hehe :p .. i've heard maaany maaany girls complain about how guys act, say stuff, think, etc.. and at the end of the complaint they say, "why do they do it anyway!?!?"..
alright, here's ur chance to ask guys questions you dont understand about them..

why are a lot of them easily influenced by other guys around them? :think:

guys: is it 'cool' to wear so called 'bling blings' when ur going to the movies, or anywhere for that matter?
i ususally find it funy...:hehe:

lol
why do guy's always lie ???? :D

guys: is it 'cool' to wear so called 'bling blings' when ur going to the movies, or anywhere for that matter?
i ususally find it funy...:hehe:

lol! exactly..do you actually find it cool to act like you're from "The Hood!"? I find it pathetic! (no offense!) at least lose the bling! :p

^^ Rapper Gurl : hmmm even though i am no guy, i dont think its fair to generalise in that way. not all guys are liers.
maybe you should be a little more specific with your question.......right BD?

why are a lot of them easily influenced by other guys around them? :think:

The same way girls are influenced by other girls. It's a teenage thing where they trust their peers for advice more than anyone else. And don't deny it! I've seen groups of girls looking the same.. kinda like the movie mean girls :p

guys: is it 'cool' to wear so called 'bling blings' when ur going to the movies, or anywhere for that matter?
i ususally find it funy...:hehe:

Sure why not.. Personally I don't wear any accessories because I try not to fit in some cultural group even the accepted ones here. It's the same as people trying to get the latest in fashion, accessories, cars, houses etc.. etc..

lol! exactly..do you actually find it cool to act like you're from "The Hood!"? I find it pathetic! (no offense!) at least lose the bling! :p
hahahahah, thanks for the support fdaitny i sort of feel the same way..no offence to those who follow that. its an art and everyone has their own unique sense of style and i totally respect that.....i jus wana know if ya'll think its cool....:D :D

its a turn off these bling bling stuffies !!!

Well, why "most" guys hide their feelings, hate crying when "they need to", act rough..even to the one they love...very few of them really show how they feel and how sweet they are...

im not a guy.. but because they'll be labeled as weak and gay.

Do girls really have to good looking to attract ur attention? whats the thing a girl must posess for all types of guys to be attracted to her?

im not a guy.. but because they'll be labeled as weak and gay.
Sooo untrue!!! am not saying they should cry 24/7!! but, show how u feel..

^^^u got a point there i support u .. i personally prefer men who actually show their feelings and tear wow lol :D

ok let's say some guy's ??????????? :eh:


i donnu any other question

oblivious.. i meant towards other guys, plus you wouldn't feel his masculinity if he always cried, or if you had a fight or something.. :)

^^^u got a point there i support u .. i personally prefer men who actually show their feelings and tear wow lol :D
thanx hun, btw..am starting to mix between ur avatars lol..

Monkiette, so true, but as I said, i dont want them to cry 24/7! jus when it makes sense u know, it's nice..

^^^u got a point there i support u .. i personally prefer men who actually show their feelings and tear wow lol :D
Sorry but I'm against guys crying.

I cry like once in a blue moon, and if a guy cried more than I did, I'd be totally put off by him.

If someone close to him died or something disasterous happened, okay he's excused. But I don't want him crying when he's stressed out, or feels like his life isn't going the way it's supposed to. Leave that to the girls.

I personally am not emotional, so I don't want my guy to be emotional at all. He's supposed to be tougher than me (emotionally).

Ok then, who doesn't show his "sad" emotions, how could he show the others...I didn't mean "cry" as cry like a baby!! I jus meant, not to be shy of showing their emotions!! thats what I really meant!

Well, why "most" guys hide their feelings, hate crying when "they need to", act rough..even to the one they love...very few of them really show how they feel and how sweet they are...

some guys actually don't need to show any feeling, which means they arent hiding anything, it's just not there. And it's not about hating crying, it's more like there is no reason to cry. And it's not about acting tough. It's simply being himself.

Well, why "most" guys hide their feelings, hate crying when "they need to", act rough..even to the one they love...very few of them really show how they feel and how sweet they are...
Wrong. Some men have feelings and some don't. The ones that do have feelings "go through" those feelings, FEELING happy, FEELING sad, FEELING angry. Other men know these feelings and know that they are happening but don't really experience it as much as other men. We say IS happy, IS sad, IS angry.

