How do you know when it's right?

[Her XLNC]

Does anybody really know when its right? and how do you know? are there signs, firewoorks, is it right when it feels comfortable or is comfortable a sign that there aren't any firworks?? Is hesitation a sign that is not right or is it a sign that you're not ready??

*In matters of love,

HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN IT IS RIGHT??

[Paradise Babe]

To me is when i feel butterflyz..:cute:

[Lym]

Basically , When you click ! Understand one another and appreciate him/her for who s/he is.

A more obvious indication , is when s/he makes you happy :)

[Dr N]

You know that something is seriously wrong, when you're with that person, and you have doubts about your relationship. You wonder whether you're doing the right thing, and if the two of you are suitable for each other.

Doubts ruin everything...

You need to be sure and have the sense of security and comfort, and only then you will know that this is going on well.

[sophis^catrina]

You know he is the one for you, when you both hate and are repulsed by each other's actions, but you two are still very drawn and attracted to each other. That you two could kiss and make love at the same time as swearing at each other. :p :love:


As someone said:~

Real love is:

If you haven't contemplated to murder your partner you ain't been in love.

If you haven't stared at a can of rat poison for 30 minutes and wonder shall I you ain't been in love.

If you haven't bought a shovel to bury the mf you're with you ain't been in love.

And if you haven't practiced your alibi in front of a mirror you ain't been in love.

Yeah, I think that's real stuff. When you know each other so well, that at times you feel like strangling the person to death, but you still love them like mad simply for who they are (flaws and all).

[Pineapple Thief]

You know when its right when 50 years down the line, your kids working and supporting you, you can still bring yourself to look into her warty, wrinkly face ;)

[IceTea]

Obviously when you say yes.

[sophis^catrina]

Some people say yes, but they still ain't sure!

I think when your love is tested several times, but you still want each other that's powerful.

[Raed]

HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN IT IS RIGHT??

well.. the answer lies within you, you have to put the effort into making it right. If you want then every relationship can be right. Does that mean that some relationships require less effort to become right?

the answer is : right.

[sophis^catrina]

^^^ There are some relationships when it's almost "perfect", and yet one of the partners "knows" that the person he/she is with is not the one for them, despite having a perfect relationship. It might be so perfect, and then one of them gets tired, coz there isn't as much thirst, and cheats on their partner. :os


While there are other relationships (marriages) were couples found it so hard to live together and just stayed coz of love. Thirty years down the line they are very happy (I guessed they've finally learned how to live with each other).

[Homeless]

I guess its just a feeling from within cuz ur heart speaks to u... when its not right usually u have this feeling when u r uncomfortable with something or when u start excusing things.. I guess its just a feeling..

[sophis^catrina]

I guess its just a feeling from within cuz ur heart speaks to u... when its not right usually u have this feeling when u r uncomfortable with something or when u start excusing things.. I guess its just a feeling..

That's so true. *sigh* :love:

[Arabian Princess]

I think I agree with Raed .. if both (and here I stress BOTH) work hard into a relationship and make thier best effort to make it right, it most likely turn right .. but if one of them gave up easily and decided to cheat, ignore or even show less emotions .. the chances that they will work are small.

relashionships are like a clap .. you need two hands to make a loud one!

[sophis^catrina]

I know , but AP there needs to be a certain thirst for someone, a feeling deep inside that this is the one for you, that you MUST WORK HARD AT IT TO MAKE IT WORK!

You know like an incentive for all that hard work. :cute:

I mean there are women who get married to this guy and work so hard at having that perfect relationship, because of society and themselves.... but in the end they want a divorce even though the man and the relationship is great because they realised they don't have a certain passionate feeling of thirst for him!

[Arabian Princess]

ofcourse ,, you meant chemistry right? something that gets you attracted to the person in the first that .. I am not aginst that .. but at the samme time, chemistry without working hard on making it work, it wouldnt!!

[sophis^catrina]

ofcourse ,, you meant chemistry right? something that gets you attracted to the person in the first that .. I am not aginst that .. but at the samme time, chemistry without working hard on making it work, it wouldnt!!

Yeah of course. I am just saying you need both real passion and hard work. If one is left out then it would not work out.

[SteLLa]

the only way to really know if she/he is the right 1 for u, is 9alat el esti5ara ..
we should ask ( neste5eer) god in every big decision we make ..

[Cute_One]

You know when its right when 50 years down the line, your kids working and supporting you, you can still bring yourself to look into her warty, wrinkly face ;)a

thats the most beautiful thing ive heard over here ......

thats true love .... that even within the rough years u have those happy wrinkles lieing next to ur husband seeing ur kids growing within time .... until u realize u had the best days of ur life with ur partner ! :love: and wouldnt exchange it with anything ...

[Libellula]

To me is when i feel butterflyz..:cute:


But butterflies hardly ever last..

[FluidNutria]

relashionships are like a clap .. you need two hands to make a loud one!
... both should contribute to make it right, you want it right? then use abit of effort and work them magic.

I totally agree with homeless, its the feeling that tells u if its right or wrong, but sometimes its not all 100% cuz u might feel it right one min and wrong the next, then ur stuck in this dilemma not knowing what to do...

[Lotus]

Love is non-sense.

[amo_l_oman]

HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN IT IS RIGHT??
when doesn't give headache

[sophis^catrina]

when doesn't give headache

LOL! Best answer I've heard today. Also when you are smiling most of the time.

[Rossonero]

when doesn't give headache

You mean, when you start getting headaches.

Sophis WB

[fatamooo]

I always get the 'butterflies' but that doesn't mean it's right, though :p - so I'm stumped.

[The brain.]

HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN IT IS RIGHT??


when u don’t get a sleep for 2-3 days.. with no clear headache.. when u using left hand instead of the right to eat..and when u don’t feel ur pillow down ur head.. all that plus when u dont care what is on Al-Jazeera TV.. :D

[Her XLNC]

when u don’t get a sleep for 2-3 days.. with no clear headache.. when u using left hand instead of the right to eat..and when u don’t feel ur pillow down ur head.. all that plus when u dont care what is on Al-Jazeera TV.. :D


looool...and im sure you did all that haa....wani3m il 7ub walla!!!

[Her XLNC]

when doesn't give headache



Right on sister!!!! :color: