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SteLLa
17-06-06, 11:30 PM
I know some people who are totally detached from society. They just like to be alone and they would always prefer travelling alone or eating alone at a restaurant. This might be a dangerous sign especially in kids because this will effect their future social relationships.

So I just wanted to ask:

How lonely do you think is too lonely?

What's the loneliest you have been?

*Jado*
17-06-06, 11:46 PM
Too lonely is complete isolation from the world around you. and purposly avoiding people is a perfect route to being a loner.
I am not sure what is the loneliest i have ever been..but if ever its just because i need my alone time which everyone needs as well...
you are right about children. if they portray this kind of personality then it can be a lil on the danger side

The P!an!st
18-06-06, 03:26 AM
well ,, it seems that you are talking about ME !!!!

I like doing things alone I feel un comfotable with people ,,even with my own sisters ,,

so

How lonely do you think is too lonely?
???????????????????????????????? *** NOT FOR ME***

What's the loneliest you have been?

again not for me Im totally USED to it that I cant rememebr :P

*NK 105*
18-06-06, 03:50 AM
^^ Hmm yeah .. im kind of the same. I wouldn't say im a "loner", but i dont mind and sometimes enjoy my own company. No i don't talk to myself or anything like that, but i don't think there's anything wrong with travelling alone.. or eating alone at a restaurant.. well, it would depend on the restaurant. I'd think it teaches a kid how to be independent.
Hmm.. I guess a person is too lonely when they have the chance to make friends but turn it down for no absolute reason. And the loneliness then kinda eats up at them and starts affecting their lives.

Fdaitny
18-06-06, 11:11 AM
I wouldn't say I'm lonely, because I enjoy people's company, a lot! :D

What I think is too lonely is exactly what NK said..

The lonliest I've been, was for a week I felt I didn't want a lot of noise and stuff, so I just went to the computer lab alone, but ended up with friends in the end.. :think: :os

SteLLa
18-06-06, 01:06 PM
well ,, it seems that you are talking about ME !!!!

I like doing things alone I feel un comfotable with people ,,even with my own sisters ,,

so

How lonely do you think is too lonely?
???????????????????????????????? *** NOT FOR ME***

What's the loneliest you have been?

again not for me Im totally USED to it that I cant rememebr :P

But do you ever get to the extent of wanting to travel or live alone?

eXistenZ
18-06-06, 05:36 PM
How lonely do you think is too lonely?

not having a companion is enough to be considered as too lonely regardless of how many friends and family you might have..

try to look at your life from someone else's point of view and imagine what you do everyday and you will know what I mean.......

What's the loneliest you have been?

I've been always lonely untill I met my wife.

Mystique
19-06-06, 12:57 PM
How lonely do you think is too lonely?

not having a companion is enough to be considered as too lonely regardless of how many friends and family you might have..

try to look at your life from someone else's point of view and imagine what you do everyday and you will know what I mean.......

What's the loneliest you have been?

I've been always lonely untill I met my wife.


:love: :blush: :love:

The P!an!st
20-06-06, 03:30 AM
But do you ever get to the extent of wanting to travel or live alone?


YES!!
I remember when I was a kid I always told dady that I'll get a flat and live alone ! and I was REALLY small then
still want to do it but not as bad as when I was a kid

I dont know why but when ever I have a freind it ends up in a HORRIBLE way :Sick:

now days the only friend I have ...................... HER PARENTS HATES ME LIKE HELL EVEN THOUGH THEY NEvER MET ME so I guess I'll be back to my old me alone :D:eh:

I dont know why do I enjoy it ! even though my family are soooooooo not like me :D
once a class mate met my sister after five minutes she was like : why are you diffrent for god sake !!!

fatamooo
20-06-06, 12:10 PM
Too lonely? When you don't even know anyone you can talk to about the slightest concern, basically when there's not a single person you know who can relate to you a bit or understand you at all.

Loneliest... maybe end of last summer :os it was really bad!

TripleTee
20-06-06, 12:53 PM
lonely is when you and those surrounding you have nothing in common.
lonely is when you have to go through life alone with no one around to guide you.
lonely is when you lack a companion.
lonely is when you figure that those you thought would assist you turn the other side.
lonely is when you feel there's no one around that you can trust.
lonely is when you feel inferior to the rest.

so far that's all I could come up with...
what was my most lonely day?
I think it was a day when I was in my room with no phone, no internet , no TV or anything that would help me interact with the outside world. In addition to people being around whom I did not feel like I wanted to see... so yeah...I was lonely for a day... spent it on books though... which somehow made me enjoy the tranquility :hmm:

*NK 105*
21-06-06, 06:07 AM
Lots of people travel alone to meet new people and kind of "experience the world".. i wouldn't consider that lonely.

The P!an!st
21-06-06, 07:57 AM
the only time I really feel sad and lonely and I start hating lonliness is when Im in a very crouded place where every one is really getting along with each other and Im sitting like a dork alone :D thats when I feel lonely ! Other wise I enjoy going to the beach every day after the down alone :P