Or maybe it's .. feel emotion and express emotion .. I don't know. And beacause it's weak and day :P


Do girls really have to good looking to attract ur attention? whats the thing a girl must posess for all types of guys to be attracted to her?
No. Lips & *** (call me superficial .. it's true, I swear to god)

*This might be off topic but*..do the guys of sabla think that when i guy crys because he is stressed out, considered "gay"?

I was just drifting the joke ... :(

What I would really want to know is...
For the guys who cruise around and throw their numbers on scraps of papers to any girl they see, like they're throwing a dog a bone:

Was there ever a time where that actually worked? What makes you think that any girl would actually pick it up and call you, unless she's the type of girl who would charge you for the call?

*This might be off topic but*..do the guys of sabla think that when i guy crys because he is stressed out, considered "gay"?
cool Q...I wanna know too

The same way girls are influenced by other girls. It's a teenage thing where they trust their peers for advice more than anyone else. And don't deny it! I've seen groups of girls looking the same.. kinda like the movie mean girls :p

I didnt mean the way they dress. I meant a lot of them are turning into posers, and that's not good. I know girls do that too, but not to the extent that I've seen guys do. Well, maybe you've seen different things, and I've seen different things.. :think:

Btw, BD, I am watching the match too! ;)

Posers are posers, it has nothing to do with sex, I think it's even a little biased that the discussion got this serious and excluded girls ...

Well, why "most" guys hide their feelings, hate crying when "they need to", act rough..even to the one they love...very few of them really show how they feel and how sweet they are...
I think its something related to instinct, usually men dont cry, I mean you can tell when theyre sad and depressed but still no tears. Its just that their crying mode is a little different, they cry for sure... But with no tears. Yet there is men who literly cry.

I just want to make this point clear, many dont cry not beacue they want to act tuff, but because they actually dont, its not like they try their best to hold it. They just cry in a different way. Besides crying men who are said to be "gay" are the ones who can and do cry anywhere anytime, otherwise no.

Do girls really have to good looking to attract ur attention? whats the thing a girl must posess for all types of guys to be attracted to her?
I'm not trying to sound like an old wise guy, but if shes just acceptable then its great. I do care about looks, but not in that way, she just has to be acceptable looking, and its more than enough. I wouldnt differ for me if shes gorgeuos or not, just fair. Ok I sound very lame >.<

*This might be off topic but*..do the guys of sabla think that when i guy crys because he is stressed out, considered "gay"?
It depends on what it is.
But I just think he has a weak heart.

why cant guys stick to one girls?
why do guys sometimes act like kids ?

which do you prefer to get married to :
a VERY beautiful girl but not ( motamasika deeniyan)
OR
a normal looking or an Ugly girl who is ( motawa3a)
:P

can you marry a girl who was your GF one day ?
if your answer was no then why did you talk to her from the first place?

Why do Guys Always Cheat on A Gurls?

What do Guys Always Cheat on A Gurls?

Always? :bored:

Damn I feel like am in a court :XD:
Its likw Feedback time for the gurls :P
will answer evreything later on.

can you marry a girl who was your GF one day ?
if your answer was no then why did you talk to her from the first place?
i guess mot arab guys wont.. as faar as i know .. coz they think that if this girl has the courge to talk to a guy that shes not related to or have a romantic relationship with, he wont trust her .. like he will stil assume that she can do it after he married her.. coz now when she's doing it its behind her parents backs..

Always? :bored:

Yap...why is that?
why r mens cheater? i dun want to blame guys but they are..is in it...:p

and i think girls are same here...cheater..haha:color: :color: :color: :yell:

To be honest, "Most of them are" and "Many" girls are cheaters too...I can't say "guys always cheat"...

Because , I know this for sure.."many" guys don't cheat..jus u have to look for ages haha

ufffff

men men men men

YOU ALL SUCK!!

i mean men!

my god, i didnt know sabla women had so many issues! cal down ladies. U know that i love u all right?

this is a question that need serious study. the most important question here is why SOME men cheat. 2nd most important is why they tend to leave a girlfreind. these seem to be core issues that impact scosiety. it will definately leave some women hurt in the process, and would make more dishonest men.

one thing ive learned is that a mans brain is designed to capture/secure a wonam. its like a predator instinct. i think this is not the problem in itslef, but rather what may arrise from it.

what this means is a man may seek to learn tricks to get what he wants. we will presume sex. a woman may only relize she has been lied to when his behavious changes toward her. this means he is bored. what becomes of the woman is anybodys guess. it may turn into everything from him leaving, or right down to violence.

the best insurance a woman has against this is to have some one watch over her, like a father or brother. a woman should also be smart and try to move that man's heart to herself. some women may get betrayed because she made him think theres better fish in the sea. every case is different, and i dont think we can easily solve these problems. not everybody is the same you know.

islam does provide the Mahar (money payment made to woman) to make sure the guy is serious about making a familiy and to also cememnt his commitment. unfotunately, i do hear stories of this not working 100%.

about dating and dumping. i dont see why this has to happen. one can date a girl with the knowledge of both their folks. if they cant do that, then there is something wrong with the relationship. that means it would be doomed to failure. a girl put into that postition must relize this beforhand.

i dont want anybody to feel like a victum or criminal here, its just what i think is going on. these issues becon light be shead. i would like to hear what others think or feel on the matter.

i would like to point out that do believe very strongly in good men and women. a mismatch may happen, but who said the world works right in the first place.

This thread is becoming extremely sexist ...

i think ME hehehe =D

I picked up all the stupid questions in this thread and I have one answer for all of them…

why do guy's always lie ????
why cant guys stick to one girls?
why do guys sometimes act like kids ?
Why do Guys Always Cheat on A Gurls?
why r mens cheater?

Let me ask you IDIOTS a question first.
Answering it YES or NO still makes you an idiot!
Because you wouldn’t have a reason for your answer
If you GIRLS were a GUY would you cheat? Yes or no? and Why?
You can’t answer that question!

What most of you fools don’t know is that men and women are humans.
There’s really no difference between us and we are almost exactly the same.
But we have a brain to think and use… seems like most of you are not though.
There’s this quote it goes like “men think and women feel”
Agree or disagree with it I don’t care.
Also another quote “f**k a girl and she loves you, love a girl and she f**ks you”

What I’m saying is…
We all are different human beings with different thoughts and opinions and we male and female humans are HUMANS!
Men and women cheat! Men and women lie! Men and women have more than one partner! Etc etc etc etc
Bloody hell you girls watch Oprah you should see some women also cheating!
And the thing is with most humans is that they don’t see themselves.

So please don’t ask STUPID questions you morons!

hey hey guys .. i opened this thread not to argue, but to see wat Girls have in mind that they want to ask guys .. so hold ur horses and dont go to far with attacking one another .. keep it peaceful .. and Frozen Echo, be calm ;) ..

consider those previous questions answered .. lets move onto other questions ..

i hear a few girls saying : Why dont guys have feelings? .. any guy in Sabla would like to answer this?

I picked up all the stupid questions in this thread and I have one answer for all of them…

why do guy's always lie ????
why cant guys stick to one girls?
why do guys sometimes act like kids ?
Why do Guys Always Cheat on A Gurls?
why r mens cheater?

Let me ask you IDIOTS a question first.
Answering it YES or NO still makes you an idiot!
Because you wouldn’t have a reason for your answer
If you GIRLS were a GUY would you cheat? Yes or no? and Why?
You can’t answer that question!

What most of you fools don’t know is that men and women are humans.
There’s really no difference between us and we are almost exactly the same.
But we have a brain to think and use… seems like most of you are not though.
There’s this quote it goes like “men think and women feel”
Agree or disagree with it I don’t care.
Also another quote “f**k a girl and she loves you, love a girl and she f**ks you”

What I’m saying is…
We all are different human beings with different thoughts and opinions and we male and female humans are HUMANS!
Men and women cheat! Men and women lie! Men and women have more than one partner! Etc etc etc etc
Bloody hell you girls watch Oprah you should see some women also cheating!
And the thing is with most humans is that they don’t see themselves.

So please don’t ask STUPID questions you morons!
Not very nice, but, I think I did say something like what you said, I did say that gurls also cheat and it's not only about guys, if girls are angels, then where did the word"b***" come from?...so...sld I be offended by what you said about us?


