such thing...

but to answer u, i think it depends on the society, the family and the person...and the way they deal with it...
Male rape could be davistating as the raped male will be affected strongly as the thing happend has broke his manhood....but that dosnot mean to underestimate the effect of female rape....

I would never understand why a woman would wanna keep a child which she conceived against her will :lift:from an islamic point of view. isn't forbiddent to have abortion!!! or in this case it is exception??:think:

ya, i wanna know that too..is it forbidden?

i dont think either is more/less traumatic thn the other... i noticed tht some of u pointed out tht it could possibly be more traumatic 4 a female due 2 the possibility of pregnancy & stuff, however i'm sure if a straight man gets raped it's equally as traumatic 4 him, regardless of wut the society may think

personally i think if i got pregnant due 2 being raped -God 4bid- i would be depressed abt the raping sure, but i dont think i would be distraught abt being pregnant... whether i was willing on getting pregnant or not i believe tht every child is a blessing & would probably keep the child.... thn again i can never say tht 4 sure cuz i haven't experienced anything like tht (thanking God :))

it's the same for both ....

Nico...wt about the baby? if there were any

They both are. Sexual abuse is one of the worst kinds of abuse in my opinion..it effects you emotionally for a very long time or at least thats what I understood from the various stories I've read and the shows I've seen regarding this issue.

both r really horrible.. the person is gonna get effected for almost all ur life...
but in my opinion a woman being raped is worse.. i duno it seems more harsh .. more violent.. n also a man is a lot stronger then a woman..

I think its equal for both genders.

Nico...wt about the baby? if there were any
aren't us talking about how traumatic is both case ?
and which baby ?

n also a man is a lot stronger then a woman..
women can use drugs, dope, ...

I think it's allowed as an exception in this case to have an abortion..

Regarding the topic.. I think it's got the same impact on both genders. But with different consequences perhaps (i.e: there's no possibility a man can concieve after being raped)..

But.. I haven't read oblivious's thread yet, though I should.. I must say it's more traumatic if a guy is raped by a guy than by a girl! :os

Girls raping is more traumatic, it affects them physicaly and mentaly for a long time, and they will have to always deal with it.
Just wanted to say something, I only answered the question asking which is more traumatic. BOTH aretraumatic, but girls get more affected, on both, short, long and whatever run.

Nico..am saying if the girl was raped, she may get pregnant, right? the man won't get pregnant..or will he:S?..

I'm talkin about the future of this person...even tho, I agree with the ones who said "both"

both of them are horrible but women's rape is more traumatic because they loose the most precious thing they have in case they were virgins and because our society doesn't forgive
they always blame the girl and most men refuse to marry a raped girl or the family don't allow the men to marry raped girls :(
it's so sad

i agree with Queen 100%

I can't really answer this question, because I don't think it's possible to rape a guy.

Anyway, for women, the consequences are obviously really bad. For one, the way society views the woman will change. In our sort of society, I bet there will be some very close minded people claiming that the woman asked for it, or that it was her own fault. Also, if the woman was a virgin, the breaking of her hymen would make it difficult for her to marry as not many men will be willing to accept the fact that she isn't a virgin (even if she was raped), then there's the psychological and emotional effects, the woman will be scared of intimacy and being intimate/close to anyone ever again, add to that the issue of pregnancy. Carrying the child of someone who violated you and humiliated you sure doesn't sound nice. The woman would probably end up hating her child even though the child is perfectly innocent, just knowing that it came from her rapist is reason enough not to be able to give the child all her love.

Raping a male can be extremely traumatic especially when he is raped by another male :bored:

Or in the worst case by a gang of males

hahaha...but, I dunno how could a male be raped by another male..sorry, am too young to know those things:angel: so explain please!:blush:

I think it's for both, damages happen to both! boys geting raped by women might lead them to fear women and turn gay, I believe thats one reason to turn gay :os

hahaha...but, I dunno how could a male be raped by another male..sorry, am too young to know those things:angel: so explain please!:blush:

the rapist drives his penis up the anus of the raped male.

the rapist drives his penis up the anus of the raped male.
Thank you for phrasing it so nicely. :rolleyes:

But yeah, Oblivious that's how male rape takes place. Up the butt.


HITMAN, I agree if a man was raped by another man, that would be traumatic. When I said I don't believe men can be raped, I meant by women.

haha..thanks..

I agree with Braiki

the rapist drives his penis up the anus of the raped male.

Draconus... I guess they could be more diplomatic ways of elaborating to .::Oblivious::. Question... and to me too Because we are still young and innocent..:color: :hyper: