Sabla guys/gentlemen

[FaRaSHa]

...............To Sabla guys/gentlemen, imagine you’re self to be in the below situation and tell us what you would do?…..............


...........The scenarios goes as this:

...........If you were married to a lady whose Infertile and your family wanted you to have kids and you want to have kids as well. And your wife did not stop you from getting married to a second wife and she was fine for that because she wanted you and your family to be happy, though it is going to hurt her to see you with another lady and giving more of the attention and care to the other for she will be the source of your kids.


Whom would you marry?

A relative/ cousin

Or

A stranger/ not known to the family

Or

A friend of your wife


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...........What ever is your choice, tell us why would you choose it?.......:)

[jack]

...........What ever is your choice, tell us why would you choose it?.......:)[/CENTER][/B][/FONT]I'd adopt a child that needs a home. Case solved ...

[MorphaKnight]

probably a friend to my wife.. they already get along and wouldn't mind living in together..

[Pineapple Thief]

As Jack said, I dont believe in polygamy. And some kids need homes.

But I did watch this program on TV once about basically a child trade, where parents sell their kids to adoption agencies in 3rd world countries... :os

[mimosa]

I would also consider adoption. But if I took another wife, her background would not be important - only that my first wife agreed and was happy with her (and vice versa!)

[Ichigo]

if she deserve, i won't marry at all.......
if not i won't marry her from the start...... ;)

[DeSerTDesTroYeR]

Do I have to get married again? If for some reason I had to then it would most likely be to someone who I can marry, either cousin/stranger/wife friend. No difference when I considered to marry my first wife.

But adaption is not an option for me.

[MorphaKnight]

pfft please.. kids my @ss i wouldn't give up the chance of a menage a trois for an adoption :p not to mention i wouldn't adopt a kid with all that man juice building up inside waiting to sniff out that egg. :p

[Libellula]

Am I the only one who thinks it's a very BAD idea to marry your first wife's friend? Hello, wifey #1 is gonna be extremely jealous and it's going to ruin their friendship.

[Lym]

Am I the only one who thinks it's a very BAD idea to marry your first wife's friend? Hello, wifey #1 is gonna be extremely jealous and it's going to ruin their friendship.

Exactly my thoughts!

If I was the first wife, I would want him to marry someone I don't know; someone I could easily hate. If she was a friend, it would be harder to hate her because I know for a fact she can be nice, sweet , genuine and loveable or she wouldn't have been my friend to begin with :weep:

[Libellula]

If I was wife #1, I'd ask him for a divorce. I'd rather be alone than share my husband.

[Lym]

You would always resent the idea of sharing your husband , but then if you love him and you can't give him children. Then I would urge him to marry a second one. It is not fair to him even though he might love me to death.

It is 7alal after all :angel:

Oh wait, we can adopt! I change my mind ;)

[Shinoda LP]

I'd adopt a kid too. Like jack and PT said, a lot of kids need a home and family desperately all around the world.

[Arabian Princess]

If I was infertile, I would urge him to get married .. I know I cant live without him, and like lym said its not fair to stop him from having kids of his own..

I think I would make him marry his relative .. it would be easier for his family to accept that .. and it would be easier for her to blend in the family even with this complicated situation ..
however, I dont know if I will like to be at the same place with her at the same time :os

[Wit Insanity]

Adopt. Period.

I don't see the whole machoism about needing to have biologically related children to you. Sure, it is nice and gives you a stronger bond with the child, but at the risk of devestating the woman who loves me so much that she has agreed to let me have another wife? no freaking way...

[BliNd_MelOn]

I'd adopt a child that needs a home. Case solved ...

I second that..
I would seriously think of adoption. If he is going to re-marry.. I'd divorce him! And nobody gives me this "He has the right to have kids and all" ..I have that right aswell!

Plus, in this day and age, there are numerous tests and physicals to determine wether a couple can have kids or not.. If they dicover they can't and still want to go throught with it.. Then.. Adoption is the solution! Or just get a cat! :D
I have some friends who consider OZ the cat as the child they never had! He gets pampered more than I do! hehe :p