Anyway, another Q...why "most" of the guys who have GF, dont let their sisters do the same thing, I mean, have BF..but, they love their GF and may marry them, so..u dont want ur sis to be like ur wife?? i dunno, any answer? and oh, i dun need a yes or no reply...so am not a "moron":p

hahaha FE, u've got strong opinions :p

what i've realized is the questions FE picked out are questions that really are, in fact, dumb. these are questions that are really just shallow assumptions that most girls have about guys. YES, im a girl, but these questions are stupid. the way all of u have asked about it is like this is what you think of guys in general. u think all the guys cheat, and lie and are immature and feelingless? i highly doubt it, but the thing is, all u girls are acting like we're the better gender, because we dont do these things. well girls do worse. we lie to eachother, backstab, gossip, b*tch about eachother and to eachother and everything. we can be SO nasty, u dont realize it. all the things u complain about guys is just stuff that includes in relationships... but other than that, guys can be a little immature, yes, they're guys... but other than that, they're okay. but us girls, by nature, are NASTY!! face it girls, it's true. i'm not saying all of us, but think about it, u'd see it's true

fdaitny's mad, sad, and annnoyed. :yell: what's this!! this was supposed to be just questions and simple answers! not ppl yelling at one another, because there's no such thing as a stupid question! (so our teacher's tell us!) :D so calm down!

fdaitny's mad, sad, and annnoyed. :yell: what's this!! this was supposed to be just questions and simple answers! not ppl yelling at one another, because there's no such thing as a stupid question! (so our teacher's tell us!) :D so calm down!

aww fdaitny calm down... have a cookie :D

but, yeah im just telling them my opinion. im not yelling :angel:

chill, everythings cool :D

Also another quote “f**k a girl and she loves you, love a girl and she f**ks you”
What if you **** a girl you don't even like ? ... How's that ?

haha, funny ti3gib, reeeal funny. it's a qoute. it's not a whole philosophy. if u f**k a girl u dont like, u're either an idiot, horny, or having sex with a prostitute. there, r u happy?

^^ Rapper Gurl : hmmm even though i am no guy, i dont think its fair to generalise in that way. not all guys are liers.
maybe you should be a little more specific with your question.......right BD?Speaks the hypocrite, who generalized that all guys wear bling bling, and think they are from the hood.

Hey you guys chill.. this is a really useful thread dont turn it into a war zone

How can guys flirt/casually date/pursue a relationship even a sexual one with another girl when they claim that they've already found the one (feelings are mutual from the girl too)?

I don't mean to generalize, but I think if a girl truly loves her partner and her partner loves her too, then she wouldn't look at another man.

Anyway, another Q...why "most" of the guys who have GF, dont let their sisters do the same thing, I mean, have BF..but, they love their GF and may marry them, so..u dont want ur sis to be like ur wife?? i dunno, any answer? and oh, i dun need a yes or no reply...so am not a "moron":p
This one is easy.
Because they care about their sisters reputation and wouldn't like it if another guy does what they do to a girl to their own sister.

Well, ok, if u r about to marry ur GF, dont' u care about her reputation too?, i mean, if u love this girl...wt do u say? tnx for answering me btw

guys: is it 'cool' to wear so called 'bling blings' when ur going to the movies, or anywhere for that matter?
i ususally find it funy...:hehe:


dunno if it's kool or not if a person likes to wear'em then wear'em but if u do it just to blindly follow 50 or whoever then get a reality check

why cant guys stick to one girls?
why do guys sometimes act like kids ?

who says we can't? well unless the girl cheats on u then obviously it's a bit hard to stick to one girl

btw how can u have one girls? thats an oxymoron right there

define "act like kids"

Why do Guys Always Cheat on A Gurls?

never did cheat
so ur statement is invalid ( guys always cheat on gurls)

ufffff

men men men men

YOU ALL SUCK!!

i mean men!

and we suck because?

you have experienced all the males on this earth and judged that we all suck?

or your generlizing based on few cases?

can you marry a girl who was your GF one day ?
if your answer was no then why did you talk to her from the first place?
why would i've a gf if i didn't want to marry her?

why do some guys **NOT ALL but most** act lyk a jerk to the girl they lyk infront of their friends?!?! :think:

Well, ok, if u r about to marry ur GF, dont' u care about her reputation too?, i mean, if u love this girl...wt do u say? tnx for answering me btw

having a gf dosn't mean go out on dates and kiss and all that

if my sis's bf does what i do with my gf then no prob


btw i thought this was q's for guys it's funny how some girls answer the q's
is it based on assumptoins? or what cause i'm sure the girls who answered arn't guys and wern't guys in a prvious life or time

p.s. don't assume cause it makes an @$$ out of u and me, probably more u then me

can you marry a girl who was your GF one day ?
if your answer was no then why did you talk to her from the first place?
Yes, unless shes a w****. Dont understand me wrong please. To clarify my answer more, I support it with this:


why would i've a gf if i didn't want to marry her?

Snook, u didnt get the Q...i think u got it b4 tho:p

Actually I got it crystal clear, but didnt know how to say it. I wanted to say this:
having a gf dosn't mean go out on dates and kiss and all that

if my sis's bf does what i do with my gf then no prob

ufffff

men men men men

YOU ALL SUCK!!

i mean men!
Yeah so?
Being a lesbian is way better eh?

ok here's a question to guys..do u think about sex every few seconds? :eh: i heard this somewhere is it true?
lo0ol

ok here's a question to guys..do u think about sex every few seconds? :eh: i heard this somewhere is it true?
lo0ol

i have been figured out.

LOOOL!!!!! Draconus..
wait..are you serious?? :think: :p

ok here's a question to guys..do u think about sex every few seconds? :eh: i heard this somewhere is it true?
lo0ol

Maybe every few dayz lol :p but I know some "Gurls" who thinks abt it every few seconds.. they might answer ur Question....

* why isnt there a thread where we can ask Gurls wutever we want?! with no sex Questions.. just general ones

well 5alfanooh, there is :p ..

http://www.englishsabla.com/forum/showthread.php?t=39326&page=2

ok here's a question to guys..do u think about sex every few seconds? :eh:
looking at all this discussion, this one of the hottest questions i guess...
Answer: NO, in every few seconds it is just when there is a sexy girl around, it that guys look at her with an artist eye...:mmhmm: ...trying to find the reason behind this masterpiece....
It is not thnking about sex or sleeping with her or smthing...
It is thought of sex as the practical transilation of love beside other things as well.....

^^intresting :p

using the list from Frozen Echo's post...
why do guy's always lie ?????
Well, all ppl lie...but if it is meant for feelings...not always....
hey we are human...some good some bad....some clever some stupid..
and i think this question from usual sexes war...Girls state guys are liers and guys defend back..:mmhmm:
why cant guys stick to one girls??
Sure they can...look how many families are built and they are stable...it is up to the girl to make him stick to her or go somewhere else...
It is the prob. between u girls...when u see the other girl happy with her partner, u always try to ruin the other girl happy little nice relationship she is having...7asad (envy) i mean...
why do guys sometimes act like kids?
Well, they always say there is a kid inside each one of us (older ppl)...
but by the kid we mean the feelings that ignore the common sense....like being envy or jealouse and some other....and i believe that these feelings never left us from start...and it is just have a bigger effect when men act with them
Why do Guys Always Cheat on A Gurls??
why r mens cheater?
Again the same questions from the ancient continous war..:D :think: :mmhmm:

ufffff

men men men men

YOU ALL SUCK!!

i mean men!
woooooow, there is someone share the same feeling as me...:D :D ....

What is it that chases guys away about clingy girls? and what do most prefer clingy girls or "the" chase?

i dont mind a girl clinging to me. i think its cute. also, a girl can be hot or cute. shy or forthcoming. if she is nice to me i would not mind her behaviour.

on a further note, i would like a girl that puts up with me. this mutual acceptance and tolerance is the basis of a strong marriage.

having a gf dosn't mean go out on dates and kiss and all that

if my sis's bf does what i do with my gf then no prob


btw i thought this was q's for guys it's funny how some girls answer the q's
is it based on assumptoins? or what cause i'm sure the girls who answered arn't guys and wern't guys in a prvious life or time

p.s. don't assume cause it makes an @$$ out of u and me, probably more u then me
I'm sorry, Actually I'd jus read this:cute:

Well, I meant those who have GF as dating, maybe u dont do so, but many others do, but forbid their sisters to do the same..

And, oh..I don't assume:blush:

what pisses me off (though i'm a girl) is how most girls generalize guys or just put them in categories (liars, cheaters) based on what guys they might have seen, or as someone (cant remember who) said based on a few bad experiences. come on girls, cut the guys some slack. not all of them are like that. i hang out with a group and in this group there are guys who are so sweet and i suppose u could say "pure". they dont lie, or cheat or act like little kids. in fact, they're quite nice people. i know a lot of guys like that. but then again, i'm not saying that other guys like the ones u describe dont exist, they do. but what gets me is the narrow-mindness of the girls when they ask "why are guys cheaters" and "why do guys lie". girls, dont you lie too? and cheat? well, not YOU, but u get what i mean...

Oh No MizzFWA's Temper!!! here we go:p Lol

although i can understand y such a question would be asked, i dont c the neccessity of it... cuz i honestly believe tht guys' minds rnt tht complex & their actions can be easily understood & therefore accepted... i think most girls wouldnt have 2 ask these questions if they spent less time talkin & complaining abt wut guys do wrong & spend more time observing & comparing their actions & realise tht guys have 2 be guys the same way tht girls r just girls....

what pisses me off (though i'm a girl) is how most girls generalize guys or just put them in categories (liars, cheaters) based on what guys they might have seen, or as someone (cant remember who) said based on a few bad experiences. come on girls, cut the guys some slack. not all of them are like that. i hang out with a group and in this group there are guys who are so sweet and i suppose u could say "pure". they dont lie, or cheat or act like little kids. in fact, they're quite nice people. i know a lot of guys like that. but then again, i'm not saying that other guys like the ones u describe dont exist, they do. but what gets me is the narrow-mindness of the girls when they ask "why are guys cheaters" and "why do guys lie". girls, dont you lie too? and cheat? well, not YOU, but u get what i mean...
Yes, listen girls...that what i call a wise woman/girl....:mmhmm:

ok here are a couple of questions.....
why if you are talking to a guy and like he would be with his friends...he acts weird very different then when he is not with others....
why do is it when your talking...they never speak, they get pissed when you shut up?
why is it hard to speak out and say what you really feel?
why is it so wrong to cry??
why when girls get mad about something,,,,guys try to make it better by saying sweet words, giving kisses...flowers...whatver.. and not really try and solve the issue????

well these are some that i have so far...

inzain
we'r not done yet ( nehahahahaha )
what is cuter : a sweet pretty girl or a mean hot girl ?!!
and do u really enjoy chasing a girl ? why ? REALLY why =p

***
and if a girl wants some thing serious not just fooling around , would u freak out ??

What is it that chases guys away about clingy girls? and what do most prefer clingy girls or "the" chase?
mmmm, chasing away from clingy girls casue they love u is as stupid as it gets...i think... we like a girl like that...but it is for sure not too much...

ok here are a couple of questions.....
why if you are talking to a guy and like he would be with his friends...he acts weird very different then when he is not with others....
this is part of the guys' thing...they always hide there feelings in front of others...and what he can say alone not the same as what he can in front other...He is a bit shy and embarresed by his feelings

why do is it when your talking...they never speak, they get pissed when you shut up?
We talk less..and we excpect u to do the talking...we like to act...look at his actions that when he is trying to show u his love and care...it is just the nature of men they don't talk..they leave the talking part for u...
why is it hard to speak out and say what you really feel?
the real feelings are always there but they are hard to express by words but that not for all guys for sure...
why is it so wrong to cry??
there is nothing wrong in that but it is the cause what really matter..we are suppose to be tough and handle the matter for now...then we will have plenty of time to cry..:weep: :weep:
why when girls get mad about something,,,,guys try to make it better by saying sweet words, giving kisses...flowers...whatver.. and not really try and solve the issue????
i think they sometimes think it is silly why u r pissed off...and they trying to gain sometime to the right thing..sometimes it is hard to change...but if really in love he talk to u and will sort out the prob. and u should watch out for the next time...

what is cuter : a sweet pretty girl or a mean hot girl ?!!
Sweet pretty girl...if "cuter" means the girl that i will go for..
and do u really enjoy chasing a girl ? why ? REALLY why =p
Some enjoy that cause they think of that girl as a thing to get:6: ...but not all as some it is just that he like her...:angel:
and if a girl wants some thing serious not just fooling around , would u freak out ??
it is not freaking out....it is that the guy think about it from a practical way....it that possible or not..where most of u have no sense of the practicality....most of things like marriage is not a straight forward thing it is much more that that...needs planning and preperation..we live in the real world anyhting can get really complicated case...

Guys, wouldn't u look less of a girl if she took ur no. and if u do then why do u go after her from the first place!!

Ichigo i want to thank you for being so helpful with all our questions:) deeply appreaciated..:D

ichiigooooooooo thanks 4 the answers

Yes, listen girls...that what i call a wise woman/girl....:mmhmm:

well thaaaank you. i'm just being BLUNT (refer to user title)

Guys, wouldn't u look less of a girl if she took ur no. and if u do then why do u go after her from the first place!!
No0, we don't think less of her....
in fact i will like her very much....:love:

Ichigo i want to thank you for being so helpful with all our questions:) deeply appreaciated..:D
No need to thank me...it was my pleasure to answer u....and u r thanked for ur answers in the other thread....:cute: (OLD GIRL:D )

ichiigooooooooo thanks 4 the answers
U r welcome....any more questions...??:think:

this is very confussing...if she took urs then this means that she would take any other guy's no, so how can u trust her?

boys, is it easy for you to get over a girl u were in relationship with??

where is Ichigo?we r waiting 4 answers!!:D

ok all guys say that they dont care about a girls appearance
thats weird
coz ,, alot of guys i talk to im my msn ,, are so cold and quite
and then once they c ur pic
they just wont shut up,, and they act soooooo sweet and wont leave you alone !!

why is that some guys just add you out of nowhere and begg you for your picture? does that nesseciarly mean their perverts or desperate or what?

boys, is it easy for you to get over a girl u were in relationship with??

If the guy was serious about the relationship, then definitely not easy at all. He would be devastated. If the guy was just fooling around, then he wouldnt give even a second thought about it.

ok all guys say that they dont care about a girls appearance
thats weird
coz ,, alot of guys i talk to im my msn ,, are so cold and quite
and then once they c ur pic
they just wont shut up,, and they act soooooo sweet and wont leave you alone !!

I am sure not all guys say they dont care about the girls appearance.

Now, about your example; it's the same concept of lets say a guy walking in a mall. He will see lots of girls walking by, he might ignore lots of them, but once he see's an attractive/ beautiful girl he will give her all the attention possible and hope for a positive response.

So when it comes to online, lots of guys will be interested as much as the girl is being interesting. In the sense of that if he knew how she looked like and found her attractive, chances are he would be more attentive to her then if he didnt find her attractive...etc

why is that some guys just add you out of nowhere and begg you for your picture? does that nesseciarly mean their perverts or desperate or what?

It could mean many things, depends how the guy got the girl's email. If through a friend, then that friend most likely really recommended him to do so. If it was him hunting the email down after seeing the girl somewhere, then he is just too interested. If it was random, then he is just trying his chances, since he has nothing to lose.

Overall, it could mean the guy is a pervert or desperate for positive response from the girl. And also a way for him to cut it short. Since once he sees the pic; he can decide if he was interested to continue or disappear.

Again it could mean many things... all depends on the guy's agenda.

this is very confussing...if she took urs then this means that she would take any other guy's no, so how can u trust her?
No, she tok my no. because she is interested in me....;)
and the other kind of girls that u r talking about are easy to identify...
i won't miss her as long as she interested in me...:angel:

boys, is it easy for you to get over a girl u were in relationship with??
Well that depends alot in the guy and the strength of the relationship...
but i think for most guys, it is not that hard...:think: ...
and i think that should be the case...

where is Ichigo?we r waiting 4 answers!!:D
:shy: just have not seen that...

ok all guys say that they dont care about a girls appearance
thats weird
coz ,, alot of guys i talk to im my msn ,, are so cold and quite
and then once they c ur pic
they just wont shut up,, and they act soooooo sweet and wont leave you alone !!
So u r telling me that u r looking b.e.a.u.t.i.f.u.l????:cute:
Who told u that we don't care about the look???:Shock:
hell we are....

But it is important to know that the look is not the only thing and not even the most important it is something to help the start...but to build a real strong relationship there are lots of stuff to take account of....

why is that some guys just add you out of nowhere and begg you for your picture? does that nesseciarly mean their perverts or desperate or what?
that kind of guys u have to be careful of...
i guess they wanna a short time pleasure....see a photo...worth chasing or not??....then....:mmhmm:
desperate....hell yeah for some....:D

thanx desertdestroyer ... i c ur point

ichigo thanx... and damn sure iam ! :D lol
neways,,, i c ,,,so ur saying that looks are important for first impression?

ichigo thanx... and damn sure iam ! :D lol
neways,,, i c ,,,so ur saying that looks are important for first impression
yeah, exactly that is what i meant...
the way u look tell us lots of who u r, but not all of u...
i think that first impression is important....
(:think: so could i have ur photo, plz?:D :D :cute: )